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Should i contact him?

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Question - (25 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hi,

Happened to know this guy 2 years ago, never meet before, just contact via text, but lost in touch very long, recently he contacted me again and asked me out for dinner.

He seems nice and friendly, a humourous guy, throughout the whole night, he joke and laughed a lot and I enjoyed his companion too.

However, he didn't send me home, he got car, he asked me are you going home by taking subway?

He didn't text me the next day, can i assume that he don't really interested in me, but he seems happy throughout the whole night,am puzzled? Should I move on and forget about this guy, or should I text him? btw he is still single and he is a good catch.

Please advise

Thank you

Dez girl

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007):

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Dear guys,

Thank you for your advice.

My reply to jm81690 - He sent me to the subway station by walking and then we aparted.

Im pretty sure that he isn't keen on me, I have sent him a text yesterday (junk text), already more than 24 hrs he didn't respond to it, apparently he isn't interest to keep the friendship or so, he told me for the past 10 years he was very much occupied with work, not much of social life, currently he got a new job, more time to social around, i presume he is taking his time to "look around" to find his ideal girl, he is at his mid-30,he must be firm and fast with his choice, apprently im not his cup of tea.

Once again thank you guys, I will be alright and move on!!

From Sender, Dez girl :)

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A male reader, jm81690 Canada +, writes (25 August 2007):

jm81690 agony auntHe just got into his car and drove away?

Maybe he was just really nervous. Or he might not have been on any or many dates prior.

But if you say he's nie I'm pretty sure even if he wasn't interested he'd have the courtesy to drive you home. So I doubt him not being interested for be the reason.

Give him a call or something, thats the only advice I can give really.

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A female reader, 15 and worried Canada +, writes (25 August 2007):

Hey don't worry about it i think you should text him and let him know what's on your mind. Maybe he didn't want to take you home because maybe he didn't want to have the chance to kiss you so soon(or anything else for that matter) because if you've been talking to him for 2 years and never met then obviously he's a slow mover. Maybe if you went on a few more dates he'd losen up a little bit.

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