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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi. I'm feeling a little insecure just now.I was in a strong relationship that lasted 3 years until Summer, where she decided she was too young to get into something so serious. I was devastated. It's been about 7 months since I last had so much as a kiss which I find quite depressing. Since I lost her I have got it in my head that she must have been crazy to go out with me, because I can't seem to find anybody else. I guess you could say I feel like a bit of a freak. I worry about my looks and personality, perhapps unnecessarily, but being alone has brought that on me. I don't feel attractive to girls lately, and I'm not sure why.I don't know what I need to do, but what ever it is I don't know how to do it! Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): Just be very very strong and keep your head held high. Time and patience is needed now and you will meet someone who you deserve in the future. Try not to get too down hearted and get out there during the party season and PARTY!!!
Take care
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (3 December 2007):
 Dont let this break-up cause you to be insecure about the way you look. Dont feel pressured into finding a relationship any time soon. When the time is right, you will be given another chance. There is going to be one person out there that is willing to appreciate the love yoou have to offer. Acceppt her decision and simply try and move on. Dont be so hard on yourself. Sooner or later she'll realize that she lost something good!
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (3 December 2007):
Dont let this break-up cause you to be insecure about the way you look. Dont feel pressured into finding a relationship any time soon. When the time is right, you will be given another chance. There is going to be one person out there that is willing to appreciate the love yoou have to offer. Acceppt her decision and simply try and move on. Dont be so hard on yourself. Sooner or later she'll realize that she lost something good!
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