To be in love with two people at once, is it possible?
Q. is it possible to be in love with two people at once? i know u can love two people at once, but can someone be in love with two peops at once? any opinions? my friends girlfriend recons she's torn b'cus she is inlove with two men. is it possible?...
A. 23 September 2007: Of course its possible. All that junk about soulmates and "the one" is nothing but a crock. There are over 6 billion people in the world, I'm pretty sure you can find at 2 of them to be in love with at once.... (read in full...)
Can someone who is in love cheat on you?
Q. my byf cheated on my but says it was a mistake and he really loves me. I wont take him back. Is it possible that someone who is in love with you could cheat on u? i reckon he's lieing about his feelings cus the other girl didnt want him in the end. ...
A. 23 September 2007: I don't know your situation so I can't give a definate answer, but I'd say no. Cheating on someone is the ultimate slap in the face, I'd never cheat on anyone, and most guys/girls I know who do cheat are in it for lust not love and don't much car... (read in full...)
Wondering if a good friend of mine is gay.
Q. Alright, so I'm just wondering here if a good friend of mine is gay, I'll try and make this breif... He's been going with a girl for a couple weeks, and he tells us (the guys he hangs with) that he's doing stuff with her... But the other night ...
A. 23 September 2007: Thanks for all the answers, but I'll clear up a couple things. 1. He isn't shy, in fact he's one of the most outgoing guys that I've ever met. 2. To answer the person who asked if the girl was attractive, yeah she is, very. 3. Someone aske... (read in full...)
I think I've got a drug problem does anyone have any advice?
Q. i dont even no if this is relevent most questions on here are about relationships, but i think i have a serious problem and need help. ever scince i was 13 iv took extacy pills on most weekends. every weekend i would up my dose to see how bigg my ...
A. 12 September 2007: E is the most unreliable drugs in the world.
It's laced 95% of the time, alot of the time it's laced with meth, and occasionally some really weird shit like Ketamine(prescribed for dogs and cats with kidney problems) goes into it.
Lay of th... (read in full...)
Got very drunk and woke up in his bed: what are the early signs of pregnancy, and two, was I raped?
Q. Hi... I am in a very frightening situation some people may have been in before. I was recently living with this guy whom I've met at my job, because he believed he could help me further with my education and help me out. I know I should not have, ...
A. 11 September 2007: I've never heard of someone being so drunk they don't remember a single thing. I drink a lot, and even had alcohol poisoning before, but I've never had a night where I woke up and didn't remember a single detail of what happened. Did he mix y... (read in full...)
What do men think about a women asking them out?
Q. I am 36, female and single. I got chatting to this great guy who's single and 38, i felt that he liked me. I then asked him out on a date and he said Yes. What do men think about a women asking them out? ...
A. 11 September 2007: If I like a woman and wasn't sure if she liked me or not, then surprised me by asking me out, I'd be pretty happy.... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of this creep?!
Q. *(Note -I come from a conservative part of the world, where marriages are still arranged!! Yes, Seriously!) There's this guy who happened to see my profile online, on a social networking site, and found me interesting. (We belong to the same comm...
A. 11 September 2007: If I really loved a girl I wouldn't simply give up without making an effort, however, if she told me flat out that she wanted nothing to do withme, I'd leave, even if it made me feel horrible.
Most guys would do the same.
Since that hasn't worke... (read in full...)
My bf told me he cheated on me w/ his ex after he gave me an STD! How will I move past this?
Q. Me and my bf have been together for 2 1/2 yrs. I moved here to be with him after a long distance relationship. We both have two kids from other relationships that we raise. His ex wife cheated on him and left yrs ago and has never wanted him back...
A. 11 September 2007: Its noble he told you, its not noble he cheated, and its really not noble he gave you an STD all because he decided to have fun on the side.
But I think he's sincearly sorry, I mean, you'd have to be a complete asshole to put your gf through ... (read in full...)
Does he want to end things with me and is trying to let me down gently?
