I can't get him out of my head!
Q. Hi. I love my ex so much I can't get him out of my head I've never felt this way about any one ever. How do I get him out of my head?...
A. 17 November 2007: good to see you move on .
good luck,byeXXX... (read in full...)
He cheated twice, then left me, but we still love each other , should I take him back?
Q. My husband had an affair January 2006 which went on for 6 months and I found out about it when it finished. We tried to make it work but he lied and cheated again and in Janaruy 2007 he left. He then started seeing her again I really thought it was ...
A. 15 November 2007: hey,
i think people have to learn from there mistakes ,didn't you learn from yours?he has cheatted on you twice and played with you to get you back!
we all love someone who turns out to be such a loser! but that doesn't mean that we have to let h... (read in full...)
Relationship is over and I am looking for closure. Should I send her back her ring and momentos?
Q. Hi I wonder if you can help. I now know that my relationship is now definately over and I'm looking for some closure. I still have some photo's and bits and pieces belonging to my ex. I was thinking of mailing them to her with the engagement ring,...
A. 14 November 2007: hey,
if it comes to me , i say keep them to yourself!because if you give them to her it would (maybe) be a reason to hurt her!
maybe you are just searching for closure. but closure is made in the heart, not in some stuff.you can make these st... (read in full...)
She sent nude pictures of herself to this other guy. Will I get over it?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and living together for three. Last month she moved out and got an apartment because she said I wasn't ready to move forward with the relationship and I had been taking her for granted. I told her...
A. 14 November 2007: hey,
only you can know if you can get over this! but if you are asking me, i say: you won't get over it.
what she did was bad and you can't deny it!
if i was in the same situation i would break up with my bf!
i hope you make the best decision by... (read in full...)
Problems With On off Lover
Q. Hi I'm new to the site and have been looking around at all the posts and need some help myself. Ok, I met the girl of my dreams about 9/10 years ago and we fell head over heels in love and things were great between us. She was my soul mat...
A. 14 November 2007: maybe it is hard now, but you still have to do it. byeXXX... (read in full...)
Problems With On off Lover
Q. Hi I'm new to the site and have been looking around at all the posts and need some help myself. Ok, I met the girl of my dreams about 9/10 years ago and we fell head over heels in love and things were great between us. She was my soul mat...
A. 13 November 2007: hey,
i think she might be playing with you! so tell her what you want! and if she doesn't accpet it then show her that you are gone! because now she is just playing with your feelings!
so be clear about what you want..... and stop making her play... (read in full...)
Help, I'm in a love triangle.
Q. Help, I'm in a love triange.. My best friend goes out with this lad. He used to fancy me but I was with someone at the time now he has grown on me and we both really like each other. I know it's wrong but we're both considering an affair, that's e...
A. 13 November 2007: hey,
don't do it. please don't!
it will defenetly ruin everything!if he likes you why is he going out with your friend?
even if they broke up don't go out with him!
FREINDSHIP MEANS A LOT MORE THAN SOME GUY! you can meet guys every day, and h... (read in full...)
I like him a lot but I don't have any feelings towards him.
Q. I'm seeing this guy at the moment and weve been togerther for a month and a half. when I met him I was a virgin and I'm not now I like him a lot but I don't have any feelings towards him. Everyone I tell says I should see how it goes and giv...
A. 13 November 2007: hey,
one and a half months isn't a very big time... so ya give it time!don't rush into anything. you will have feelings for him, and you won't even know that you do. feelings grow by time!and if you breakup with him you will see that maybe you don'... (read in full...)
I went behind my best friend's back with her ex and I don't know how I feel about him... help!?
Q. My best friend broke it off with her boyfriend who I then became really good friends with. We would meet up and get along really well until on a night out, my best friend went home early and this guy came back to mine. We just kissed but then it ...
A. 13 November 2007: hey,WOW i can't beleive this!
you call her your best freind!why are you still talking about your feelings towards him!?
what you did will be the number 1 reason to ruin your freindship!DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT getting back with him, even if you love... (read in full...)
