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Help! I turn into a bumbling idiot just thinking of him!!
Q. I've been a regular patron of a lounge in my area for about 5 years now. In the past I have casually dated a few men I've met there, however try to keep things just friendly as I don't want my life to play out like a bad season of "Cheers" lol. ...
A. 8 December 2007: Simply be yourself. If you try to hide your usual personality and act different, it will make him feel awkward and maybe not enjoy the night as much. He accepted to go out with you on two occasions so this is a big step. IT means he is feeling ... (read in full...)
I can''t be around him because he doesn't respect me....should I just ignore him or tell him??
Q. Last night I talked to my ex that I was in the process of reuniting with and dating again and I had said that I looked at his myspace and was pretty offended that he had all these pretty new girls as his top friends when I knew he barely knew ...
A. 4 December 2007: Well since this isnt the first time he has claimed he's changed then sorry honey but he isnt the one for you. A person changes because he volunteers to and it seems to me that after al this time he is stil the same person and he doesnt care about ... (read in full...)
I feel like she has been living a single life while I take care of our baby...and now she wants a break.
Q. My gf and i been toether 4 years, we have a child, had a hard time to get a home off our own, i worked and studyied hard for her. She spent her time with her friends always leaving me at home to mind the baby,every weekend the same and she stayed o...
A. 4 December 2007: It seems to me she has let your relationship go. I like the fact that you are doing all you can to provide the better things in life for your family and your doing all you can to fix this relationship that is on the high rocks. It takes two people ... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to send him a Christmas card?
Q. I broken up with my Ex Three months ago, we were together over 5years but he was going through a tough time emotionaly, and at that time it was too much for me and i did the right thing by ending it. But I do still care and there are no hard ...
A. 4 December 2007: Well if you are inviting him to come back to your life then by all means send him a FRIENDLY christmas card. Dont express too much on how you still feel about him. If you dont want any future contact or tension between you both then my best idea is ... (read in full...)
With my boyfriend over 2 years. It's kind of getting boring and settling into a routine.
Q. Please, I need suggestions big time!!!! With my boyfriend over 2 years. It's kind of getting boring and settling into a routine. What can we do to get the fun and excitement back into it???? I have suggested nights where just me and him meet up ...
A. 4 December 2007: Be spontaneous. All you both really need is to find new adventures and experience them together. Think about what he likes, Think about what you might like to do and plan a weekend to do some of it. You have to work really hard to keep a ... (read in full...)
We were drifting apart, then we sparked up again, now he's proposed, but there's another man on the scence, I don't know what to do?
Q. I have been in a relationship for nine years. It took me a while to decide I had fallen out of love because I do feel for this guy and we have bought a house together and have a cat. I hadn't left him because we were in so much debt I didn't see how ...
A. 4 December 2007: I believe that you should just tell your fiance that maybe this isnt the right time to be getting married. Your not sure if your ready yet. Get married when you are absolutely positive about spending the rest of your life with him. If you have ... (read in full...)
Shall I ignore him for some time?
Q. Hi there, i had a "relationship" with a muslem man for about 2 years, everything worked good, he was asking about marrige and i did agree after some time. 2 weeks ago he said he cant get further with me and that he only wants a friendship with me. H...
A. 4 December 2007: Let him know that you'll accept him no matter what. Tell him how you feel. He feels that he has nothing to offer you so prove him wrong. Tell him how much you love him and how much he means to you. Boost his confidence back up and let him know ... (read in full...)
Help! I turn into a bumbling idiot just thinking of him!!
Q. I've been a regular patron of a lounge in my area for about 5 years now. In the past I have casually dated a few men I've met there, however try to keep things just friendly as I don't want my life to play out like a bad season of "Cheers" lol. ...
A. 4 December 2007: Well you've known this guy for quite a while so maybe its time that you take it up a step. Your being sort of shy but thats ok. Its normal for us to feel this way when we are companied by a person we are very interested in. You'll never know where ... (read in full...)
