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How can I tell if this girl really wants to go out with me? I don't want her to accept a date w/ me just to spare my feelings!

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Question - (4 June 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 June 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i have been told to meet this girl i asked to meet after the exams. i really like her. shall i ask first after the exams? any hints or tips to catch if she dont wanna go. i dont want to push her but i realize girls have a hard time sayin no as they dont wanna hurt me. but i'd rather prefer a yes or no rather than leading me on.

is there a way to stop bein lead on the thinkin they wanna meet. i'm not sure if it's just me or what?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2007):

well you first have to try to flirt with her. then flirt for like 2 weeks and then ask her out. then seduce her.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (4 June 2007):

kenny agony auntI don't think she will lead you on, if she wants to go out with you she will, if she doesen't she will decline your offer and say she is doing something.

If we don't ask in this life we don't get, so the only way you are ever going to know is to ask her. If she says yes then all well and good. But if she declines don't despair there are alot of girls out there who im sure would love to date you.

Good luck

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (4 June 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntAsk her, if she says yes because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings you'll find out on the date. What have you got to lose? Most girls will say no if they don't want to go out with someone or will give some lame excuse like "that's my night to wash my hair" or "I promised Granny to take her to the movies" something along those lines. Go for it, Buddy!

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A female reader, i might be a girl but i can help United Kingdom +, writes (4 June 2007):

i might be a girl but i can help agony aunteven if its not a date go out anyway. go out as friends talk get to know eachother than see what happens. if ur scared that they are stringing u along do it that way. i hope it goes well for u x

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