Age difference and a dying girl
Q. Now, I'm not the type of girl to fall head over heels for anyone! In fact, I'm a junior in high school and I've never dated before. I'm really happy about this too. Not just proud but happy. I love being by myself and see no use for high school ...
A. 29 January 2012: Date him. If you really like him, be upfront with him and give love a try. You can only play the cards you have in front of you. No more, and no less. Praying for you.... Jeff... (read in full...)
He's ok to do things when I"m on my period, I'm not!
Q. So me and my boyfriend were fooling around, having a good time, clothes on, and he went to put his hands in my pants, but I said no because I'm on my period, which I think is gross, and I thought he'd be grossed out when I told him, but he told me ...
A. 29 January 2012: Don't worry, he is perfectly normal (and so are you). As they say, "different strokes, for different folks." Some men don't mind and other do. But with that said, it's your body. If your not comfortable with sex during your period, let him ... (read in full...)
Should I try and work this out or just move on?
Q. hello good people. this is my situation. ive been dating a guy for 8 months now. he's in the army and got deployed a month after we started dating. Our relationship had such strong chemistry that i decided to wait on him till h comes bak in june. ...
A. 29 January 2012: From what I have read, I think you should give him another chance. (BTW, I am a Soldier currently in Afghanistan). Although he lied to you in the begining, he seems like he wants to clear the waters so that you two could possibly move forward in ... (read in full...)
I just get turned off by his double checking the condom
Q. Hi everyone, I didnt know who else to bring this up with so thought i'd see what other people on here think... Basically my partner and I are in a very loving relationship. We both want children and plan to start trying in ...
A. 29 January 2012: Have you all ever giving thought to other types of birth control (B/C)? Since you two are in a monogamous relationship and plan on starting a family in the future, why not try other realible B/C that might not be such mood killers. You have to re... (read in full...)
Other Non-Pregnancy Methods
Q. Hello everyone, I thank you for taking your time reading this, I was only wondering if there is any other way to prevent pregnancy other than condoms and birth control pills. I really appreciate it, thank you....
A. 14 November 2011: What ever method you pick, I suggest that you back it up with a condom just to be safe. Pregnancy sounds bad, but STDs can be fatal.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
Should I let him film us having sex?
Q. Ok,It would be extra helpful if some guys could answer this question,if you had a video of you and a girl having sex,would you show it to anybody-I've been seeing this guy and he's been knagging me to make a video with him for about a month now,he ...
A. 20 March 2011: Only make a video with him if you are ready for the whole world to see it.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
No orgasm from oral sex. Am I weird?
Q. I can't orgasm from oral sex! Only from masturbating can i do it. When my boyfriend uses his hands down there it feels good, I just think I haven't had an orgasm from that because I'm too nervous (performance anxiety) about NOT having an orgasm. So ...
A. 4 March 2011: It is always easier to please ones self than to be pleased. The reasons can be numerous.
1. When you touch yourself, you know exactly what you need for ultimate pleasure. Maybe a little firmer, maybe a little faster, or maybe a little to the l... (read in full...)
Are men really ok with small perfect breasts?
Q. my boyfriend is a boob guy.. i know that he loves boobs,..big boobs especially. Im about 34b. i lost a lot of weight and lost most of my breasts( i was 180lbs now im 125). they are perky, he tells me he loves my boobs but always comment's on boobs ...
A. 30 January 2011: If you get breats implants, get them for you, and not for him. I myself like breasts on the smaller side, but to each their own.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to call my boyfriend!
Q. Hi Recently i feel even scared to call my bf. He is often calling me names and ignoring me and even when i call him, after the call is over i always feel humiliated and even less secured in the relationship. He often says im needy and clingy, ...
A. 30 January 2011: If I were you, I wouldn't call him anymore. in fact, I wouldn't even answer his calls if he calls you. It is time for you to move on, and find someone that is able to recipocate your love.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and have a curfew of a 9 year old. Do I have a right to be upset?
Q. ok so i'm 17 years old. i live with my stepdad and stepsister. when my mom died 3 years ago i had to move back in with them. my stepdad never lets me do anything. go see friends, hang out, NOTHING. It's been this way since i moved back in. tonight i ...
A. 30 January 2011: So, long as you have never done anything to violate his trust, I think that is is time for you to talk to your father about this. Let him know how you feel.
Good luck!
Jeff
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Do I sound like I am a lesbian?
Q. So, I thought I was sure on my sexuality. But, lately I feel like I'm not a lesbian. Or I don't know where my feelings point to. Because I find both boys and girls attractive in 'that' way. But then again, lesbians aren't blind, and neither are ...
