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writes:hi my fiancess best friend keeps touching me and feeliing me at every chance that he gets the thing is though i am really enjoying it and now he is talkin about he wants to go all the way.I have cheated before on every other boyfriend but this one i havent cheated for 4 years should i go back to the old me or stay faithful??a few harmless flirts and things fine but the thing is im really tempted and have always preferred this guy what should i do ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): I don`t support samauririck view because if she had sex behind his back, when she and her fiance is going out the bestfriend will see her fiance and laugh at him behind his back. Is girls like you don`t make men respect girls.I think you are behaving as a low class slut or slut.
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reader, SamuraiRick  +, writes (17 November 2007):
 I personally think cheating is ok if you do it with care….do it with someone you can trust in secrecy and make it a brief affair. If you decide to give in and have sex with this guy, just do it to see if the new guy is good for you, or just do it for fun…you might end up saying, wow, this new guy is so good I might jump ship! If that’s the case be prepared to follow through and leave your fiancé, and all the turmoil that would come with it.
If you decide to stay with your fiancé , just sleep with his friend a couple times and leave it at that…..do not stay involved with this guy! That’s what will ruin your relationship with your fiancé. Don’t allow yourself to fall in love with the new guy, unless you’re prepared to make some tough decisions.
You sound like a girl who can separate sex from love and could pull this off. This is not the case for a lot of women. I say go for it but do it before you get married. Sex is sex; enjoy it for just for just that. Have fun….and use some protection.
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (17 November 2007):
 hey,
you already know the answer to this question! tell your fiance and stay as far as you can from his best freind! if you do it you will ruin your relationship with your fiance!
anyways why do you want to do it? don't you love your fiance? aren't you grown up to stay away from these teenage stuff?doesn't you fiance treat you well?
if you have answered one of these questions by yes well then just leave your fiance and do whatever you want! and if you answered them by no then grow up and act like a mature woman and talk to him!
good luck byeXXX
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