How do I move on after being together for 2 and a half years?
Q. Today my girlfriend broke up with me after 2 and 1/2 years, she had some issues about a month ago but she said that we had sorted them out. I went to see her today and she said we should break up, I dont know what to do it was out of nowhere. I ...
A. 13 November 2007: hey,
do you feel that you guys will be back? and if you do come back do you think that you have a futur together? do you love her and think she is worth living for?
if you do, then wait for her!
but if you don't well you have to move on!maybe the... (read in full...)
Help! Theres another girl "sniffing" around my guy..what should I do about it?
Q. Hi, I've had a long string of bad relationships but this time ive found a really nice guy. Only problem is theres another girl "sniffing" around. She knows full well he has a girlfriend yet she still persists to post flirty messages on his facebook...
A. 13 November 2007: hey,
you have to talk to him first!and tell him how you feel, and if he is a nice guy likfe you have described i think he would talk to you and not run away...
if he is guilty on the other hand, you will know it by his actions!
you have to talk... (read in full...)
He says he will get therapy but will he change??
Q. Last week i found out that my boyfriend of 3 months cheated on me and when i confronted him he denied it he was crying hysterically and we tried to talk about it. He finally admitted to cheating once with 1 girl but claims he doesnt know what hap...
A. 13 November 2007: hey,
first of all i wanna tell you that : why don't you give him another chance?because after what you described for us i think MAYBE he won't do it again and maybe he will( no one can answer that).
anyways take things slow! why are you talking ... (read in full...)
Will he ever leave her?
Q. Please help me im in love with a married man who doesnt live near me. We see each other often. We have been together 6 month they have only been married 4. Will he ever leave? I want to move to be closer to him but dont think he would agree. ...
A. 13 November 2007: hey,
you already know that he won't leave her! so why are you waisting your time?
you have to get him out of your head he is MARRIED now! you can't wait for him forever. knowing that something might not happen!
sorry to tell you this.but you... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt anybody's feelings, especially not my sister's, but I am so curious if she's the product of an affair.
Q. Sometimes I think that my sister is not my whole sister. I mean we were raised thinking that we were from both of our parents. We are exactly one year and a few days apart. She is older. Anyways, our whole lives people asked us if we were even ...
A. 13 November 2007: hey,
what is the purpos of doing this? sometimes it is better not knowing the truth!
because if something ever happened and it turned out that you are right, you would hurt your sister for sure( and that is something you say hat you don't want)!
... (read in full...)
We still meet after the break up as lovers, but we're not dating. What should I do? I don't want to hurt.
Q. I have dated this guy for 2 years...we just broke up 3 weeks ago but we lost our it to each other just last year when we broke up, we still make love to each other and we say we love each other and he says everything, is still there but we're not ...
A. 13 November 2007: hey,
i doin't think that you are happy this way!
so tell him how you feel and if he has a problem with it just wak away!
good luck byeXXX... (read in full...)
Is this age gap important?
Q. is it ok to have a relationship,when the boy is 17years old and the girl is 21years old?age gap?...
A. 13 November 2007: hey,
i don't think of it as an issue if you love him and happy with him!
it becomes a problem when you turn it into a problem..................
good luck byeXXX... (read in full...)
What are women like
Q. i am 22 years old but still i dont have girlfriend.even i dont know how to asking girls for love .what am i suppose to do?...
A. 13 November 2007: hey,
first of all love is something you never expect! it comes when you can never imagine!
anyways relax everything will come in it's own time .
girls will give you their love when they see what a great person you are.
good luckXXX... (read in full...)
Do I leave him?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for three years and we selpt together and im not a virgin anymore but here in egypt you cant tell that you`re not a virgin. one year ago i lied to him but i didnt mean to i was supposed to travel for the weekend but i di...
A. 13 November 2007: hey,
you are right, being a virgin is a very big deal in the middle east.not only in eygpt but here too!
but it isn't a good reason to stay with someone you don't love, so if you don't love him break up with him.and don't have sex again till whe... (read in full...)