My bf is still communicating with his ex, and is upset about my spying. I've also heard he's been married once, which he denies. Do I leave him?
Q. My fiance has been hiding his cell phone from me but picks mine and reads my messages frequently. I recently read messages from his cell phone and realised that he was stil communicating with his ex girlfriend who is already married. This really ...
A. 4 December 2007: He must be hiding something from you considering he got angry because you looked through his phone. It isnt fair that he can look through your privacy but when you do the same, its unacceptable for him. You should investigate more on his past ... (read in full...)
The boy who likes me has hurt my two friends he's been in relationships with. I am scared the history will repeat itself, so should I accept him?
Q. my best friend recently told me he likes me and ive liked him for ages and never even thought i stood a chance with him. most of my frieds are telling me i should go for it, but hes been out with two of my closest friends and he really hurt them. ...
A. 4 December 2007: Well to me, just because one person has a bad reputation of breaking people's hearts in the past, that doesnt necesarily mean that they will continue this in the future. People can change. People go through stages where its all fun and games but as ... (read in full...)
Me and my bf live together and are suffering a relationship crisis (not talking). We've always had a volatile connection, lately worsening.
Q. Hi, I am in an awful state at the moment. i am living with my boyfirend for the last few months and in the last few weeks we keep fighting with each other, and now at the moment we're not talking to each other. I don't know how to sort these ...
A. 4 December 2007: If the love is still there then the relationship isnt over. You both are letting your arguments get too far. Learn how to control them and to solve them. You both must talk to eachother about the situation and try to find solutions that the both of ... (read in full...)
I want to see my one-night stand again...how do I go about it??
Q. I slept with this guy this weekend. We were talking at a party and I was definately the aggressor, but he was into it too. Anyway we ended up back at my place and had sex and a while later niether one of us was asleep so we made some sandwiches ...
A. 4 December 2007: If your interested in him then dont be afraid to try and keep in contact. Maybe he felt the same way as you. Maybe he thought if you wanted his number you wouldve asked. Dont let this oportunity pass you by. Give his roommate the number and keep in ... (read in full...)
Ever since we fought he has been cold and different...does he still love me??
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 11 months now. Currently we're on a long distance relationship because of his job, which requires him to be away for 3 or 4 months, but I get to see him once every two weeks though. Things have been going really w...
A. 3 December 2007: I feel as if you just need to gve him what he is asking you. Give him the time that he needs. Of course he still loves you. Every relationship has a problem and there will be times that we question ourselves if the love is still there but dont doubt ... (read in full...)
He seems to be into me but how can I find out and get to know him??
Q. Im 15 and i like this boy who is pretty shy. We talk in class sometimes and if im at his house (im friends with his younger sister) then we talk then too. I think he might be into me because when im at his house he'll come out to where i am and w...
A. 3 December 2007: Shy people are the toughest ones to get through. Little by little he is showing you that he wants to make contact but he is shy, like you have mentioned. Approach him in a calm matter. Make little talk such as " What are you doing?" " Can i join?".. ... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong for me to be happy?
Q. Hi everyone, I just need a little advice on my current situation. I was dating a guy for 7 years and we broke up about a year ago. We kept in touch and now it seems like we kept in touch too much. We didn't have much space to let the fact that we ...
A. 3 December 2007: Reunite with yoour ex when your IN LOVE...NOT out of sympathy. It isnt wrong of you to move on. IT just shows your maturity about the situation and that you are trying to live life to the fullest. Your ex on the other hand has to get through his ... (read in full...)
My bf has started working away and I feel lonely and now I have slept with his friend. Please help.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend now for over a year and im in love with him. but recenlty he's started working away and i've felt lonely and slept with his freind - i feel really guilty and don't know what to do. Please help....
A. 3 December 2007: Well you are probably really use to someone being by yourside and the moment that you start feeling lonely, you seek for company. Sweetie tell your boyfriend what you have done. Dont keep anything from him because if you are " IN LOVE" with him as ... (read in full...)
