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Sensitive problem needing advice please!

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Question - (11 April 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My friend has a problem and she's not quite sure what the solution is. She is not willing to ask a doctor, because she wishes to remain unknown. She came to me for advice but i dont know how to help her. Her hymen was already broken so this ceases to make sense. When being pleasured the hand went deeper than normal and caused her to release a brownish-colored liquid. She's concerned seeing as it's not her "time of the month"

Does anyone know why this happened? or what can be done to fix/prevent the flowing of liquids inconsistantly every once in a while?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007):

If your friend is sexually active and thinking about having intercourse, she needs to go to an ob gyn for a check up and to discuss birth control. You can get pregnant during your period by the way, and she needs to discuss getting a new vaccine to protect her against the HPV virus that causes cervical cancer and to learn about safe sex practices.

It sounds to me that she was spotting, or having break through bleeding between her cycle, which is pretty common in women and nothing to worry about....the hand going to deep did not cause it, but all her juices flowing, hence the discharge.....

Regardless, it is not your job to advise her, nor ours on such matters, that is why doctors go to school for all those years, and they physically have to examine her to answer her questions accurately, otherwise, you might as well talk to the moon.

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A female reader, chrissy32789 United States +, writes (12 April 2007):

chrissy32789 agony auntDear anonymous writer,

I looked it up on the comp. i went to a few sights to help you out, theres nothing for her to worrie about she can have a cut in there from her fingernails or anything and it is causing that are an infection, if she is sexually active that can do it to the guy can be being to rough just tell her to drink lots of water alot of ladies go through this, and if it gets any worse then maybe she should talk to her mom and see about getting to the obgyn.

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A female reader, penta United States +, writes (12 April 2007):

penta agony auntYou can spot any time of the month (it's called "breakthrough bleeding"). If it's brownish, it's been there a while. She really should go to a clinic if she's not sure, though.

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