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writes:I talked to my boyfriend about the both of us take some time alone from our son and go out but he didnt really seem to like the idea then i got the idea that maybe we both need some time away from each other I haven't said anything to him but he doesn't seem to be interested in anything that has him and me spending alone time. If me and my son stay at a hotel for a week then maybe he will realize what he has and show me some att.(cont. from-is it to late to save.) I want to save my relationship but I can't do it by myself will u give me some more advice I will try 1 more time. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBqagirl2692 i want to think you on your advice both times i am waiting up for him to see if maybe we could spend time together wile the babys asleep its not my ideal of a dream date or the both of us away on a break from the baby and every day stress but if he is willing to relax on the couch and hold eachother watch a movie or even make love (i maybe pushing my luck on that one.) that would be just fine for me. I mentioned couples counselling but he wont go, thank you so much for your help i will keep you posted on what happens next! :-) lonely mother
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (3 December 2007):
 Your husband has to understand that it takes two people to fix a relationship and if he doesnt want to put in his part then he is goin to lose the best things in his life. Ask him one more time for the sake of your family to take this family trip because it seems like you really need it. If he still doesnt cooperate, then go with plan B: apart away from him. This would give you both the oportunity to think about the issues and clear your heads.Have you ever considered marriage counseling? Well, whatever you decide, i wish you the best of luck!
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