Would asking her if she has single friends be hurtful?
Q. there is this girl who i got her number, we hung out alot, really hit it off but a couple weeks into hanging out all the time she told me she couldnt see me anymore, only as friends......because she has a boyfriend. She has told me plenty of tim...
A. 20 December 2009: Yea I agree find a girl w/o her help. Knowing that you like her she will probably think that maybe u didn't really choose her but that u were just looking for someone to be with. If u find someone without her it will be easier. Its my personal ... (read in full...)
My step daughter is flirting with me, making me all hot and bothered
Q. I am 47 years old and after being divorced for almost ten years I remarried a women who has a 18 year old daughter. She is college now but when she comes home she flirts with me. My sex life with my wife has become almost non exsistant and she ...
A. 19 December 2009: if you don't put an end to it right now than it will eventually go to farm. You either need to nip it in the but and figure out your sex life with your wife or you need to divorce. If you want to mess around with an 18 year old tease after your ... (read in full...)
How do I figure out which employee to cut?
Q. The company I work for needs to down size my office by one position. Since I'm the manager it's up to me to figure out which position can be eliminated and create a strategy for re-directing the work load to the other 4 workers. There are two ...
A. 18 December 2009: I can see ur sympathetic towards the single mother somewhat which is commendable but she needs to be motivated. I would say it is objective to fire the single mother who doesn't get her work done rather than the one who does. See the lady who does ... (read in full...)
My girfriend cheated on me and I have feelings of hatred, but still love her!
Q. my gf had oral sex with her friend in a cinema theatre and gave him a *******....she said it happened because she was too desperate and was out of her mind at that time...she feels terribly guilty now and regrets it and has cut all communication ...
A. 17 December 2009: What was she doing with this guy alone at the movies anyway if she is with you? What was she feeling desperate for that she wasn't getting from you?... (read in full...)
Stay with boyfriend or go to far away college--which do I do?
Q. Hello. I have big ambitions to become a vet and i have the qualifications to go to university and do what i want. I also have a boyfriend with whom i've been with since i was just 13. So we are extremely close. The problem is the uni i want to go to ...
A. 14 December 2009: Ok so stay with ur bf and once life settles in possibly regret not going to school. Or go to school and if u and ur bf are meant to be he will be there when u get back or when u come home on breaks and all. Simple enough?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has left out some vital information about her character, now I feel differently towards her!
Q. So me and my gf been together almost 2 years. I really love her. But there is one situation that really bothers me. Let's rewind back to when we had been dating almost 5 months. I was her 6th guy and I was the first to hit it right and give her orga...
A. 11 December 2009: If ur getting laid dude why do u need her mouth down there? I am a guy and I can tell you I wud much rather be inside a girl than have her mouth on that part of my body. But by all means if its that important to u simply stop giving her oral but ... (read in full...)
Am I related to my boyfriend in anyway if his uncle married my half-sister?
Q. am i related to my boyfriend in any way if his uncle married my half sister?...
A. 4 December 2009: You are if he is your half sis kid if not you are slightly related by marriage which is no big deal... (read in full...)
Should I go against her advice and buy her a Christmas gift?
Q. Ive been "seeing" this girl for a couple weeks now, we hang out a lot, sleep over, bring each other food to work etc.., basically we get along very well and she has told me she likes me, but she is in the middle of a divorce and told me she dosent ...
A. 3 December 2009: I would take it a step further. Not only don't get her anything for xmas but don't even tie yourself around her in any way. Completley just wait for her to come to you... (read in full...)
Is he giving me the cold shoulder, or is there something really wrong?
Q. My boyfriend was supposed to come on a trip with me last friday, and he never showed up...a few hours later he texted me and told me his mom was in the hospital, and that he was there all night and his phone was dead, so his room mate brang his ...
A. 1 December 2009: This is not tough at all. He dsnt seem to be making much effort to see you. If he was all about seeing you he wud see you. Mirror his actions and just start ignoring him. And when he calls you up cause he gonna wonder why you stopped calling him ... (read in full...)
My live in rarely wants sex..is it me or our situation?
Q. My live-in boyfriend and father of two of my children never wants sex. We are intimate maybe once every two or so months. Our two yo does sleep in the bed with us, but when he or I really really want it we move to another room or move our child in...
A. 1 December 2009: I wud say it more ur situation. Here's the deal. After you have kids its all about the kids right? Wrong!! Its even more about you and him after you have kids. See when two people are deeply in love they want to go through life together. Part of ... (read in full...)
The baby was born 11 months after I was home, is the baby mine?
Q. I have a question when i was home from Iraq last year 2008 the last time me and my wife had sex was april 4th 2008 when i cam back from iraq ahe told me she was preg and then on March 1st 2009 our son was born her due date was feb 26 2009 now is ...
