He's out of my league, but he says I am his "favourite".
Q. I met this nice boy who I think is millions of miles out of my league but he insists it's the other way around. I'm just a plain jane who's been told that she's pretty and kind, sorta like a mother. He's one of the very popular types; he's smart, ...
A. 18 February 2010: There is a lot wrong with this. Steer way clear of this guy. He is leading you on and will eventually end up using you for sex. Go with your instincts. It sounds like you know what is going on you just don't want to admit it. ... (read in full...)
Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...
A. 18 February 2010: If she's a slut than your a man whore. Sounds like your mad cause she wasn't begging for you to take her back and sleep with her that whole 10 months. Girls need to get laid too. You and her broke up and she moved on get over yourself... (read in full...)
Where does the loyalty lie?
Q. my friend was not loyal to me i cheated on my girlfriend and he chose to be with her by confessing to her....who is right here..........
A. 16 February 2010: Can't u see man his feelings for this girl are more powerful than his friendship with you. You cheated hell she deserves to know that. Maybe he just saw his chance to swoop in but regardless his actions don't give any righteousness to your ... (read in full...)
I really want a baby, but I am confused at the whole situation.
Q. Hi I'm 19, I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now never been happier and I know he's the one he is a few more years older then me. I've always wanted a baby. Last week I had a scare, told my boyfriend and he said if you are it's good news ...
A. 15 February 2010: His support of a scare does not mean he's ready. Don't go tryin to get pregnant without first asking him concretley if he's ready... (read in full...)
I had an " Accident " during a lap dance. How can I prevent this from happening again?
Q. While attending a particular club, I became extremely aroused. I finally found this glorious sexy lap dancer. I nearly made it to the end, but as she was grinding me, I unfortunately ejaculated. I was incredibly embarassed and rushed to...
A. 15 February 2010: Dude that's the idea. Sounds like she she made it worth the money. ... (read in full...)
Lust for youth minister!
Q. hello, for 1 1/2 years i have been wanting, needding to have sex with my youth minister. it all started when she held me late one night to help clean up the building. and she leaned over exposing major cleavage. i feel like i'll ha...
A. 14 February 2010: Ok look man your out of control. Your thinkin with the wrong head. You don't need to have sex with her. First of all how old is she? Again you are just a young boy with raging horomones. You should not be around this girl again. It is not safe ... (read in full...)
Lust for youth minister!
Q. hello, for 1 1/2 years i have been wanting, needding to have sex with my youth minister. it all started when she held me late one night to help clean up the building. and she leaned over exposing major cleavage. i feel like i'll ha...
A. 14 February 2010: Your just a teenage boy with raging horomones. Seducing her aint gunna happen. Relieve yourself through masturbation untill you are mature enough to handle yourself. You ask how you can seduce he like she is just a piece of meat. She is human ... (read in full...)
Is it just my imagination or does my teacher like me?
Q. I think it most probably is my imagination, but I have to be sure that this teacher isn't showing interest in me, because I don't want to report him if it's nothing. So - when I first had him as my music teacher I really hated him, he was the ...
A. 10 February 2010: If this guy was found to be attractive by you you would have no problem with him checking you out. Its a double standard. Get over yourself untill he makes a clear move on you.... (read in full...)
I am confused about orgasms.
Q. me and my bf r confused about orgasm..last month he fingered fast and i moaned with excitement(the excitement was at its height)..and sudddenly there was some jelly like substance...is this known as orgasm?and how to self masturbate?and how to ...
A. 9 February 2010: Did ur body tense up when u got excited? The assumption is usually that u would know if you achieved orgasm. If it just felt good but u didn't have a peak or a climax then you probably did not orgasm. ... (read in full...)
We agreed to stick to oral, but I am wondering if he really wants sex after all.
Q. My boyfriend and I (He's 21, I'm 20) are really quite close. We've been best friends for about 6 to 7 years, and we started getting close just last summer. A lot of crap happened in between, but to make a really long story short, we started dating ...
A. 8 February 2010: It sounds like he is just saying that he obviosly finds u sexually attractive. He may not go for the physical act untill yall are married. Cyber sex doesn't mean nothing really so take that for what its worth. If he doesn't try to get u to have ... (read in full...)
Her super-conservative Christian views kept her from returning my affections.
Q. Okay, i had a really close friend 2 years ago, and i had a MAJOR crush on her, but her super-conservative Christian views kept her from returning my affections. We kinda lost contact for 2 years, but then i tried to patch things up. It seemed to be ...
A. 6 February 2010: If you are athiest and stand by your belief than being with a believer would not make for a good long lasting relationship. If you are a true athiest than you can never truely understand and respect a believers desire to worship a higher power. ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and we want to have a baby
Q. People are telling me i'm Crazy ! Im 15 and planning to have a baby ? My boyfriend and i been together for about 1 year and Two Months. He tells me he Loves me and he will never Leave me.We been having intercourse since we meet. Now we both want to ...
