He wants me to have his baby, how can I postpone this?
Q. ive been seeing an older guy for 4 weeks now.(26) im (15) and i generally feel like ive fallen for him big time. we see each other once a week as he lives too far away so he cant afford paying 50 pounds everyday just to see me. i met him for the...
A. 21 September 2008: oh dear! please think about what you're saying! he is a teacher.. what if he's doing what he's doing to you with others..
and even if he ment no harm he is too old..and this is illegal!please listen to us we're trying to help you.. and show you how ... (read in full...)
I talked to him 2 years online before meeting up, and I was surprised at his inappropriate behaviour when we met! What do you think?
Q. I met up with a guy i met online, i had talked to him for about two years. yesterday me n my friend went on train to leeds to meet him. at first he seemed really nice just like online, then we went to the cinemas n he started stroking my leg ...
A. 21 September 2008: stay away from him..
not everyone you meet online is trust worthy many people lie.. and he might be dangerous.. be careful i think we all know what he wanted to do in these 5 mins.. please stay away from him for your own safety.. take care... (read in full...)
He wants me to have his baby, how can I postpone this?
Q. ive been seeing an older guy for 4 weeks now.(26) im (15) and i generally feel like ive fallen for him big time. we see each other once a week as he lives too far away so he cant afford paying 50 pounds everyday just to see me. i met him for the...
A. 21 September 2008: i agree with uncle phil, he just wants to have sex with you. and he doesn't love he's just saying that to get in your pants. so stop this right now, cause you will regret it later, and stick with someone your own age.. and as uncle phil said you ... (read in full...)
I want to seduce my 30 yr old teacher for fun. Any tips on how?
Q. Ok, how can i tell if my male teacher is interested in me? Like what signs should i look for? How do i seduce him? Im 17, a highschool senior, and he's in his 30's. So I want 2 seduce him for fun. what way can i do that? Me and him get along like...
A. 21 September 2008: don't you have anything better to do in your empty life then getting your teacher seduced and if he falls for it he might go to prison..and ruin his life just because you want to have 'fun'!???
one word hun.. grow up:):):) and save your time for ... (read in full...)
I'm a teen cheating on my boyfriend with a man in his 40's. Is this wrong?
Q. ok well this is kinda supper coplicated so i'll try to just keep it simple. im 15 and i have a bf thats 16 i live in florida but hes now moved all the way to oregon. but i still love him. now theres this guy that ive known for a while and really ...
A. 15 September 2008: ohhh i'm very sorry i'm pessing you off.. go to him he can make you feel a lot better:)uffff...... if this is a real question.. well i can't believe you're even asking it! you know it's wrong ....and you already know the comments you'll get when ... (read in full...)
I'm a teen cheating on my boyfriend with a man in his 40's. Is this wrong?
Q. ok well this is kinda supper coplicated so i'll try to just keep it simple. im 15 and i have a bf thats 16 i live in florida but hes now moved all the way to oregon. but i still love him. now theres this guy that ive known for a while and really ...
A. 14 September 2008: i'm sure this is just a joke...:)... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is cheating and got another girl pregnant...what should I do?
Q. I met V when I was 15. At the time hhe told me he had a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend. Eventually I broke up with my boyfriend. He still had his girlfriend and was obviously not ready to be in a relationship with me so I moved on. I got pregnant ...
A. 13 September 2008: even if you love him you have to leave... cause forgiving him would be a mistake he would do it over and over again..the hardest thing is to love someone that doesn't love you back.. and that is your case cause if he loved you he wouldn't be doing ... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a 15-year-old to have sex with a 26-year-old?
Q. Is it ok for a 15 year old male (me) to go out with a 26 year old women and have sex?? Any advice?...
A. 9 September 2008: just don't do it:) cause you will regret it all of your life:)... (read in full...)
Should I wait for him?
Q. I'm 15.I asked out a guy in my year 6 weeks ago. he said he probly would go out with me, but he doesn't feel ready to go out with someone yet. I'm sorta stuck now. I still want to go out with him, but asking him out again would be weird. I see him...
