Did I offend him?
Q. Lately I've been baking a lot and I take some of the cookies and stuff to church. I gave some of the cookies to this guy and later he came over while I was talking to my friend to say thanks. I wasn't really paying attention and I quickly brushe...
A. 30 November 2007: He took it wrong obviously, he probably thinks you dislike him, and it sounds like he likes you.... (read in full...)
A neighbour changing in view of my wife and I!!!
Q. Hi Over the past few weeks our neighbour has been putting on a show in their bed room. What I mean by this is, she get undressed and gets changed without drawing the blinds. My wife and I can see all this from our lounge room if we have our blin...
A. 30 November 2007: I think if you tell your female neighbor you and your wife have been seeing her undress without saying anything for a while now she'll call you a pervert.
Just leave it alone, she's not hurting anyone, and it will save you from one hell of an ak... (read in full...)
I really like him but he's a bit of a "whore!"
Q. I LOVE this guy, but he's a bit of a whore but that's his personality. He's kinda camp but he's deffo not gay. I really like him, I have no idea if he knows or not but we do have the occasional flirt and a kiss. I have no idea what to do help ...
A. 30 November 2007: When you say he's a bit of a whore, do you mean he hooks up with alot of girls?
If so he probably isn't really looking for a relationship, but who knows.
I have friend though who just try to hook up with as many girls as possible and the... (read in full...)
Is it true that most men need to sleep with various women? Is "it was just sex" just an excuse? Or is there actually a connection?
Q. is it true that most men need to sleep with various women? is it possible for a man to "love" a woman but cheat on her constantly and it mean nothing? when men say "its just sex" is there really a connection. Is this true or just intended to make it ...
A. 29 November 2007: I never get steady relationships so I usually get shafted and have to try hooking up with different people every weekend.
I'd give that up any second for a steady relationship with just one person.
Guys don't have to have more than one parter,... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that I do not have pubic hair yet?
Q. Hi I'm 18 but my penis hasn't grown and i don't have any hair around it and i haven't started shaving. my voice has broken but because of all this im a bit self concious about myself and ive never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. do you hav...
A. 29 November 2007: That's sounds like some sort of a medical condition man, I never hit puberty til I was 15, but I've never heard of anyone not hitting it at 18.
If I were you I'd get that checked out, it's not normal.... (read in full...)
Poll question. How old were you when you lost your virginity?
Q. Hey would like to know how old were you when you lost your virginity and also did you tell your parents about it or not till later? How were you sure it was the right person?...
A. 29 November 2007: I was 17, I was loaded drunk, and got lured into a bedroom by a girl I find repulsive to say the least.
Needless to say I didn't tell my folks.
I don't really regret it though, I really didn't think, and still don' that virginity is som... (read in full...)
Is it gay to watch gay porn?
Q. is it gay to watch gay porn...
A. 29 November 2007: I think it'd make you bi-curious, but doesn't officially make you gay.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got a lapdance from one of his former friends
Q. Hi. A little while after me and my boyfriend had begun talking, he got a lapdance from one of his former friends.Yea, she strips for a living and she has like 5 kids. He blames it on the fact that they were all drunk.But he did have the guts to ...
A. 29 November 2007: If he was drunk, and it was only a lap dance and nothing more, you might as well just try and forget about it.
But I'd suggest keeping an eye on him, and on the upside he did tell you about it, which means he's honest, so I say you should give him... (read in full...)
Is this guy flirting with me? And how do I approach this situation without anyone around noticing?
Q. Okay, maybe someone can help me on this. I work in a gourmet store and theres this guy that comes in every other day and we always make eye contact with each other and chit chat with each other. When ever he comes to my register and sees me, he ...
A. 29 November 2007: He could just be a really friendly guy, but personally I don't know many guys who are that friendly with women they have no interest in, winking at them and whatnot.
Next time you're chatting to each other be flirty with him, to the point it's obv... (read in full...)
I just don't know how to tell my mum we are sleeping together without her losing trust in me.
Q. Hey... I'm 17 and been with my guy for 6 months (he's almost 19) we've had sex like 6 times in the relationship and i want to tell my mum about it because i promised her that when i did i would tell her but i just dont know how as i cant give her...
A. 29 November 2007: Just tell her, if she loses trust in you after you admit to your mother you're having sex with your boyfriend, then that's just ridiculous.
And as far as dates and times and whatnot goes, who does that? No one keeps track of where and when the... (read in full...)
My bf thought I was joking when I refused intimate contact as we had been talking about it, and he raped me. Please help me.
Q. hi im 13 and i was raped by my 13 year okld boyfriend and think i might be pregnant i know he was only joking around and he thought i was joking when i said no because i had been talking about it please help me....