A. 6 February 2010: Unless your bf has a good job how do you plan to support this baby? These things don't live on love alone. What is the rush to grow up at 15? You know your going to struggle and sure he says he will never leave you but how can you really know at ... (read in full...)
My step dad is in the army and bosses us around like we are little soldiers.
Q. Well, i have a huge problem with my step-dad. It may sound ridiculous but i really cant stand him. Hes in the army and thats one of the problems. He works in a different town and is only home on the weekends for the most part. But when he is home i ...
A. 6 February 2010: Tell him when u want to be a damn soldier u will let him know. Is your real father in the picture? If so talk to him about it. If not you must talk to your mom. When you are of age you can go live somewhere else. People in the military who thnk ... (read in full...)
What happens with "the friend zone"?
Q. um well this is not a question as such but is the "friend zone" a load of rubbish. I mean can any relationship last if it didnt start out with friends. and usually being friends gives a better understanding of some meaning you can form stronger ...
A. 5 February 2010: I'm in love with a girl that has tried to make me find solace in just being a friend. She would still swear that I mean the world to her. I told her that I don't deserve to be put in a friend zone with someone I am genuinly in love with. And that ... (read in full...)
I just wish she would try to understand ...
Q. hi. im 18 and im with a girl who i love very much, but have had some past and present issues that are just bothering me too the point of no return. im so jealous lately and here are the reasons why. first off..she left me and cheated on me the last ...
A. 4 February 2010: In my opinion she crossed a line a while back and has yet to show that she deserves to cross back over. She has not fully gained ur trust back and if she wants to be with you having your trust should be important to her. Maybe its not all that ... (read in full...)
Why do men like anal sex so much?
Q. I have a question for the guys. Why do men like anal. And why do men like to play with women's buttholes. ...
A. 1 February 2010: If you don't like it find a guy who dsnt like it either. I dnt like it myself. I also thnk some guys like due to homosexual tendencies. ... (read in full...)
I quickly ruled him out, but now am wondering if I was too harsh
Q. There is this guy that is interested in me, however I have ruled him out on after two dates, an informal meeting, and two chats online. He gave me a pretty tough first impression to get over as he didn't seem like he cared about others feelings or ...
A. 31 January 2010: Clearly you must be attracted to this guy. No he is not a different person once you get to know him. Is he calling you asking for a second chance? If not forget about it. You want to know if you can separate the emotions from the pleasure? My ... (read in full...)
Me and my gf are going to have sex...should I shave down there?
Q. Me and my gf are going to have sex. we talked about it before, and i dont know if to shave down there. she said she wouldnt like it if i sis because then it might be prickly and might hurt. or should i just trim really small?...
A. 31 January 2010: I wud say at least trim and remove any hair that is actually on your penis or scrotum.... (read in full...)
My wife is very childish when I scold her.
Q. My wife is 27 years old and I am 29.She's my sweetie and I do really care for her.But regarding few things i have some concern.I donno how can I help her to improve on those certain issues.I convince her.But nothing has worked yet. 1.She can't ma...
A. 29 January 2010: Give her a break man. I can gaurentee you that if she becomes this person you think you want ur gonna be looking for this person she is. I know some things bug u but all in all she sounds rather charming. If she's not wut u want than I guess u ... (read in full...)
How come sex ends so quickly?
Q. My boyfreind and I have sex very often but I honestly wouldn't even call it that. Anytime we do have sex there is never any foreplay involved unless its me going down on him and as soon as he gets his "guy" in.....he "Cums" really quick. Within a ...
A. 27 January 2010: Honey its your sex life too. U should be allowed to cum too.the fact that he seems unwilling to see to it that you get off as well tells me that maybe he isn't that concerned. Its pointless to carry on with him unless he can please you. Its funny ... (read in full...)
How come sex ends so quickly?
Q. My boyfreind and I have sex very often but I honestly wouldn't even call it that. Anytime we do have sex there is never any foreplay involved unless its me going down on him and as soon as he gets his "guy" in.....he "Cums" really quick. Within a ...
A. 26 January 2010: You gotta sit him down and tell him that he is not pleasing you sexually. If he cares for you he will listen. Being able to get the girl you love to orgasm is a must. If he loves you he will hear your cry. Tell him your not a blow up doll and ... (read in full...)
Is it a good sign she doesn't want to talk about women I'm involved with?
Q. I've been getting back in touch with a friend of mine through email. There was a lot of sexual tension between us when we worked together last year, but things never materialized for various reasons. She drops hints about men she's been invol...
A. 26 January 2010: Why look for signs? If u like the girl just be a man step up and say something. Too much time is invested trying to keep the ball in the other persons court. Just serve the dang ball for a change.... (read in full...)
