I am 14, my boyfriend cheats, should I stick with him?
Q. erm, you might not think its much, but I don't know how to react. me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months, and a couple of months ago he got off with this girl a couple of times and we nearly split up. I stayed with him but it took age...
A. 21 March 2010: Stay with him and let him keep cheating. That's what your doing anyway. You don't want to listen to your friends so why would you listen to us? You already have all the information you need to make the right decision... (read in full...)
We sleep in the same bed, but I want to ask her for sex
Q. Ok guys and girls i really need some help here, i have this female friend, we've been friends for a few years now and through this time we have both had relashionships with others, now we are both single, we kiss, we go on overnight getaways ...
A. 21 March 2010: Do anything else but directly ask her for sex. Heck when you kissing see if she let's you get a little more sensual. Tell her how you feel out of those moments not during. Good luck man... (read in full...)
We broke up but are still having sex
Q. My ex and I broke up a little over a month ago see caught me in a stupid lie and was hurt. We stayed friends recently we began haveing sex agine and I stay with her alot she calls me hers but were still apart last night I stayed with her as we were ...
A. 21 March 2010: Yes she assumes you are back together. Sometimes peopleb feel like they are protecting their hearts by not coming out and saying it. What would I do if I were you? Go with the flow and don't try to define what you are with her now. Don't see ... (read in full...)
Was my teacher checking me out?
Q. A couple of times when I've walked by him in the hallway and he says hi, I'm looking right at his face and his eyes sort of give me the once over, like they flicker up and down, once or twice this happened when he was standing waiting to go into a ...
A. 21 March 2010: How do you know he doesn't just give everyone the once over. He's looking at all his students all day. Its called observing. Your thinking about it the way you do shows a self flattering side of your personality. Get over it. Everyone has a ... (read in full...)
How do you know if you have a musical talent?
Q. I'm feeling conflicted and sad because I love music more than almost anything on earth. I have played the guitar for most of my life and I would like to do more than just play it as a hobby; I would like to do it on a professional level. My q...
A. 21 March 2010: I really feel for you. I too am a guitar player and I absolutley love music. My passion for music goes all the through me. And like you I have felt as though I lacked talent especially on the vocal side of things. From one musician to another ... (read in full...)
Are we having an affair?
Q. This man I work with is very sexy to me. We are both married so everything is off limits. We became cool and we talk about our sex life which is boring on both parts. My husband doesn't do some things I like and vice versa on his end. Anyway, I ...
A. 17 March 2010: Yeap that's an affair. ... (read in full...)
Is it harmless or should I be moving on?
Q. My boyfriend of several years is looking at online dating sites and "classified ads." I have caught him emailing some of the girls and when I confront him he says he is "just looking" and would never do anything. Is it harmless or should I be ...
A. 17 March 2010: I wouldn't even bother trying to tell him that he should stop. Yes this relationship is doomed. He told he is looking. There is nothing harmless about it. If he was happy with you this would be something he just wouldn't do. Sorry about this.... (read in full...)
Didn't want to appear clingy, which backfired
Q. So me and this girl are getting rather serious. Today she asked the question "If i kissed another guy would you be jealous" I didn't know what to say. So i decided to say "No i wouldn't mind" because I didn't want to appear clingy. But now she is ...
A. 17 March 2010: Yea this is a trap that women will lead us guys to. So she isn't really asking if she kissed another guy she is asking if she were to simply go with another guy. The answer is always yes I would mind. And if you want to get extra credit you say ... (read in full...)
I hate being gay..help!
Q. I'm gay and hate it.i just cant handle it. It makes me desperate.in my town everyone hates gays . It is complicated cause i also love girls and not satisfied of being gay. If someone know it my life will be miserable and i hate being gay cause my ...
A. 13 March 2010: You don't sound gay to me. I don't ever hear truely heterosexual people say they hate being heaterosexual. And if a heterosexual person says they are also into the same sex are consider bisexual (confused). ... (read in full...)
How do I cope with my husband looking at bondage and transexual pornography?
Q. I have been married for only two years monday. My husband and I have a 7 month old son. A few days ago I got on my computer and was really bored so I just started checking the history on the internet. I found pornography websites that contained ...
A. 11 March 2010: Well you didn't look at the browsing history cause you were bored. Let's be honest. You had a reason to see what your husband has been looking at on the computer. How do you deal with it? Ask him what you can do. How is your sex life? Normal ... (read in full...)
Can all women cum?
Q. Hey everyone me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now but i have some questions. For any women out there, can ALL women cum? and if so, is an orgasm more exhilirating or just as with or with out cumming... ...