A. 29 November 2009: If this baby was indeed born 11 mnths after u had sex last I doubt this baby is urs. Get a paternity test done asap. Humans are not pregnant for 11 months. A couple weeks longer is one thing but not 2mnths. The doc wud have induced labor before ... (read in full...)
I am foxy and gorgeous, and hot for my nerdy cousin
Q. alright so im a pretty gorgeous 19 year old 5 foot three 105 pound outgoing hilarious fun foxy lady haha basically iv never in my life have had an issue in dateing. Guys love me i get them wrapped round my little finger haha :) my issue is i total...
A. 29 November 2009: Damn ur so full of yourself u shud hook up with him so you will be the shame of ur family and he can be the lucky nerd who bagged his hot cousin. I see many fire side family jokes about you in the future. Happy insest to u... (read in full...)
Kissed at a party, how to talk to her without freaking her out?
Q. I posted this question a little while back but it didnt get answered, so here it is again: Hey all... heres the thing, i got with this girl at a party last weekend. Nothing major really, was all over her for most of the evening, you know just "...
A. 27 November 2009: I say add her on facebook but dnt act too interested right now. Add her then wait for her to contact you after that. Dnt even think about getting urself wrapped up in this girl yet. A 20 second spit swapping session while ur both sumwut inebreated ... (read in full...)
Does no sex mean no call???
Q. Hi.. this past weekend I went on my date that I met online. He was very nice, I was a little nervous.. he was very confident (he's used to dating) he said he enjoyed my company... we met for coffee, we talked, and joked. He is a straight shooter... ...
A. 23 November 2009: Well let's say this. You escaped with your dignity. I mean even if you had slept with him he would have just used you for sex untill he was done with you. No harm no foul on this one he wasn't going to take care of you anyway honey. Find ... (read in full...)
I have a huge dilemma! Five girls to choose from...what should I do?
Q. ok. i have a dilemma (and no it isn't my spellings) right. i'm a bit of an accidental player...in that i'm a flirt. i'm totally in love with this girl (not naming names so we'll call her 1) i love (1). and yet i have 4 other girls try...
A. 18 November 2009: First of all COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS dude. get over yourself. Second this is not between you and 5 girls. Its only 2 maybe 3 of them at the most. I would say its between 1 and 2. The other 3 leave them alone dude let them find someone who knows how ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my girlfriend?
Q. i'm 14 and my girlfriend is 14 too. we have bin going out for about a year and she asked me if we could have sex what sould i do?...
A. 15 November 2009: if u are both 14 there is no age of consent. but there are consequences. consider them, pregnancy and the chance of disease. then make your decision... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my girlfriend?
Q. i'm 14 and my girlfriend is 14 too. we have bin going out for about a year and she asked me if we could have sex what sould i do?...
A. 15 November 2009: if u are both 14 there is no age of consent. but there are consequences. consider them, pregnancy and the chance of disease. then make your decision... (read in full...)
I want my wife to use a strap on!
Q. I am a married man who loves to bend over. I am not attracted to men at all. Should I ask the wife to use a strap-on?...
A. 15 November 2009: if you have sprung something like this on her b4 then she may be completley appalled. I mean she probably thinks she knows what turns her husband on. so if she learns of this she might not think she knows you very much anymore... (read in full...)
Why did my wife stop having sex with other men and is unwilling to discuss it?
Q. My wife and I have acted on my fantasy of watch her have sex with other men - four times and three times with one of the guys. I was so turned on! Before this fantasy became a reality we talked about it and she was okay with it because it was for ...
A. 13 November 2009: I'm guessing she was never particularly interested in it in the first place. what she was interested in was pleasing you. now that you have a kid she probably feels the need to cut that sort of thing out for the sake of bringing your child up in a ... (read in full...)
I need advice on how to get this married guy out of my mind! Please help!
Q. I jumped into an unhappy marriage 4 years ago. Although I've been working at it, I've always felt like I never found "the one". For the last 18 months however, I've found myself falling for a married man with children. I've never spoken to him ...
A. 13 November 2009: keep avoiding him. it is ur unhappiness in ur own marriage that is more the cause of this then his presence. I would decide what you want to do about your own marriage first. and while he is married I would avoid him otherwise u may just end up ... (read in full...)
I need advice on how to get this married guy out of my mind! Please help!
Q. I jumped into an unhappy marriage 4 years ago. Although I've been working at it, I've always felt like I never found "the one". For the last 18 months however, I've found myself falling for a married man with children. I've never spoken to him ...
A. 13 November 2009: keep avoiding him. it is ur unhappiness in ur own marriage that is more the cause of this then his presence. I would decide what you want to do about your own marriage first. and while he is married I would avoid him otherwise u may just end up ... (read in full...)
