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writes:Okay I'm 13 bout 2 bee 14 my bf is 14 and he is not a virgin but i am.he tells me how much he cares for me and sometimes he gets alil freaky over the phone and he always tells me that he knoes that we won't be together forever so he wants to be my first kiss and first to lose it to but I'm not sure if he just wants 2 get me in bed help plz Reply to this Question
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reader, billy bilou  +, writes (5 January 2010):
 You already know the answer to your own question. Yes, he only wants you in his bed that's all. He has no other interest in you. If you are a cheap girl and want to lose your virginity to such a short minded guy, then go ahead. But if you value yourself and have self esteem, then tell this guy to get lost. These kind of guys can't bring you anyhing positive in your life anyway. What's the use of their presence in your life?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010): He wants another notch on his bedpost. This is still the truth no matter how much you don't want it to be.
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reader, Honest Answer  +, writes (4 January 2010):
 I am not going to preach to you when you should or should not lose your virginity. But I will say, if and when you decide to lose it, lose it to someone you care about.
This guy wants to put another notch in his bed post. I would be willing to bet that he will dump you soon after getting you into bed.
Your only a virgin once. Don't sell yourself short.
Jeff
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010): And at 14, its not medically recommended to have sex. You are way too young. Your body is not ready and you are going to push into something its not primed for.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (4 January 2010):
I agree with every1 else. Dnt allow this idiot to take ur viginity when he is telling you it won't be forever. All he is trying to hand you is a line of bs. You should tell this guy to get lost. You won't be missing out on anything. Once you sleep with this guy he is bound to dump you soon afterwards
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reader, Rebecca589 +, writes (4 January 2010):
 Sweety this guy is feeding you some BULL the only thing he is thinking of is sex. It may seem like the weight of the world is on your sholders and that this is the biggest decision in life, but I promise you if you don't have it with him the world is not gonna end. To him you are just a piece of meat, when he is done with you he's going to the next piece. You are so young you have your whole life ahead of you to be worried about that stuff, and besides you need to think about std's and stuff like that. I would wait till I found a guy that I really loved and knew he loved me before ruining a special first time moment like that... Good luck I hope you make the right decision for you
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010): You answered your own question.
Q: "but I'm not sure if he just wants 2 get me in bed"?
A: "he knoes that we won't be together forever so he wants to be my first...to lose it to"
He wants to have sex with you, but he does not see a future in your relationship.
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reader, meg2989 +, writes (4 January 2010):
 Sweetie I hate to tell you this, but he does! His only real motive is to have sex wih you. Please wait for someone that really loves and cares for you. You'll know when a guy really loves you because he'll stay with you whether you have sex with him, or not, or through whatever hardship you may be going through at that point in time. This guy just sounds like a loser. You're so young and there are so many better guys out there, and you may not find him for awhile but he's out there. So please wait for a better man.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 January 2010):
All he wants to do is get you into bed. There's no commitment here. Don't allow yourself to be used.
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