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I think I might be sick next time..

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Question - (4 February 2009) 12 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend has a smelly cock and he keeps wanting me to go down on him, what do I do? I keep wretching - think i may be sick the next time- help!

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A female reader, misfitschik66 Canada +, writes (8 February 2009):

misfitschik66 agony aunttalk to him about it sweety if he cares about you (which im sure he does if he is having oral sex with you or letting you) just say

i won`t go down on you inless you wash it really good and tell him why im sure he will be fine with it

the same thing happend to me and my ex i told him it smelled and he said he would wash it for me

no man likes to have a `smelly penis`

don`t be mean about it considering he may be very self concious and or take it as a insult

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (5 February 2009):

O Connor agony auntdont go down there!! if it smells weird and unusual then you should be honest with him and tell him to go to the doctor. he'll appreciate you telling him the truth - better late then never! it shouldnt smell very bad down there so it sounds like something could be off. unless he doesnt shower alot???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009):

you don't have to do anything you don't want to…be real w/ him and tell him his dick stinks…chances are he'll thank you for informing him of his crotch rot

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntI advise you to not go down there till he has seen his doctor about the issue as you can see from other posts there are various reasons why he may be unpleasant down there.

Once he has the all clear and has a good hygiene regime, if it is still unpleasant I think flavoured condoms may help.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (5 February 2009):

DoubleM agony auntThis has got to be poor hygiene in general, possibly genetics, or a matter of simply washing up prior to sexual activities. If his member is in any way unpleasant even after bathing or a wash up, then its possibly genetics. But its only skin. Good hygiene throughout the day is to wipe the tip with tissue after every urination, add a splash of warm water from the faucet and dry. Many men may not know that, but the general idea is certainly to clean up prior to any possible encounter with his woman.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009):

well what do u expect its a COCK i mean does ur ass smelll ok? maybe have sex with the shower that would help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009):

I had the same problem with my bf and he definately 100% did not have an STI.

I found it difficult to tell him because I imagined he'd be soooo embarrassed and probably never want to have sex with me again. In the end I told him that it smelt of fish and chips (which was the nicest way I could think of putting it).

He was horrified at the time and a year later runs to the bathroom to wash before sex unless he's had a shower that day! - RESULT!

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A male reader, Passthrough United States +, writes (4 February 2009):

Passthrough agony auntYeah, given what they're used for and their environment, they'll smell from time to time. Just tell him your sensitive (even if you're not) and you'd be much more willing and you'd make it last longer if he'd hop in the shower and clean it :D

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009):

My uncircumsized ex had this problem from urine around his foreskin. Have him hop in the shower and clean it well.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009):

That's utter rubbish. Sure it could be an STI or bacterial infection but my boyfriends cocks always smell when they ain't washed them. Just like your bits smell a bit when you don't. It's just the bacteria multiplying like sweaty armpits! Some folk don't mind it. My bf's never mind my smell but I hate smelly cock and blatantly refuse to put it in my mouth till they've fired the shower head at it and given it a good cleaning out. Then there is no smell and it is less unpleasant. My recent bf told me that I was just immature cos he was a lot older but that's crap. Some folk just can't hack it so just tell him you find it a real turn on when he is squeeky clean cos you like the idea of getting him dirty again or something that will encourage him to wash his cock when he wants you to suck on him.

Worked for me. Good luck!

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A female reader, HeartASHXOXO United States +, writes (4 February 2009):

I have to tips.

1. shower together first, it may help.

2. If that doesnt work, get him checked out... the smell is a sign of an infection and he could give it to you

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (4 February 2009):

It's smelly for a reason, there is something really wrong with him down there.

Tell him to get checked out at the clinic, and if you are going to do ANYTHING with it make him wear a condom and wash your hands afterwards.

Personally I'd say it was a no go area till he sorts it out.

Good Luck!! xx

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