She's 100% mediocre and I just want to get rid of her. How do I do this painlessly?
Q. Ok so I met this girl a couple months ago, and we're dating now. This is the first girl I have ever had real feelings for. When I'm with her I turn to mush, I smother her and make myself sick to my stomache with how nice I am to her. She isn't ...
A. 22 October 2009: Quit being a dumbass dude. You can do way better? Hell if you ask me I think she could do way better. She sounds like a great person. If you had half a brain you would hang onto this girl and quit being so stuck on yourself. Do way better how? ... (read in full...)
Married and falling for a married coworker...can I sleep with him to get him out of my system?
Q. Hi, I am 33 and hapily married, with one child. I love my husband very much; he is a wonderful man. I have started a new job at the beginning of the year where I met this man. He is 39 and also married. His wife works at the same place. A ...
A. 19 October 2009: well it looks like u have ur answer. I wud encourage u to not get to thinking that ur gonna have the magic touch to make this player stop playing. a lot of women fall for guys that play this game. my advice? beat him at his own game and stop ... (read in full...)
Married and falling for a married coworker...can I sleep with him to get him out of my system?
Q. Hi, I am 33 and hapily married, with one child. I love my husband very much; he is a wonderful man. I have started a new job at the beginning of the year where I met this man. He is 39 and also married. His wife works at the same place. A ...
A. 19 October 2009: well it looks like u have ur answer. I wud encourage u to not get to thinking that ur gonna have the magic touch to make this player stop playing. a lot of women fall for guys that play this game. my advice? beat him at his own game and stop ... (read in full...)
Is she faking it?
Q. is this even possible because ive read alot of places that its not yet my gf seems to have 3+ orgasm just of vaginal sex? is she faking it? ...
A. 19 October 2009: a woman will fake having one orgasm period but she won't say she had 3 if she didn't. if she does then she must really love u and want to make u feel like u are pleasing her. either way count ur blessings dude and hang onto her.... (read in full...)
Am I crazy or is he tripping?
Q. I just need opinions as to whether or not im crazy or is this dood trippin? lol Met up w/ this guy as a movie buddy.Wednesday: met at a bar to see if we meshed.He said he'd stay a bit but stayed all night and txted me after to say he had a goo...
A. 18 October 2009: I agree with first 2 answers. no guy enjoys being put in the friend zone. its unfair to expect a guy to just be happy being friends when he might have been interested in more. I can understand if maybe u genuinly just wanted to take ur time ... (read in full...)
She was my friend at the beginning of the day and now I think she hates me!
Q. Ok, so I have a friend who is also my moms boyfriends daughter has always been nice and loving and all. Recently we've been hanging out more. Well last night her and her friend came over and we started watching movies. First we watched a scary ...
A. 16 October 2009: man don't take nothing from this girl. if she didn't want you touching her it was up to her to say something when you were touching her. she was all up on you too so its her fault as well. don't apologize for nothing. only thing ur guilty of is ... (read in full...)
Are we FWB or are we talking?
Q. Ok, I'm needing advice from a male. I just divorced, and me and this 23 yr. old guy, have been sleeping with each other since the 1st night we hung out together. I'm 20 yrs old myself. I haven't been single in about 5 years. We've only bee...
A. 16 October 2009: your a fwb. you been sleeping together from the start. he is already getting wut he wants so there is no reason for him desire more. men don't get attached emotionally like women do so once you sleep with us its complete for a lot of men. btw if ... (read in full...)
What does she want? She says she is really into me but then she just wants to be friends!
Q. Okay, here goes.....This may be quite lengthy so bare with me.....Okay I work with this lady and she is ABSOLUTELY STUNNING! (in my eyes anyway!) I'm not bad looking myself and there has always been a physical attraction between us. We knew each ...
A. 16 October 2009: whoa slow down buddy. realize the order of things between men and women. when a girl digs you its not really ur place to try and play it cool unless you really are uncomfortable with the pace which things are progressing. what u done by saying ... (read in full...)
How can I improve my social skills?
Q. I'm a 23 year old male with Asperger's Syndrome, and I have difficulty getting a girlfriend. I always end up in the "friend zone", and if a girl says she's single, I always doubt it and think, no, this must be a lie, too good to be true. I do...
A. 15 October 2009: don't even thnk about ur ailment. 9 times out of 10 people only have a problem with things if its apparent that you have a problem. don't even bother mentioning in a general social situation. I don't care how pefect a person seems we all have ... (read in full...)
Do guys think virgins are a total turn off?
Q. ok, so do guys think virgins are a total turn off? im asking this because i am one and every guy i end up telling this to gets really uncomfortable even though they are the ones that asked. and then of course they run when i tell them i dont believe ...
