Age difference poll.
Q. im starting a poll to see the age gaps in relationships from ages 14 - 16 e.g. im 14 i went out with a girl tht was 13......
A. 16 April 2010: Throughout life, I have always dated older women. When I was a senior in H.S. my g/f was 24 (7 years older). My wife is the only younger person I have even been with (I am 9 months older). I will be with her till I die.
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How many white guys find Indian women a turn on?
Q. I am an Indian Girl. I have always been attracted to White Guys. This is kind of a poll question. How many white guys find Indian women a turn on? Is the dark skin a turn off?...
A. 15 April 2010: Indian woman are hot. Confidence is hot too. Skin color makes no difference to me.
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There's only one problem..
Q. I have been married for five years now. My husband and I recently separated and now he wants me back. The problem is he sucks in bed. I have been enjoying my sex life, which I haven't in the last past three years. My husband was decent in bed at ...
A. 15 April 2010: How about letting him get a head start. Either with a hand job, oral, or masterbation. Wait about an hour and then go for some intercourse. This might help with the premature ejaculation.
I wouldn't throw in the towel on the marriage because ... (read in full...)
Condom isn't working properly?
Q. My boyfriend and I use a condom every time that we have sex, but there is always secretion at the base of the penis that looks like semen. i have looked it up online and some people have said that it is just white vaginal fluid, but it is identical ...
A. 15 April 2010: 100% vaginal fluid. My wife secreets a milky white fuild. Is is 100% harmless.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
To shave or not to shave?
Q. I feel like this is a ridiculous question to ask but I really don't know how to go about my situation. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and everything has been great. He treats me very well and I'm very happy. Our sex life is ...
A. 15 April 2010: Let it grow a bit, without cluing him in on what you are doing. Judge his reaction. And then decide.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
Sick of this pain in the neck!
Q. Hi, i cant actually remember when this problem first started but ive had enough of the pain. Ive always had problems with my neck, it does crack if its really that stiff which isnt painful but im forever moving my neck from side to side because its ...
A. 15 April 2010: You need to see a specialist. How about an orthopedic surgeon or a nuero surgeon. They will be able to rule out a more serious problem like a disc problem of a pinched nerve.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
Is he up to something if it took him 2 months to kiss me?
Q. What do you think?? is my boyfriend up to something bad? my bf is really sweet.it took him 2months to kiss me..we'd hang out cuddle, hold hands but he didn't make a move to kiss me. i asked him why it took him that long cos most guys would just jum...
A. 15 April 2010: I think you have found a gentlemen. Good for you.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
Sex text tips needed.
Q. im in a fairly new relationship and would like to try sex texting but iv never done it before and im not even sure what kind of things to put dowm.. any tips?...
A. 15 April 2010: Don't send any pictures of yourself that you wouldn't want the entire world to see. Once it is sexted, you have to assume that if or when the relationship is over, this will be rebroadcasted.
But on another note, since you are of age, I see noth... (read in full...)
Passing gas
Q. is it awkward to fart in front of your boyfriend? Does it turn them off?...
A. 13 April 2010: 100% turnoff for me. I have been married for 7 years to the girl of my dreams. I pray that we will never be that comfortable around each other. Mabe i am old-fashioned. Good Luck! Jeff... (read in full...)
Is sex more than once a month too much to ask?
Q. I am 31 years old and have been married for almost 4 years. We have sex almost every month. I don't want to sound like a pervert but i started masturbating when my husband is not home which is most of the time since he's a truck driver. I know i ...
A. 7 April 2010: No, you are not asking for too much. If he isn't in the mood when he comes home, get him in the mood. Here is so ideas:
Shower with him.
Sexy Lingerie.
Massage.
Candle lit dinner.
Love is a two way street. If he isn't listening, show him... (read in full...)
Should I marry my friend to save him from deportation?
Q. Okay this is super complicated. My best friends and I were a trio, and one of them needed a way to stay in the USA because he was at risk of being deported. At first I agreed to marry him, but then my parents wouldn't allow me to go through with it ...
A. 7 April 2010: Don't marry him to just keep him from being deported because if it is ever found out, you risk jail. If you love him, and he loves you marry him. If not, you have to let him go.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
I lied to him about my breasts, but if I tell him the truth I'm scared he'll think I'm deformed!
Q. Hi all, I recently ran into a problem with my boyfriend. When we first started having sex I would always wear my shirt, and he always wondered why. Well, one night we started drinking pretty heavily, and my inhibitions flew out the window, and he ...