Q. My boyfriend of 8 months recently told me he is depressed and that he wanted to get away from his friends, me, the city we live in (not together) and away from doing the same old things. He is a mature student and is due to start back at un...
A. 11 September 2007: Sounds to me like he may be trying to cut off contact for a while maybe he meant it when he said a break, ormaybe he's just done altogether, I don't think it was just depression, usually if someones depressed they want to spend time with loved ones ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated when he was drunk. Should I believe that he cant remember it?
Q. my boyfriend cheated on me when he was drunk and he cant remember anything, but she does. he cant remember finishing the deed and he usualy cant, so should i believe that he cant remember anything and cant remember finishing?...
A. 10 September 2007: Well, I don't know, he may not remember "finishing the deed" but if he hooked up with another woman, no matter how drunk he was, he'd remember. Is he an honest guy, or do you think he'd tell you what you want to hear and lead you on rather than fac... (read in full...)
I had a stupid one night stand when I was drunk! Will I get over feeling guilt and shame?
Q. I feel so guilty. I got totally drunk (never ever been that drunk before) that I can hardly remember anything of my night. But what I do know is that I have stupidly had a drunken one night stand! I cant believe I was so stupid- it is so out of ...
A. 10 September 2007: Anyone who has drank before or lived at all during high school/college can relate to you. I had the same thing happen to me once, I was downright smashed, ended uphooking up with a girl I never, ever had any intentions of doing anything with. ... (read in full...)
Is my guy gay or Bi??!!
Q. Help! Is my boyfriend gay, bi or what?? I started seeing someone 3 months ago ( I am female, he he a male). We are both in our late 30's. From Day 1, he told me has never been in love, while I, on the otherhand have been in love a few times in my ...
A. 10 September 2007: Well, late 30's sounds a bit late to be Bi curious, but it sounds believable to me. The only thing I don't get is, if he wanted to get off on gay pictures, why did he goto an online dating site for gays rather than a gay porn site? Doesn't really a... (read in full...)
Can my girlfriend get pregnant if I cum in her when she's on her period?
Q. Can my girlfriend get pregnant if i cum in her when she is on her period? and can she get pregnant if i cum in her behind?...
A. 10 September 2007: Yeah she can get pregnant from you cumming in her while shes on her period... As for the second question I don't even know how you could get the idea she could be pregnant from anal.... (read in full...)
Why is she acting this way since I told her how I felt? Did she reject me or was it a wrong impression?
Q. Please Please Help!!!!!!! I am really confused. This girl i like is driving me insane.We are both 16. We are friends and talk alot, but still, i dont want to ask her why she is acting the way she is. Last week, i told her that i really liked he...
A. 10 September 2007: I'd say ask her to the homecoming dance man. And as far as not hearing if she said she would go out with you or not, I have no idea. If she did say yes she may find it strange that you wanted to be left alone, but if she said no maybe she's havi... (read in full...)
I feel that he needs to give me something valuble materially to show me he cares
Q. I'm really in deep love with this guy, we know each other for only 4 months, but it just feels good.The problem is, that i put so much value on "material" things u know, maybe because im accustumed to it, and had linked them with love which i know ...
A. 10 September 2007: Well, if he's not willing to give his girlfriend any gifts or or anything that's something he needs to work on a bit. But if you think material items are that important you definatley need to work on that, I read your other post too and I think ... (read in full...)
I have been with my boyfriend for thirteen years. I recently feel as if I want to get married and start a family but he doesn't...
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for thirteen years. I recently feel as if I want to get married and start a family but he doesn't, I am unsure if I should call it a day or just carry on waiting....
A. 10 September 2007: Don't call it quits because he won't get married. He's been with you for 13 years, theres no reason he needs to marry you to show he loves you, thats ridiculous. Alot of guys are against marriage, personally I think its pretty silly and pointle... (read in full...)
I'm a student and he knows that my financical situation is unstable and he's got a well paid job.