A. 26 January 2011: Maybe you are just haven't found out who you are yet. Just have fun! These are some of the greatest times in your life.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend's mother is jealous of me!
Q. My boyfriends mum is all over him in front of me. She calls him her gorgeous man. She is widowed but has a good social life. She is polite to me but she makes weird remarks which can be taken two ways such as 'hands off he's mine' and laughs. She ...
A. 26 January 2011: I would let it go. You are his GF, and she is his mother. It's a different type of relationship.
Just think of things this way. He had no choice who his mother would be, but he chose you to be his girlfriend. His mom is a tad annoying... (read in full...)
Big decision, do I sell my soul?
Q. im 21 years old and have found myself in a really terrible financial situation. I don't feel like explaining the whole story but I made some bad choices on who to trust. The only immediate job that is paying good is doing massages. Call me naive but ...
A. 25 January 2011: Stick to your morals. There are other ways to earn money. Do what feels right in your heart.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
Can I do anything to make twins more likely?
Q. Can you do any thing to make it more likely to have twins if your trying to get pregnant? Thanks for your time....
A. 25 January 2011: In vetro fertilization. In vitro fertilisation (IVF) is a process by which egg cells are fertilized by sperm outside the body, in vitro. The fertilized eggs are then put into your uterus to allow nature to take its course.
This is how octo-mom... (read in full...)
She's the girl of my dreams -- how to proceed?
Q. What happens now? I'm pretty sure I have met the girl of my dreams. It's taken me a while to find her, and I am extremely happy with how things have been going so far. Spending time with her is amazing, we cuddle and talk and we have made...
A. 21 January 2011: Just be yourself, and do whats natural. It seems like it is working up to this point in the relationship. Why change things now? Don't you want her to fall for the "real you?"
Good Luck!
Jeff ... (read in full...)
Is a condom enough?
Q. Hi I'm a Uni student who is a virgin and I've been dating this guy for a few months, and I really want to have sex with him but I'm scared to death of getting pregnant. If he uses a condom, do I really have that much to worry about?......
A. 13 January 2011: A condom alone is pretty good protection as long as he knows how to put it on, and changes it for another as soon as he ejaculates (if you two continue to have sex. If you would like extra protection, how about the pill?
The good thing about co... (read in full...)
After I get off birth control, how long does it take to get pregnant?
Q. ive been off the pill for around 2-3 month, i was just wondering how long it takes for an average 18-19 year old to get pregnant ? what are your experiences how long did it take you after the pill...
A. 11 January 2011: It really all depends. It could take a month or it could take years. My ex-wife and I decided to have a child after being married for 5 years. She had been using the pill for about 10 years. We had unprotected sex (regularly) for about 3 years ... (read in full...)
I'm so terrified of getting pregnant it's ruining my sex life
Q. Ever since i've become sexually active, (about 2 years) i have had a huge "phobia" i guess you could call it, of getting pregnant. I'm on birth control and take it like i'm supposed to but once i have the 7 day break to have my period, i get ex...
A. 8 January 2011: Add an extra layer of birth control (condom).
BTW, its good to see that you are thinking of the consequences.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
Going to finally meet the guy Iv been talking to online. Any pointers on what to expect??
Q. I got chatting to a guy I met on a social networking website in September last year, I was instantly taken in by his sense of humour and friendly nature. We continued contact and have since, got to know each other really well. I'm very cautious when ...
A. 8 January 2011: You say that you are 100% comfortable with him, and know tht he is a genuine guy, but let's face it, you are on this site because you are indeedhaving second thoughts.
My first suggestion is to meet at a location where there are many people a... (read in full...)
What's the longest you've been out of contact with your s/o?
Q. My girlfriend left the country for a week for school reasons and I will not be able to talk to her at all for until she is back. I didn't think I would miss her this much, she left last night so I miss her like crazy right now. How can I get this ...
A. 3 January 2011: As a Soldier, I have deployed (went to war) 3 times. Each time I was gone for one year.
If you had strong relationship before the seperation, it will remain strong. The old addage, "Absence will make the heart grow fonder" isn't really true if ... (read in full...)
Not sure if I'm satisfying her?
Q. I've only had sex with one girl and that's currently my wife, but she has other partners before me whom she had sexual intercourse with. I'm only curious to know if the whole penis size ordeal actually came from the porn industry or if its really ...