A. 29 November 2007: He couldn't have jokingly raped you.
Now I've never raped a girl, but I think if I was having sex with a girl, and she started panicking and screaming "No!", I'd get the point and pull my pants up.
Do three things:
1. Dump that sorry excuse of... (read in full...)
If I do not give him enough attention he has panick attacks or cries, being over-sensitive. How to deal with this?
Q. Hey. I don't know what to do anymore!I'm a mess. I am only 15 but i'm with this guy, he's prone to panic attacks and I've caused him to have three. I didn't let myself in for this! Whatever I do he cries or has a panic attack. A propper one as well. ...
A. 29 November 2007: 15 is way too young to be dealing with that.
Very few relationships between 15 year olds last long, my advice would be to break it off, he'll get over it eventually.
If you keep going out with him for his sake just to prevent him from hurting... (read in full...)
How can I stop being so over protective and start to trust my bf??
Q. I think i'm a bit weird...you know, a bit to over protective with my bfs. When i have bf's i can get very protective. For instance i don't like him looking at other girls. Sometimes my mates flirt with my bf and i kind of pull him away from them ...
A. 29 November 2007: Well don't be too concerned about him flirting back, I do it too, I'llflirt with someone even if I find them repulsive, it's just a force of nature.
So is being over protective, I'm the same way, I get all paranoid if I see a girl I like chatting... (read in full...)
Never been kissed...but there is a boy I like and I don't know what to do.
Q. I'm 16, and I've never been kissed . . . I feel like a pathetic excuse for a 16 year old . . . But there is a boy I really like, and i've liked him since June this year . . . I like him so much that I don't know how to act or what to do... an...
A. 28 November 2007: Well do you ever talk to him?
Spark up some conversation with him, trust me, even if you've got nothing really worth saying he won't mind, and he'll probably get the hit you like him.
At which point you can ask him to the movies or whatever, an... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date an ex's best friend??
Q. Well i am going to ask this girl out soon and we flirt alot and it just so happens that her best friend is my ex. I was wondering if it was looked down upon. Me and my ex are still really good friends. Any help would be great... ...
A. 28 November 2007: It depends I guess, how long ago were you dating your ex?
If it was recently your ex will probably get jealous, especially if you broke up with her.... (read in full...)
He complains that I'm "too wet" when we make love!
Q. I've just divorced my husband and met this man 18 years older than me. I am 45. This man is very good in bed. I've got turn on without minutes and gets very wet. He complains he couldnt feel anything when I am wet. He talks like its my fault ...
A. 27 November 2007: The wetter I egt a girl the happier it makes me, the guy is 65, you're 47, as Ponungalungb said he should be dropping to his knees and thanking god, not complaining.... (read in full...)
He's too bushy down below, how can I bring this up with him?
Q. Hi. My bf's hair down there never bothered me, but lately i've noticed that he hasn't really been trimming it like he used to and it's getting really thick. I really don't have a problem with hair, it's just that when i go down on him i'm ...
A. 26 November 2007: I can honestly say if a girl asked me to shave my pubes for her, I wouldn't take any offense to that at all.
Just ask him to trim them up a bit because they're getting in the way, I'm sure he'd understand.... (read in full...)
I cheated on him, and he beat me, how do I move forward?
Q. in june i made a very bad choice in my life..having been with the same man for 25 years.. a man i love so very very much ..mostly good years, not always happy years.. bickering, fighting and alot of silence .. now i see it was my life before and ...
A. 26 November 2007: You're both in the wrong big time, I think you guys should sit down and talk it out, personally I couldn't see cheating on or beating someone if you loved them.
And for the guy who beat you, he's a royal piece of shit, don't get me wrong, you dese... (read in full...)
Torn between my ex and a new guy.
Q. I have recently split with my partner and there is this other guy i like i have been seeing him for about a month now but i still have strong feelings for my ex and i dont know what to do? My ex wants to give it another go and i dont want to hurt ...
A. 26 November 2007: That is a bit of a shitty situation.
I guess it'd depend on the terms you can your ex left with, if he was cheating or if he was a shitty boyfriend I'd say go with the new guy and give him a shot.
Also as far as the whole situation with y... (read in full...)
He said he hates cheaters, yet I think he is one, how can I confront him?
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for about two months now and he has always made a point that he hates cheating etc. I was recently looking thorugh his text messages ad found some flirty and rude texts exchanged between him and a girl who lives quite ...
A. 26 November 2007: Well you can't confront him about looking through his phone.
If I were you I'd keep a really close eye on him, and keep him on a short leash, he's bound to slip up sooner or later (if he is cheating)
If he is a cheater he could be constantly r... (read in full...)
During sex..He went limp. Ideas?