My life is in utter shambles...Filing for Divorce
Q. This is a long and painful story that I will post here, but I need to get some opinions from some "disinterested" third parties as my friends/family have pretty much weighed in on this issue. First, some background to "set the stage" for what's to ...
A. 13 November 2007: hey,
great to see you doing great and finaly going out there ( you really deserve the best)!
what happened with that girl is normal:S i think she doesn't wanna be involved with a married man!maybe for her, you won't get a divorce, just lie to her! ... (read in full...)
How do you chase away the feeling of emptyness/"alone in a crowd?"
Q. There are times when I feel very down, insecure and worried. I feel like no one would notice if I disappeared. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I feel very alone, you know the saying 'alone in a crowd' it applies very well to me because thats ...
A. 12 November 2007: hey,
i think you have been threw a breakup or lost a freind that is why you are feeling down!
bu it is ok( maybe you heard this a million times)...
try going out more and meeting new people it really helps. try doing some sports it makes you fe... (read in full...)
I never seem to be able to make friends, what's wrong with me?
Q. Why is it so hard for me to make friends? I'm 14 and ever since I lost my best friend it has been this way. I feel even retarded sometimes because it is that difficult for me. I am not happy or confident with myself but why am I this way? I'm no...
A. 11 November 2007: hey,
everyone can make freinds , you just have to know how to make these freinds. and who do you pick as freinds!
because if you pick the wrong person people will drive away from you...
nothing is wrong with you you just have to be more confide... (read in full...)
This is first time I've fallen in love and I'm scared to give my love and trust to him, what should I do?
Q. i felt in love for the first time but i'm not happy...his so nice to me but this is the first time that i trust a boy it's hard to me to pretend like i'm fine...i can't leave him i'll die..what should i do?ican't heart him......
A. 11 November 2007: hey, i think if you love him and you know that he loves you . you have to close your eyes and just give him your heart without thinking about anything! good luck byeXXX i would love to see what happens next:P.... (read in full...)
I'm too antisocial to meet new friends.
Q. As I am getting older I am getting more and more unsociable. I am bored with everything. I only enjoy my family and husband. I feel I am hurting my family because I come up with excuses like I feel sick to not attend social functions I feel ...
A. 11 November 2007: hey, i think that you have passe threw too much in your life and all you energie has gona away! nothing is wrong with you , but maybe you have to go to a phsycitress( for help) ! i don't mean your crazy or anything , but you are just depressed! ... (read in full...)
Love or hate? Please help me decide.
Q. Dear Cupid, I really like a guy at work. we started messaging and texting after not really talking too much at work previously. He came over to my place and stayed the night a few weeks ago because he doesn't live in my area. I was a bit drunk ...
A. 11 November 2007: hey, i would advice you to talk to him ( even if it is hard). but something has happened between you guys and he can't deny it or hide it or run away from it! you have to make him face it! courage is what you need to talk to him , maybe it is har... (read in full...)
Every time we fight he leaves and goes out to clubs with other women, what shall I do?
Q. I like a guy and he says he likes me too...we have known each other for five years..but whenever we do fight he yells back and is never patient or understanding. ..he is extremely stubborn and likes it his way always...after every fight he goes out...
A. 11 November 2007: hey,
why do you forgive him so easly?when you already know that he is gonna go do it again!
he did it once he will do it twice don't expect him to change!
so dump even if you love him because no good will come from him! if you stay with him, it... (read in full...)
I can't carry on like this. What should I do?
Q. well im 15years old and i only lost my virginity 4 days after my 15th birthday,but recentelly everyone thinks i am a slut because i lost it to my ex-girlfriends, sisters boyfriend called peter i love him and have been sleeping with him since but no ...
A. 10 November 2007: hey,
don't you jsut realise that they just want you for sex!
why don't you go out with someone your own age! and if they say they love you why are they still with other women!
i think that you have to stop this behaviour : first it is wrong sec... (read in full...)