A. 3 January 2011: If you really want to know, ask her. If you really aren't measuring up (sorry for the pun), find out what you can do to satisfy her needs. Many women are unable to reach orgasm by intercourse alone. Foreplay could be the answer (if there is a ... (read in full...)
Does this make me a terrible girlfriend?
Q. My boyfriend is a "musician", or so he tries. I personally can't stand listening to him sing. I just don't have the heart to tell him that. Instead I suffer in silence. We haven't even been dating a year yet, and the noise is beginning to get under ...
A. 3 January 2011: I don't think that you are a terrible GF. In fact, I comment for stivking it out for as long as you have. Unless you start embrasing a life of music (as bad as it may be) you future together might not pan out.
I wish you the best of luck,
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She admitted to faking it! Should I forget about this?
Q. hello dear readers so i'm with my gf 1 year and 6 months...so everything is well. But...we were at a party this new year eve, so we drank a little bit as you all know...and we played a game truth all falls, so the questions were asked to my gf, and ...
A. 2 January 2011: No big deal. It shows she cares about you. She might have not been in the mood but felt she still wanted to please you.
Women and med are made differently when it comes to sex. Quit worrying about nothing.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
Am I too close to my best friend?
Q. My friend, who is a girl, and I are best friends. We are really close and I trust her with almost everything. We have sleepovers a lot and always sleep in same bed and cuddle. Is that wrong? sometimes we stay up all night just hugging or rubbing ...
A. 2 January 2011: If you are happy, and she is happy, who else do you need to please? You are close friends. I see nothing wrong with your relationship.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
Should I talk to him about my sex life (or lack of it) and about my views on my virginity?
Q. I'm seeing a guy who I met at the jive club I go to, he broke up with his ex-girlfriend of 6 years about 8 months ago and she's annoyingly self confident. I'm not. I'm a virgin and have little to no experience with guys. I'm concerned that if our ...
A. 2 January 2011: Without a doubt, you should put all the cards on the table and let your BF know where you stand on sex. You owe it to yourself.
I have a good feeling if he is as good person as you say he is, this shoud be a mute point in the relation... (read in full...)
If your girlfriend had only a single 2 minutes' sexual encounter before you were in her life,would you let that effect you?
Q. If you were a virgin before your gf and you knew that your gf only engaged in sex for a minute or two and realized it was wrong and stopped. And that was her only sexual encounter before you,would you let that effect you? I love my girlfriend but I ...
A. 31 December 2010: First is so overrated. I would rather be a persons best, rather than simply first any day.
Your feelings are normal, but it's how you handle them that will be your true test.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
Do you think it's possible that we're actually in love at such a young age?
Q. Hi(: Okay, as you all know adults and even other teens say when your in high school you think you're in love but you don't know what love is. Well, I've been with mmy boyfriend for almost 15 months now and honestly I can say I love him. I...
A. 31 December 2010: I remember my first love. And to this day, I still love her. Would I cheat on my wife with her? No. But I still love her.
With that said, I beleive that you are in "Love" with your BF.
Good Post Plexi :)
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
Should I let my BF go lower?
Q. My boyfriend wants to go lower(fingering and eating me out). But idk if i should ? I feel as he is rushing into things. ...
A. 31 December 2010: You should wait. You have a lifetime ahead of you. If you feel rushed, you probally are.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
Is it possible to wear a condom and then not know it has come off?
Q. This is a strange post but I can't stop thinking about it. I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. We get on well and have a good relationship. The other night he came around to mine and we ended up making love. Somehow the condom came ...
A. 31 December 2010: I've never had one come off, but I did bust the bottom out in one.
Heres my take, If you two were using extra lube, or you are extremely wet, I could see this as a possibly.
Think about it, If he was being sinister, I think he would have pu... (read in full...)
Do you think he has a tendency for homosexual games?? Or am I over-reacting?
Q. Dear friends, Your opinion is valuable and always taken into consideration. many thanks in advance!! I dont know how to write this in plain English. I have been dating this guy for three weeks. Even though i like him, i'm a bit skeptical about hi...
A. 31 December 2010: This is how I see it. You only have 3 weeks invested in this guy. If he is creeping you out, I say move on. If he is this open (sexually) in 3 weeks, I can only imagine what is in store down the road when you two are really comfortable with each ... (read in full...)
How long should you date before marriage?
Q. How long does anybody think they shoould be in a relationship before they ask to marry them? x...
A. 31 December 2010: Me and the first wife dated about 10 days before we married, and it lasted about 10 years. So I guess it just depends on the people involved.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
My boobs are small and I don't know what to do!