A. 5 April 2010: I would bet bottom dollar that your B/F cares less about your inverted nipples. Telling him the truth would not change his opinion of you or your breasts. We are all different and all have something about our bodies we would like to change. Even ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I am over reacting or how to deal with older work colleague
Q. I met a man at work, who is married and older. I think we are just friends, and he has made statements saying that we are friends. But sometimes he does things that makes me feel like there's something more (and I don't want something more). For ...
A. 5 April 2010: This is not normal. You need to tell him where you stand in this relationship (friendship). The next time you are uncomfortable, let him know directly. Don't let there be a gray area. Only eat lunch with him if there are other coworkers going ... (read in full...)
I feel lonely and unloved in my marriage, but excited by LDR
Q. I have been married for 5 years now but i feel lonely and unloved my husband cant get an erection in the first two years he did try to get help with ths from the doctor but has given up on this he did try and fullfill me in other ways but i was left ...
A. 5 April 2010: Your long distant relationship (LDR) has an unfair advantage over your husband. All your LDR has to do is let you know what you want to hear. And since he is courting you, there is no doubt what he is saying to win your affection. Your husband on ... (read in full...)
He wants to still be in a relationship with me, but in separate houses
Q. my partner and I have lived together for 6 years, we had both my 2 and his 2 children living with us which put a strain on our relationship and led ti arguements. he left me abruptly 4 months ago, although we have continued seeing each other as ...
A. 5 April 2010: Are we talking adult children or under 18? If we are talking adult, the kids need to move out so that you two can get on with your lives. If they are under 18, his idea makes sense until they reach majority.
Good Luck!
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I'm Christian but I want to have sex.
Q. Hi. I'm 17 years old and im horny a lot. I masturbate once a day right before i go to bed. sometimes twice a day. I have never kissed a girl, gone out with a girl or had sex. :(...I am a Christian so i want to keep my purity until marriage but i ...
A. 4 April 2010: You need to talk to your Pastor. Thats why he is there. Don't give up your faith.
Good Luck!
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I want to learn about my hispanic boyfriends culture.
Q. Well,Im Guyanese and if you don't know where guyana is its in South America. Anyway I really like this Puerto Rican Guy he's so cute and he's really into me and he wants to go out with me,I agreed but I feel I know nothing about his culture. Well Im ...
A. 4 April 2010: The easiest way to learn about his culture is by spending time with him and his family. As long as you are open, I am quite sure his family will pick up on it and lead you. Ask a lot of questions and if you can, get close with his mom. She will ... (read in full...)
Can I use water to flush myself out after having unprotected sex?
Q. can i use water to flush myself out after having unprotected sex?...
A. 4 April 2010: You can, but it won't protect you from STDs or pregnancy. Get tested for baby and STDs, and then use this as a learning tool. Chances are, you are not pregnant or have an STD. But if you keep playing roulette with your body, you will eventually ... (read in full...)
Are areolae sometimes not brownish/reddish in color?
Q. Hi I'm 20 and I kind of have an embarassing problem with my body and it's really affecting my sex life. Most people have a brownish areola pigment at the nipple of their boob but I don't, and I've been dumped because of it. Is it not normal or am I ...
A. 3 April 2010: I agree with marieclaire, breasts and nipples come in all shapes and sizes. Nipples can be big, small, dark brown, pink, and even hairy. If this guy dumped you because of this, he is a loser. Your body is beautiful, learn to love it and embrace. ... (read in full...)
My breast size is affecting my self esteem. Any tips on how to make them bigger?
Q. My life is just crazy I guess. I have low self esteem very low I think I am so ugly. Everyone tells me Im beautiful and that I have a pretty smile and pretty eyes, I just don't believe. So I like this guy well love actually I have known him forever ...
A. 30 March 2010: Beleive it or not, most guys care less about the size of your breasts. If fact, some guys even prefer small breasts. People come in all shapes and sizes. Listen to your friends. Your low self esteem hurts your chances with guys way more than your ... (read in full...)
A much older married man says he loves me as well as his wife, how can this be?
Q. hi, i m a 25 yrs old acrective girl,my problem is that i m in love with a married man he is 43 yrs old.he has one child 14 yrs old.and his marrige is also love marrige.he loves her too much,but he saying he loves me too much also how can its ...
A. 30 March 2010: He wants his cake (marriage) and wants to eat it too (you). Right now he will say anything to string you along. If he really loved you or his wife, he wouldn't be cheating. Let this guy go. He is no good.
Good Luck!
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Can you give me one good reason why I shouldn't just dump him?
Q. I love this guy with all my heart; he's my first love, and every time I think about us breaking up I just start to cry. We began our relationship online in 2008, but since he and I were both under 18 and living on opposite sides of the country, we ...