Am I making a mistake by having an abortion?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years now. He is an alcoholic. I just found out I'm pregnant. I would love to have the baby but I don't feel its fair to bring a child into the world with an alcoholic father. I already have a 17 year old ...
A. 12 November 2009: put it up for adoption. don't kill ur unborn child for situations the child cudnt control. adoption adoption adoption. give ur child a chance to do something good in this world... (read in full...)
He didn't call after we had sex on the 3rd date...should I just forget about him ?
Q. I met this guy through a friend. We went out three times, on the third date we went out dancing and had sex. The following day he didn't call. I asked him if I had done something wrong? he said that it wasn't me, that it was him and that he ...
A. 12 November 2009: yes sorry u shud forget about him. he got wut he wanted and now he needs time? what a moron. if u ignore him he will start calling supposedly want to patch things up. when he does tell him never to call u again and hang up... (read in full...)
He didn't call after we had sex on the 3rd date...should I just forget about him ?
Q. I met this guy through a friend. We went out three times, on the third date we went out dancing and had sex. The following day he didn't call. I asked him if I had done something wrong? he said that it wasn't me, that it was him and that he ...
A. 12 November 2009: yes sorry u shud forget about him. he got wut he wanted and now he needs time? what a moron. if u ignore him he will start calling supposedly want to patch things up. when he does tell him never to call u again and hang up... (read in full...)
I would already be engaged to her if it wasnt for her past! How do I overcome this?
Q. I'll try to keep it short. In June 07 I met a girl at a party and ending up sleeping with her that night. Both of us were sober. For the rest of the summer we hooked up here and there - f buddies. About a month after we first met my good friend told ...
A. 11 November 2009: I am also in a similar situation. I haven't slept with the girl I love yet and I won't untill I am completley sure it is because she loves me as well. I was in love with her before she met a guy who had a gf and proceeded to just use her for sex. ... (read in full...)
I would already be engaged to her if it wasnt for her past! How do I overcome this?
Q. I'll try to keep it short. In June 07 I met a girl at a party and ending up sleeping with her that night. Both of us were sober. For the rest of the summer we hooked up here and there - f buddies. About a month after we first met my good friend told ...
A. 11 November 2009: I am also in a similar situation. I haven't slept with the girl I love yet and I won't untill I am completley sure it is because she loves me as well. I was in love with her before she met a guy who had a gf and proceeded to just use her for sex. ... (read in full...)
I would already be engaged to her if it wasnt for her past! How do I overcome this?
Q. I'll try to keep it short. In June 07 I met a girl at a party and ending up sleeping with her that night. Both of us were sober. For the rest of the summer we hooked up here and there - f buddies. About a month after we first met my good friend told ...
A. 11 November 2009: I didn't even read the entire post b4 forming my opinion. keep in mind this past of hers that you don't like?...................surprise your part of it. you said you were her f buddy. just becuz she was ur only that summer isn't important. you ... (read in full...)
Things went well...until she blocked me on Facebook! Any advice?
Q. Morning all, I'm in a dilemma and I think I did something to blow a potentially good thing. I have been talking with a girl for the last month or so, and everything was going so well -- chatting, chemistry and what not talking on the phone, plus ...
A. 10 November 2009: this is wut happens when u move too fast. physical intimacy that happens too soon can make or break a relationship. now that u have been passionate with each other now she feels pressure to ask herself if she really wants this. I wud just agree ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, and I love masturbating, but I cant orgasm!
Q. This is kind if a hard question for me to ask but I really like masterbating and like I will be in the bathroom for hours. I find ways to make myself crazy. but I can not orgasm!! is there something wrong with me I'm a healthy 14 your old girl. ...
A. 6 November 2009: You can lash out at me for being a man but achieving orgasm is every persons right. You just need to keep exploring yourself. Some girls can only orgasm though clitoral stimulation others can orgasm through thier G spot. Find your niche and keep ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is jealous of my best friend
Q. Me and my boyfriend have always gotten along and have a close bond but theres always been somthing that pisses me off. He's jealous of my best friend who is male and also an ex of mine. I've explained so many times that there's nothing going on and ...
A. 5 November 2009: well he is just your BF right now but if you see him being more such as your husband at any point having a best friend who is a guy and also your ex will most likely cause problems. Its gonna be hard for him to just all the sudden not be jelous as ... (read in full...)
My co-worker has a b/f but tells everyone I'm taken?
Q. im a little confused by this situation. this girl I work with is dating someone else. we are really good friends. lately she's been acting real different. she's been questioning my past relationships, about my beliefs over cheating and such. after ...
A. 3 November 2009: its always been my impression that a guy filing sexual harrassment can be a sticky situation. my advice? don't ever hang out with this girl alone outside of work. she seems manipulative and if u were alone and tried something and u rejected her. ... (read in full...)
I lied to her... and now she ignores my messages.