A. 9 September 2008: ya you have to wait for him..or try to find someone else to date cause this guy doesn't seem very enthusiastic about the idea of you going out together ....
don't even try to think about asking him out again.. cause it will make you seem desp... (read in full...)
I would like some tips on how to get into shape
Q. hello, i am 14stone and i am 15 got any tips to get me in shape...
A. 8 September 2008: well i think everyone hates exercises but i think it's the most important thing if you want to be more fit..tell you what.take some friends with you and go out for a walk everyday with that you'll forget that you're tired and you'll have fun as ... (read in full...)
I dumped her for cybering on webcam with other guys - did I do the right thing?
Q. i met my girlfriend online about 6 months ago and we live 3000 miles away from eachother. she flew out for a week to meet me and ended up staying 2. a month later she moved here and in with me and everything was fine for a few weeks. she started ...
A. 8 September 2008: you sure did the right thing..!!and she sure doesn't love you cause if she did she would've never done something like that...
you live very far away from each other..so maybe she took that for her benefit ..let her go:) you'll find someone bett... (read in full...)
Do men who don't watch porn exist or should I give up and stay single?...
Q. when I commit to a special man I hope to be his only and for him to get his sexual arousal from my body alone...is this too much to ask.....I cant imagine ever needing to look at another mans body for arousal once commited....and I cant imagine ever ...
A. 5 September 2008: i think that it's normal for all men to watch porn..but there is a big difference between men addicted to porn and men who watch it from time to time....... (read in full...)
What do I do to get over my first love?
Q. I need help, I started dating a guy that was a childhood friend, and stuff started happening to fast and we fell for each other, but things got bad when we started putting our hands on each other and saying mean and hateful things to each other, and ...
A. 4 September 2008: the hardest thing you could ever do is get over the first boy you loved but.. sooner or later you have to do it!
you'll learn how to live without him..
and by time you'll find someone else to take his place..maybe you won't forget him totally ... (read in full...)
Why did he change his attitude after visiting me?
Q. I was in a situation with a boy I had just met.I didn't know much about him and he didn't know much about me.But we did talk on the phone and I was thinking like maybe he did care if he came over to see me. We were inside of my home and we were rel...
A. 4 September 2008: you have to face him and ask him why he's acting like that...
don't chase him anymore..let him do the chasing..if he really likes you he wouldn't really mind going after you..and if he shows you that he doesn't care well i don't think he's good for ... (read in full...)
She trusted me with information about this other guy, but it's got to me, because she doesn't know that I love her.
Q. Hello Dear Cupid, I'm in a bit of a dhialemma. I absolutely LOVE this girl, we have SO much in common, but, she likes someone that is basically a 10 year older version of me, and looks a little different, but that's not the point :P She trusted me w...
A. 4 September 2008: if you don't tell her now about the way you feel then you never will:)and you'll always be torturing yourself about it...and after you tell her how you feel then she will understand why you did what you did....
wish you the best ..... good luck... (read in full...)
He has told me he can't see himself with me in his future. Should I stay with him?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for over 5 years. I thought we were in the same place when it came to marriage, but it seems we may not be. He says he doesn't know if he sees me in his future because I don't have a job and have a lot of medical ...
A. 1 September 2008: mmmmm.... well what do you want from him if he says that you 2 don't have a future together?staying with him will just make things worse and it will make it harder for you to leave!
and you said it yourself that he doesn't feel the way! so como... (read in full...)
How can I convince people that my 25 year old boyfriend is not wrong for me? I'm only 14
Q. ok this is hard...im a 14 year old girl...and i have a 25 year old boyfriend...i know he loves me very much...we have promised eachother that we will wait for sex till im 18..and till then we act like normal people...except till we talk on the ...
A. 1 September 2008: you are 14 and every girl in your age thinks she is in love and it's very normal and common..but you have to stay away from him.. cause this might be dangerous and he might be taking the chance of playing with your feelings because you're 14.. if he ... (read in full...)
