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I am always open to listen to people and give as much honest advice as i can on any subject.
Im a very romantic person and love everything to do with romance and love.
Love doesn't make the world go 'round; love is what makes the ride worthwhile.
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How can I avoid being lonely?
Q. I am wanting to find a women to have a relationship with after being divorced 5 years ago. I have been alone since then and don't even know where to start. I am in my fourties and have only dated one women my ex-wife ever in my entire life. I am ...
A. 15 July 2009: A great place to meet people if your shy is online.....join a few respected dating sites and your be sure to get talking to some great women.....and you never know something could come of them!... (read in full...)
Me and my friend's gf are falling for each other - what should I do?
Q. ok well i think ive fallen for my good friend's girl. i didnt mean to it just kinda happend. i met her when her, my friend, and a couple others wnt to dinner. he never told me she was his girlfriend rather just some girl he messed with. well we all ...
A. 15 July 2009: Best thing to do here is wait until she is single....as if you get together when she has a boyfriend your relationship is doomed as how would you both be able to trust each other! If she really wanted you and just you she would of broken up with her ... (read in full...)
My man already has a family and isn't excited for my pregnancy
Q. Hi I'm 23 years old and pregnant this is my first child. My man has a wife and two children already. I got married to him because I loved him and he loved me too. Things were fine before marriage and I thought everything will go fine. But things h...
A. 10 July 2009: Well you need to think about your baby...getting stressed and upset is not good for your health so not good for the baby! Talk to your husband....ask him why he acting like this....let him know you feel alone on this....your married and having a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is going on a holiday...
Q. Hi ... Well ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 3months now and i love him to pieces and his everything i want, however he went on holiday with nine of his mates, he come back and then the next day on facebook was aload of picture...
A. 10 July 2009: Well its the kind of thing you do on lads holidays or even girl holidays....we take pictures with people we meet, usually all end back at someones hotel room....take more pics.....i think the fact he has loaded them to facebook shows he hasnt got ... (read in full...)
Does he see me as more than a friends with benefits?
Q. Okay, so we all know the story - two bored friends with nothing better to do, so they have sex. No rules, just booty. I was attracted to him before we made this arrangement, but I told myself that I didn't want anything more from this guy. I lied. ...
A. 10 July 2009: If he did like you more then he would surely say so and want to be with you as a girlfriend.....i think he sounds like hes happy having the friends with benefits....how long can this go on for? Id say nip it in the bud before you fall for this guy ... (read in full...)
He wants me to settle down but he's my first so I'm afraid!
Q. Okay, little problem. I just turned 16 two weeks ago, and I’ve been with my FIRST BOYFRIEND (ever, I mean I’ve never had a boyfriend before) for 9 months, and he’s asking me to move in with him and marry him and start a family. Obviously he mea...
A. 10 July 2009: I think the best thing to do is not rush things...9 months is sooo quick to be moving in with someone....you should still be enjoying your independence at 16....maybe wait longer before you move in with him as once you move in together it gets very ... (read in full...)
Is this too fast?
Q. This is quite long, sorry but please bare with me cuz i really need advice! Since my last question i have dumped that guy and are now with someone else. Me meet a few days ago literally, just as friends! as he HAD a gf! But we instantly fell ...
A. 29 June 2009: If you think this is love and it will work....go for it...you only live once and your young and have no responsibilities yet (kids etc) so enjoy and have fun....and i hope it works out for you!... (read in full...)
How do I let her know I'd like to sleep with her without offending her?
Q. Hi, I think the wife of my brother-in-law is attracted by me. I get this idea by the way she looks at me, specially when I walk by her when nobody else is around. But I am still not 100% sure. Does someone have any suggestions on how I can let ...
A. 29 June 2009: End it with your wife before you do this....as if you loved your wife you wouldnt even be asking this! Your going to hurt alot of people if you do this!!!... (read in full...)
Am I living a total fantasy?