A. 15 October 2009: nope experience has nothing to do with it. kudos to you for upholding this value. its rare. and those guys ur chasing off? they are just the losers that u will eventually not want to be with anyway. virginity is not a turn off for a guy that ... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to change his thought that I'm controlling him?
Q. I found out from a friend my boyfriend created a facebook today. I dislike social networkings like that because myspace caused so many problems between us before. I stopped going on it but I let him continue to go on it. One day, during summer, we ...
A. 15 October 2009: my ex gf had an issue with me being on myspace after we got together. I had a friend that would send me all kinds of sexual images in my comments. not of her just random pics. on our first date she mentioned the pics that were from so long ago I ... (read in full...)
Can anyone assess this relationship?
Q. I am 23 she is 21 .We both r in college.I am in deep love with this girl who was in relationship with 2 boys before me.I am a really intelligent guy who has a balding problem and an irregular shape(i ll fix that). the last boyfriend ditche...
A. 14 October 2009: go with the better options man. this girl dsnt appreciate wut u do for her. at the very least u shud stop doing anything for her. now when u do this she may try to show a little attention to you and get you to fall in the trap again but u will be ... (read in full...)
Can anyone assess this relationship?
Q. I am 23 she is 21 .We both r in college.I am in deep love with this girl who was in relationship with 2 boys before me.I am a really intelligent guy who has a balding problem and an irregular shape(i ll fix that). the last boyfriend ditche...
A. 14 October 2009: go with the better options man. this girl dsnt appreciate wut u do for her. at the very least u shud stop doing anything for her. now when u do this she may try to show a little attention to you and get you to fall in the trap again but u will be ... (read in full...)
I dread having sex with him because I don't enjoy it. What can I do?
Q. hello, i need some advice, ive been with a guy for 2 years, hes my first boyfriend, and it started really good and i moved in with him within a few months, but recently ive been felling like i want more. i dread having sex with him because i dont ...
A. 14 October 2009: if you don't enjoy it then you have to figure out why you don't enjoy it. figure it out then figure out if it something that can be fixed... (read in full...)
I dread having sex with him because I don't enjoy it. What can I do?
Q. hello, i need some advice, ive been with a guy for 2 years, hes my first boyfriend, and it started really good and i moved in with him within a few months, but recently ive been felling like i want more. i dread having sex with him because i dont ...
A. 14 October 2009: if you don't enjoy it then you have to figure out why you don't enjoy it. figure it out then figure out if it something that can be fixed... (read in full...)
What do you consider the upper limit in physical contact with friends? I'm worried I might be too affectionate and lead people on!
Q. Hi there Aunts! So this question definitely won't have just ONE answer, I'm interested in people's views. I would say that I can be a pretty affectionate person with friends I know well, and most of my friends are guys. I don't flirt with them ...
A. 14 October 2009: lol crazy boy brain is right but so is crazy girl brain. in this situation the girls are at just as much fault as the girls. its unfair to expect a guy to not read into a sustaining embrace or u laying ur head on his shoulder. if a guy become ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but my husband wants me to abort the baby!
Q. I am 38,my husband 46, we both has a daughter from previous marriage, 15 and 13. Now I am pregnant, but my husband does not want the baby. He wants me to do abortion. what I should do? He even wants to divorce! Help!...
A. 13 October 2009: I am so glad we could help you. congratulations to both of you.... (read in full...)
Is this relationship appropriate?
Q. Is is appropriate for an adult friend of my husband to be pals with my son who is 7? They play and sometimes email funny stuff. He asks my son questions about me sometimes. ...
A. 13 October 2009: There is probably no harm up untill the point where he is asking your 7 year old questions about you. Your a married woman and this behavior is a little shady. You should cut this off before it even has a chance to grow into anything.... (read in full...)
Does every woman have the ability to have a g spot orgasm?
Q. My boyfriend has recently taken a turn down a path of simply stressing me out and making me feel bad because I have never had one. He has said and done things to make sex not fun (that to have sex with me is like having sex with a doll or ...
A. 12 October 2009: cut him off. this guy isn't even worth getting a return of his abusive behavior. just get rud of him.... (read in full...)
What do good guys look for in a girl?
Q. How do I attract good guys, I dont know what I am doing but I always seem to attract bad guys. Lots of people think that I want bad guys but the truth is I dont notice their bad behavior til later on and I do leave always. So my question is if I did ...
A. 12 October 2009: Simple really. The guy who isn't part of the swarm of guys trying to talk to you at the club. The guy who is so confident to come up to you is confident to go up to any girl really so sorry its not like he picked you out of the crowd. Yea and ... (read in full...)
Has he backed off because I said no to sex?
Q. I've known a guy for 3 months and been dating him for just over a month. Three weeks into the relationship he told me he wanted to sleep with me and I told him I wasn't ready. He was ok with that and said he was prepared to wait. Ever since then we ...
