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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, i'll just get straight to the point, my boyffriend fingered me and i didnt get any pleasure at all from it, im a virgin too, also i started to bleed a little. Is this normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (11 February 2007):
It wasnt pleasureable for me at first either. You have just got to find what is good for you. If he fingers you and gives you oral sex at the same time, you might enjoy it more. Message me if you want to.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2007): i agree. the sad truth is alot of guys are ignorant about how to please a woman. especially young inexperienced ones such as your boyfriend. the good news is though that you can teach him. as previous answers hav said, you do need to know how to do it for yourself before you can explain or show him, which im sure wil be fun for you too.
on the bleeding front, yeah its normal, more than likely wont happen again tho and things will start to get better.
yeah female orgasms arent necessary, i do know that, yet somehow your rewarded by getting bigger, better ones than guys. and different types too.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (11 February 2007):
 The bleeding is normal because your boyfriend broke your hymen which is a thin piece of skin that covers the entrance to your vagina. Also you're probably not used to having fingers in there so it was bound to hurt a little the first time. I'm guessing your guy is roughly your age and equally inexperienced right? I think pleasing a girl must be harder than pleasing a guy because with a guy there's no real way to do it wrong. Do you know how to please yourself? If so show your boyfriend how to make you feel good and if you don't get practising a bit. Until you know how to make yourself feel good you can't expect anyone else to make you feel good you know? Hope this helps.
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (10 February 2007):
 Yes because you are a virgin your hymen broke and because of that you bled. It is perfectly normal. Alot of women do not orgasm from penetration alone and that is probbaly why you did not feel any pleasure from him fingering you.
You see, the female orgasm is not necessary for reproduction and that is why women don't orgasm as easily as men. (Or so I've read in Cosmo magazine). It makes sense really when you think about it. But you are normal, nothing is wrong with you, you are not alone in this, many other women can relate. So don't worry about it.
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