A. 9 March 2010: If you have to ask her if she had an orgasm then she didn't have one. You gotta figure out what your doing wrong when you eat her out. When she gets up and says she's done that means she's bored from lack of stimulation. Just work figuring her ... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend is pregnant. She wants me to get rid of my current girlfriend. Am I selfish to say no?
Q. I have just found out my ex girlfirend is 5 months pregnant, she has just found out also she had no idea. Ive always stayed in contact with her and tried to help her. now i want to be there for the child, but i dont know if im ready for a child ...
A. 7 March 2010: No you are not being selfish. For one even if you aren't ready for a child if the child is in fact yours ready or not its coming. Second you have the right idea not thinking that marrying someone you don't love for the child sake is the right ... (read in full...)
Can all women cum?
Q. Hey everyone me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now but i have some questions. For any women out there, can ALL women cum? and if so, is an orgasm more exhilirating or just as with or with out cumming... ...
A. 7 March 2010: Dude! Cumming, orgasm? SAME THING!!!!!... (read in full...)
Can all women cum?
Q. Hey everyone me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now but i have some questions. For any women out there, can ALL women cum? and if so, is an orgasm more exhilirating or just as with or with out cumming... ...
A. 7 March 2010: Hmmm can all women cum? Well that's like asking if all all women have boobs. Boobs come in all shapes and sizes just as a womans ability to achieve orgasm comes. You just have to figure out what gets her off. Try this if your having trouble ... (read in full...)
He asked for my number, but we are total opposites
Q. I know this sounds a bit retarded but I work with this guy and he asked me for my number a week ago and we have talked pretty much every night. He seems sweet and funny and pretty much everything i would want in a guy however he is wild like he ...
A. 7 March 2010: Something about him obviosly catches your eye so give it a chance. just watch out and see if he tries to get in your pants while he is drunk. If he does than your better off without him even when he tries to say I had a little too much to drink... (read in full...)
My mom and dad want to use my credit and then have me go bankrupt, any way I can stop them?
Q. So I have sort of a financial problem... Apparently my dad and mom want to work up my credit then have me go bankrupt I have no specicfic reasons why so dey want to ... But I have no control and if I say no they stop talking to me... Why would I ...
A. 4 March 2010: Tell them no and to go use their own credit. Hey worse can happen is they tell you to move out. May seem devastating but it could turn out to be a good move... (read in full...)
Just got married, flirtatious friend of wife, I think I want to have sex with her, what should I do??
Q. Help, i got married last year and i love my wife to bits. The problum is when we go out with her friends one of them flirts with me all night. At first i didnt mind but now i really want to have sex with her. I dont know if its because i know i cant ...
A. 4 March 2010: Don't be stupid dude. No you shouldn't have sex with her and see what happens. I swear people like you shouldn't be allowed to get married. It doesn't take a genuis to know what's gonna happen. You should take a long look at yourself in the ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my husband likes a woman at work
Q. Im worried that my husband likes a women at work. he drives a truck at a company and she works in the office, he always says that the girls are fat and unattractive because I do ask who works in the office and if any of those girls talk to him and ...
A. 3 March 2010: He lies cause he doesn't want to fuel your insecurity not cause he secretly likes her. I don't think you have anything to worry about.... (read in full...)
Should I still get to know a guy who was totally not what I expected from our online interactions? Or is it a waste of time?
Q. I recently met a guy online on a social networking site who was a friend of a friend. I saw him posting on her profile and instantly I thought "wow, this guy is really bright, witty, funny..etc." Imagine my surprise when he added me with an ...
A. 3 March 2010: Give the lad a chance. What just cause he didn't make you want to take your pants off on the first date you assume there is no sexual chemistry? Ask yourself this. In the past when a guy made you want to get naked right away how did it always end ... (read in full...)
I invited a married woman out on a date, now she completely ignores me
Q. Hello there. I'm afraid I'm one of those rotters who has children, is not married and asked another married woman at work out on a date via e-mail (having sought permission first). I thought I was getting signs of encouragement. Oh dear - I appear ...
A. 3 March 2010: Are you an idiot dude? Let's see here. Flirting with a girl at work strike one. Trying to move in on a married woman strike two. You got one more left. Leave her and all married women alone. When she is married her seeming friendliness is NOT ... (read in full...)
She says the baby is not mine, but I am worried she is lying
Q. on Dec 02, 2009 I ejaculated on a females stomach. I went into the bathroom to get a towel and left the room for a few minutes. I received a call today 03/02/10 from this girl stating she is pregnant and is due on july 9,2010. my question is--is it ...
A. 3 March 2010: Yes she cud have taken ur cum and inserted in herself. A simple paternity test will give u the answer u need. I wud keep this girl close by untill you receive a for sure answer from such a test... (read in full...)