We have been dating for four years, she tells me now she doesn't want a relationship, I love her, but I don't know what to do now, please help?
Q. Me and this girl fell deeply in love with each other around 4 years ago when we first met, since then it has been awesome ride, but the other day she all of a sudden said she doesnt want a relationship, to me this was abit of a shock, i thought it ...
A. 31 August 2008: maybe she thought she loved you.. or was afraid to lose you.just doesn't wanna be alone..
and now she found someone else...it's really weird! you have to talk to her and ask her why she did that!4 years is a really long time!
maybe she wants so... (read in full...)
Is there no hope?
Q. I've got a male friend I like a lot and we hang out from time to time. Last time I spent the night at his, in his bed, but no sex, he kissed me goodbye on the lips in the morning and my stomach did a somersault. I began to wonder, so I texted him ...
A. 31 August 2008: all i can say is that u have to wait and see what happens next..... (read in full...)
Is the guy I am dating toying with my emotions and feelings? I never know if today I will be loved or ignored.
Q. I've heard of this trend in the dating scene where a guy purposely makes a girl feel insecure (through put downs, ignoring etc), just so she will feel bad about herself, more desperate for him, vunerable and hopefully (for the guys) easier to get ...
A. 31 August 2008: ahhhh!
you're right he is really trying to play with your emotions just to keep you his!and make you desperate for him...
don't show him that! don't make him think that he's getting you where he wants you to be... play his game.. if he doesn't ... (read in full...)
Have any girls here rejected a guy initially, then accepted him (much) later? What prompted the change in decision?
Q. This question is for both guys and girls. Have any girls here initially rejected a guy, then accepted him later on (can be a few months to a few years later)? If so, what prompted the change in decision? Also, for the guys (especially those w...
A. 31 August 2008: girls love romantic guys..
i rejected this guy for 3 years!but at last we became a couple ..i liked him because he was always next to me,never gave up on loving me..doing crazy things for me... so don't give up...
and i you gave up already well..th... (read in full...)
The best or worst breakup ever? What do I do now? Move on? Stay a while? Hope he'll realise?
Q. My boyfriend and I (both 16) broke up 2 days ago after 6 months. It was somewhat mutual. We decided to meet and talk it out. He said his perspective on love changed, and he didn't love me like he did before. I said that I've been waiting 2 months ...
A. 31 August 2008: he has moved on and so should you...
he just wants to have fun,and if he wants to back to get back to you well don't! cause you will show him that he could get you whenever he wants to and the get rid of you simply the same way.. you will get over... (read in full...)
Whenever we fight, I'm always the one that apologizes even though I've done nothing wrong. Is this worth it?
Q. What to do with my girlfriend? I am a 15 years old boy and I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 6 months now. Still, I loved her longer than that. It's been four years that I've fallen in love with her and I've stayed devoted to her e...
A. 31 August 2008: well...she doesn't really care about you...sorry to say it that way..but i already know what it means to treat someone like that because i've done it before and it's not something i can be proud of..
anyways,i know it hurts..and what i'll tell you ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and my boyfriend wants to have sex, what do I do?
Q. hi, im 17, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and he was talking about the next level and by the next level i mean sex and im only 17 am i ready and he says that he got lots comdoms but never used one, how do i know if he has never ...
A. 29 August 2008: by posting a question over here and by saying it yourself that you're only 17 it shows that you don't want to really have sex .. you just want to please him..or maybe you're too scared that he might leave you..
talk to him, and tell him that you'... (read in full...)
My best friend went behind my back and got together with the boy she knew I liked, am I in the wrong to feel betrayed?
Q. I used to have this best friend who was practically the second half of me coz we were that close and stuff. We just clicked and got on sooooo well. We both drifted apart a little bit wen we both got into relatioships tho but we still practically ...
A. 27 August 2008: she isn't a real friend ..and she doesn't have the right to blame you for anything ..after all it's better to know who your real friends are..sooner or later you would've known the truth about her ..act as if nothing happened and as if you don't ... (read in full...)
I can't forget my ex. Help me.
