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anonymous
writes:Hi there, i had a "relationship" with a muslem man for about 2 years, everything worked good, he was asking about marrige and i did agree after some time. 2 weeks ago he said he cant get further with me and that he only wants a friendship with me.He explaind his self : that he is not able to get a good job (as he just got a student visa) so he cant take care of a wife and he also dont want that i think that he wants me only for a passport.I would not worry about it but im 26 years old and i have seen many man but someone special like him, im sure i will never get a gain........it is real love and from his bahave i do know he got also feelings for me.Does anyone give me a tip what to do.......because i cant be his friend, i would never stand it to see him with a other girl in the future.I have not txted him for 3 days but he left onlines for me, saying that he will allways be there for me as a friend :-(.......................Shall i just ignore him for some time ??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): same thing happend to me a month ago.I met a great guy so I thought over this summer I think he is adorable and just plain hot!!!! but he was so insecure with me always accusing me of dating others or with other guys ect. after a few months of him stringing me along via phone calls many times a day with promises to see each other real soon (lived couple hours away) i flat out asked when did he ever want to see me and he said the exact same things as your guy.the i need a better job,I have nothing to offer you but friendship bit. My two cents is some men are so overly insecure or idealistic that they can't see we never even asked them to give us anything?? we just wanted to hang out and be with them thats all!!!!!
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (4 December 2007):
 Let him know that you'll accept him no matter what. Tell him how you feel. He feels that he has nothing to offer you so prove him wrong. Tell him how much you love him and how much he means to you. Boost his confidence back up and let him know you'll always be by his side.
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