Is great sex worth being cheated on and lied to?
Q. My girl's a liar and a cheat but she's so good sexually that I can't ditch her. She lets me do ANYTHING. Tempting? How am I supposed to go out and meet other girl that compare to THAT? Comparatively, every girl I meet is so boring sexually....
A. 2 March 2010: So if she's a cheat and she sleeps with other guys she prob let's them do anything as well. Sounds disgusting to me. Your just a guy she's having sex with she's not your girlfriend... (read in full...)
I beat up the drunk who groped my GF, now she's mad at me. What gives?
Q. My GF and I were at a bar and while were standing at the bar waiting for our drinks, some dirtbag in his late 50's comes up to us, drunk off his arse. Stands between my GF and me and puts one arm around my shoulder and one around my GFs. We did ...
A. 2 March 2010: I agree with the other answers. Here's the deal. There was a psychological time lapse in between the incident and when you took him outside. When you pushed him to the floor you defending her honor. When you dragged him outside you were an angry ... (read in full...)
I don't love him and its making me depressed to keep on pretending. What do I do?
Q. I dont fancy my boyfriend anymore. Well ive never really thought he gorgeous not a 100% anyway. I thought i did love him and thought it would grow in time but it hasnt weve been together 5 months. Hes besotted with me and loves me totally and i feel ...
A. 2 March 2010: I guess maybe your a perfect 10 if you say he's not gorgeouse. So you thought the love could grow? But I got news. Nothing grows unless the seeds are planted. So what were your seeds with this guy? And why didn't they grow? Answer that ... (read in full...)
Is she playing me?
Q. PLEASE read all of it. Don't give me she just wants to be friends crap because this is more than friend behaviour. Either she is playing me or there are other things going on behind the scenes. I asked a girl out after 2 weeks of talking to her ...
A. 2 March 2010: She just messin around man. Beat her at her own game and play it cool. Don't try to make her jelouse just when she tried to make you jelous play it cool. Do you see what I'm getting at? If you try to make her jelouse she might get mad. Don't ... (read in full...)
I slept with my ex and now he is blackmailing me claiming he will tell my boyfriend!
Q. i was in a relationship with a physco he got angry a lot, and destroyed me emotionally as well. he stopped me seeing my friends and told me who i was and wasnt allowed to see. and got rid of all my friends. i found a new guy hes amazing, i left my ...
A. 2 March 2010: Yea this is exactly what I fear might happen with me. I am seeing a girl and I am scared she may someday go back and mess around with her ex. Anyway. I guess for some reason sex with you ex is more important to you than the feelings and possible ... (read in full...)
Dry humping... Is she pregnant?
Q. Can my gf be pregnant? today we dry humped but we were naked, we didn't have protection to go any further, we did it for a short time then we stopped, and i never ejaculated during this time. I'm just worried that maybe the pre-cum can get her ...
A. 1 March 2010: Bud if you didn't penetrate her than even if you did cum she wouldn't be pregnant. To get a girl pregnant you have to cum inside her. There is almost no chance to get her pregnant even if your sperm were to leak on the outside of her vagina. So ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to lose 15 pounds in 5 weeks?
Q. I really want to loose at least 15 pounds before spring break. How can I loose it that fast? It's in 5 weeks, is it even possible? I just want to be bikini ready!...
A. 26 February 2010: Dnt listen to the people saying its unhealthy or unsafe. If I knew ur current height and weight and what ur current eating habits are then I could tell you if its ppossible. If you are already eating "very" healthy then its probably not possible. ... (read in full...)
I love "IT" he literally hates "IT"
Q. okay i'm 19 and i married a 30 year old.(yea i know i'm crazy). but as a child i was sexually abused for 10 years strait and now i can't go a day with out getting off at least once. now here is the problem my husband has literally told me that he ...
A. 26 February 2010: I assume there are no kids well since there is no sex. Hell girl dump him and move on. Being married and no kids. Ending this is no different than just being in a long term relationship. Go out with a guy that wants to have as much sex as you ... (read in full...)
My fiancee wants to go see her ex bf..without me!
Q. Okay, Never done this before but I need some advice and really want to do the RIGHT thing here. My fiance and I are due to get married this May, we love each other, care about each other, but we don't always see things in the same light. Things ...
A. 24 February 2010: If I was getting married and my girl told me she needed closure with her ex I would tell her to marry him instead. Again, by needing to see him or needing closure she is saying she's not over him. A girl will tell a guy "when I met you its like no ... (read in full...)
My fiancee wants to go see her ex bf..without me!
Q. Okay, Never done this before but I need some advice and really want to do the RIGHT thing here. My fiance and I are due to get married this May, we love each other, care about each other, but we don't always see things in the same light. Things ...
