A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi all,a few weeks ago me and a friend went shopping as i needed to buy a jacket to go out in. My friend found this gorgeous one for £65 and said i should try it on... which i did and liked but it was a little out of my price range. Anyway... we carried on looking around and in the end she managed to convince me to buy it by going on and on saying it made me look slim and i could wear it with anything etc...What annoyed me is just as we got out of the shop after i purchased it she said "I may ask to borrow that"...(we are the same size) so i then kind of clicked she had only convinced me to buy it so she could borrow it!!As it happens she has already borrowed it twice, I mean i cant say "No" as i believed she was a good friend and has done me some favours in the past.Am i right to feel taken advantaged of?? I'm 27 and she is 41.. I never expected this of her. Reply to this Question
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reader, Lilly Rose +, writes (24 May 2009):
 You should of said 'No' its your jacket you paid for it, i would of said no to any of my friends, learn from your mistake and if she insists you buy something else, don't unless you want it, and learn to say no.....friends dont stick by you just to borrow clothes, if this is the case shes not worth staying friends with!
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