I've suffered a traumatic experience, now I've put on weight, how can I get myself back on track?
Q. hiya, I'm 17 and 6 months ago i was raped. I started eating loads and i have gained so much weight i use to be a size 10-12 and now im a 16-18. I hate my body so much and i have lost all my confidence, i was woundering if anyone can give me any advi...
A. 1 November 2007: we all wish you the best ,but with time you will have confidence again we have all been betrayed by our freinds maybe not in the same way ,anyways goood luck and remember we will always be here ... bye XXX... (read in full...)
I've suffered a traumatic experience, now I've put on weight, how can I get myself back on track?
Q. hiya, I'm 17 and 6 months ago i was raped. I started eating loads and i have gained so much weight i use to be a size 10-12 and now im a 16-18. I hate my body so much and i have lost all my confidence, i was woundering if anyone can give me any advi...
A. 31 October 2007: am really very sorry:( sorry about your rape.. i think the best way to lose weight is lot of sports and healthy food and drinking a lot of water .... wish you all the best and please tell us what happens next and i wish you all the best .
good luck... (read in full...)
What is the right age to start having sex?
Q. What age do you think people should start having sex? People i know still havent had sex yet but im not sure if that is better or should you start young? ...
A. 30 October 2007: hey, don't have sex before you get married!because that is the only person who you know that he doesn't want you just for sex and that is the only person you really loved so i say have sex as much as you want after you get married but before ... (read in full...)
Is it love or addiction?
Q. Hey Aunts, My original post is here is you want to read: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-treat-her-like-a-princess-but-she.html I hav'nt spoken to my ex since sunday night, i was quite angry and I didnt part on good terms. Her depressi...
A. 29 October 2007: you are right better said than be done but that doesn't change the fact that you have to do it godd luck... (read in full...)
I'm dating a girl who lives with her boyfriend. Can you help me?
Q. Hi I met a girl though the internet 7 months ago. She lives with her boyfriend who she has been with for 9 years, 6 of them living together. I new this from the start but just thught it would be a sexual relationship. We struck up a real good ...
A. 29 October 2007: heyyyyyy that is great newssss wish you the best luck i think this is going great , wish you godd luck:D
byeXXX... (read in full...)
Why am I still single after 2 years? I feel like life is passing me by. Help!
Q. I am so lonely, I find it hard to cope with life. I am 28 and spilt with my ex two years ago, the problem is nobody i meet seems to like me. I feel like I have been single for five years and not two, as i only got back with my ex as I couldnt fin...
A. 29 October 2007: hey,i am really sad about your story:(
maybe you only look for the perfect girl that you haven't found yet, or maybe you are looking in the wrong places but comon you won't be alone forever am sure you have many freinds to live for.
girls first l... (read in full...)
I don't want to ask her again.
Q. what shall i do. I love this girl so much. I kept it to myself for a year now. And i've asked her out just as friends but she always escapes the situation without sayin yes or no. And i feel weird askin her again because i feel she doesn't wanna go. ...
A. 25 October 2007: hey i think that you shouldn't ask her out again because if she wanted to she would have said yes in the first time !and if you ask her out again maybe she will say no and you will get hurt and maybe she says yes only a pitty yes trying not to hurt ... (read in full...)
My brother would do stuff to me while I would sleep.
Q. So I'm 16 and a few years ago my brother would do....stuff to me at night when he thought I was sleep, and it kept going on because I didn't know what to do. He would make me give him handjobs and blowjobs and he would finger me and stuff. during ...
A. 25 October 2007: why don't you keep an eye on him and see how he looks at her :if it is the same way he used to look at you...
warn his fiacne and tell him what you're thinking of!that your niece might be in dangour .... good luck:S... (read in full...)
Is it love or addiction?
Q. Hey Aunts, My original post is here is you want to read: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-treat-her-like-a-princess-but-she.html I hav'nt spoken to my ex since sunday night, i was quite angry and I didnt part on good terms. Her depressi...
A. 25 October 2007: you have been here for her for a very long time now so i say i better let go.............
i know u don't wanna and u will have all the excuses not to but u will do it sooner or later (sooner=better)
gd luck XXX... (read in full...)
Not feeling wanted
Q. Dear cupid, well ok here goes nothing i really like this guy but my parents dont they think i can do better but i dont like nobody else he is all i think of and i dont really think he likes me but he aint afraid to be around me at night when nob...
A. 24 October 2007: every girl passes threw this fase ...be careful maybe he just want u for sex always keep your eyes wide open to whatever happenes ..why does he come late at night? maybe he just wants sex so meet in a public place where people can help if something ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a girl who lives with her boyfriend. Can you help me?
Q. Hi I met a girl though the internet 7 months ago. She lives with her boyfriend who she has been with for 9 years, 6 of them living together. I new this from the start but just thught it would be a sexual relationship. We struck up a real good ...