A. 12 October 2009: yes be direct. btw as the last poster said men don't pay attention to subtle stuff. well the reason this a lot of times is a lot of men end up getting burned when they try to read into subtle hints. anyway I do agree with the first answer. he ... (read in full...)
Please please help!!!!! Me and my close cousin are in love!
Q. Ok so I am a teenager... Just a teen, my cousin, who I've always had a huge crush on lives in ca and I live in florida... He and my uncle recently stayed at my grandmas house this summer for twomonths... I stayed with them... The whole time my uncle ...
A. 11 October 2009: wow you are in pretty deep here. is he a first cousin? ok I myself would never get involved with some1 I called a cousin on any level. for ur situation I will say if he is less than a first cousin than it mite be ok but be aware you still face ... (read in full...)
He took something very special to me. Should I confront him?
Q. okayy so theres this guy ive liked for quite some time, we were all at this party and i was drinking a little to much, i poured my heart out to him and told him how i felt, we stated talking alot, than he took me off into this room, and we started ...
A. 10 October 2009: This was sad for me to read. How devastating that must be. Just stay away from him. He is going to be looking for you to be begging for his affection. don't give him the satisfaction. He will be talking bs behind ur back to his guy buddies and ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but my husband wants me to abort the baby!
Q. I am 38,my husband 46, we both has a daughter from previous marriage, 15 and 13. Now I am pregnant, but my husband does not want the baby. He wants me to do abortion. what I should do? He even wants to divorce! Help!...
A. 10 October 2009: Having a kid later in life is not the end of the world. I dont have any kids but I know it take a lot to raise one. He married you and that means he chose to live life with you whatever it may bring. I hope you will love that child and I think ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but my husband wants me to abort the baby!
Q. I am 38,my husband 46, we both has a daughter from previous marriage, 15 and 13. Now I am pregnant, but my husband does not want the baby. He wants me to do abortion. what I should do? He even wants to divorce! Help!...
A. 10 October 2009: having a kid later in life is not the end of the world. I dnt have any kids but I know it take a lot to raise one. he married you and that means he chose to live life with you wutever it may bring. I hope you will love that child and I think you ... (read in full...)
Which is worse and how to move on?
Q. I have been with my fiance for over three years now. At the beginning of our third year together I made a few mistakes. I once gave my number out to a guy, but told my fiance on the same day and didn't know why I did it. I then developed a crush on ...
A. 10 October 2009: its true what they say about trust. it takes a lifetime to build it and a second to lose it. so how do you trust again? and how do you move on without living in constant fear and doubt with him and him with you. my advice for both of you is to ... (read in full...)
I know I can't ask him to stop having contact with her. Any suggestions?
Q. I am getting married very soon and currently my fiancé and I live apart due to selling houses etc. My fiancé has a close female friend whom he has known for over 15 years. I also know her as we all used to work together. My fiancé and her have ...
A. 10 October 2009: in order for there to be nothing more than friends between them both of them have to see it that way. it sounds like she could want more and feels jealous that he is with someone else. you will have to call your shots on this. my advice is to ... (read in full...)
I do not want to ruin my marriage for a ghost! Please Help!
Q. I have been happily married for 11 years, no kids :-( my husband is wonderful man and I could not have asked for more. He gives me everything I've ever wanted. I am a very conservative women and for the the past 11 years I have never ever thought ...
A. 10 October 2009: don't let your curiosity get the best of you. not everything that comes at you in life needs to be explained or needs a conclusion. just tell him to leave you alone. actually you know I wouldn't be surprised if your possibly attention deprived ... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to give me oral sex more often
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for eleven months and i believe that i give him oral sex more than he does it to me what should i do to get him to do it to me more often...
A. 10 October 2009: whip cream. this is hard for me to imagine he isn't going down on you to your hearts content because I love going down on a girl. I actually enjoy giving more than receiving. if you keep it nice and tidy down there he should have no excuse not to ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but my husband wants me to abort the baby!
Q. I am 38,my husband 46, we both has a daughter from previous marriage, 15 and 13. Now I am pregnant, but my husband does not want the baby. He wants me to do abortion. what I should do? He even wants to divorce! Help!...
A. 9 October 2009: so he dsnt want this baby becuz he wants to retire early? well to me that is not a good enough excuse. just remember how it feels to hold a small precious child in ur arms. if he is in this marriage with you he shud want to go through it with ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but my husband wants me to abort the baby!
Q. I am 38,my husband 46, we both has a daughter from previous marriage, 15 and 13. Now I am pregnant, but my husband does not want the baby. He wants me to do abortion. what I should do? He even wants to divorce! Help!...
A. 9 October 2009: GET RID OF HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And quick. This man is not even emotionally married to you. Telling you to abort the baby. Please Please Please don't do it if you want to keep this baby. This baby deserves a chance at life. So what did he say ... (read in full...)