My parents are always nagging me and bullying me...what can I do??
Q. Lately both of my parents just have been giving me anxeity over what a young person is supposed to be doing with their life. They are always griping about how I don't go anywhere and how I have never been to any concerts with boyfriends or anything. ...
A. 3 December 2007: Everyone has their own opinion on what " FUN" means. What is fun for one person can be dul to another. If you choose not to go out the way your parents want you to, then dont live up to anyone elses standards but yourselfs. You have plenty of time ... (read in full...)
We have been official for two weeks and he is starting to talk about sex and I am scared.
Q. I'm 14. I met my boyfriend about 4 months ago and we have liked each other since the night we met. We became official about two weeks ago and i have already given him oral. He is starting to talk about sex and i want to but im scared to. He is ...
A. 3 December 2007: Sweetie once you give a guy a piece, they want the whole thing. He seems like he is pressuring you to the point where you feel obligated to have sex with him and you are terrified of that fact. You've only been together for two weeks. Slow down with ... (read in full...)
I broke it up because I was young and wanted to have fun...now he is back in my life and I want him back.
Q. Me and my ex dated 3 years ago for about a year. I broke it off with him because i was young and just wanted to have fun. About a week ago we came into contact again, and he told me that he thinks about me all the time and that he has feelings...
A. 3 December 2007: I think that him being back into your life would only cause confusion and heart-ache due to the fact that you still have feelings for him. Try and leave things the way they were before he decided to show up again. Try to move on because he has ... (read in full...)
She claims she wants nothing to do with him...but he was her first love.
Q. I have been on/off with my girl for about 6 years now. I have had bad blood with her ex who was before me. When I thought he was done with her, he recently confessed his love for her and apologized for all the wrong he has done. She claims s...
A. 3 December 2007: You are getting too over your head here. Dont get jealous for a man in her past. There is a reason he neevr made it to her future. If she claims she doesnt want anything to do with him, well try and believe her. She is giving love another try and ... (read in full...)
All advice greatly appreciated here!
Q. I don’t know who I can go to with this problem, so I’m here. I really like this girl and want to ask her out. But I just started wrestling which takes up most of my free time and when I’m done with practice I’m tiered and sore. I also get into a ...
A. 3 December 2007: Im sorry to hear about your friend and how it must be unfair to lose a frienship over stupidity. Your smarter than that. Dont waste your time on those people who have caused the death of your friend. It wont make much of difference. You will only ... (read in full...)
Part 2 - is it too late to save!
Q. I talked to my boyfriend about the both of us take some time alone from our son and go out but he didnt really seem to like the idea then i got the idea that maybe we both need some time away from each other I haven't said anything to him but he ...
A. 3 December 2007: Your husband has to understand that it takes two people to fix a relationship and if he doesnt want to put in his part then he is goin to lose the best things in his life. Ask him one more time for the sake of your family to take this family trip ... (read in full...)
Feeling insecure about myself. Help.
Q. Hi. I'm feeling a little insecure just now. I was in a strong relationship that lasted 3 years until Summer, where she decided she was too young to get into something so serious. I was devastated. It's been about 7 months since I last had so much...
A. 3 December 2007: Dont let this break-up cause you to be insecure about the way you look. Dont feel pressured into finding a relationship any time soon. When the time is right, you will be given another chance. There is going to be one person out there that is ... (read in full...)
Feeling insecure about myself. Help.
Q. Hi. I'm feeling a little insecure just now. I was in a strong relationship that lasted 3 years until Summer, where she decided she was too young to get into something so serious. I was devastated. It's been about 7 months since I last had so much...
A. 3 December 2007: Dont let this break-up cause you to be insecure about the way you look. Dont feel pressured into finding a relationship any time soon. When the time is right, you will be given another chance. There is going to be one person out there that is ... (read in full...)
How can I make myself feel better?
Q. I've been feeling really 'blah' the past little while, the past couple of weeks my boyfriend has been working away from home and we don't get to talk on the phone much, sometimes not even once a day. Some days I really miss him, others I wonder ...