Q. Is this the Austrian way of doing things or am I being foolish. I'm so confused, dating a guy for 3 months. Everything is okay. He text me sms me, not much callings but when I ask him to call he usually does. The problem is, when I'm home back got ...
A. 10 September 2007: He may like you, but he definatley sounds stingy.
Next time tellhim you're low on cash and can't afford the bill, you might not feel right doing it, but he shouldn't feel right taking your last few dollars because he's too dingy to pay a bill.... (read in full...)
I really like this guy and want to go out with him. Any advice on how to make this happen?
Q. Heller!! Well i liked this guy since last valentine's day and i let him know once. Since then he's seemed like a mystery. He reely quiet and doesn't say much. He smells reely reely good and that's a major turn on for me. I reely reely like him and i ...
A. 10 September 2007: If he got shy when he found out you liked him he's probably nervous, spark up conversations with him a bit, ask him to hangout, if all goes well ask him out.... (read in full...)
I cant seem to stop flirting with guys when I've been drinking. I'm scared I will do something silly when my guy isnt out with me. I think I just crave the attention?
Q. I cant seem to help myself from flirting with other guys when im out, even if my boyfriend is right beside me! its only when i have drink on me but im afraid to go out on my own incase i do something ill regret. like last weeknd, i almost got with ...
A. 10 September 2007: I'm the same way, when I'm drunk I flirt with EVERY girl I come in contact with. I don't do it for attention, its almost like a force of nature I just can't help it.
As a result I've ended up hooking up with some people I really never, ever wan... (read in full...)
We all played spin the bottle and I ended up having sex! Help!
Q. i had a birthday party yesterday, well it was my mums birthday party and all my family came and all my mums friends came. me and my cousin got very drunk and we went upstairs out of the way, we was playing spin the bottle and the things where gettin ...
A. 10 September 2007: Well in your defense, a persons judgement drops ridiculously when they're drunk.
But if I were you I'd just pretend I was too drunk to remember anything, and make sure not to make the same mistake twice.... (read in full...)
Should I chuck him or keep holding on and waiting for some miracle to occur?
Q. I'm 16 years old and have had the same boyfriend for about 1 year and a half. At first it was really lovely, and then it just went sour. We have our good days, but when it gets bad, like some stupid argument over who buys what, we shout and scream ...
A. 10 September 2007: He might not realize he's upsetting you so much when he goes off on you, you should atleast tell him if he doesn't stop you should leave him.
But dumping people without any warning in my opinion is a bit cruel, if he cares about you he'll take you ... (read in full...)
Why is he acting this way?
Q. Ok, this is going to be complicated. I went out with this boy for 3 months, and I broke up with him because he wasnt putting any effort into the relationship, at all. It was always me phoning and seeing him etc. Anyway, we were good mates for w...
A. 10 September 2007: Well he might think you don't like him because you broke up with him, when my first gf dumped me I stopped talking to her because I assumed if she didn't want to be with me she didn't like me.
But as for him getting pissed because you held his... (read in full...)
Okay my problem is that I'm 14, and a freshman at high school and I'm terrified of sex.
Q. Okay my problem is that I'm 14, and a freshman at high school and I'm terrified of sex. I recently ended a relationship with my boyfriend, although he did not pressure me for sex I am constantly hearing girls my age losing their virginity. My sister ...
A. 10 September 2007: Well, if you don't want to have sex, don't, thats pretty simple. And when you do make sure he's using a condom. And as far as guys dumping you after 2 months if you don't have sex with them, that's not true, if he likes you he won't ditch you f... (read in full...)
I've been chatting with a much older woman via a dating site. Should we meet?
Q. Hello, I'm a 17 year old guy and have been chatting with a 41 year old woman via a dating site for a month or 2... We have recently swapped mobile numbers and we have started chatting regularly on MSN about causal day to day things... I reall...
A. 9 September 2007: Well 19 year old guys hook up with 40 year old women at bars all the time, so its not really that big a deal imo.
