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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,I have a really horrible situation. I am very much in like with my best friend's GF.She's not the hottest girl I've ever seen or anything. Shoot, in my book she's a 6/10. Yes, I'm horrible I rate looks. I do my best to stay away from her, but my friend keeps telling me, "why don't you go grab her for lunch" and "why don't you guys go hangout at the mall until I get off work" and such.I usually say no, but he's like, why not man, just go out and have some fun, we can kick it when I get off work. He get's really happy when I take his gf out for lunch and stuff. I am attracted to her personality on such a level that I feel that I've been missing a whole part of myself all my life. She always seems more happy when she's with me and I'm afraid that she likes me back.I have no idea what to do and I don't want to ruin the relationship of me and my best friend. Please help.
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reader, Brooklyngirl +, writes (17 January 2010):
 Although I'm not crazy about Anonymous males quote, "Bros before hoes," I have to agree with the concept.
Leave them alone!
Use the feelings you are having, to learn things about yourself! Maybe looks aren't the most important thing, afterall, looks fade with age, and then what are you left with?
Resume your seach for the most beautiful woman you can get, if that's what you want, but leave your friend and his girl alone. Distance yourself from them if need be. Be a loyal friend and do the right thing! You will feel better about yourself in the long run!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): I think I gave the wrong message at that part. To many people looks count. There has to be some level of physical attraction for any relationship to work out. Less one is blind of course. Alongside that, a personal attraction to their personality must form as well. After which, I've also stated, I don't want to ruin the relationship between me and my best friend. I'm trying to back out of this, but it's not working and I'm trying to find alternate means of doing so.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): I think I gave the wrong message at that part. To many people looks count. There has to be some level of physical attraction for any relationship to work out. Less one is blind of course. Alongside that, a personal attraction to their personality must form as well. After which, I've also stated, I don't want to ruin the relationship between me and my best friend. I'm trying to back out of this, but it's not working and I'm trying to find alternate means of doing so.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): BROS BEFORE HOES! you know,is that really the kind of girl you want to be with, one that will cheat on her b/f?It's best that you leave someone elses girl alone or it will eat you up inside for a long time to come. And maybe someday if and when they break up, give it some time and then maybe start something if the feelings still exist.Keep in mind that in every good relationship, friendship comes first.And also,keep in mind,if she would cheat on her b/f with his best friend, how low would she really stoop.You'll be the one in the cold...alone!
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (17 January 2010):
U sound a little pre occupied with looks. Leave this girl alone. So ur gonna break up ur bf and his girl to go be with her untill u find the qoute "hottest girl". U can get? Leave her alone she deserves better.
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