In love with my daughter in law...
Q. Ok here it goes...I find myself deeply in love with my daughter in law..I want to have sex so bad with her..Sometimes when my son invites me over,I tell him I can't today....They have 3 little girls..I hate to do something that will break them ...
A. 8 October 2009: simple answer. get over it. this is not best friends girl or even ur sister in law. this ur sons wife. and they have kids. do you value spending time with ur grandkids? this is not love this is lust. snap out of it.... (read in full...)
How do I let him know I'm ready to lose my virginity?
Q. ok well me and this guy have been seeing each other for about 4-5 months...he hasnt tried to kiss me ... he used to talk about sex but now he isnt. i dont know if i should break it off with him or what. i like him a lot and he says the same about ...
A. 7 October 2009: if ur ready hun u may have to make the first move. heck u mite have to make it obvios as the day light. you kno him better then all of us so only you know what he is comfortable with. if you thnk it wud get him in the mood just tell him to kiss ... (read in full...)
When will it grow
Q. Im 14, 15 in a month and i am very insecure about the size of my penis. Im not as endowed as some of the other guys at school. and it kinda brings me down. It kinda makes me feel bad about myself when i cant fill my pants up properly. Yeah, im ...
A. 7 October 2009: you may still grow man. and yea 5 and a half inches is average. some are smaller then that. don't let it get you down too much... (read in full...)
She tells me I blew it. Is there anything I can do?
Q. i have a big problem. my ex and i were together for almost 6 years. we broke up in june cause i thought she didnt love me anymore. i soon found out that i was wrong and she did still love me. in july she tried to get me to take her back but i wasnt ...
A. 6 October 2009: keep fighting. don't act desperate though. things have gone off course for the two of you and. maybe sit her down and tell her about exactly wut it is you want. look her in the eye and tell her how you feel and that you want to work things out ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant from grinding?
Q. My boyfriend and I were naked and grinding each other's genitals. He was hard, but he didn't release. I was in my second day of menstruation that time. He also didn't even enter me (we're both virgins). What are the chances that I'm pregnant?...
A. 6 October 2009: the chances are zero. he didn't enter you and he didn't cum and u were in ur second day of ur menstruel cycle. relax. ur not pregnant. when he enters you without protection and you are not on the pill or nething like that and he cums inside you ... (read in full...)
I can't get over his dirty magazine habits!
Q. Hi All, i cant believe im am writing and asking for advice, ive always been the one giving out advice and never needed any before. I am one of these that tackle any problems i have had in my life and then just get on with it. But im at a loose en...
A. 6 October 2009: so does it ever occur to you that maybe this is one of the reasons your sex life is so great? imagine this scene and really its not that far fetched. he's sitting there at work reading these stories in these magazines and the whole time he's ... (read in full...)
She just wants sex, but I want marriage!
Q. i am 30 years old man and one of my best friend's sister likes me. she is very hot sexy and her figure is very attractive. i also like her and i want to be married with her but she does not want. she want to have sexual living relationship and ...
A. 6 October 2009: this girl is crazy. I'm sorry you got her pregnant. I agree you need to get a paternity test. in fact without suggesting nething just ask her if she has been sleeping with other men. it is very important that you ask her without suggesting ... (read in full...)
I know I can't ask him to stop having contact with her. Any suggestions?
Q. I am getting married very soon and currently my fiancé and I live apart due to selling houses etc. My fiancé has a close female friend whom he has known for over 15 years. I also know her as we all used to work together. My fiancé and her have ...
A. 6 October 2009: well actually yea you can ask him to not talk to her. he asked you to marry him and that is a commitment. the sanctity of marriage has been very diluted these days. its not wrong for people to have good friends of the opposite sex but as you can ... (read in full...)
I know I can't ask him to stop having contact with her. Any suggestions?
Q. I am getting married very soon and currently my fiancé and I live apart due to selling houses etc. My fiancé has a close female friend whom he has known for over 15 years. I also know her as we all used to work together. My fiancé and her have ...
A. 6 October 2009: well actually yea you can ask him to not talk to her. he asked you to marry him and that is a commitment. the sanctity of marriage has been very diluted these days. its not wrong for people to have good friends of the opposite sex but as you can ... (read in full...)
When will the awkward flirting/crush period stop?
Q. When will the awkward flirting/crush period stop? or well I mean, I'm just waiting for him to ask me out but he hasn't yet... I am pretty sure he has a huge crush on me because he is always doing these things: We were sitting at dinner yester...
A. 5 October 2009: yea flirt with him back. Tho I encourage you to be careful. don't flirt in a sexual way to begin with. If you do he will think you are easy. Just casual flirt and try to prgressivley move towards talking to him and asking him about his life.... (read in full...)
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