Q. I am i love with this girl that i saw a couple of times when i took a train. i found out about her from a common friend of ours.. He gave me her contact details and i contacted her, i chatted with her a couple of times under the pretense that i ...
A. 29 October 2009: ok this is wut u shud do. let go of all ur male instincts and beg for mercy. don't sound pathetic though. simply write her a letter and say "look I really wanted to talk to but I coudnt figure out how to go about it". don't say anything like "i ... (read in full...)
Am I considered "too skinny?"
Q. Hi, im 20 yrs old, i am 5'6 and I weigh 110 lbs. Would most guys consider this to be too skinny? Ive tried gaining weight but im a runner and i cant force myself to overeat. thanks....
A. 29 October 2009: weight is just a number. my main concern is do u eat right. if you are eating right and eating healthy then ur weight shud not be cause for concern. please don't get to obsessed with the number on the scale. just keep eating right and healthy. ... (read in full...)
Am I considered "too skinny?"
Q. Hi, im 20 yrs old, i am 5'6 and I weigh 110 lbs. Would most guys consider this to be too skinny? Ive tried gaining weight but im a runner and i cant force myself to overeat. thanks....
A. 29 October 2009: weight is just a number. my main concern is do u eat right. if you are eating right and eating healthy then ur weight shud not be cause for concern. please don't get to obsessed with the number on the scale. just keep eating right and healthy. ... (read in full...)
She says she can't stand me asking if she's seeing someone else, but she never wants to have sex! So she must be cheating, right?
Q. My girlfriend and I are having a problem seeing things from the same point of view. We've been together for almost two years and I have told her from the start that as long as we have sex and I am sexually satisfied, that we'll be happy and I w...
A. 28 October 2009: sex is a cycle. it is given when a woman is emotionally fullfilled. it is up to a man to fullfill his woman. I am not sure I blame her for not being interested in sex with you. she doesn't think u care and I might agree with her. unlike the ... (read in full...)
I was sexually abused by a family member, how do I tell my family?
Q. I'm 20 years old and from the age of 5 until i was 11 i was sexually abused by a family member. I want to tell my family but i have no idea how to. I'm scared, i don't want them to hate me. This will ruin my family but i need to get it out. It w...
A. 23 October 2009: I am so sorry to hear this happened to you. I am hoping there is a particular person in your family you feel you can confide in. if so I would urge you to tell this person and only this person. I applaude you for not wanting to ruin your family. ... (read in full...)
I was sexually abused by a family member, how do I tell my family?
Q. I'm 20 years old and from the age of 5 until i was 11 i was sexually abused by a family member. I want to tell my family but i have no idea how to. I'm scared, i don't want them to hate me. This will ruin my family but i need to get it out. It w...
A. 23 October 2009: I am so sorry to hear this happened to you. I am hoping there is a particular person in your family you feel you can confide in. if so I would urge you to tell this person and only this person. I applaude you for not wanting to ruin your family. ... (read in full...)
I like my sister in law in a sexual way! Please help!
Q. this is about my sister in law. we are quite friendly. we used to talk many things and are free to talk anything. first place i love her as my sister and i have respect for her. she is elder to my wife and me. many times i saw that she kind of expos...
A. 22 October 2009: dang what a horn ball. You have a wife go play with her breasts or maybe some other man will and I am willing to bet you wouldn't like that. So get over it. ... (read in full...)
Is it ever ok to give an ultimatum?
Q. Ok everyone I need your advice. Is it ever ok to give an ultimatum? I have been with my boyfriend for five years and I have had it. We have been in the same holding pattern for the last three to four years not moving forward not moving backward only ...
A. 22 October 2009: You are right. You don't want him to marry you out of pressure. This is where it gets sticky though. See deciding to ask a girl to marry him and actually doing it well that is his moment. And it should stay that way. If you give him an ... (read in full...)
Am I her booty call?
Q. I met this girl about 2 months ago, we hit it off on the first date, on the second date she spent the entire weekend at my place. This happened for 2 more weekends, then one night during the week she told me that she had been having sex with ...
A. 22 October 2009: Not sure how she is playing you exactly but she is playing you. You can stay on for what might be an interesting ride if you can manage to not get your heart wrapped around her or if you can't help it then you might have to just tell her to go on ... (read in full...)
She's 100% mediocre and I just want to get rid of her. How do I do this painlessly?
Q. Ok so I met this girl a couple months ago, and we're dating now. This is the first girl I have ever had real feelings for. When I'm with her I turn to mush, I smother her and make myself sick to my stomache with how nice I am to her. She isn't ...
A. 22 October 2009: Quit being a dumbass dude. You can do way better? Hell if you ask me I think she could do way better. She sounds like a great person. If you had half a brain you would hang onto this girl and quit being so stuck on yourself. Do way better how? ... (read in full...)
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