But as far as having a serious elationship, I think alot of people would really frown on that.
I'm 17 and if I started dating a 41 ... (read in full...)
He wants to date others but misses me when we're on a break...is all this worth it?
Q. Here is my problem...My boyfriend who I've been with for almost 5 months now is having feelings of wanting to date other people. He's had these feelings for a month or so and now we're taking a week "break". I miss him so much though, and for some ...
A. 9 September 2007: He's going to end up cheating on you and you'll feel like shit when he does, I don't think its worth it, tell him when he's committed to come back.... (read in full...)
I am 13 so, why do I want sex?
Q. yah i'm 13 i know sex isn't worth it in the end but i still want it for some reason any help...
A. 9 September 2007: The average age to lose your virginity is 16-17, 13 is pretty young man, you probably arn't even close to finishing puberty, I'd say wait a couple years bro.... (read in full...)
He's 24 and I'm 17 and wants to meet up. Is this too big an age gap?
Q. I meet a guy a month ago..who's 24 i dont think he realised how old i was ( 17) when he came over started talking to me and asked for my number, i wasnt sure of his age either. A few weeks ago he added me on facebook and he saw how old i...
A. 9 September 2007: Some people might take shots at you about the age gap, but who cares right?
On the other hand, I think he just plans on getting you drunk and hooking up with you, most guys that want a relationship wouldn't be so obvious.... (read in full...)
Why do I keep having these fantasies about having sex with a DOG?
Q. Hello everyone. I am 19 a 19 year old college girl. I have a pretty good sex life, but lately I have found myself masturbating more and fantasizing about k9. I swear to you I have never done it and have not even touched a dog down there, I don't ...
A. 9 September 2007: Did you seriously just ask if wanting to have sex with a dog is normal? I try to be mature with my answers here but that is flat out ridiculous.
You DEFINATLEY need to get some help about that, professional help, telling your average Joe about havi... (read in full...)
Should I leave my alcoholic partner?
Q. Should i leave my alcoholic partner? He's ok through the week but at weekends he starts drinking as soon as he gets up and so is back in bed by lunch time. He gets up at tea time and starts drinking again then he's in bed again before our one year ...
A. 9 September 2007: Don't just dump the guy because he drinks on the weekends, thats a bit harsh don't you think? At least ask him to stop before you toss him aside, tell him its you or the booze.... (read in full...)
My man keeps having mood swings
Q. he loves me just as much as ever and weve been dating a long time but recently he keeps having these horrible mood swings and im worried about him because of family and school i havent seen him in about 2 weeks which is hard for us he doesnt like ...
A. 7 September 2007: Ask him what he's bummed out about, just do it in a nice way, that should work.... (read in full...)
I am worried that my boyfriend might be straight!
Q. Okay this is a bit of a reversal of the usual concern however I am worried that my boyfriend might be straight. I know 100% that he loves me, and I get plenty of I love yous, hugs, holds and quick kisses. When it comes to sex he has been heavily ...
A. 7 September 2007: I know of a guy who was gay for bit, and just snapped out of it, guess he had a phase.
I'm straight so I don't really know a thing about gay relationships man, but sounds to me like he's not too big on the whole gay sex thing, if he's on bottom that... (read in full...)
So I'm asking always should I tell her my feelings on internet or wait till she comes to me?
Q. Well I have this question, please help me with it. I met this girl at a party, we had spent a very nice time together as friends, nothing special, but the problem was that she lives in a another country, so we kept in touch by e-mails, sometimes ...
A. 7 September 2007: I'm fairly shy in person, but I can be as outgoing as possible online, so i can kind of relate to you there... And I would say you should DEFINITELY wait for her to come to you. Man just think, if shes coming from another country to visit you, I ... (read in full...)
I upset my boyfriend because I told him I'm scarred of where he lives. What should I do?
Q. i really upset my bf to the point he cried i was telling him on the phone about something that happened in his area (a girl was killed coz she was a goth) and said im scared to go to his. he then started going on about me toughing up and how i need ...