Q. hey... i am with this great guy... so happy ... but i can't forget my ex...i don't love my ex but i can't get him out of my mind...verywhere i look... everything i do.... what should i do????? can anyone help me????...
A. 27 June 2008: no i broke up with my ex 9 months ago........ (read in full...)
My best friend bragged about being asked out my the boy I like, is she a true friend?
Q. Hey My best friend has betrayed me. she kinda knew that i liked this lad. she went to ____ last night a massive party for teens. he was there. so when she got home she started bragging about him, trying to make me jealous. he asked her to get off ...
A. 31 May 2008: she isn't..... but don't show her that you care... cause she is saying all this just to bug you and tease you...... (read in full...)
I don't want to be with him any more. What should I do?
Q. my husband has not had a job in one year. he always have an attitude and he seems jealous that i have a job and i've been on my job for ten years. i really am tired of his attitude and him not working. i dont want to be with him anymore. what should ...
A. 16 December 2007: just leave him! tell him what you feel.... nothing can stop you.... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and he's 17, would dating him make me a pervert?
Q. ive recently started liking my cousins friend, we chat alot over msn and text.. we totally understand each other, the only problem being hes two years my junior, im 19 and hes just turned 17.. is this wrong, and will people think im perverted? my ...
A. 25 November 2007: pfffffffffffff , 2 years difference is nothing! you see a futur with him then go for it nothing can stop you... YOU ARE NOT A PERVERT.
and this is your life not your cosins ,do whatever you want, good luck byeXXX.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend met another woman who began texting him constantly and telling everyone they are dating, I don't know who to believe
Q. I am having major trust issues right now. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now. He met another woman this past september and she instantly began to text message him 10-20 times a day. He told her to stop and that he had a girlfriend. She ...
A. 25 November 2007: he can simply change his phone number........ (read in full...)
I'm 14 and I've been in love with a 17 year old I barely know for three years, even though it's caused me nothing but trouble
Q. I'm 14, and I'm completely, totally, insanely in-love with a 17 year old boy. Well, at least I think I am. I don't even know him, I've never spoken to him, and I've only ever heard him talk once. It was kind of love at first sight. I've been 'in...
A. 25 November 2007: hey comon, you know very well there is nothing wrong with you! you haven't done anything wrong..... these fools just working on ruining your life...
prove them wrong . simply by having a boyfreind your own age, and showing him that you don't care... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I have an open relationship because we're so far apart but it's making me depressed
Q. Me and my girlfriend started an "open" relationship about a month ago. We had an intense relationship this summer and I fell in love with her. I went back to school at the end of the summer, and she stayed where we met. When we parted, the ...
A. 25 November 2007: hey,
first of all i would like to say that there is no such thing as an open relationship, she is just playing with you and you don't know what she might be doing!
an open relationship DOESN'T EXIST, it is only a way to dump you without hurting ... (read in full...)
Broke up many times, but still want him back. Help!
Q. ok, me and my ex boyfriend got 2gether 6 times and only got back 2gether 5times.its bin a week since we boke up and all i can do is think of him.i have never felt so special about a guy b4.i tried everything to get over him but its doesnt work!!he ...
A. 22 November 2007: hey,
you have broken up with him and gotten back with him soo many times and every time you end up heart broken! what does make you think that this time it will be different?
you really have to forget about him! i know you think it is hard, bu... (read in full...)
We're too attached to family but we love eachother.
Q. I'm 18, he's 56. Amazingly enough we have connected. Emotionally, physically, and spirtually. We just clicked. We talk all the time and love each other but our WIDE age difference(38 to be exact) is a big problem!!! I've never told my parents about ...
A. 18 November 2007: hey,
you have to be careful, very careful, your family loves you for sue and they don't want anything that might hurt you!
maybe you need more time to know this man, and see if you can trust him.
and when you are sure about this man, try to talk ... (read in full...)
Is it OK to sleep with other people while you are on a break?
Q. If a person sleeps with someone else, while you are on a break, and also has feelings for the new person AND you as well. Does it count as cheating? Is it right to get back with that person after this has happened? Should the fact that they slept ...