Q. Ok i really need some advice on this one. I'm currently married to a guy i've been with for 14 years, i do love him immensley and everything is fine between us but here's were my problem lies! I think i'm in love with someone else, a friend of mine...
A. 29 June 2009: It might be the whole you have been with your husband 14 years...things get comfy....and this other guy is something new...showing you attention...if you truely love your husband then you need to break off the contact with this other man.....he has ... (read in full...)
Is it really internet love and should I push my boundaries and send him a naked picture of me?
Q. well i met this boy online and we have been going out for like almost 8 months now hes 17 and im 15 and i really think i love him and says he loves me to. we talk on the phone evernight and text each other constantly he has never forced me into doi...
A. 26 June 2009: How do you even know this boy is really 17...he could be 30 odd....do not send a naked picture....a naked picture does not mean or show love....find other ways...have you seen him on cam to make sure he is just 17 and not some old pervert?... (read in full...)
Had affairs and now I'm in trouble!
Q. Hello, I just registered on this site and I find this site very interesting with lots of good advice. Well, this is my story. I really love my wife, I love my children and my home. I recently shifted to another Ministry and I am presently having a...
A. 25 June 2009: Thats what u get for playing with fire im afraid.....there is no advice here....you just have to deal with what is coming to you.....maybe then you can let your wife be free and let her meet a good man who will not cheat on her....and then you can ... (read in full...)
I met her online and now I want to take it to the next step
Q. Hi. I met a girl online through a gaming instant messenger. At first it was just like talking to anyone else but actually spoke about stuff and our conversations were long. She gave me her MSN addy and for more than a month we've spoken almost ev...
A. 25 June 2009: Be prepared for the fact that you might meet and shes like nothing she is online....maybe you wont fancy her or her personality is not great....ive met people off net who were great chatting online msn etc but then i met them and they had nooo ... (read in full...)
The problem is - she is married and has 2 kids!
Q. Hey, i don't know what to do?! I'm 24 year old guy and i have fallen in love with 29 year old woman. She loves me too. We are dating for more than 2 month. But the problem is she is married and she has 2 kids. Her hubby is a conductor, she says he ...
A. 22 June 2009: You can't help who you fall inlove with....its very hard as she has children and whatever she does there end up getting hurt.....talk to her...if shes not ready to leave her husband for you....can you carry on the affair??? If she wants to leave her ... (read in full...)
What does my lover mean by these words?
Q. I would like some help please, I am having an affair with a married man and have been for many years. So please no "you shouldn't be doing this" comments thanks. We have a strange relationship and neither of us can say goodbye to it but it has me w...
A. 19 June 2009: He sounds like he has feelings for you...maybe not love but he cares for you....so of course he isnt going to want to hear about other men....so do as he says....have fun and if your with other men just don't tell him...least he is being upfront ... (read in full...)
Taking birth control pills, but worried I'll still get pregnant if he doesn't wear a condom
Q. Okay so, my boyfriend is coming over tomorrow. He and I used to foreplay and sometimes have sex but it all stopped a few months ago when I got on birth control pills. I don't know why but I Just was never in the mood. The thing is, I've been ...
A. 18 June 2009: Certain birth control pills can put you off sex...i had this problem so i went back to my doctor and asked for a different type....maybe thats what you should do if your not in the mood anymore! Wear a condom aswell just to be safe as you don't know ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for wondering if she'll ever care about her appearance?
Q. This autumn will be 6 years married, 7 years in the same relationship and i will be 26. My girl is really good to me, but she is really overweight. I figured eventually she could lose weight, but there's never been any motivation. I've tried ...
A. 18 June 2009: Well you need the attraction in the relationship to make things work......if shes over weight and doesnt seem to care about the way she looks, could be she is depressed.....so think of how you felt when you was depressed, u usually have no ... (read in full...)
She likes me, but I'd like to get to know her better before dating her.
Q. I want to get to know this girl, whom i just met, some more without getting into dating relationship yet. How do I do this when she already likes me a lot?...
