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30-35,
*lostsomebody
writes:ok well i think ive fallen for my good friend's girl. i didnt mean to it just kinda happend. i met her when her, my friend, and a couple others wnt to dinner. he never told me she was his girlfriend rather just some girl he messed with. well we all went to her house to chill one day and she triped, fell, and cut her leg open. my friend saw her laughed and walked away. i quickley went and helped her cause she was crying, im a nice guy, and she needed somebody to clean her up and help her walk. later that night we all got very drunk. she was falling down and needed help. i tld my friend to go help her and he just walked off. so again i helped her. at this time i saw her as nothing more than a friend. i later found out that he cheated on her the week before. well she got my numbr from another friend and began texting me. in about to weeks of us talking and hanging out i bgan to fall for her and sh told m the same. she began to try to break up with my friend and then he began to act totally different with her. he started bein nice and caring. i think he kinda knew bout us. and every time she would try to end it with him he would make her feel guilty so she wouldnt do it. th other day i told her that i felt bad about goin behind his back so i told him i have feelings for her. now me and him dont talk. me and her have not kissed. we hug and hold hands a little but shes feels guilty because she is still with him and doesnt want to cheet. i really like this girl but i dont know what to do. can somebody please give me advice on what to do? if u need to ask me questions just tell me and ill answer. but please i need help!!!
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 Best thing to do here is wait until she is single....as if you get together when she has a boyfriend your relationship is doomed as how would you both be able to trust each other! If she really wanted you and just you she would of broken up with her current boyfriend by now!
Thing is you crossed the line....a good friend is hard to come by...and youv blown that for a girl you might not even get.......but youv fallen for her now....i think you need to back off until she knows what she really wants!
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (15 July 2009):
 well if this guy is such an ass to her she should leave regardless of what he says to her.
i know he guilt trips her but she shouldn't fall for it.
she should truly follow her heart and if that's to you then she should be with you.
i mean you told him you have feelings for her he clearly didn't even care to help her up and stuff you were there for her.
she needs to follow her heart if she wants to be with you then she'll just have to risk this guy then she'll just have to end it with him.
i know its hard with him guilt tripping her but she needs to what makes her happy and i am guessing that the choice to make her happy is you.
it's not fair on you because you feel pulled along waiting around for her.
she shouldn't be guilt tripped into staying with him because he doesnt' really care about her as you said in the beginning so why should she be guilt tripped into staying with him?
she's done nothing wrong.
he's the one who doesn't know how to treat a girl.
hope this helps hun
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x ilovebowsandcherries x
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