Q. I've just recently started dating a guy, and the first time we had sex, it was great, it was a little short lived, but great none-the-less. But yesterday.. the house was empty.. we were having plenty of foreplay.. i.e kissing necks, chests, s...
A. 26 November 2007: It has nothing to do with you, if he found you unattractive he wouldn't have gone far enough to switch positions.
That's only happens to me when I drink, if the guy was drunk that might have played a role.... (read in full...)
People call me a slut, but it's not true, how can I stop this?
Q. ok,so at school im called a slut.i dont even know why.guys usually say to their friends that if they need to "get some",then go to me.but im not like that.i do have a big chest and a big butt,but id give up all that to stop being called a slut.i ...
A. 26 November 2007: Usually if guys my age age call a girl a slut it's because she's hooked up with alot of guys, or she dresses slutty.
Showing some cleavage isn't enough for people call you a slut.
You probably give them the impretion you're easy when you ta... (read in full...)
There are two sides to my personality but I don't think either one is really me. I don't know what to do, I'm so confused
Q. i got two sides to me. one is fun, free loves hanging out with mates and having a laugh. cheeky and sharp. adventurous and ambitious. i like guys who are like this as well. I'm this side more in public, around ppl etc. the other side is quiet, s...
A. 25 November 2007: I feel the exact same way alot of the time, ever hear of bi-polar disorder? I'm looking into it because it suits those symptoms pretty well.... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and he's 17, would dating him make me a pervert?
Q. ive recently started liking my cousins friend, we chat alot over msn and text.. we totally understand each other, the only problem being hes two years my junior, im 19 and hes just turned 17.. is this wrong, and will people think im perverted? my ...
A. 25 November 2007: 2 years isn't that bad, i'd say you're in the clear.
my buddy went out with a 20 year old when he was 17 and no one said anything to her about it.
personally I don't see anything wrong with it, i say go for it.
good luck.... (read in full...)
His sexy talk makes me feel cheap
Q. my boyfreind talks dirty to me whenever i give him a blow job and its making me feel cheap. i dont mind it sometimes in bed, it can be hot, but he does it nonstop when im giving him oral sex. he says stuff like do you love my big co*k, and suck me ...
A. 24 November 2007: It sounds like your boyfriend has seen a few too many porns. Just tell him to use it in moderation, ANY guy should know better than to give his girlfriend (or any girl with the exception of a whore) a constant onslaught of "take it all in your mou... (read in full...)
A boy called me a bimbo. What does this mean?
Q. ok this may sound like a silly question but recently in my english class a boy said i was a "bimbo" what did he mean by this was he calling me a slag....
A. 22 November 2007: Bimbo is basically a word describing your stereotypical dumb chick, blondes mostly. Like Paris Hilton would be considered a bimbo. Next time he calls you a bimbo come up with some intellectual insult to get him back, it'll put him in his place... (read in full...)
My mom is involved with my friend - how do I react? They won't talk about it.
Q. hello i have a problem my mom is having sex with my friend and they both won't talk about it many times i caught him coming out of my house and many times i heard his voice in my mom room i don't know what to do i can't talk to mom and i can't ...
A. 16 November 2007: Tell your mother, that's wrong, and irresponsible as it gets.
Also, how can you still call that guy a friend? If I were you I'd beat him into next week.... (read in full...)
I love my bf but I don't know if he loves me too, I'm 12. Contemplating sex already...
Q. Hi i am 12 years old,I have this boyfriend that i love very much,but i dono if he love me too?and i was thinking of having sex with him help!...
A. 16 November 2007: I don't mean to come off as an asshole here, but there's no way you love your boyfriend, infatuated sure, but it's not love.
You're 12, you don't know what love is really, I'm 17 and I still debate if I'm old enough to fall in love with someone.... (read in full...)
Things will be weird between us.
Q. I like a guy alot, we joke around ant school and we seem to like eachover, the problem is i'm not sure whether he likes me or my friend, i want to ask him out but i'm worried he'll say no and things will be wierd between us...What should i do?...
A. 15 November 2007: Don't flat out ask him out, there's a chance he think you're just friends, be flirty, make it obvious you like him... If he shows interest towards you go for it.... (read in full...)
Does this girls like me or like flirting with me?
Q. There is this girl that I no and I think she likes me, but I really like her.How can I tell if she likes me? she always flirts with me but she says she likes someone else. But I was wondering if it is just because she does not want to admit she like...
A. 3 November 2007: I can't answer that for sure, but if she says she like someone else maybe she does.
Some girls are just overly flirtacious, and tease us guys to the point it's just cruel.
Sounds to me like she's just a flirty girl, but if you like her ask her... (read in full...)
Did he break my virginity with dry humping?