He's threatening to leave. What can I do?
Q. my boyfriend who I adore, respect, support and live together 4 years now are expecting a baby. We know each other 5 years and live together 4 years. Last year we bought a house and we were very happy. He has a degree in physics, speaks fluent French ...
A. 10 November 2007: hey,
i think that he is feeling very stressed and you are the only person who he can show his feelings to!he is having a baby and living with a woman ( big step)!
i really don't think that he will leave because is he wanted to he would have don... (read in full...)
If he wanted to date, I don't know what to do.
Q. I'm really good friends with this girl Chelsea and she resently got back with her long time boyfriend. I think that they are great together. He is in some of my classes and flirts with me all the time. He touches my back or my arm with his hand or...
A. 10 November 2007: hey,
i don't know if he wants to date you! but if he asks you just say NO !
boyfreinds come and go , but freinds last forever !
if you date this guy you won't have her freindship or her respect and you will be called a lot of names!
why don't you... (read in full...)
I can't get him out of my head!
Q. Hi. I love my ex so much I can't get him out of my head I've never felt this way about any one ever. How do I get him out of my head?...
A. 10 November 2007: hey,
you can't just get him out of your head, if you don't try to get him out of your head!
everyone is still thinking about their exes it is very common and hard but they forget about them anyways .....with going out meeting new people having f... (read in full...)
What if she takes it the wrong way?
Q. Ok, well, i slept with a friend of mine, that i havent known for all that long, guys have used her in the past for sex but we got drunk, 1 thing led to another, and yea. But i genuinly like her, what happened happened i cant do anything about that, ...
A. 10 November 2007: hey,
you can never know what she thinks, and we can't know what she thinks! the only person who knows it is her!
so talk to her and tell her everything you just told us...
tell her everything ! it can't be that bad...
good luck byeXXX(tell us w... (read in full...)
I want to give my baby to a couple I know.
Q. im 5wks pregnant and want to give my baby to a couple i know personally who cant have children of their own - is this possible? i was going to tell the biological father that i aborted the child. can i leave the fathers name blank on he birth ...
A. 10 November 2007: hey,
your baby has the right to know who are his parents!
it would be really hard to take that his real parents gave him up!
and he isn't only your baby ,he is the father's baby as well so in this kind of desicion you have to talk to the father b... (read in full...)
He has pictures of his ex throughout the house but wants me to get used to it.
Q. The man i have be seeing for a year has pictures of his ex wife in his bedroom and throughout his house. he says they are family and vacation pictures and they shouldn't bother me. i have told him it does, but he hasn't changed anything and wants ...
A. 9 November 2007: sometimes it is really soo hard to get over your past especialy if there was love!
so i say give him time and he will realise it on his own! but for now always be there for him and show him that you are the best.....
goooood luck byeXXX
... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my crush?
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend doesn't satisfy me enought lately. He's always says he's tired and I have to beg for more. I really love him no matter what, but there's another I am crushing on and wanting to have sex with. What should I do? thank...
A. 9 November 2007: hey,
if you say you love him why do you wanna have sex with another man?having sex with another guy will just ruin everything!
so if you can't controle yourself from having sex with your crush you have to end the relationship with you boyfrein... (read in full...)
What does all this mean
Q. i like this guy but he makes it hard for me to tell whether he lives me back. when we were alone and he hugged me, he kissed me lightly on my shoulder and rubbed my back what does this mean?...
A. 9 November 2007: hey,
maybe this is a clear sign that he likes you.
so talk to him:)! good luck byeXXX... (read in full...)
She says I'm too late.
Q. I’m so confused. There is this girl I’ve had strong feelings for for three years. She is now going out with someone else and says I am to late. But ever since homecoming I have started having feelings that are growing every day for this other ...
A. 9 November 2007: hey,
the other girl said that it is too late so why think about her anymore? why should you be confused while she is out there having fun with her boyfreind? you have to move on and ask this new girl out... i am sure she will make you happy!
and s... (read in full...)