A. 18 November 2007: hey,
when people are on a break they need some time off and some space. but that doesn't mean sleep with someone else!
if you still to have a good relationship with your partner , you can't do anything when you are on a break!
yes it is cheating!... (read in full...)
I can't get him out of my head!
Q. Hi. I love my ex so much I can't get him out of my head I've never felt this way about any one ever. How do I get him out of my head?...
A. 17 November 2007: good to see you move on .
good luck,byeXXX... (read in full...)
I'm in love with an older guy, how do I make my mom feel ok with us dating?
Q. I'm a 13 going on 14 year old girl who loves a 16 going on 17 year old guy. Ohh Yea and he is my brothers BEST friend. I Love himm and he says he likes me and I believe him, but my mom says I cant date him because he's to old....I know he ...
A. 17 November 2007: hey,
your mum has to be your best freind! so talk to her and tell her how you really feel( maybe it is embarasing and maybe she won't understand but she always want what is best for you).
and if it doesn't happen now maybe it will later so hang on.... (read in full...)
I've stayed faithful this time but I'm so tempted to go back to my old ways.What shall I do?
Q. hi my fiancess best friend keeps touching me and feeliing me at every chance that he gets the thing is though i am really enjoying it and now he is talkin about he wants to go all the way.I have cheated before on every other boyfriend but this one ...
A. 17 November 2007: hey,
you already know the answer to this question! tell your fiance and stay as far as you can from his best freind! if you do it you will ruin your relationship with your fiance!
anyways why do you want to do it? don't you love your fiance? ... (read in full...)
I'm torn between two men. And we're all best mates. Waht do I do?
Q. hi every one im 24 years old i have been fooling around behind my boyfriend of 3.5 years with his very bestmate but it gets worse than that the one im playing around with is going out with my very best friend and theyve been together for about 3.5 ...
A. 17 November 2007: first of all, how could you do this to your boyfreind?you have ruined their freindship(maybe it isn't ruined now but it will be when your boyfreind finds out),and you have ruined it by just ' fooling around', grow up!
and second of all don't you ... (read in full...)
What should I do about different sex views.
Q. My girlfriend that I have been steady with for 5 months doesn't view sex the same way I do. She is very religious while I am not. However, we don't fight about religious views yet she won't do many sexual things because of it. She is very in...
A. 17 November 2007: hey,
do you love her?because if you do ,stop making her do things she doesn't want to do! this girl has a religion, and faith! so respect that!
she tried to do her best to make you happy!but you still aren't, take it slow on her , you know she love... (read in full...)
When I told other people about our relationship of 2 yrs, he denied and said it was a one night stand. Why does he want to keep it a secret?
Q. im in love with this guy ive been seeing for 2 years we was just friends first and now we r very secret about are relasonship and he want tell no one but i told a few people he didnt get mad about it he just denied it saying we just had a one night ...
A. 15 November 2007: hey,
talk to him! it seems as if he is hiding something!
i don't think he really means it when he says he loves you because usually when you love someone you want to show everyone that you love him!
you have to face him and see why this behavio... (read in full...)
He cheated twice, then left me, but we still love each other , should I take him back?
Q. My husband had an affair January 2006 which went on for 6 months and I found out about it when it finished. We tried to make it work but he lied and cheated again and in Janaruy 2007 he left. He then started seeing her again I really thought it was ...
A. 15 November 2007: hey,
i think people have to learn from there mistakes ,didn't you learn from yours?he has cheatted on you twice and played with you to get you back!
we all love someone who turns out to be such a loser! but that doesn't mean that we have to let h... (read in full...)
I can't get him out of my head!
Q. Hi. I love my ex so much I can't get him out of my head I've never felt this way about any one ever. How do I get him out of my head?...
A. 10 November 2007: hey,
you can't just get him out of your head, if you don't try to get him out of your head!
everyone is still thinking about their exes it is very common and hard but they forget about them anyways .....with going out meeting new people having f... (read in full...)
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