A. 24 October 2007: yea u love her but she is playing with u!! u can't keep it going on cz it will end up very badly if u end up very attached i advise u to stay as far as u can for ur own gd................... gd luckXXX... (read in full...)
Underage kids and sex - whatever happened to youth?
Q. I have to say that i am noticing a lot of KIDS aged 12ish asking questions about sex. What on earth is happening? Or are they maybe older and just putting this age? But, what has happened to kids and their youth? They are under age and shouldnt be ...
A. 24 October 2007: well i agree with u but parents are making it oke for them to talk about it which is 100%wrong according to religion and health .. sex could get them pregnant at an early age and that could and will ruin there lives:S well hope u open minds on this ... (read in full...)
Are we more than friends?
Q. well im 15 and there is this guy who i have known all my life (hes 17). I love millions as a friend, and almst like a brother. The other day i was a bit upset and so he was cuddling up to me and comforting me and then kissed the top of my head, al...
A. 24 October 2007: maybe he doesn't see you as just a freind try to figure out what he thinks of u and after that u will follow ur heart and know what to do......gd luck... (read in full...)
Yeah, I'm hot for teacher
Q. Hello, I have a prob! okay so yeah theres this amazing guy who is incredible he is the sweetest and the funniest dude i know! but... here it comes! hes my teacher!! i hate it so much!! i mean why cant i just have a crush or whatever on a boy that is ...
A. 24 October 2007: :D i only wish i can make u read a poem it is about a girl who is 16 in love with her teacher who is 63 ! the poem is one of the greatest poems i have ever!(true poem by the way it is for nizar kabbani) in that poem she says tell me love words even ... (read in full...)
I really don't want to upset her, what do I do?
Q. Well, there is this guy, and I am absoloutly bananas about him. I'm pretty darn sure he likes me too (like really sure), but there is one problem: my friend. She is a total bitchy bitch bitch and I hate her sometimes, but deep down I love her. ...
A. 24 October 2007: girls are always jelous of each other ...
thinking of it i had the same thing going on in my life a girl who clamed to be my best freind dlespt with the boy (i loved)..
so tell u something go for it cz if she is really your freind she would re... (read in full...)
Do you think she cheated on me?
Q. I have no idea why this is bothering me so much. Usually this type of thing never bothers me, and I do not know why it is bothering me now. My girlfriend has always acted bi-curious, and it never bothered me. She would tell me things, like, he...
A. 24 October 2007: what do u want with a bisexual girl?sorry but i really don't wanna say it but i have to i think she cheated on u cz she is saying all these things out of regret.......hope am wrong ...gd luck... (read in full...)
Is it love or addiction?
Q. Hey Aunts, My original post is here is you want to read: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-treat-her-like-a-princess-but-she.html I hav'nt spoken to my ex since sunday night, i was quite angry and I didnt part on good terms. Her depressi...
A. 24 October 2007: hey,
your problem is going on for so long is because u love her and ur love had turned into adiction and obssetion! girls usually search every where for a guy like u!
she is playing with your feelings so sorry to say this and i know it is really h... (read in full...)
Can we get back together?
Q. Hi i really need some good advice. Me and my boyfriend had been together for a year and a half, then two months ago i broke up with him, although now i regret it so much becasue i was just confused and i didn't really know what i wanted. I told him ...
A. 24 October 2007: well maybe am wrong but i think he wants u to be his slave after that make sure u get him what he wants...hope am wrong:(..
anyways if u really want him back i think u should make him feel that life without u isn't worth living ....i mean play the ... (read in full...)
He kisses me but calls me on my twin sister's name. Confused.
Q. I am seeing this guy who i really really like!! The problm is i have a twin sister, he keeps on holding my hand, keeps on kissing me, but calls me my sisters name!! i fell out with him, but then soon made up. He did it again last night, ...
A. 24 October 2007: ohh :( wish u luck ..he is just having fun anyways he is just 15!anyways have fun cause it is a bit too soon to look over these things if u really have it as a problem then break up with him u will find 10 other boys... gd luck... (read in full...)
The stars were not in favor of our love... or are they?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 9 months with a woman I have known for years. She is currently gettin divorced,but I started as her friend through the whole thing and then we started gettin serious. I fell in love w her as did she..we both ...
A. 24 October 2007: well true love can wait for ever !so wait after she getts her divorce and get back to her.... gd luck... (read in full...)
He's told me he's been talking to a girl at work he finds "hot"... will he cheat??
Q. hiya, i am 21 and my partner is 18 we have a 3 month old baby, everything was fine intill a few nights ago when he came in frm work i knew sumthing was up , i asked and my partner said no everything was fine but i jusr knew so we stared fighting and ...
A. 24 October 2007: u have a baybe together try to work things out and if u ever feel that he is cheatting u can let him go but not now cz u need him and he didn't do anything wrong maybe he thinks she is hot but all men look at girls always!!! plz take care gd luck!
