We havent gone past first base and my mates think i should dump her, how long do we wait before moving on from kissing?
Q. Ive been going out with this girl for about 6 months now, we're roughly the same age and we still havent really got past the kissing and hugging stage. my freinds keep asking me "how far have you got" etc.. and when i tell them they tell me to dump ...
A. 26 August 2007: You need to bust a move and try to get a bit further. I'd be annoyed too if I was dating a girl for 6 months and hadn't gotten past kissing.
Are you just freezing up or something? maybe try and ease your way down to finger her, but ask if she's read... (read in full...)
Is it normal when ive got an erection my penis doesnt point to the ceiling???
Q. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-normal-that-my-penis-doesnt-stand.html I found this on this site and my case basically exactly matched his. Although I have heard something about suspensory ligament damage. When I was young I didn'...
A. 26 August 2007: When I get an erection it isn't at a 90 degree angle.
Ever watch porn? I don't think I've ever seen someones penis point directly upwards man.... (read in full...)
We dont have sex, he's got a small manhood, but everything else is perfect. Should i have an affair?
Q. Hi, I'm in the same boat. Well, I haven't met anyone else but I married my husband in April of this year. We've had sex once in 12 months. We have a brilliant friendship, we have fun together, can talk about everything and he loves me like no one ...
A. 26 August 2007: You're willing to have an affair with your husband because his penis is too small? C'mon, that's just harsh.
Now if he won't make an effort to please you at all than you need to tell him that, it's not right for him to be selfish. And even if ... (read in full...)
Told my boyfriend's sister something secret about his sexual history... will he forgive?
Q. I was angry at my boyfriend and crossed a boundary that I shouldn't have. He told me something in confidence about his sexual history, I had been angry with him earlier and in while in that angered state, I told his sister. He has every right to be ...
A. 26 August 2007: If it was me I probably wouldn't break up with you depending on how bad this secret is, but I'd definatley consider it, and there's no way I'd forgive you, sorry. If you tell one of your friends of w/e that's one thing, but telling his sist... (read in full...)
How do you block numbers on a phone, he wont leave me alone!
Q. how do you block numbers on an O2 sony ericsson? please help, he won't leave me alone...
A. 26 August 2007: Tell him to give it up, if he doesn't give the operator a call.... (read in full...)
He doesn't txt a lot & that makes me insecure, any guys on here that can give their opinion?
Q. Hi , I'd like a guys opinion on this. I have been talking to my ex again and we got together again but hes pretty bad at the whole texting/ringing thing? He does text back straight away if I text him and he is really sweet in the messages, but then...
A. 26 August 2007: he doesn't txt alot because he doesn't want to seem desperate. guys try and take a bit of time between calls and txt to play it cool. it's nothing.... (read in full...)
Am I waisting my time or is he into me?
Q. I recently met up with my ex,we have always had a spark that is still there. He seems really into me when we see each other, and has even talked about a future together. The problem is he hardly contacts me, but on the occasion I call him, he sound...
A. 25 August 2007: Ask him on a date, I'm betting he'll say yes. Sounds like he wants to see you to me.... (read in full...)
Can getting fingered damage you?
Q. When being fingered can your body be damaged? so you can't have kids or anything like that? thanks...
A. 25 August 2007: You would have too have some pretty big fingers, and big nails to go with it.
I never heard of anything like that happening, no.... (read in full...)
I want to lose weight, but not in my boobs
Q. i feel so horrible about myself. please help. i want to loose weight, but not my boobs... im 10 stone roughly (137-142 lbs), im 5'3, and im a 34 e.. but im only 16.. i like being busty but i keep noticing that the rest of me is disgusting. i ha...
A. 25 August 2007: Cardio workout and dieting works the best.
My weight bounces back and forth alot so I can see where you're coming from. IE, in the Winter I was fat, now I'm pretty slender... That cycle tends to repeat alot.
Anyways, Runing+dieting works the be... (read in full...)
We seemed to get along great but now she's almost ignoring me!
Q. Hi, I hope anyone can help me as I'm very upset over this problem I have.... I have recently met this girl who I like more than words can describe, we have been talking for 3 weeks now and met once so far, she lives about half hour from me and...
A. 25 August 2007: You might be moving a bit fast man, I mean, you've been talking for 3 weeks and you're already inviting her over for diner with the family?
Maybe you should just slow it down a bit make her more comfortable.... (read in full...)
Should i contact him?
Q. Hi, Happened to know this guy 2 years ago, never meet before, just contact via text, but lost in touch very long, recently he contacted me again and asked me out for dinner. He seems nice and friendly, a humourous guy, throughout the whole nig...
A. 25 August 2007: He just got into his car and drove away?
Maybe he was just really nervous. Or he might not have been on any or many dates prior.
