When will the awkward flirting/crush period stop?
Q. When will the awkward flirting/crush period stop? or well I mean, I'm just waiting for him to ask me out but he hasn't yet... I am pretty sure he has a huge crush on me because he is always doing these things: We were sitting at dinner yester...
A. 5 October 2009: yea flirt with him back. Tho I encourage you to be careful. don't flirt in a sexual way to begin with. If you do he will think you are easy. Just casual flirt and try to prgressivley move towards talking to him and asking him about his life.... (read in full...)
Should I go out with a boy who is my "soul mate"? Everyone thinks we need to!
Q. we were out for the day me an my mates and we ran into this boy who is my soul mate hes exactly like me we have the same personalty and everyone says we need to go out and he really likes me but im really not attracted to him but sometimes i think i ...
A. 5 October 2009: give him a chance. believe it or not but attraction is not always instant. think about the other option here which is go with an instant attraction and hope and pray that he feels the same way. this will most likely lead to heart ache and a whole ... (read in full...)
Is my best friend developing feelings for me?
Q. OK, the background in brief! My best friend is female, two years younger than me. We've only known each other for four years and became very good friends very quickly. We spend a lot of time together and like a lot of the same things and we both ...
A. 5 October 2009: look man forget wut anyone says. if you love this girl and she is indeed your best friend as nice as you can tell ur current gf that you wish to move on and pursue this girl. the opportunity to meet and fall in love with your best friend is a rare ... (read in full...)
This married man has really got me confused big time.
Q. No moral judgements please it's to late for that. 30yrs ago i met a married man we had a 3yr affair,i moved away that ended it. now 6yrs ago we catch up again and we have started this all over again,he is still married i am not,the thing is i have a...
A. 5 October 2009: well either way you sugar coat it if his wife doesn't know about you then you are in fact his dirty little secret. there are reasons he dsnt want to leave his wife for you and there are reasons he won't let you go. you said no moral judgment so I ... (read in full...)
Is my best friend developing feelings for me?
Q. OK, the background in brief! My best friend is female, two years younger than me. We've only known each other for four years and became very good friends very quickly. We spend a lot of time together and like a lot of the same things and we both ...
A. 5 October 2009: all I can say is follow your heart. you are in a very good position to be with you best friend. most people look a lifetime for this and never receive it. take it if you love you. and don't over analyze and start clouding your thoughts with ... (read in full...)
Is he in it just for a good time?
Q. So I've met this guy and he is just exactly what i've been looking for for a while. He is very good and im good around him, he doesnt seem like a guy who would treat a girl wrong, when he looks at me i see it in him eye that he is really into me and ...
A. 5 October 2009: well one thing she dsnt specify is if she actually had sex with this guy. I'm assumeing she did so yea I would have to say if this guy really liked you he wud be calling you and txtng you all the time... (read in full...)
Is he in it just for a good time?
Q. So I've met this guy and he is just exactly what i've been looking for for a while. He is very good and im good around him, he doesnt seem like a guy who would treat a girl wrong, when he looks at me i see it in him eye that he is really into me and ...
A. 5 October 2009: well one thing she dsnt specify is if she actually had sex with this guy. I'm assumeing she did so yea I would have to say if this guy really liked you he wud be calling you and txtng you all the time... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is pressuring me to go farther than I want
Q. my boyfriend wants more then just kissing..he gave me a hickey i didnt want it.... he is making me feel uncomfortable by touching me!!! and i told him to stop and he yells and says its like we are just friends nothing more... and he has slaped me ...
A. 5 October 2009: the best thing you can do is get over your attraction to him. the fact that you mention he is "hot" tells me that this is what influences ur decisions with him despite what he does. he hit you? that alone should make you want to stay away. have ... (read in full...)
Am I too boring? Is this why guys don't like me?
Q. I am a bit confused. I am almost 20 and i have yet to go on a date. I also have never held hands, hugged, or even kissed a guy before. I consider myself to be fairly attractive...kind of plain. I'm what most people would consider to be a goody ...
A. 5 October 2009: here's what I can say as a guy. you seem like a nice girl and I really hope u don't get caught in thinking you have to be different then you are to attract a good man. the kind of man you will attract if start trying be different will probably be ... (read in full...)
Is he playing emotional games with me?
Q. I've being seeing this SWAT officer for over a year, it being a rollar coaster. I'm starting to think that his emotionally unavailable, his 40 years old with no kids, never being married. When we once started seeing each other everything was fine, ...
A. 4 October 2009: Good for him calling your bluff. if you want to be with a man it is up to you to take strides to make him feel like he is the only man. You did exactly the opposite of that. this relationship is pretty much doomed unless he decides (foolishly at ... (read in full...)
How do I tell if he's losing interest?