A. 3 December 2007: You need some time alone in an environment away from home to clear your head and get away from all that mess. When you feel stressed, you need to find an environment to breathe and get your head straight from all that seems to bother you. Go have ... (read in full...)
What do guys actually like/look for in a girl?
Q. What do guys actually like/look for in a girl? Does it really appeal to a guy when a girl cakes on makeup? Loads of foundation and blush, and black eyelinered eyes? Do they care of a girl is on a diet? Do they care if she is a size 8 with a f...
A. 3 December 2007: Men seek two different types of women. One they can spend the rest of their life with and one they can just have fun with for a while. If a man seeks for a long lasting relationship, they tend to be interested in women who are independent, ... (read in full...)
I met her but she looked nothing like her picture!
Q. I'm a single gentleman thats been divorced for nearly fourteen years. During this time most of my spare time has been raising my only child - a son. Now that he's off on his own at college there has been an enormous void in my life. I've tried to go ...
A. 3 December 2007: To me it is sort of common in the online dating service business. People feel as if they have to hide how they really look as a form of desperation just to get others attention because they are not comfortable with the way they look. Your going to ... (read in full...)
Friends or Lovers or much more?
Q. hi well to start with one of my male friends his housemate (mr x) and he invited me out on a night out, the next night, so we went out and had fun and next thing you know were back at my house having sex for the full night and day and this hap...
A. 3 December 2007: He is playing with your emotions to control you. You dont deserve that and you have to show him that your stronger than that. Just because you may care for him does not mean your going to be treated like his little toy. I see this as more of a ... (read in full...)
Will he marry me?
Q. I have been with a guy for 10 months and I know he is the one... but am scared to bring up the subject we have both been married once before and he used to say he would never get married... but recently he has been saying that our relationship ...
A. 3 December 2007: Him bringing up the subject that your relationship will lead to marriage is a hint it is something he is looking forward to. Discuss with your partner about what plans you both may have for the future. Dont nag him about proposing, just simply ... (read in full...)
Better the devil you know, or the one you dont!
Q. 2 years ago, a guy i knew for 9 years and who i considered my best friend became my boyfriend after years of tiptoing around the subject. We started off in an amazing relationship, he was the man i had waited for all this time and who i felt i ...
A. 3 December 2007: Well if you believe that there is just no chance whatsoever to fix your relationship with your boyfriend then it is all downhill from there. Follow your heart. If you truly believe that this Tom guy is the one for you then dont let it past by. ... (read in full...)
Best friend going wrong!
Q. I married my best friend. She's going through some problems within herself, but somehow it ends up being something that I'm not doing right, enough, remembering to do. I'm starting to feel like I'm the actual problem and she just don't know how to ...
A. 3 December 2007: Well whatever the problem may be, you both married eachother because you are both devoted into working together to overcome any obstacle that may come your way. You said it yourself. She is going through some problems within herself. Be there for ... (read in full...)
I posted this earlier but forgot to include an important part in it.
Q. I posted this earlier but forgot to include an important part in it. I've started becoming friends with my sister's friends, and one of her best friends and I have been hanging out a lot recently without her. Recently, we got drunk and we mad...
A. 3 December 2007: Well as you said in the other post, you were confused if you should talk to him about this or not. Well since you cant talk to anyone else about this then your left with no choice but to discuss things with him. It doesnt hurt to talk to someone and ... (read in full...)
Do I just forget about him?
Q. Hey, I have a problem and I really need to get it off my chest. So here goes, I met this guy about a few months ago, but he lives quite far away so I've only seen him once, for the first three weeks or so after that we were talking and texting...
A. 3 December 2007: Since i am such a lover type of person, i believe that you shouldnt let feelings like this past you by. If he is all that you are looking fo,r then honey dont let it go because you maybe he's the one for you. Keep in contact with him despite of the ... (read in full...)
Is it gay to watch gay porn?