But if you say he's nie I'm pretty sure even if he wasn't interested he'd have the courtesy to drive you home. So I d... (read in full...)
I keep losing my erection mix-sex... why?
Q. I'm 20 and healthy. I was a virgin before I met my girlfriend. She is not, she had one partner before me, she said he was awful. Now we have had sex four times recently, on the first night I was in the missionary position. Everything was going ok, ...
A. 25 August 2007: I never heard of that happening to a 20 yo.
You try to find anything online about premature ED? Who knows, some 20 year olds might need viagra.... (read in full...)
I often think about being gang banged, whats wrong with me?
Q. I know this sounds kinda sick but I'm 18 years old and I'm a really horny girl..sometimes the thoughts that run through my head make me ashamed...i often think about getting gang banged and having multiple penises involved in my fantasies..what's up ...
A. 25 August 2007: Sounds kinda messed up to me.
But alot of guys think about being with alot of women at once, so I guess its not all that bad.... (read in full...)
Should i be unfaithful or should i just end it?
Q. Hi, I got a bit of a juicy one for ya. I've been going out with my girlfriend a little over a year now, and we've had some really good times, along with a few rough patches. Lately, its been all good, really. However, I'm 22 and she is 25. I have ...
A. 25 August 2007: Tell her to chill out man, if you cheat on her she'll feel like shit if she finds out, if you break up its a bit of a waste, take the risk of asking her to relax.
Either she'll stop or she won't if she doesn't then goto the drastic measures... (read in full...)
How weird is this?
Q. Well I have a question about my bf. Well we had been dating for about a month or so and we fell for each other and soon after were having sex. The usual. Whatever. Anyways, one time I was at his house and I was sitting across from him on his couch ...
A. 25 August 2007: It is kind of weird, but not all that weird.
Basically he was gawking at your breasts and when he noticed that you noticed he decided it was best to look away so you wouldnt think he was a perv.... (read in full...)
She thinks we went too fast and doesn't want to get hurt as before. I want to make this right...
Q. Hey, I met this girl probably about a week ago now. She had previously dated one of my co-workers (not really a friend) so I knew who she was and she recognized me. We started talking on msn and we went out together. We hung out and by the end of ...
A. 25 August 2007: If you like her and she wants toslow it down and be friends I think you should make it clear to her you want to be more than friends, just don't rush her. There is nothing worse than really liking someone and not being anything more than just f... (read in full...)
Should I get my ex a birthday card?
Q. Should I get my ex a birthday card? We have had trouble talking since we split 2 months ago.. 2 months today, actually, and so, I'm not sure we are actually speaking at the moment. I told her I didn't think we should, because anytime we do I ...
A. 25 August 2007: Well man if you still like her and want to clean the slate I'd say don't give up and give her a card and some chocolates.... (read in full...)
He cheated on me when he was drunk, what should I do?
Q. I am in love with this guy and as you can see from previous posts things have been rocky at best but i am in love with him. Recently i have gotton very close to his family and i thought that things were going very well...we are just dating not going ...
A. 25 August 2007: From what I've seen someone who cheats once, drunk or will do it again. Everyone I know who cheats on their bf/gf when they're drunk does it sober to. If he cares tell him to stop and he will, if not you can do better. ^Thats easier said than d... (read in full...)
Is she out on a date with her ex?
Q. Is she on a date with her ex? Alright so yesterday I was with the girl I'm seeing and we were having a good time, but then later in the night her sister tells her that one of her ex-bf's wants her to go out tomorrow(today), she didnt give a straight...
A. 25 August 2007: I know I should tell her straight up... But I'm affraid if I do she'll choose ex-bf's over me. I've had other girl friends before but this is the only girl I've ever felt like this about, so I don't want to end it already.... (read in full...)
What matters boys?, what are you after in women?
Q. Hey this question is for the guys out there. As you can probably tell by my screen name i am 15 but this question is does size really matter? Im a very petite girl and so naturally my breasts aren't that big im a 34A and my friends are all at least ...
A. 24 August 2007: i usually go for a girl with a nice bum over boobs, but neither are really overly important.
if i can get a half decent looking girl with a good personality and she won't cheat, thats enough for me.
they'd have to be outging too though... (read in full...)
Is she out on a date with her ex?
Q. Is she on a date with her ex? Alright so yesterday I was with the girl I'm seeing and we were having a good time, but then later in the night her sister tells her that one of her ex-bf's wants her to go out tomorrow(today), she didnt give a straight...
A. 24 August 2007: yeah so i'm pretty possitive she's with him.
been ignoring my calls and msg's all day long.... (read in full...)
