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writes:Hi all, I recently ran into a problem with my boyfriend. When we first started having sex I would always wear my shirt, and he always wondered why. Well, one night we started drinking pretty heavily, and my inhibitions flew out the window, and he saw my breasts. I have inverted nipples, and when he saw them he said no big deal, but I was so embarrassed that I lied and told him that it had happened during an accident where I had nipple rings and they got ripped out (complete lie), but I don't know how to tell him the truth....I feel like if he knows that it's just me being deformed, he'll not love me anymore :( Please Help me!!!!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 Here is another link which may interest you about the massage techniques .
http://www.beauty2morrow.com/breast/nipple.htm
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (5 April 2010):
Inverted nipples are quite common in some women as well as some men .It is not a deformity .
There are ways to get rid of inverted nipples. You could use those breast pumps to suck it out.
If you can afford it , you can have plastic surgery. Another technique is nipple piercing.Other methods are “Breast Shells” and” Hoffman Method.”
Some inverted nipples can come out when massaged or when cold.
reference;-
http://news.about-knowledge.com/inverted-nipples/
http://www.storknet.com/cubbies/breast/AS-flatinverted.htm
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (5 April 2010):
 I would bet bottom dollar that your B/F cares less about your inverted nipples. Telling him the truth would not change his opinion of you or your breasts. We are all different and all have something about our bodies we would like to change. Even celebrities aren't 100% satisfied.
Embrace your body. We are all different.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): We all come in different shapes and sizes, so if he loves you for you it shouldn't matter. He can suck on them to make them come out or use an ice cube to make them stick out. Also if lower the temperature in the house and are cold, this might also help. If you turn it into something sexy and fun, your bf will enjoy this and it won't matter what your nipples look like. Embrace and love yourself- many women have this and it is perfectly normal.
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reader, advice angel  +, writes (4 April 2010):
 he wont think your deformed!!!
if he loves you,he wont care what you look like or he shouldnt,he loves you for you!
no bodys perfect,everyone has there ups and downs,hes probably got his,just tell him the truth
you should never lie in a relationship x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2010): my mum has had inverted nipples since she was a young teen however no one she has has met has ever minded them - she has being married 5 times and in several relationships. She never met a guy put off by them but she also said its about your confidence - regardless of what you got, if you got the guts to be proud and not let it bother you then it won't bother any one else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2010): Who cares, just don't even bring it up again and I doubt he will. Inverted nips isn't a big deal! He's just happy to see boobs! If you don't make a big deal out of it, I guarantee he won't either.
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (4 April 2010):
 If his feelings for you change because of this then he's really shallow and not worth it in the first place. I highly doubt it will affect his feelings anyway. He might be a little disappointed that you lied but I'm sure he'll forgive you as he'll know you lied because you were embarrassed. Go ahead and tell him, it'll all be fine =]
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reader, Babeebriony +, writes (4 April 2010):
Well if you love him then i would just be truthful and he will think that you respect him alot more if you tell him the truth and if you tell him the turth and he stroms and shouts then he anit worth it x
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reader, ChristineAvril +, writes (4 April 2010):
 You are NOT deformed! Have you any idea how many ladies have inverted nipples? Just Google it and you will be amazed - and reassured.
You are not alone and not damaged in any way; it just happens. As long as you get pleasure from what he does with you and he enjoys it (he WILL!), then nothing else matters.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2010): i am sure he knows u lied about it, the lie seems sooo farfetched and the guy would have to be a dumbass to actually believe that story. dont worry about it... just dnt talk about it again or bring it up when u start feeling more comfortable n open with him
its not a big deal to have inverted nipples..
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 April 2010):
 Deformed ? That's the first time I hear someone defining inverted nipples a deformity.
darling,I don't think there is any problem here. The guy saw you, noticed your nipplesw look different, was not bothered , said no big deal- end of the story.
If you ask me- he could have been more disturbed and turned off by the gory description of your fake accident, than by the truth !) But luckily he was not- also because he finds other thinks in you to like and appreciate beside your nipples.
it's no big deal, really. Just fess up, and tell him you felt uncomfortable about this part of your body so that's why you said a little lie- but now you realize that it was silly and unnecessary.
Love your body- honour it, and be proud of it, inverted nipples and all. It's the only body you 'll ever have, and hopefully it will be with you many many years...
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