Q. is it gay to watch gay porn...
A. 3 December 2007: Its off of curiousity so dont get over-whelmed with your worries. You know yourself better than anyone.... (read in full...)
Why can't my family just be happy for me and support me??
Q. Well i have a long-distance relationship that has been going on for 1 year and a half. I love this guy and i know he loves me. I dont understand why my family can't get that through their heads. They always put me down with all the negative ...
A. 3 December 2007: Thank you for your advice and i appreciate that you took the time to help. I forgot to mention that my family has met him and when he was here, they seemed to get along great but now that he is gone, they are being two-faced and say those negative ... (read in full...)
Met up with an ex and it made me feel so complete...but we are both in relationships and my heart is heavy.
Q. My heart is so heavy, I just got back in touch with a girl I dated over 10 years ago (I split up, was a fairly casual relationship, no sex), we met up and had a nice night talking and drinking, nothing more, and at the end of it held each other and ...
A. 3 December 2007: For the sake of your family, be very wise on the choices you make if you continue to contact your ex. My opinion, she was probably put in your way as a task for you to complete. You know that the both of you could never have anything more than what ... (read in full...)
I had a crush on my teacher and we are still in contact now that I am at Uni
Q. I had a crush on a teacher for 5 years at secondary school. Am now at university and we are still in contact, texting and emailing. What should i do? People used to joke about us and they still ask me how she is and things. I think i love her, she ...
A. 3 December 2007: I dont think you missed a chance. If she is still willing to then ask her for a night out and see what goes from there. Keep in contact with her and maybe eventually it can lead to something more than just friendship.... (read in full...)
Are there any other signs of pregnancy apart from morning sickness? Like feelings, emotions and moods?
Q. Okay, me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 and half months. I'm 15 turning 16 in January and he's a year younger than me. We really love each other and would do anything for each other. So about a month ago we decided to have sex, well try...
A. 3 December 2007: The more you convince yourself about a certain issue, the more you start to believe it. Your imagination can sometimes become a reality if you believe in it too much. Morning sickness doesnt mean that you are but there is still a chance that you ... (read in full...)
Should I dump my boyfriend and go after the other guy??
Q. hey,i was in love with this guy. when suddenly we became girlfreind and boyfreind.he had another girl on his mind at that time, but i was sure that he loved me.and worried that he will keep thinking about her. so we broke up( stayed freinds), he ...
A. 3 December 2007: No you shouldnt dump your current boyfriend for a guy in your past. There is a reason he didnt make it to your future. You are giving him the signs that he can come to you whenever he pleases. Dont give him the reason to think that way. Have more ... (read in full...)
We both have partners and decided to become "fling" mates.
Q. I have a boyfriend in other country and now am in university and I met someone else here. He has a girlfriend back in his home town too so we decided to just be fling mates.. its been going well until recently when I figured that I am falling for ...
A. 3 December 2007: You are worried about the wrong thing. You should be worried about how you tell your boyfriend in other country the foolish acts that have been going around between you and this guy. The both of you are being very selfish and i think that if the ... (read in full...)
Is there any way I can still be with her?
Q. Hi! I am 27, my ex-girlfriend is 24. We were together for 2 and a half years, one year we lived together and this past year was a long-distance relationship but we met on weekends. we broke up two months ago. Throughout the time I was with my girlf...
A. 3 December 2007: That is a question for your ex girlfriend to answer. You have lost her trust and you have to prove yourself to her and gain try to gain that trust you once had. If she accpets you then your very lucky but if she doesnt then thats a consequence you ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my strong feelings for me ex.
Q. I've broken up with my ex for about 6 months. We broke up because we both came from different worlds. When we broke up we were both still in love with each other. I thought i was over him but i guess im not. i dont know what to do as i have the...
A. 3 December 2007: You both let your differences get in the way of your relationship. The more differences you both have, the more that it should bring you both together. You love him and im sure he still has feelings for you so despite of what " different worlds" you ... (read in full...)
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