Q. Guys help only please! What are the signs a boy shows if he is losing interest? ...
A. 4 October 2009: I agree with caring guy but also believe if you have to ask yourself this question then he is probably losing interest. that is if you are asking this question because you have a guy you think is losing interest. My advice? Do no sacrifice ... (read in full...)
I kissed one of my mates - should I tell her?
Q. well... i started seeing this girl who i really like the other day, and we really enjoy each others company, but the other night i got drunk with a load of mates and ended up kissing one of them. i dont no whether i should tell her and let her deci...
A. 4 October 2009: I agree with the first person. Being drunk is never an excuse. You can say you would never do it sober but maybe you will think about it. Your still young so don't think you gotta stay in this relationship. If you already kissed someone else ... (read in full...)
11 months and the honeymoon period is over
Q. I've been going out with my bf for 11 months now and the honeymoon period where he used to text lots with cute things and text as soon as I left his company...has gone. Does it mean he cares or thinks about me less than he used to? ...
A. 4 October 2009: I agree with caring guy. Relationships happen in stages. Just because you're in love doesn't mean you don't have to nurture each stage of the relationship. Embrace the progression. I think the best thing you can do is just solidify the fact that ... (read in full...)
Dating 2 and a half weeks, he's tried every single time to have sex!
Q. This guy and I have been dating for 2 and a half weeks. I really enjoy being with him. The problem is that he is trying to move to fast to the sex. He tried to sleep with me on the first date. I told him that I didn't sleep on first date. We hav...
A. 4 October 2009: My answer is easy. Get rid of this guy. He is not interested in anything long term with you if he is just looking to get laid. This is coming from a guy. If a guy really likes a girl and sees something long term with her he doesn't try to get in ... (read in full...)
21 year old son in over his head
Q. Please help, I think my 24 year old son is in over his head. In July of this year my son met a girl who he started dating, in September he told me that he wanted to buy a new house in a town 30 minutes from us, I figured it was because his new ...
A. 4 October 2009: I don't know if you have tried this yet but maybe it would be a good idea to go on a couple of bonding dates persay with this girl. Obviosly I don't mean romantic dates with another girl but just go out with her a couple of times and get to know ... (read in full...)
I love him but always wind up breaking his heart
Q. Well, Ive been with this guy for about a year now, on and off. I love him, very much. And he loves me. But, there are some problems. Hes extremely clingy and possessive towards me, I really dont like it. And, its like I cant go out with friends...
A. 4 October 2009: You and this guy are not on the same page. Ask yourself what you would do if he was with another woman. In fact if I were him I would go date other women and then you would know better how you really felt about him. Now that aside the real ... (read in full...)
Was this rape? He's acting like nothing happened....
Q. Last night me and my bf were having sex he was behind me when he stuck his finger in my anus. He has done it b4 which i dont mind as it doesnt hurt me. B4 i continue weve always had this joke bout doing it up the bum. I always said i would never do ...
A. 3 October 2009: It may not have quite been rape as you were in a sexual act already but he was forceful. He did not introduce that into your sexual activity in the proper way at all. If I were you I would get rid of him. This was very disrepectful what he did. ... (read in full...)
How can I explain to him that I need space to get over him?
Q. Hi all, I've just been dumped. Or rather been informed that a friendship is not going to progress any further and I've been knocked for six a bit. I've known this guy for about 5 years because I know other members of his family but he was...
A. 3 October 2009: Wow me and you are in the same exact boat here. I too am in love with my best friend who is a girl. She calls me her best friend but says her feelings toward me are not romantic in nature. She will insist that we stay close and even leads me on ... (read in full...)
Should she be worried that she's pregnant?
Q. my best friend, had unproctected sex 7 days before her period but she says that he didnt come or didnt even get his pius in her but now she is 4days late should she be worried...
A. 3 October 2009: I doubt she's pregnant. and how did she have unprotected sex if he ddnt put his penis in her? isn't that what sex is? anyway I doubt she's pregnant if he didn't ejaculate inside her.... (read in full...)
Should I end this affair?
Q. I find myself in a hopeless situation . I came out of a divorce six months ago lacking self confidence. My ex left me for a girl ten years ago . I then embarked on a close friendship with a male friend who was a shoulder to cry on . He is marri...
A. 3 October 2009: I wud strongly suggest u end it before it goes too far. just do the right thing. we all make promises to others and whoever he is with dsnt deserve to be the victim. work on ur self worth and get out there and meet sum1... (read in full...)
Should I end this affair?
Q. I find myself in a hopeless situation . I came out of a divorce six months ago lacking self confidence. My ex left me for a girl ten years ago . I then embarked on a close friendship with a male friend who was a shoulder to cry on . He is marri...