Can my friendship survive?
Q. My husband is firing my best friend's husband. Can my friendship with her survive?...
A. 5 November 2007: hey,
i don't think this freindship will survive sorry:( good luck
byeXX but why is your husband firing him:S?
... (read in full...)
I don't know what to choose, how do I decide?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have now been together for 6 months. We're both seniors at the same school. And we're both each other's first serious relationship. He just told me last night (he'd never told me before) he wanted us to be together even af...
A. 5 November 2007: hey,
i don' think you two should break up, nothing has happened yet!
if something happens( like cheatting) then here is where you break up.
good luck and i hope you won't regret your decision what ever it turns out to be.
take care byeXXX... (read in full...)
How can you tell what love is?
Q. Ok. I really really like this guy who is 3 years older than me. He is funny, kind, shares some of the same interests as me (and as a bonus he is gorgeous aswell!!) However i don't see him very often as he is away at boarding school for most of the ...
A. 4 November 2007: hey,
if it is love you would directly know it..
i would give a prize to anyone who could describe what love is!
becuase no one could....
you will know what i am talking about when you are really in love..
take car for now byeXXX... (read in full...)
Why does he insist on family functions etc.
Q. Hi! I broke up with my boyfriend three weeks ago, after which I found out he'd cheated the whole time we were together ( a total of 2 and a half years, one and a half we lived together). I don't know if he slept with any of those women, but he did g...
A. 4 November 2007: hey,
he is just a child needing to have some fun in some words what is called a player....
thank god he didn't keep it much longer .. or what would have happened:S...
well forget about him you can do so much better than him .
take care bye... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he truely loves me?
Q. ok. so i told this guy I love him. he said he loves me 2. but does he really love me? i mean, how can i tell it's true? HELP...
A. 4 November 2007: hey,
just see the way he talks to you and the way he treats you and you will directly know if he loves you or not.
FOLOW YOUR HEARt.
good luck byeXXX... (read in full...)
My mum thinks my girlfriend is screwed up, what should I do for the best?
Q. I'm not sure what to make about my girlfreind, she lives about 30 miles away from me and I have to always pay for hotels when I stay up there, she occasionally comes down to me, but lately I have gone up to where she lives, she says she loves me and ...
A. 4 November 2007: why don't you just talk to her and make her go to professional help( she needs it)..but what she needs the most is you next to her .
take good care of her..
good luck and byeXXX... (read in full...)
Have I gone too far?
Q. Hi i'm 20 years old, happily engaged to an amazing girl and have a daughter that I love so much. I work behind a bar in a busy nightclub and recently a new girl has started her and no matter how hard I try I cant keep her out of my head, and with ...
A. 4 November 2007: hey,
i don't think that is a good way of acting because you have a child and a fiance. don't stop talking to the other girl, but be just her partner at work DON'T PLAY THESE SILLY GAMES ,
you have your responsibilties and if you love your fiance y... (read in full...)
My mum thinks my girlfriend is screwed up, what should I do for the best?
Q. I'm not sure what to make about my girlfreind, she lives about 30 miles away from me and I have to always pay for hotels when I stay up there, she occasionally comes down to me, but lately I have gone up to where she lives, she says she loves me and ...
A. 4 November 2007: hey,
it is clear that she has some problems if you really love her don't leave her cause now would be the best time to show her your love and affection, she is so sad and maybe screwed up like your mum says but you shouldn't leave her when she need... (read in full...)
My life is in utter shambles...Filing for Divorce
Q. This is a long and painful story that I will post here, but I need to get some opinions from some "disinterested" third parties as my friends/family have pretty much weighed in on this issue. First, some background to "set the stage" for what's to ...
A. 4 November 2007: hey.
this woman is married to you and this isn't a way of acting even if she isn't cheatting!
so why are you feeling soo bad about someone you tryed helping! when all the other cares about is going out and teenage stuff!
don't feel bad about so... (read in full...)
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