Q. I am a 13 yr old old virgin and have pledged to remain so until marriage. I recently had an intimate moment with my boyfriend. I sat on his lap while he kissed my neck but he had an erection and I felt his penis almost at the entrance of my vagina ...
A. 3 November 2007: Not a chance did you lose your virginity.... (read in full...)
Why cant he just be a calm normal person??
Q. Maybe a few people can help me out there... So my boyfriend and I have been together for um about 2 1/2 years on and off. We're complete opposites in a lot of ways, I was the young dumb party girl and he's more of the quiet-video game and car type...
A. 3 November 2007: He obviously has some anger issues, if he just goes off he probably can't help it, that's just who he is.
But I have to agree with you for feeling fed up with it, any guy who snaps on his girlfriend over something as ridiculous as her ruining ... (read in full...)
She bails without warning, Why does she act like this?
Q. Alright so I'm wondering what the deal with this girl is... Just about every weekend now for 5 weeks she's asked me to go out with her on the weekend, and every weekend she blows me off. We hooked up 5 weeks ago, and I hear she likes me, I lik...
A. 25 October 2007: Thanks for the advice, I think I'm just going to kick her to the curb.
As far as her friend being in on it and them playing me, I don't think that's the case, her friend and I are buds so she wouldn't f me over.
But as for the girl, I don't know... (read in full...)
Why are most of the guys I meet pervy?
Q. ok well heres the deal why are most of the guys i meet incredibaly pervy. Im 16 and most of the time i cant meet deccent guys. like one time i was walking thru my local uni campus and i got beeped at and then some guy came up to me and asked me ...
A. 24 October 2007: If you're going for older guys, like uni guys, they're going to expect sex. period.... (read in full...)
Am I just being paranoid or jealous?
Q. Do I have cause for concern here or am I just jealous? I started seeing a chick, and she has a ton of friends who're guys, and I always see myspace pictures of her drinking with these guys, and them having their arms around her and whatnot. ...
A. 5 October 2007: Thanks. She is a bit of a partier, but I couldn't tell her to calm down on the partying unless I practise what i preach. And I appreciate the comment about the girl I dated previously, I was a bit worried there.... (read in full...)
I love him, he loves me... But we can't see eachother. Help us!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have to hide our relationship and now his phone has gotten taken off of him because of his fathers suspicion. We used to speak all the time and this sudden barrier is torture for us, he told me tonight that he is depresse...
A. 2 October 2007: Did you guys meet online or something?
Why don't his folks want him to see you?... (read in full...)
I saw a text on my boyfriends phone saying another girl was "Hott" and I am pissed!
Q. My and I have been dating for two years. I recently just had a baby and i can honestly say i have let myself go a little. Well the qustion is i was looking through my boyfriends cell phone and saw that he had meet up with an old "friend" and text ...
A. 24 September 2007: it could just be a harmless compliment, i wouldnt lose any sleep over it if i were you.... (read in full...)
Reading her journal, I found out she has been with over 100 men, random men. I'm disgusted, don't know what to do.
Q. So I'm having a bit of an issue with my fiance's "loose morals" before we met. Why is this an issue now? Well, I stumbled upon her journals... I know, I made a mistake (trust me, I would have rather not known). So "A" and I have been togethe...
A. 23 September 2007: If I stumbled upon my girlfriends journal I too wouldprobably read it, its a sleezy thing to do, but curiosity gets the best of us.
So long as she isn't cheating on you, and all the men have been in the past, I think you should just let it go. A... (read in full...)
Pleasure or annoyance? Testicles touched in the middle of a handjob?
Q. i basically just want to know is it normal for a guy not to feel good when a woman is playing with his balls, in the middle of a handjob. I just dont get anything from it other than mild annoyance. I seem to be the only one out of my friends. Anyone ...
A. 23 September 2007: I get very uncomfy if a girl starts playing with my testi's.
I don't see how any guy could feel differently on the subject.... (read in full...)
I don't like other people looking at my gf.
Q. Hi There, Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year, and I have somewhat of a problem, I don't like other people looking at her and when I say this I mean for example she went to get fitted for a dress and had to stand in her bra and ...
A. 23 September 2007: I can see where you're coming from, when I go with a girl it drives me nuts when I see a guy checking her out. But its kind of hard to tell your gf not to wear such short skirts, it'll sound like you're saying she dresses like a whore. Atleast s... (read in full...)
To be in love with two people at once, is it possible?
Q. is it possible to be in love with two people at once? i know u can love two people at once, but can someone be in love with two peops at once? any opinions? my friends girlfriend recons she's torn b'cus she is inlove with two men. is it possible?...
A. 23 September 2007: Of course its possible. All that junk about soulmates and "the one" is nothing but a crock. There are over 6 billion people in the world, I'm pretty sure you can find at 2 of them to be in love with at once.... (read in full...)
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