A. 30 March 2010: No I can't give you one good reason why you shouldn't dump this guy, but I can give you a million why you should. Sweetie, this is not the star you need to hitch your wagon to. Move on. He's a loser.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
He says he wont divorce her because I wont put his name on my house
Q. I have been with my partner for 4 years now and we have a 2 year old son that he never wanted, took me to the abortion clinic 11 times but each time i could not go ahead with it because i wanted it and he ended up leaving me but came back. I have ...
A. 30 March 2010: If he needs a reason to end it with his ex, you need to let this guy go. Do not put him on your home. His actions over the year are not worthy. Let him go. You seem like you have your life together, except your BF is holding you back. Move on. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband about what happened when I was a child?
Q. Hi everyone when i was a little girl at the age 8/9 my big brother have sex with me i am not sure and can't remember what happen now the i am married and its in my mind. do u all think i should tell my husband about it. i feel so bad...what shou...
A. 27 March 2010: Do not tell your husband. If you have forgiven your brother, let it go. There is no good that you come from you telling your husband. If still might need counseling. But don't tell your husband.
Good Luck,
Jeff... (read in full...)
We've been working on our relationship but he still calls the woman he cheated with
Q. I need some much needed advice. I have been with my fiance' for 9 yrs now and engaged for 4yrs. We planned a trip to get married in florida in 2006. He is my rock, best friend, lover and I feel I am the same to him. About 3 weeks before we were to ...
A. 7 March 2010: You need to move on. He clearly (his actions) knows what he wants. I can see no good reason why he needs to stay in contact with this "other" woman except to keep his options open in case the relationship between the two of you falls through.
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I need to take things slower but he sees it as neglect
Q. My bf and I have been going out for 8 mos,I'm getting divorced (separated more than a yr ago) and I have a son.Well, we see each other 1-3 times a week and mostly all day Mondays, we txt about 100 txts daily between both of us, and I call every ...
A. 7 March 2010: You two are not teenagers anymore. Though I believe that he loves you, he seems overly klingy. Almost to the point like he is stalking you or simply just trying to control you. Maybe its insecurity, maybe he coming off a bad relationship, or ... (read in full...)
My parents have rules but my boyfriend thinks I am treated unfairly
Q. So I have a curfew. Tonight was my boyfriends birthday, so I went out. I told my parents I would be home by one, not knowing if that would happen or not. My boyfriend knows my parents are strict too, and that I had to be home. So, Im at the party ...
A. 7 March 2010: Its time for you to leave the nest. Like it or not, your parents need to understand that you are an adult. If they are unwilling to bend on the rules, it is probably time for you to get your own place. If you can not afford a place of your own, ... (read in full...)
I like my best friend and want to tell him before I move. How should I tell him?
Q. I'm moving soon, and I like my best friend. I want to tell him, but I don't know how he'll react and I don't want to ruin our relationship. People tease us about it, so I'm sure he knows that I like him. Should I tell him before I move or just write ...
A. 7 March 2010: Well, and am so glad you told him. If not, you might have wondered for the rest of your life. You seem like a confidant young lady, I am sure that you will have no problems finding your first love. Good Luck! Jeff... (read in full...)
Not a wimp but can't stand the teeth.
Q. ok my last post was about being insecure with the curve of my man hood.... the comments were very helpfull due to the fact I was about to be with this woman in bed you guys were right on she never made a mention of the curve my issue is that she ...
A. 27 February 2010: I would be willing to bet that all she wants to do is please you. So to insure that she is, you need to tell her what pleases you and what doesn't. She won't quit until you tell her exactly what your likes and dislikes are. Good luck! Jeff... (read in full...)
Pubic hair has to go. Any advice.
Q. Okay, I feel little bit embarrassed to ask this question but I`m not comfortable to talk with persons face to face about that. Here`s the thing: before I get into sexual activitys with my boyfriend I want to remove all of my pubic hair. I already ...
A. 25 February 2010: You are perfectly normal. The poeple at the salon will remove as little or as much hair as you like. Just remember, make sure you have the hair removed atleast a few days before you have sex. That area will be a little sore and possible swollen ... (read in full...)
I like my best friend and want to tell him before I move. How should I tell him?
Q. I'm moving soon, and I like my best friend. I want to tell him, but I don't know how he'll react and I don't want to ruin our relationship. People tease us about it, so I'm sure he knows that I like him. Should I tell him before I move or just write ...
A. 24 February 2010: Tell him. Why waste a chance and always wonder if he liked you back?
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
My friend keeps asking me if certain girls like him. How can I tell him I don't want to talk about it?
Q. My friend likes to ask me whenever I see him if so and so girl(s) like him. I keep telling him I don't know, and to go ask them himself. It seems that's what he's constantly talking about and it bothers me. I always change the subject and let it ...