Q. Hello, i am 15 and i have small boobs. i am going on holiday in July with my boyfriend and his family and i am inbarased about them. I was shopping not that long ago with him and we were talking about bras and he asked what bra size i was and i ...
A. 30 December 2010: I have a feeling that your BF doesn't know the difference between a A or a B anyways. He chose you not because of your bra size but rather you as a person. If you are happy about who you are, he will follow suit.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
His mom walked in on us having sex!
Q. Hi. Im not gonna go round the houses with this, its embarrassing enough! My boyfriend and i (of 7 months) were taking advantage of his free house yesterday lunchtime ish. His mum unexpectedly arrived home early and caught us having rather heavy sex, ...
A. 30 December 2010: I have a feeling that she is more embarrassed than you were. Find a new place to hook up with the BF and treat mum as if nothing happen. I am sure she will be releived with this solution.
Good luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
Is my ex-teacher crossing a line with our friendship?
Q. So.., this is a little longer than I intended, haha, sorry. I left Junior High just this summer and am now in grade ten (Grade ten...eep!). Anyway, there's this teacher at my old school who is, in every way possible, perfect. Now, I know that soun...
A. 30 December 2010: This is really tough to answer. If you are really uncomfortable with him, I suggest that you just stay away. Err on the side of caution, for the sake of your own well-being.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
Why do I pee during sex???
Q. My boyfriend and I have a great relationship and a great sex life. We talk about everything and are very comfortable with each other. During sex, I usually come a lot, and again and again but lately I've been having trouble coming during sex. It's ...
A. 30 December 2010: I don't think you are peeing. Some women do produce a natural sex fluid – particularly at the point of orgasm. If it really bothers you, discuss it with a doctor.
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to go out with my ex's best mate? Or should I wait a bit?
Q. i'm in bit of a pickle! I recently finished with my bf about a month ago. He says that he still loves me and askes for another chance but i don't love him back. But here's the thing, two weeks ago one of his best mates said that he fancies me and if ...
A. 30 December 2010: Bad idea. There really are a billion men on this Earth, you can't be attracted only to your ex's BF. Do youself a favor, a find love else where.
How would you feel if your ex fancied your BF?
Good Luck!
Jeff... (read in full...)
How to talk to a grieving friend?
Q. Hi everyone, My friend's dad died a couple of months ago and I am seeing her for the first time in a few days. I'm lucky in that I've never had to deal with a death of a loved one so close so I'm not sure what are the best things to say are? I...
A. 30 December 2010: Tell her that you are sorry for her loss, and if she would like to talk about it, you are there for her.
Everyone handles "death" differently. When my mom suddenly died, I was lost for about a year. It wasn't until a month after the funeral ... (read in full...)
He wants me to stop taking birth control and see what happens!
Q. I am 27 and am in a new relationship of 3 months with my boyfriend who is 26. We have known each other for years, hanging out with mutual friends every now and again through that time. I have always had something for him this whole time but whenever ...
A. 30 December 2010: If you quit taking birth control and continue to have sex, I think we both know what will happen. Until you two commit to one another (exchange wedding vows) I think you better stay on the birth control.
I have a feeling that if you both really "... (read in full...)
Love and bills.
Q. Hello, I'm in a relationship with a man who loves me and knows about my past. However, I have big financial woes (he knows about that too). I've almost 30 thousand dollars of debt in credit cards and personal loans. I'm embarrassed by i...
A. 28 December 2010: You need to talk to a credit counselor. There are may out there that provide FREE help. They might be able to help re-nagotiate your debt with your creditors. It's still bad on your credit report, but it is still better than a bankurptcy. You ... (read in full...)
Should I wear the promise ring like an engagement ring?
Q. I'm a bit confused. For Christmas my boyfriend got me a Promise ring. I'm not confused about that, I'm very happy about it actually! It's just that we are young and I want to wear it on my ring finger because it's basically a promise to get ...
A. 28 December 2010: Nope. Wear it on a chain. Only a engagement ring should be worn on your left ring finger. Good Luck! Jeff... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to get married again. Is this a deal breaker?
Q. my boyfriend is going through a divorce and experienced a bad relationship. He feels as if the marriage ruined it. He told me he cannot see himself ever marrying again. Ever since I was a little girl i have always wanted to be happily married. ...
A. 28 December 2010: I said the same thing to my now wife (7 years married now). So just because he is saying no now, doesn't mean that he won't have a change of heart. Since he is just getting out of a relationship, I would be more worried if he was willing to g... (read in full...)
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