A
female
age
41-50,
*uiltywife
writes:I am 31 years old and have been married for almost 4 years. We have sex almost every month. I don't want to sound like a pervert but i started masturbating when my husband is not home which is most of the time since he's a truck driver. I know i should understand that when he finally gets home he wants to rest an be with our kids but what about me? Do you think i am overreacting? I jave already tried to tell him my feelings but he thinks it is a way to pick a fight with him. God knows i have given him plenty of time. I dont want to be unhappy but i know he loves our children terribly but am a woman that needs attention too. Am i asking too much from him? Could this be enough reason to divorce him. Please help me i still love him nut am very unhappy.
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reader, Kenneth +, writes (7 April 2010):
When he comes back ....slam dunk him & get what you want.
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (7 April 2010):
 No, you are not asking for too much. If he isn't in the mood when he comes home, get him in the mood. Here is so ideas:
Shower with him.
Sexy Lingerie.
Massage.
Candle lit dinner.
Love is a two way street. If he isn't listening, show him. Show him how much you want and need him. Find out what his fantasys are. No three somes, but fantasys that involve you. Don't give up!
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (7 April 2010):
 No, most certainly not too much to ask.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 April 2010):
 You need to communicate your feelings to him. He may not be aware of how you felt. Don't be ashamed to tell him that you need affection from him too,just like your kids.
Some men are not aware of that or they take it for granted.I think you can overcome this problem without getting a divorce.
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