A. 24 February 2010: I have a feeling that this guy likes you, but thinks that you are out of his league. The best thing to do if you don't like him that way, is to just keep telling him that you have no idea how the other girls feel about him. I you do like him, let ... (read in full...)
Can it really be true love at 14?
Q. I'm sure to myself that i'm in love with this guy, we've been together for a almost a year, we broke up once but got back together. So lately he's been having money problems and his mom just had a baby, and he's been sooo busy with everything, he ...
A. 24 February 2010: According to dictionary.com,
love [luhv] Show IPA noun, verb,loved, lov·ing.
–noun
1.
a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.
2.
a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or f... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend that his extra weight is killing our sex life?
Q. We've been friends for 3yrs, and recently hooked up. We've just completed 1yr together and expecting a child in 3mths. Along with my belly bump, he's gained weight. I'm normally 115lbs, 5'3, I know my belly will go after the baby's born(already a ...
A. 24 February 2010: Instead of telling him he look gross (I know you wouldn't tell him that), let him know that his weight concerns you. Tell him that obesity is taking over smoking as the number one killer in the world. Since baby is on the way, he needs to get in ... (read in full...)
On day 16 of my cycle, I took my pill a few hours late. Was that gap big enough for me to possibly end up pregnant?
Q. I started taking my BC pill--Ortho Tri Nessa--at the end of November '09. My BF and I started having sex in the 3rd week of January '10. At the end of January, my period was very light. When I was on this pill before, I never noticed any chan...
A. 24 February 2010: A few hours late on your pill did not increase your chances of getting pregnant. But remember, the pill is not 100% effective. Close to 99.9%, but not 100%.
Most people don't know, that in a 28-pill packet, 21 pills are taken, followed by week ... (read in full...)
I enjoyed our day of sex at the hotel despite both of us being in relationships, but now he has become distant. Was it just the thrill of the chase or did I not live up to his expectations?
Q. I am soooo confused! After a lot of flirting, sexting, and finally making out, I slept with my co-worker. He pursued me for a long time, I was supposedly this dream of something he could never attain. We spent an entire day together at a hotel. ...
A. 23 February 2010: You lived up to his expectations or he wouldn't have stuck around for the third orgasm. I wouldn't blame his inactions on his enjoyment on your day of "fun," trust me, he enjoyed himself. The only way to really know what is going on, is to ask ... (read in full...)
Can I wear the same jeans again for a third date or will it look bad?
Q. I am seeing a guy i met online for a 3rd time..he seems really open and interested..we met saturday night for a drink and then he offered to go to dinner and then we got another drink afterwards at a different place and then he drove me home..and he ...
A. 23 February 2010: As long as the conversation is good, he hasn't noticed what you are wearing. I would notice the shirt before I would notice the pants.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
Should I continue to pursue my dream in becoming a nurse, or just give it all up to save my marriage?
Q. I was in Nursing School, my husband's arguements stressed so much while I was in school that I failed and need to restart program. My husband says, that my dream "becoming a nurse" has doomed my marriage. Now I don't know if I should continue to ...
A. 22 February 2010: I don't know why you can't pursue your dream and strenthen your marriage. It doesn't have to be a this or that situation. You two really need counseling. If you don't have any children, make sure that you are using protection. Right now would be ... (read in full...)
Would it be appropriate to introduce him to some of my friends?
Q. I am in my mid thirties and dating again after divorce. A little on the rusty side when it comes to dating so hope you can help? I am in the early part of a new relationship with a great guy. We have just started spending the night at each others ...
A. 22 February 2010: I think that now is as good a time as ever to introduce you B/F to your friends. At the 5-6 week mark he is past the label "one night stand." I wouldn't introduce him to the parents just yet, but to the friends, I think it is a step in the right ... (read in full...)
He wants a naked picture, I am so nervous I feel I am going to puke!
Q. Okay, So this guy i have known for a couple of years, me and him have started talking... just today. and he said i had a nice body and wants a pic of me naked. i told him he probably wouldnt get it but he says that it would make him happy. should i...
A. 21 February 2010: Unless you are willing to have the whole world see you in the buff, don't ever give a BF a nakid picture. It takes but one second to post a picture on the internet, and once it is there, it is there forever.
Don't do it.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
I've been on the receiving end of a cheater!
Q. I'm open to hearing what you have to say about this. Have any of you ever had an affair, or had someone cheat on YOU yourself? If so, what was the outcome? For those having the affair, if it was found out and suddenly out in the open, which ...
A. 21 February 2010: The first thing you need to do is quite trying to rationalize the possibility that you are in some way at fault for this affair. You are the victim. As long as you BF/husband is willing to end the cheating, there is a chance for you and him to ... (read in full...)
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