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anonymous
writes:I recently met up with my ex,we have always had a spark that is still there. He seems really into me when we see each other, and has even talked about a future together. The problem is he hardly contacts me, but on the occasion I call him, he sounds really happy to hear from me.This may seem like a cliche but he seems like a really sweet sincere guy, and not a sleaze, which adds more to my confusion about his inconsistency...which is why we broke up in the first place.Am I wasting my time, or is he into me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007):
Oh dear..I made another error...sorry, dear. Please change the following statement:
"Because, you should be that easy to forget".
to
"Because, you should NOT be that easy to forget".
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): I guess I have to ask is..if you found his inconsistency in the past..hard to cope with, why would you want to sign up for that again? Most of us wouldn't. More often than not, there are couples who date, where they feel, daily contact is essential to building the relationship. There are others who date, who can go days, without doing that. There is nothing wrong with both scenarios. You just have to decide, that if you date him again, can you live with this inconsistency. And another thing to consider, there are nice, sincere guys out there who simply enjoy the attention of females(s) when the opportunity comes up, but really don't have the inclination to call these females. Could this be him. I guess I'm trying to understand why you wouldn't rather date someone who would 'want' to call you regularily, someone who cares for you so much that they can't help but call you, just to hear your voice and say hi? Remember, men want to be just as happy as we do, and want to get in touch with the woman they care about. I always have to say, no matter how nice and sincere a guy seems, if he's not talking to you, calling you regularily, then he's not the one for you..and I'll tell you why? Because, you should be that easy to forget. Don't waste your time on this guy...move on.
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reader, lost666 +, writes (25 August 2007):
 I have the same problem we've even gotten together again but hes still bad at contacting me. Sometimes it gets me down I wonder is he that bothered. But I feel like we will be together again..its my gut feeling.Like you,it does seem like he is into me and when we talk. I feel that I know what he's thinking and vice versa. I know some people might say that blah blah blah "he's just not that into you" but I really don't think so. If I have learned anything about love and boys , its to trust your instincts, take a chance and maybe drop him a casual text , try to go to places where he will be and get him talking? You'll know by how he looks at you. Keep it casual and see where it goes. I honestly believe some boys just have communication problems and maybe are waiting for you to make a move. I hope it works out!! For both of us!!
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (25 August 2007):
 Ask him on a date, I'm betting he'll say yes.Sounds like he wants to see you to me.
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reader, cassandra_096  +, writes (25 August 2007):
well i think hes playing with ur mind... i mean if he really likes u he would have never broke up with u and if he still likes u now why doesnt he call... why do u always have 2 call. i think u should wait and see if he tris to call or make effort into talkin to u or seeing u.
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reader, cutiebeauty +, writes (25 August 2007):
 Well maybe he regrets to have broken up to you and wants to get back together if he is very cute dont waist time get back together
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