I cant have the girl I want because she is with another guy and is afraid that she will be blamed for my break-up with my ex!
Q. Hello, there is one girl called H that i loved for 1 year. And H loves me too. But right now H has a boyfriend called J and she is afraid to hurt her boyfriend J. And second thing H is afraid of is that other people will think that the reason for ...
A. 26 January 2010: He doesnt really want to be with you. If she did her bf would be already broken up with. And your ex? Like the one poster said u already broke up with her. All he is doing is blaming her internal feelings on external factors. In other words she ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend liking big breasts makes me insecure.
Q. I'm a 20 yrs old, and have been with my boyfriend for only 2 months... hes a lovely boy, but ive noticed he only really seems to find big breasted women attractive.. he mentions other womens breasts a lot, and it annoys me because im quite small up ...
A. 25 January 2010: Number one. 32b is not all that small. I bet they are very very nice. As far your guy? Nxt time he says something tell him he can go be with her then. Then give him the cold shoulder. He will catch on. The bs lines "your beautiful". Are fake ... (read in full...)
Does this shy girl like me/
Q. There is this shy girl, who is the sister of one of my best friends, who lately seems to be showing some interest in me. I know she liked me in the past because one time she kissed me and said “I love you”. However, that was at least six years ago ...
A. 24 January 2010: Your reading too much into it. Be a man and put urself out there. Dnt be a dog and dnt come off like a horn dog. If she seems to be flirting w you flirt back. If u leave her hangin that will just make flirt less as she will thnk ur not ... (read in full...)
How to maintain a level of Respect from a Guy
Q. I am getting to know a guy that requested my friendship online and I am trying to maintain my respect in the process.. what I mean by that is when I gave him my number he replied to my email through text and the reply was kind of on the "fresh" side ...
A. 24 January 2010: The way u establish that level of respect is either one u dnt respond and he gets the hint or he dsnt. Or you tell him that you dnt hook up with random guys off the internet. I agree with the last poster about waiting awhile. I think waiting 6 ... (read in full...)
Is it just my imagination or does my teacher like me?
Q. I think it most probably is my imagination, but I have to be sure that this teacher isn't showing interest in me, because I don't want to report him if it's nothing. So - when I first had him as my music teacher I really hated him, he was the ...
A. 22 January 2010: Hun quit being so narssisistic. This guy has done nothing to u. Has made no legitimate advances to you and the only reason u have an issue with anything is becuz u dnt find him attractive. If u found him attractive u wud be asking us if u shud ... (read in full...)
How do I break the big heave ho to him... gently?
Q. Hiya, I really need help! I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, I love him very much, but I don't think I'm in love with him anymore. We met in college, when we were 16/17 and everything was great until about 5 months ago. We have bot...
A. 21 January 2010: Short and sweet. There is no nice way after 3 years. Dnt spend too much time explaining urself as he will probably promise to change. If ur heart is out of it then u need physically get out of it. Pack it up tell him its over say bye and be ... (read in full...)
Growing attachment to my best friend's girlfriend.
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a really horrible situation. I am very much in like with my best friend's GF. She's not the hottest girl I've ever seen or anything. Shoot, in my book she's a 6/10. Yes, I'm horrible I rate looks. I do my best to stay away fro...
A. 17 January 2010: U sound a little pre occupied with looks. Leave this girl alone. So ur gonna break up ur bf and his girl to go be with her untill u find the qoute "hottest girl". U can get? Leave her alone she deserves better.... (read in full...)
There is something wrong between me and my professor
Q. HI everyone, i need some advice. i am now 22 years old and i am the 4th year student at my college. There is one male professor in my college. He is 36 years old and hold PHD. Anyway, for the last 6 months, all of my friends observed that he...
A. 17 January 2010: From wut u describe it sounds like he finds himself attracted to you but he is ashamed in this. He doesn't want to pursue it becuz he feels it wud be wrong. He said about drawing a line meaning he doesn't feel like he can keep himself from ... (read in full...)
Should I see whether she misses me by not having any contact with her for about a week or two???
Q. Ok I am really in love with this girl for 2 years already. I waited for her even though I knew she was in a relationship with her bf for 4 years. Her relationship wasn't going well. She broke up with him a couple of times but patched back with him ...
A. 16 January 2010: If u play that game then she will miss u and then give u just enuff to make u come back. Then she will go on about how she loves her bf again. I think wut u are looking to do is provoke romantic feelings in her which sorry to say u can't do. I ... (read in full...)
He seems to be so mean to me when he's drunk.
Q. Okay - This is probably not a big deal but I don't know how to handle it. My bf and I have been together about 1 year. We are buying a house together. Twice now he's gotten drunk and and is so mean. Not physically abusive or anything. But he'll say ...