A. 9 June 2009: Tell her straight up....let her you want to take things slow and not rush into things....us girls much prefer an honest answer then trying to make us guess or leading us somewere you anit heading! She will respect ya for telling her exactly what you ... (read in full...)
Should my husband and I swap with my sister and her husband?
Q. hi i am 34 years old married woman and my husband is 36 years old working in multinational. we both like sex too much and we do sex daily morning and night 2-3 times. now we are thinking to have sex with other married couple and both are agree. he ...
A. 9 June 2009: If your going to do this stay away from family, sisters etc if something goes wrong then your lose them for some sexual fun its not worth it, find a couple with less connections to you both, then if you dont enjoy it or it turns out bad you can just ... (read in full...)
Is this an affair that should go further or is it over?
Q. So i had an affair. lots of reasons, no point getting into it, but rest assured there were reasons. First/last time I'll do it. But i realized i waited for as (held out) long as i did, because i wasnt really looking for an affair but to move on (...
A. 9 June 2009: She sounds like she likes the excitement of two men, a game player! You need to get as far away from this women, she doesnt care for you as if she had true feelings she would of left her bf for you, or when she did break up she would of got with ... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me about England?
Q. can anyone here who lives in England tell me how great a place it is to be in? ever since i met this girl from England over the internet 5 months ago, i have become fascinated over England and English girls and their accents, etc. now i find myself ...
A. 9 June 2009: I Live in London, weather is usually always crap, but there is so much history here and beautiful places to visit.....though we do have alot of crime and thats increasing, think very hard before you live here, maybe just come and visit find out ... (read in full...)
Do I aske him where this relationship is going or is it too soon?
Q. Advice please.. I have been dating a 37 year old ( i am 28) for just under 2 months. We get on well, attracted to each other and go out on dates approx once or twice a week. He is a lovely affectionate guy, always holds my hand, cuddles,...
A. 9 June 2009: Some people are not very good at the communication part when apart from someone, i hate texting as its so un personal....but just tell him, say oh i wish you would call me more, after 2 months you can say this as your with him so of course your want ... (read in full...)
Was it just her fantasy - or something more serious?
Q. Hi I have been married for 7 years adn will do anything for my wife but.... A couple of weeks ago i had a strange feeling something was up with the wife I out of curiosity checked her email and social network site Lo and behold there were c...
A. 4 June 2009: Well we all get curious, some of us keep it to our minds some act on it and cheat! If she doesnt find you attractive anymore then you need to ask why this is? and how you can change it! If she is saying she wants to work on your marriage then thats ... (read in full...)
Is this something she needs to get out of her system?
Q. Hi my name is Luke i am 21 almost 22 i have been with a girl for four years next month she is 20. we don't live together because she is not ready to move out. So i stay at her house 3-4 nights a week and she stays at mine once a week. (We live 20-30 ...
A. 4 June 2009: Sounds to me....its a age thing....being 20 and being in a serious relationship for so long you kind of forget how to have seperate fun, she prob has a feel for it now....let her have her freedom its not a bad thing, but if you see to often of each ... (read in full...)
He cheated, we got engaged. Then I cheated but he doesn't know!
Q. I need help, i am 22 years old and i've been in a relationship with my boyfriend/fiance since highschool (6 yrs) he was my first everything. I was so in love with him, I thought we'd be together forever, but the last few months have been rocky for ...
A. 3 June 2009: If you tell him then im sure your be over for good, if not then he will never be able to trust you again and your be waiting for him to get back at you. I say you call the wedding off figure out what you actually want, why you cheated? what happens ... (read in full...)
My husband and I separated, having an affiar, feelings growing, but he also has a long distance girlfriend, am I asking for trouble?
Q. I am recently separated from my husband of 4 years. I dont feel anything for him anymore because he was controling and abusive and did alot of things behind my back that hurt. A couple weeks ago I started a fling with a coworker who I've always ...