A. 7 September 2007: He's probably scared you won't come see him now. If he'd fight to the death for you, then you not liking the area he lives in won't change his opinion of you any. Just apoligize to him, or tell him you got to thinking and the area isn't all that ... (read in full...)
I have a big confidence problem because of the size of my penis...
Q. Hello... I have a big confidence problem because of the size of my penis. I know it sounds stupid, But I am a young teenager, and I have a very small penis. It majorly affects my confidence and I can hardly even talk to people now without being...
A. 7 September 2007: I was the exact same way man. To date I'm between 5.5 and 6 inches, which is fairly normal. But I hit puberty late so when I was 13 I had a pathetically small penis.
On the up side you can just wait it out for a couple years and it will work its... (read in full...)
I keep crying because I have really really low self esteem and I just feel really ugly and rejected and basically a mess.
Q. I'm really confused right now. I started a job 3 months ago and met this guy called Dan through one of the people at work. We became friends and about a month ago he kissed me and told me he liked me. I was a bit unsure at first because he's a bit ...
A. 7 September 2007: I had the same thing happen with a girl I was seeing, I feel like shit since then so I can see where you are coming from.
Most guys don't do this, alot of guys are just looking to hit it and quit it, but most of them won't let on they really l... (read in full...)
Will the size of my manhood affect having children?
Q. My manhood size is 3 cm , when i be hot becomes 10 cm , i am 26 old , i want to know if i can get kids or not....
A. 27 August 2007: If it's big enough to use it to masturbate it'll work. Penis size doesn't affect sperm count at all I don't think.... (read in full...)
I was abused as a child. Am i still a virgin?
Q. hi guys pleas help me! im not sure if im a virgin when i was a little girl a guy of my age did touch me alot of time. i think it happened once that he did put his finger in me. now today im 21 and i have a bf i dont want to have sex no. i want to ...
A. 27 August 2007: Unless he actually had intercourse with you you're a virgin. If he put his finger in you than you are still a virgin.... (read in full...)
We want to move in together but my family are saying they will dissown me. What should i do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for ten months now (I am 18 and he is 19). Our one year anniversary is on my 19th birthday. Anyway; we are so in love, so incredibly in tune with eachother, and so respectful and caring of the other. He is ...
A. 27 August 2007: Move in with your boyfriend for sure. You're a grown woman, your parents are going to need to realize that... They can't threaten to dissown you because you're growing up, you need to tell them that.... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and due to have a baby in 8 months. Have i still got a good future?
Q. I am sixteen years old and i am going to be having a baby in 8 months. can i still have a good future ahead for me and my baby?...
A. 26 August 2007: Kind of depends, if you can get help taking care of the baby to finish getting educated and whatnot... definatley. That's pretty much all the advice I have, wasn't much but good luck though.... (read in full...)
Why do people call me ugly????
Q. People always call me ugly every single day,either that or they ignore me or are really nasty to me.I personally don't think I am ugly(I don't think I'm beautiful but I would definatly say I am attractive at the least) but no one else seems to think ...
A. 26 August 2007: Well, if you want to know if you're ugly you could always goto Hot or Not, they don't know you so you'll be judged 100% on looks. Being shy is whats causing you problems, I never go for shy girls, I'm somewhat shy myself so I don't know why, ... (read in full...)
We havent gone past first base and my mates think i should dump her, how long do we wait before moving on from kissing?
Q. Ive been going out with this girl for about 6 months now, we're roughly the same age and we still havent really got past the kissing and hugging stage. my freinds keep asking me "how far have you got" etc.. and when i tell them they tell me to dump ...
A. 26 August 2007: You need to bust a move and try to get a bit further. I'd be annoyed too if I was dating a girl for 6 months and hadn't gotten past kissing.
Are you just freezing up or something? maybe try and ease your way down to finger her, but ask if she's read... (read in full...)
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