My 14 years old friend is dating a 23 year old woman
Q. My best friend is dating a 23 year old and he is 14 but he is very mature for his age and he is a very very big 14 do you think that they will wrk out...
A. 24 August 2007: A 9 year gap? That's a bit messed up, and illegal.... (read in full...)
Is she trying to make me jealous?
Q. Alright so I recently started dating a girl and I like her alot, but apparently I'm not the only one. She has a whole group of guys who seem to be obsessive over her, all of them are ex-bf's. This week alone she's been asked out by these guys 4 t...
A. 24 August 2007: Alright... Well I have to agree that she definatley does like the attention, and maybe I am going over my head... But do you think she'll cheat on me? And also, what is the point in trying to make me jealus, how does someone get off on that?
Anoth... (read in full...)
I am 23 and want to ask out a girl who is 17, is that okay?
Q. I'm 23 years old and I've liked this younger girl since I was 20. I found her on Myspace and she's 17 now, and I want to ask her out. I live in the US so the age of consent is 18, but I would have no problem waiting, I just want to be with her. Is ...
A. 24 August 2007: States and Provinces don't all have the same age limit, 18 might be the generic standard but it varies alot. Where I'm at the legal age is 14 (sick eh?). Anyways, If it is 18 where you at than you could go out with her and fool around all yous want ... (read in full...)
I can't decide if I'm bisexual or just bi-curious?
Q. I can't decide if I'm bisexual or just bi-curious. Me and my friend who I think is bi hooked up in the toilets when we were realy drunk at a party and it spread round our college and people teased us. but I totally blamed it on the fact I was drunk, ...
A. 24 August 2007: You could always hook up with your friend again and see how it makes you feel.
But as far as girls getting drunk and doing stuff with each other, I've been at tons of parties where drunk chicks have done this and almost none of them turned out to b... (read in full...)
His abuse is getting worse, he's tried to strangle me 5 times!!!
Q. I've been with my husband for 3 years and I don't know what to do. I have a six year old boy who adores him and a one year old baby girl. The problem is he has become physically abusive. He has tried to strangle me five times but generally just ...
A. 24 August 2007: Tell him you hate the way he acts when he drinks, and to cut down.
There's no need to get wasted everytime he drinks.
If you tel him the truth about what you think of him when he drinks, then he'll stop if he really does care about you, and sin... (read in full...)
He doesn't like me talking to other males and I have lost all my male mates because of him.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for nearly a year now, we were really happy, but now he doesn't like me talking to other males and I have lost all my male mates because of him. Also he turns violent when he doesn't get sex and he really wants ...
A. 24 August 2007: Not wanting you to talk to guys is normal... Just about all bf's myself included get annoyed/jealus by that.
But as far as getting violent he just has a temper and needs to calm down. If I were you I wouldnt be with someone who hit on me, tell him... (read in full...)
Is she trying to make me jealous?
Q. Alright so I recently started dating a girl and I like her alot, but apparently I'm not the only one. She has a whole group of guys who seem to be obsessive over her, all of them are ex-bf's. This week alone she's been asked out by these guys 4 t...
A. 24 August 2007: Well I like her too much to ditch her, besides we arn't officially bf/gf, we have just been dating alot recently. To be honest the only reason I haven't asked her out yet is because I'm not sure she'll say yes since she is always talking to these... (read in full...)
What are these little bumps?
Q. I am worried that I might have something seriously wrong with me. Lately have been noticing that there are little bumps on my virgina. I am not sexually active so I dont know what it could be. what do you think it is and what should I do?...
A. 23 August 2007: if they don't hurt or anything theyre probably just sensitivty bumps. i have them on my stuff, i made a few posts about this before and apparently theyre pretty common.... (read in full...)
How can I learn to like giving blow jobs and how can I develop a healthy libido again?
Q. I am 18 and I have been married for a little more than a year. We have a baby boy who is almost one years old. I got pregnant the first time I had sex and I think that maybe that really damaged my libido. It's really hard for me to get in the ...
A. 22 August 2007: if you don't like doing them i don't think theres anything you can do to suddenly enjoy giving them. Maybe if your huband tried to get you in the mood a bit more, might be more eager.... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and I want to have anal sex with my girlfriend.
Q. I'm 19 and I want to have anal sex with my girlfriend. We have done it before and she liked it but now she won't. It is my favorite by far and I really really like doing it. Like 1 or 2 times a month would be great but she just says I'm sorry. I ...
A. 22 August 2007: Maybe she was lying about enjoying anal, lol, I can't see it being all too fun if you're on bottom.
... (read in full...)
Will my spiderveins scare her off?
Q. Alright so i recently started dating a girl, and although she's realy nice i have to admit she is shallow too. which is worrying me because she wants me to go swimming with her, and i have a bit of a stomach(i'm not fat, but i do have a little b...