A. 31 May 2009: Well its going to hard as he has a girlfriend, i think if your serious about this new guy then you need to have that talk with him, see if he wants to be with you and just you, see if he will leave his girlfriend, i dont think you should carry on ... (read in full...)
Does he love me or should I end it?
Q. I'm a little lost as to just what this man wants,well for starters he is married and we have been having an affair for many years, but he is in a very high profile job and he sometimes has to work 70hours a week so we don't get to see a lot of each ...
A. 30 May 2009: 20 years.......how can you carry on like this? Surely hes got the best of both worlds....you need to leave him and then if he thinks your worth it and loves you like you love him then he would leave his wife....don't waste anymore of your life or ... (read in full...)
Worried about getting braces!
Q. Sorry if this is really long and bores you but I really need some advice. I've had a lisp since I've first learned how to talk, well it isn't a lisp it's with my t's and d's and I use the roof of my mouth to say them and not the back of my teeth but ...
A. 28 May 2009: i had braces for 2 years i even had a head brace thing was soooo horrible but now my teeth are perfect and there my best accet.....your only have them for a small part of your life but will be the best thing for you long term....people with bad ... (read in full...)
Tempted to cheat 2 years into a relationship, is this normal?
Q. i no you probably think I am being stupid, but I am such a worrier!! i have been tempted to cheat on my partner (a year ago)! has most people if not everyone in long term relationships been tempted to cheat at least once? and would this be something ...
A. 28 May 2009: Whatever you do don't tell your boyfriend....as this will casue worry for him that you might cheat etc
i think its normal being in a long term relationship that you get tempted......after being with someone ages you dont get that new and exci... (read in full...)
Fell out of love with my wife, want to move on with a new love
Q. Ive been married for 6 years with a 3 year old. I feel that Im not in love with my wife anymore, although she is a great mother and wife. Shes a stay at home mom. We just went in different directions. Life goals, humor, hobbies, etc. Im a ...
A. 27 May 2009: You need to go with your heart....as in a few years your just feel the same....and your end up resenting your wife for making you stay! You only have one life, so do what makes you happy, yes you have a child but how many people have split up ... (read in full...)
My mum thinks my boyfriend is abusive but I want to move closer to him
Q. okay my family LOVED my boyfriend up until we had a massive argument and I told my mum everything that he's done (he's not done anything abusive, but he does small things like reads my texts, hacks my email, reads my msn history, doesn't let me talk ...
A. 26 May 2009: He sounds like he is controlling you have to becareful as this could then lead to violence, abuse etc this is prob were your mum is talking about from experience!!!
In a healthy relationship he should not have control of who you talk to and read... (read in full...)
My fiance is acting so strange and I don't know why.
Q. My fiance has recently started making weird statements and acting bizarrely and I've no idea why. He doesn't appear to be stressed so I can't understand it. He's been saying that his stomach stinks, which sounds weird to me, and also trying to p...
A. 24 May 2009: You make him go to the doctors.....this could be serious, if not then it could be a mental thing, either way its not healthy for your relationship......tell him how your feeling and get him to have a check up! If he refuses then tell him it will get ... (read in full...)
She talked me into buy a jacket simply so SHE could borrow it!
Q. Hi all, a few weeks ago me and a friend went shopping as i needed to buy a jacket to go out in. My friend found this gorgeous one for £65 and said i should try it on... which i did and liked but it was a little out of my price range. Anyway......
A. 24 May 2009: You should of said 'No' its your jacket you paid for it, i would of said no to any of my friends, learn from your mistake and if she insists you buy something else, don't unless you want it, and learn to say no.....friends dont stick by you just to ... (read in full...)
I've never had a guy be faithful to me
Q. Since I been dating I have never had a guy that that has been faithful to me. They all cheated. The guy that treated me the best was married and he said he never had any dealing with his wife, because they were done. If he was still living with her ...