A. 16 January 2010: LEAVE!!!!!!!!!! Do not buy a house with this guy. Trust me!!!! Being drunk makes people do the things they really want to do. Its so stupid people say its the alcohol talking???? ALCOHOL doesn't talk!!!!!!! If he is this way when he's drunk ... (read in full...)
My friend can't see that he is not good for her!
Q. My friend has been dating a guy for about a year now. He was nice and sweet at first and they made a cute couple. But then he started to be a jerk to her and her friends. He's been trying to pressure her into sleeping with him even though he knows ...
A. 14 January 2010: If she took a celebacy pledge then she really isn't good for ne1 unless that person can too do without sex. That's very unlikely. Sex is only one part of a relationship but still very important. In a way its wrong for a girl to keep a guy when she ... (read in full...)
I've been waiting 6 years to find someone like him but worried about his employment
Q. I am divorced for six years and although I have dated a little, haven't found the right guy. I have recently met a wonderful man, who is really decent and honest and treats me very well and I know he really cares about me and vice versa. The ...
A. 12 January 2010: Well u simply have 2 choices. In life we rarely get the best of both worlds so sometimes u have to choose. What's more important? To have someone who is good and gracious towards you or someone who makes good money to contribute? U can hold out ... (read in full...)
What to do about this Scarlet Letter?
Q. The guy I'm seeing has a girlfriend. I've met her, I know who she is and I remind him all the time that he has a girlfriend. I know some of you will judge me, knowing he has a girlfriend, but I've tried to stop, so has he, but apparently it's still ...
A. 11 January 2010: Oh oh oh!!!! I know why it keeps happening. Here pick me I know why it keeps happening. I think becuz the 2 people doing it don't stop doing it. If u want it to stop then stop it. There is no other way. U can tell his girl if u want but u are ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to separate from my second wife without having to sell my house?
Q. dear cupid, I sadly lost my first wife 16 years ago age 58, I also lost her sister age 56 who was a widow, life can be a pig, I met a lady 9 years younger than myself who I regrettably married 12 years ago, the marriage has never been consummated ...
A. 6 January 2010: The house is a premarital asset so technically she has nothing to do with it. Although in order to satisfy the divorce separation of things u may have sell to pay her off... (read in full...)
He says he won't be with me forever, so wants to be my first... what do I do?
Q. Okay I'm 13 bout 2 bee 14 my bf is 14 and he is not a virgin but i am.he tells me how much he cares for me and sometimes he gets alil freaky over the phone and he always tells me that he knoes that we won't be together forever so he wants to be my ...
A. 4 January 2010: I agree with every1 else. Dnt allow this idiot to take ur viginity when he is telling you it won't be forever. All he is trying to hand you is a line of bs. You should tell this guy to get lost. You won't be missing out on anything. Once you ... (read in full...)
Attracted to a straight man, I am bi sexual, what should I do?
Q. If you have an attraction towards a straight man but he is unaware that you are a bi sexual, what do you do?.... i have a real close friend that i do a lot with ( getting girls, playing sports etc.) but i'm attracted to him more than i think im ...
A. 30 December 2009: I don't think it would be out of the question to tell him about your sexual orientation but revealing your feelings for him specifically is certainly not a good idea. And really unless your in a situation where him knowing your orientation would be ... (read in full...)
Does a woman become clingy after losing her Virginity?
Q. They say that when a woman loses her virginity to a man she becomes clingy. Is this true in all cases? In addition what are the other signs that a woman is truly a virgin, one pattern I have noticed is her behavior to make elaborate fantas...
A. 30 December 2009: Your gonna have to look for a good female opinion on this one. Though I can say in my experience women are more clingy to the man they lose their virginity to. Although overall women are generally more emotionally attached after sleeping with ... (read in full...)
Can I ask why he's suddenly become very consistent with the condoms or not?
Q. Let's skip the safe sex talk cause, yeah I know better but anyway... I've had a friends with benefits relationship with this guy for the past 5 months. He's overall a decent and respectful guy and we used to see each other at least once a wee...
A. 29 December 2009: I disagree with caring guy. Agree with the first one. The state of your relationship has nothing to do with your curiosities. You have a right to know about the past and current sexual history of anyone you are sleeping with. I would casually ... (read in full...)
Would asking her if she has single friends be hurtful?
Q. there is this girl who i got her number, we hung out alot, really hit it off but a couple weeks into hanging out all the time she told me she couldnt see me anymore, only as friends......because she has a boyfriend. She has told me plenty of tim...
A. 20 December 2009: Yea I agree find a girl w/o her help. Knowing that you like her she will probably think that maybe u didn't really choose her but that u were just looking for someone to be with. If u find someone without her it will be easier. Its my personal ... (read in full...)
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