A. 2 October 2009: I wud strongly suggest u end it before it goes too far. just do the right thing. we all make promises to others and whoever he is with dsnt deserve to be the victim. work on ur self worth and get out there and meet sum1... (read in full...)
Is there such thing as love at first sight?
Q. Is there such thing as love at first sight? Iv met this girl and only been out with her a few times and something just feels right about it and like we have a connection, i didnt want to sat anything but she said thats how she felt the same wa...
A. 1 October 2009: no but there is such thing as love at first blow. tell her this and see what she says... (read in full...)
Had to leave her due to accidental sex, want her back!
Q. i had a girl, because of an accidental sex i had 2 leave her. but now she's out and i'd like the first one back. (i dont know whats in her mind. what shall i do?...
A. 30 September 2009: I make no sense of your question. what is an accidental sex?... (read in full...)
Can anyone make any sense of this???
Q. I am in desperate need of advice. I began seeing this girl back in the winter of 2007. We became official before christmas of 07 on the phone when she was in her hometown. She called me and asked me what we were because some guy was 'chasing her...
A. 30 September 2009: ok o couldn't even finish reading b4 deciding this girl is crazy. and so are you. her name isn't lisa by chance?... (read in full...)
The man I love wont leave his wife for me and I feel so lonely!
Q. The man I'm in love with never told me that he would leave his wife.He pays all my bills,rent and still gives me extra money but,I'm just so lonely.He doesn't spend time with me like he use to in the beginning.He has keys to my house so he comes ...
A. 29 September 2009: No one says you can help who you love. But you can help who you sleep with and you can establish your own moral ground and you can not sleep with married men. I can't place all the blame on you its his fault just the same. Im not going to call ... (read in full...)
She's pregnant by another guy and broke up with me, I'm heartbroken
Q. she is the same age as me and in truth weve known each other for about 4 1/2 weeks and we've "liked" each other for just as long. well about a week ago she broke up with her boyfiend so i asked if she'd go out with me and she said yes. well ever ...
A. 27 September 2009: At this point my friend the only thing you can do is give it some time. She is young and pregnant. That makes it complicated and well pregnancy will mess with a girls emotions. Since you haven't been with her long at all I would be hesitant to ... (read in full...)
Why do our b/f's insist that we swallow?
Q. I have been dating my b/f for 6 months now and we haven't had intercourse yet. I told him several times that I am saving myself for marriage and he calls me a priss all of the time. He claims I am sexually pent up. But I take care of his needs ...
A. 26 September 2009: well if u just want an unbiased answer. from a physical stand point it is more pleasureable that way. I dnt know if he gives u oral as well but imagin if you were just about to climax and then he stopped doing it? its not quite the same but it is ... (read in full...)
He's 6 years older than me but I really have feelings for him, its an online romance
Q. Ok so basiclly i'm quite young and i live in another country to this other guy who is 20 and 6 years older than me and he isn't a perv or nothing due to the plain and simple fact i lied about my age i look older anyways and i'm more mature so when i ...
A. 25 September 2009: I can't tell you yay or nay on the age thing. I can say that u need to be honest about your age. most every girl your age will go on about being more mature and looking older but lieing to someone about your age isn't very mature. plus don't you ... (read in full...)
He's 6 years older than me but I really have feelings for him, its an online romance
Q. Ok so basiclly i'm quite young and i live in another country to this other guy who is 20 and 6 years older than me and he isn't a perv or nothing due to the plain and simple fact i lied about my age i look older anyways and i'm more mature so when i ...
A. 25 September 2009: I can't tell you yay or nay on the age thing. I can say that u need to be honest about your age. most every girl your age will go on about being more mature and looking older but lieing to someone about your age isn't very mature. plus don't you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is very sexual when it comes to masturbation, but when it comes to me she wont let me get involved!
Q. [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] Sexually my girlfriend and i are having considerable problems due to lack of experience on both our parts and she also has vaginismus (which she is currently seeking ...
A. 24 September 2009: buddy u been patient enough with ur girl. get out while you are still young. there are plenty of girl out there that prefer the real thing. bottom line is u aren't satisfied. tell her she can either become comfortable with you in that way or you ... (read in full...)
The man I love wont leave his wife for me and I feel so lonely!
Q. The man I'm in love with never told me that he would leave his wife.He pays all my bills,rent and still gives me extra money but,I'm just so lonely.He doesn't spend time with me like he use to in the beginning.He has keys to my house so he comes ...
A. 23 September 2009: I didn't read ur whole post b4 deciding my answer. simple advice quit going for married men. marriage is so disrespected by everyone these days. he has made a promise to another woman and he made a mistake by being with you. if this is ur first ... (read in full...)
Now that his wife knows he doesn't get in touch with me!