A. 24 May 2009: sometimes you fall for someone and it doesnt matter of the situation, wether there married or not....if you have never had a man be faithful to you then your meeting the wrong ones...you need to look were your meeting them? id avoid married men if ... (read in full...)
I hired a prostitute... but couldn't get an erection!
Q. Hi, I'm a 27 year old guy. I'm a virgin, and for the last few years have been getting concerned about my situation. I haven't really gone out much in my twenties. But do enjoy it when I do get out. I have kinda withdrawn a bit. It's not that I'm...
A. 24 May 2009: Well alcohol can have this effect on men to, but it could be something more serious so you should talk to your doctor.....its a common thing for men to not be able to get erections or lose them.....i think when your with someone you really like then ... (read in full...)
He didn't try to kiss me at the end of our date... why?
Q. I went on a blind date with a guy last night. We're both in our mid 20s. The date seemed to go pretty well. We talked and laughed, not really any awkward silences. It wasn't the best date I've been on, but it was fun and I would definitely go out ...
A. 21 May 2009: Maybe he was shy....the end of the date is always weird do you kiss on cheek, on lips hug, handshake haha!
He sent you a text when he got in arranging another date women!!! How clear can you get thats better then any KISS! If he still hasnt kiss... (read in full...)
She told me about her past and I just can't get over it...
Q. Been with my girlfriend around a year and a bit she is much older than me which for me was not a problem as she has a fun personality and i barely felt the difference at the start i am in love with her and she is my first true love i didnt have a ...
A. 21 May 2009: Her past is her past.....you are her future.....don't throw away love just because she had alot of sex....she would not be the first girl to do it.....i think your being quite selfish here.....its not like she has cheated on you, she has been honest ... (read in full...)
What would be the reason(s) for husband not wanting sex with wife?
Q. What is usually the reson for a man, for not wanting sex at all with their wife? All opinions are great help for me right now. Thanks...
A. 21 May 2009: Could be depression, stress, maybe the wife has let herself go maybe putting weight on etc maybe having an affair, working to hard!... (read in full...)
How soon into a relationship is it acceptable to stay the night?
Q. Hi all I am in a bit of a quandry. I am 25 years old, and have recently got back into dating after a long spell of being in a LTR and then single getting over it. I have met a lovely man, someone who shares many many of my ideas, loves, ha...
A. 21 May 2009: Do you want to have sex with him? If you both want it then staying over shouldnt be a problem....just do it....if your getting on great then its always hard to leave them as you just want to spend more time with them, stay at his and see what ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any tips on losing weight quickly?
Q. This is guna sound really stupid. but does anyone have any tips on loosing weight really quickly. you see i just feel that my whole life would improve if i was slimmer because id have the confidence and i'd be able to look in the mirror. i dont wana ...
A. 20 May 2009: Simple....Eat less exercise more.....Cut out alcohol....replace bad snacks with fruit....drink water in replace to other drinks! By doing this you should lose 1-2 pounds a week! Good Luck!... (read in full...)
My mate's girl is always trying to get my attention
Q. My mates girl, well he aint much of a mates, fancy's me, she's always flirting and touching her breasts in front of me, keeps hugging my everytime she see's me, and i dont know what to do, i mean she is attractive and such, but i aint some dick that ...
A. 20 May 2009: She sounds like she enjoys teasing you.....don't take any notice of her, either pull her aside and tell her straight...shes making you feel uncomfy!! If you feel you may break and then end up doing something with her then you need to nip it on the ... (read in full...)
Can you have a meaningful relationship with someone if it started out as just sex?
Q. I would just like some advice and opinions here... Do you think a relationship based on sex alone can turn into a real relationship? I met a guy at a club and I wasnt looking for a relationship at the time, he was cute so I ended up going bac...
A. 20 May 2009: Yes of course it can......but you need to find out if this guy is only around for sex this is easy to find out.....just don't have sex with him for awhile....date him, then say goodbye at end of the night, if he is keen on a relationship with great ... (read in full...)
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