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writes:My friend has been dating a guy for about a year now. He was nice and sweet at first and they made a cute couple. But then he started to be a jerk to her and her friends. He's been trying to pressure her into sleeping with him even though he knows she took a celebacy pledge as a teenager. She's said several times that she's gonna dump him but they're still together. When ever I try to talk about it to her she just acts like she didn't hear me. What can I do to help her before he goes too far? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys. To the people who are commenting on her sex life. That isn't what the question is about. I probably should have metioned she is only 16. He is 19
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): Rational thinking should decide when someone has sex, not a pledge they took when they were too young to understand sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): You never see someone is no good for you until your not with them any more. When you like somone you ignore the bad things, pretend they're not there.I have a friend who is the same, and no matter how much you try and talk to them they dont listen. Sometimes the more you tell somone they're no good for you ect ect.. the more they go for them,Just be there for her when he lets her down, because unfortunatley he will. Some mistakes need to be made to be learnt from x
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reader, Heartbroken in love  +, writes (14 January 2010):
If she took a celebacy pledge then she really isn't good for ne1 unless that person can too do without sex. That's very unlikely. Sex is only one part of a relationship but still very important. In a way its wrong for a girl to keep a guy when she knows she dsnt ever want to have sex with him. Not that it would make it right on his part but I wouldn't be surprised if he ends up cheating. Again he would not be right to do this but it would not surprise. Just for the fact that she dsnt see herself with this guy sexually she should let him go. The jerk factor should make it easier
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 January 2010):
You can't do anything really, other than be ready with a box of tissues. If she can't see that he's no good, she can't see it. Everyone else knows he's an idiot, yet she will fight his corner. She'll get hurt in the end, and will then need to to be a good friend.
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