A. 22 August 2007: yeah? i did grow like 5 inches in the last year or so and only recently have they popped up, so stretch marks sounds pretty reasonable.
where can i buy cocoa butter? (lol, did not think i'd be asking that today)... (read in full...)
Has my fiance cheated?
Q. Has my fiance cheated? My partner works away a lot and I recently found out that while he was away he went to a strip club and didn't tell me. When I found out he denied it at first but then admitted to me that he did go and all of a sudden came ...
A. 22 August 2007: Well no one can give a 100% answer... But as for the strip club, I wouldn't take that to heart. That's just guys being guys, I'd probably goto a strip club even though I have a gf, I would never cheat on her though. Whole different ballpark imo.
... (read in full...)
I just don't feel my boyfriend loves me, but he keeps on saying it over and over but I don't know if I believe him...
Q. I just don't feel my boyfriend loves me, but he keeps on saying it over and over, but simple things he does makes me think and wonder does he really loves me. I've been hurt very bad with my previous boyfriend but I still thinks about him each and ...
A. 22 August 2007: For the most part there are only two times guys say "I love you" to a girl:
1. If theyre just trying to get some.
2. If they actually love you.
Since he's your boyfriend he probably does love you, in myopinion you have to be a bit of a despera... (read in full...)
I am getting ingrown hairs and shave bumps
Q. Alright, so I recently gota gf and decided to start shaving my pubs (from what i gather girls my age prefer shaved). so anyways, i have a problem and i'm wondering if its normal... getting ingrown hairs. sounds nasty i know, but i'm wondering if ...
A. 22 August 2007: thanks for allthe tips, as far as killing bacteria with alcohol, i personally would rather tough it out with the bumps instead of the aftershave.
now that i'm getting replaies saying i probably shouldnt have shaved... do you think she will min... (read in full...)
Whats wrong with ginger?!!
Q. Hi, I dont understand, my boy mate has ginger hair and he finds it really dificult to get girlfriends. but I dont understand it, I have been out with ginger boys, I love ginger hair :D so why wont other girls go out with ginger haired boys???...
A. 22 August 2007: it is true gingers get a raw deal. being a ginger male i noticed alot of girls get turned off by them, but eff them, if theyre that shallow about a hair color than they arn't worth bothering with.
atm i got a beautiful girl who loves ginger, ... (read in full...)
Will eating only 2 apples a day make me lose weight quickly?6
Q. Hey.. ok well i'm planning to lose weight..So i'm going to eat two apples a day and that's it..iv done this now for 1 day..and I no that i'm going keep on doing it..how long will it take like before the weight all drops off?? i'm 9 stone and I hate ...
A. 22 August 2007: I have no idea what 2 stone is but eating 2 apples a day is not the answer.lol
you'll get nausea all the time if you starve yourself like that.... (read in full...)
He is only a child but I am nearly an adult. What do I do??
Q. Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl, almost 18. My problem is that I have fallen in love with a guy who is 15 (who will turn 16 two months after I turn 18.) I feel really bad about the age gap but he said he doesnt care what age I am because he loves...
A. 22 August 2007: basically theres a two year gap... thats really no big deal.
most 17 yo i know would date a 15 yo.... (read in full...)
Ok, I am not 10-12, I am 26 years old. But I still need help with my partner cumming too fast!
Q. Ok yesterday i wrote this 2 get advice i put anonymous but now ima put it so yall can see.. ne ways i am not 10-12 i am a 26 year old young lady.. tell me how i can edit my page.. thanx! And still do send me ur advice! Well..... this quest...
A. 21 August 2007: usually guys cum too fast from anxiety, just tell him to relax and breathe and whatnot.... (read in full...)
He wont introduce me to his family!
Q. Dear All, Ihave been with my current boyfriend for almost 2yrs. I am 21 and he is almost 25. I have recently got back from a year abroad during which he waited for me. My problem is his family and how during this 2yr period I have never met ...
A. 21 August 2007: I don't like introducing my gf's to my family, all my uncles are the same way, one of my uncles had a 5+ year relationship before he told any famiyl members.
for a few reasons, 1. might not want you to get weirded out by them, 2. family members ... (read in full...)
I am going out on my first date with a great girl. Any hints?
Q. ok so i just met this amazing girl she's smart sexy and we have everything in common and im really surprised that she wants to be my girlfriend so its obvious that she isn't superficial and we are going to go on a date but i don't know what to do on ...
A. 21 August 2007: i went on my first date with a chick last night whos way out of my league, amazed she sees anything in me.
my advice would be listen to what she says, be as outgoing as possible (akward silences kill dates) and try not to rush in too fast.... (read in full...)
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