A. 24 February 2010: I disagree with laura. "Unfinished" business shud be dealt with before you two ever decided to be commited. You shouldn't have to understand anything. You have 2 choices here. Either tell her that she can't do that or let her do it and just ... (read in full...)
How can I cheer her up and show her I do trust her?
Q. Hello well Me and my girlfriend been dating for 2 months and we're having a really great relationship right now, then one day I ask her will she ever cheat on me? She said no, but she said "what would you do if I do? never know right?" well then i ...
A. 23 February 2010: Your pissing her off right now just so you know. For the future don't ever ask a person if they would ever cheat as a simple curious question. I mean if she seems flirtatious with other guys then maybe but not just as a general question... (read in full...)
I told her how I felt about her and things have become weird between us, will things ever improve?
Q. I recently told feelings to my friend who is engaged (She lead me on, she is a very good friend of mine, and I have always been there for her when she needed me), after telling feelings to her she said that she does not want to talk to me, then ...
A. 23 February 2010: You told her how you feel, she shot you down. Move on man. I wouldn't even make much effort to be her friend. She is engaged and once she gets married her friendships with single guys are going to cease to exist.... (read in full...)
I am pregnat but worried something might have gone wrong
Q. Hello, I am pregnant at 26 years old and thin/fit...size 3/4. I am not showing at all! I have my first ultrasound on Thurs., but I'm so afraid something is wrong. After I was born, and my mother was pregnant again, she went for an ultrasound at 12...
A. 22 February 2010: I'm a guy so I know nothing about female issues but I will keep you and your unborn child in my prayers. God bless you both... (read in full...)
Old wives cure for acne
Q. Is urine good for acne and for the facial skin? My friend told me this and I don't know if to believe her....
A. 22 February 2010: I have no idea but libra is wrong about urine. Urine is actually a very sterille substance. In fact the more water you drink the more sterille it will be... (read in full...)
Would you consider what I did rape?
Q. The night began with a party and was all good fun , I ended up in bed with a girl that I know quite well and we were both naked and fooling around with fore play . Naturally I was extremely aroused and wanted sex ..she said NO , I stuck by that ...
A. 21 February 2010: Well sometimes there is a gray area. She could claim that she originally said no and that she was asleep when you put it in her. What were you thinking pal. Just let it fall apart right now. See if it goes away on its own... (read in full...)
A few to get your teeth into...
Q. Hello guys. I've been with my boyfriend for a year, it's all been well and good so far apart from two factors which are really getting to me. My boyfrined has a real issue with family. He just can't grasp it because he never really had one....
A. 21 February 2010: Well I gotta make one thing clear here. You don't really know how he feels. You have grown up with a close family he didn't. So you can't possibly really understand how he feels. These things take time. He may not be able or know how to receive ... (read in full...)
Any other girls who stayed exclusively with anal?
Q. I am 16 and have been having sex with my bf for almost a year now. But I have only had anal sex with him, and only with a condom. (It did hurt at first, but now I really enjoy it.) My bf says it's wierd that we only have anal, and wants to have ...
A. 19 February 2010: You will only get pregnant if he cums inside ur vagina. There is no other way. ... (read in full...)
I just bought my girlfriend a car, but lost both her and my job days later.
Q. hello my name *name omitted for privacy* i been wit h this girl for 5 years on valentines day 2010 i decided id buy her a new car a 2005 pntiac gto ls6 well just so happens on feubuary 18 2010 she leaves me i lost my job and i just broke down what ...
A. 18 February 2010: Ok nevermind. Yea if the car is in her name than you are SOL. Better luck next time bud. Next time be cheap. Buy her a pinto instead... (read in full...)
I just bought my girlfriend a car, but lost both her and my job days later.
Q. hello my name *name omitted for privacy* i been wit h this girl for 5 years on valentines day 2010 i decided id buy her a new car a 2005 pntiac gto ls6 well just so happens on feubuary 18 2010 she leaves me i lost my job and i just broke down what ...
A. 18 February 2010: Ok first of all if the car is in your name the car is not hers!!! First thing take the car back from her. Heck add insult to injury and if you plan on defaulting on the car don't even bother telling her just stop the payments and tell the repo man ... (read in full...)
He's out of my league, but he says I am his "favourite".
Q. I met this nice boy who I think is millions of miles out of my league but he insists it's the other way around. I'm just a plain jane who's been told that she's pretty and kind, sorta like a mother. He's one of the very popular types; he's smart, ...
A. 18 February 2010: There is a lot wrong with this. Steer way clear of this guy. He is leading you on and will eventually end up using you for sex. Go with your instincts. It sounds like you know what is going on you just don't want to admit it. ... (read in full...)
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