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I'm 14 and going out with a 22-year old. He thinks I'm 16, what should I do?

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Question - (12 May 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *asha212 writes:

hiya im 14 but im going out with a 22 year old and he thinks im 16 what can i do and i reali like him hes diffrent i no everyone says it but ? help please

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A female reader, i might be a girl but i can help United Kingdom +, writes (31 May 2007):

i might be a girl but i can help agony aunti think u should tell him ur age yes it might ruin everythin u have, but its right to tell ur age. we can only give uadvic wot u do is up u.

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A female reader, Just a Girl... United Kingdom +, writes (16 May 2007):

Just a Girl... agony aunthuni u have to be honest!! how can your relationship go anyware if theres lies?? im 16 n my bf is 15, im doin my gcses n am glad i was honest with him because i thought hed hav a problem with that.

Babe i knw its wat every1 says but, lying aint gunna get you knw where! you have to explain that you lied n face watever happens. if he doesnt wana go any further then you have to face that huni.

gud luck huni xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2007):

Even at 16, you are too young to date a 22 year old. Tell him the truth, he could get in trouble and so could you....why are you so hung up on dating an older guy?

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A male reader, josh123 United Kingdom +, writes (13 May 2007):

u hav put both urself and him in a very difficult position. It will b even worse if u hav had sex. u realy need 2 tell him 4 the gud of ur relationship, he may understand, but u realy shudnt b seeing a 22 year old, love or nt, its wrong. the best thing to do is just speak 2 him

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (13 May 2007):

love-him agony auntwel chick uv got urself into a muddl ere avnt ya lol, babe wat r u gona do wen he thinks ur leavin school suposed 2 be doin ur GCSEs now like me (im 16) =] darlin, best thing to do is explain to him, your not 16, you are realy 14 and you hope that doesnt change things, chances are it will, because of your age but if it does then move on, and maybe in the future when you are older you can get back together? i hope i helped chick, mail me if u wan 2 x x x

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