Q. I have been seeing a married man for over a year now and it has been very painful. He tells me that he loves me and hasn't met anyone like me. The reason for him not leaving his wife is because of his children. They mean the world to him and I ...
A. 21 September 2009: Honey he isn't yours to get tangled around. You don't deserve answers because he is a married man. You are or were the other woman. If you don't like this than you need to move on and start dating single available men. He is married and obviosly ... (read in full...)
I gave him bj but he couldn't stay hard and didn't cum
Q. hey i have this boyfriend.. we have been together for 2 years and we havent had sex till now... i am not quite ready for it and well my guy hasnt pressured me either... which is nice. we are both virgins and we are both 23. yesterday was ...
A. 21 September 2009: ok give it another try. this time put urself in the male frame of mind.. use ur hands to slowly stroke him. dont squeeze too hard and make ur strokes long and slow while he is in ur mouth. and also dnt be afraid to moan a little while u blow ... (read in full...)
I want to meet her but she seems happy with our online relationship
Q. Hey guys, My girlfriend and I have been in an online relationship for 9 months, we've not met in real life yet, and she told me this Sunday she has a family party, and jokingly said I should come to it. In response to that I said "I could very ea...
A. 16 September 2009: Ok first things first. She isn't your girlfriend untill you meet in person. There is no way you can be in a commited "online" relationship. Second quit beating around the bush. If you wanna meet this girl just ante up and set a time and place ... (read in full...)
She's 14 should I tell her that I love her?!
Q. Dear Cupid, i'm 20 and there's this girl that i play video games w/ online who is 14. the thing is, i really love her, which to me is an understatement. we've now known each other for 8 months. i really have feelings for her. i think about he...
A. 15 September 2009: your delusional dude. You never met her and hey people can be whoever they wanna be online. Quit talking love untill you actually meet this girl and my advice stay away till she gets older.... (read in full...)
We both cheated I don't know wether to forgive him or forget him
Q. Well I recently found out my bf had been cheating on me a couple times with another girl. They never had sex but got close to it. I found out and broke up with him. But I also cheated on him once, only I just kissed the other guy. But I feel its ...
A. 15 September 2009: ok well first throw the double standard out the door. 3 weeks 3 months, kissing or getting close to sex. If you want to give it a chance your gonna have to get rid of the double standard. If you can't than well its best you just walk away... (read in full...)
Haven't been attracted to my husband since the baby arrived. But I really like his friend!
Q. Hi there I have been married for 3 years my husband and I have known each other as friends for 11 years when we decided to get together in 2005 we moved in together in 1 month got pregnant in 4 months and married in 9 months. Sex was great the best ...
A. 14 September 2009: gosh you adulturer. Ok so he was good enough to have a baby with but not good enough to work through a rough spot in your marriage with??? Your not the one I want to help here its him I would want to help. If I was a lawyer I would offer my legal ... (read in full...)
Why did he deliberately have unprotected sex with me when he knew I could get pregnant?
Q. My ex (father to my daughter) and I have cultivated a friendship or so I thought after fourteen years of separation. As consenting adults we were involved in consensual intercourse. However, he purposely came inside me knowing I can get pregnant. ...
A. 14 September 2009: no guy I know likes having to pull out of a girl. when it is done it is just done out of necessity. either go on the pill or tell him to wrap his winkie. its up to you honey.... (read in full...)
Why did he deliberately have unprotected sex with me when he knew I could get pregnant?
Q. My ex (father to my daughter) and I have cultivated a friendship or so I thought after fourteen years of separation. As consenting adults we were involved in consensual intercourse. However, he purposely came inside me knowing I can get pregnant. ...
A. 14 September 2009: No guy I know likes having to pull out of a girl. When it is done it is just done out of necessity. Get over yourself. Either go on the pill or tell him to wrap his winkie. Its up to you honey... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend to think I'm a virgin even though I am not
Q. Hi, i need some help. When i was 20 years old i had sex with a guy....that was my first time. Since that was my first time so i bleed. Now im 25 years of age. And for the last 5 years i didn't had sex. I just wanted to know if now il have sex with ...
A. 14 September 2009: whats the point?? Your words are all wrong. You ask how you can "prove" well you can't because your not. If you already looking to lie then this relationship isn't going to work.... (read in full...)
We got back together 2 months ago after he cheated, but now it's really bothering me!
Q. My boyfriend and I had been dating for a year when he unexpectially cheated on me. Our relationship was going very well and we didn't have any problems. I'm 15 and a sophomore in high school, he just turned 18 and started college. The first week of ...
A. 14 September 2009: ok first of all I seriously doubt he put it in once and didn't go in again. See here is why. He used the drunk excuse to say why he done it which means he says he didn't have control. Putting it in once and pulling out saying its a bad idea tells ... (read in full...)
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