... (read in full...)
I fantasize about having sex with my mother
Q. I have asked this question before but am still curious as what to do. I am now 17, my mum is 43. 6 years ago, i was living with my mum, i was in the need of the drink, so went into the kitchen to get one, only my mum was in the way on the worktop ...
A. 24 October 2007: damn!!! u have got to see profetional help!don't have intercource with ur mum cz that might ruin ur life cz u will be the weirdo of the year!!! plz u need help... (read in full...)
I am 14, pregnant and haven't told anybody! What do I do?
Q. ok so i had sex with my bf and we used a condom and i still got pregnent, I'm only 14 and nobody knows, not even my bf, I'm scared to tell anyone, my mom said if i ever got pregnant that i would have to get an abortion. What do i do??? HELP PLEA...
A. 24 October 2007: tell ur mommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm... (read in full...)
I always pick fight for no reason.
Q. i have a boyfreind that i love so much and who is so complicated every time i ask what do you want to do next he says do whatever you want. what should i do? should i go on with him? should i date someone i don't understand?because i love him i ...
A. 24 October 2007: hey guys thanks a lot for ur help hope it would do me some good bye 10000000thanksXXX... (read in full...)
I'm dating a girl who lives with her boyfriend. Can you help me?
Q. Hi I met a girl though the internet 7 months ago. She lives with her boyfriend who she has been with for 9 years, 6 of them living together. I new this from the start but just thught it would be a sexual relationship. We struck up a real good ...
A. 24 October 2007: hey,
she lives with her ex!!!!
my advice is get out of there beforeu fall in love with her!what do u want from her if u don't love her?what do u think will happen next??
staying with her will make it hard for u so leave her and start looking for ... (read in full...)
I feel she is inconsiderate to me as concerns her relation with her ex, and others have noticed too she's putting me in an incomfortable position. Am I being unreasonable/jealous?
Q. I met a great girl 8 months ago. We get on fantastic. But a little problem is starting to put tension and barriers between us. we have run into her ex b/f on a number of occasions. On the first occasion at her local pub she chatted with him...
A. 24 October 2007: i just wonder if u were talking to ur ex gf how would ur new gf feel..!? she went mad because of photos!she doesn't regard ur feelings cz if she did she would be trying to make u feel most loved! talking to her ex is a very dangerous issue even if ... (read in full...)
We have a relationship and I feel this other woman from miles away who he told me not to worry about in the beginning, is still in the scripts, calling late at night etc.
Q. Dear Cupids My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months, (I pat myself on the back) the relationship has been growing very nicely and we are so in love with each other. He has the best qualities i need from a man and he really knows how...
A. 24 October 2007: hey,one senctence... if he loves you i think u would be rather enough to make him feel great and not leting some other women in.... so i say leave him..u love him well that is great but don't go back to him until u make 100%sure that he isn't dating ... (read in full...)
Do I want him back or am I just lonely?
Q. Hey i think im still in love with my ex, i left him but some days i wish he was back so bad an the next i dont care.. i dont wont to ask for him back if this is jus because i am lonly, do i wont him back????...
A. 24 October 2007: u want him because you feel lonley but if u get back together and have problems again then u will leave him ... so i say if u love get back to him, but if u don't love him then don't play with his feelings just because u feel bord ,gd luck... (read in full...)
Why is he making me feel guilty about wanting to remain quiet about some things.
Q. Over the summer my boyfriend's bestfriend met this girl and he fell... FAST. He set up a meeting for her to meet all of our friends. ...And i didn't like her. Recently he found out and kept asking me why. My boyfriend said it's because he values my ...
A. 24 October 2007: hey,don't you trust him? because if u do, u have to tell him the truth ,because he is your boyfreind the only person who can help u when u need help ,and the person who you can trust,but if u guys aren't very serious don't make him force u to tell ... (read in full...)
She says she'd never cheat on me.
Q. Hi i am a 28yo Male who has been in a live in relationship for 1 year. I was cheated on in my last relationship and I found out early on that my current girlfriend had cheated on her last boyfriend and one when she was in her teens. My proble...
A. 24 October 2007: hey ,look i wanna give you some advice from my own expireince...if u beleive that ur girlfreind loves you don't be scared everyone has a history but u still have the right to know the truth... but it is really obvious that if her freind used to like ... (read in full...)
She says she'd never cheat on me.
Q. Hi i am a 28yo Male who has been in a live in relationship for 1 year. I was cheated on in my last relationship and I found out early on that my current girlfriend had cheated on her last boyfriend and one when she was in her teens. My proble...
A. 24 October 2007: hey ,look i wanna give you some advice from my own expireince...if u beleive that ur girlfreind loves you don't be scared everyone has a history but u still have the right to know the truth... but it is really obvious that if her freind used to like ... (read in full...)
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