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How can I get over my strong feelings for me ex.
Q. I've broken up with my ex for about 6 months. We broke up because we both came from different worlds. When we broke up we were both still in love with each other. I thought i was over him but i guess im not. i dont know what to do as i have the...
A. 3 December 2007: You both let your differences get in the way of your relationship. The more differences you both have, the more that it should bring you both together. You love him and im sure he still has feelings for you so despite of what " different worlds" you ... (read in full...)
How do you deal with seeing your ex in another's company?
Q. I want my ex back so much its ruining my life. He's not interested but I still like him so much. Ive been asked out by alot of other boys in the past few weeks but I only want him. It hurts so much and whats worse is that it was my fault that we ...
A. 3 December 2007: Well honey you must accept the fact that you let go of something good that couldve went forward for the both of you. Accept your mistake because whats done is done and if he isnt interested anymore than you must move on yourself. You regret the ... (read in full...)
We have decided to just let sex happen....but how do we initiate it??
Q. Hiya, Me and my gf have been going out for just over a year and have decided we are ready for sex. We are now both 17 and have decided not to plan it as it is more likely to make her nervous and start getting scared if she knows it will be happenin...
A. 3 December 2007: What you should do is make sure the both of you are alone because she will get nervous knowing the fact that the both of you can be interrupted at any moment. Make her feel comfortable and dont pressure her if she is not ready at the moment or else ... (read in full...)
Best gift to give your ex gf on their birthday? I want to win her back.
Q. what is the best gift to buy my ex girlfriend, her bday is in a month and we broke up last week. Im not speaking to her but i want her back. And i would like to give her a gift that would make her smile and happy...
A. 2 December 2007: If you want to win her back then a simple poem or love letter that comes straight from your means a lot more than something you can buy from the stores. If she reads something that comes straight from your heart then it would bring a smile on her ... (read in full...)
Our marriage is amazing but I am ready to start a family and he isn't. Please help.
Q. Help Please, I was recently married to the most amazing man and we are very happy. We have been together for 7 years and have a very healthy relationship. The problem is that i am very much ready to start a family but he isn't. I obviously don'...
A. 2 December 2007: I believe your husband is being insecure about having a child when he thinks he isnt ready to be a good father. Talk things with your husband and figure out the REAL reason why after all this time it is still " just not yet". Let him know that this ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to approach this situation?
Q. Hi there, A few weeks ago my guy mate and I were fooling around on my bed and ended up kissing. I'd never looked at him in that way before, but I got the feeling that he liked me. Since then we have made out on several occassions but only in priv...
A. 2 December 2007: He cares about you because he doesnt want to hurt you like he did with the past relationships and your friendship means a lot to him. As hard as it may be, accept his decision and try to understand where he is coming from. You can try talking about ... (read in full...)
Unlovable???
Q. I don't think I will ever have a boyfriend or anyone who will even "like" me. I don't know why... I'm not really pretty, but I think I've got good "brains" and am an intresting person but every time I fall for some guy they'll NEVER feel the same...
A. 2 December 2007: You are letting your insecurity get in the way of you enjoying life and having the self-confidence that you need. Just because you arent in a relationship at the moment does not mean you never will be. Everyone has their chance. Some people have it ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to be hurt again, I want so badly to trust him 100%.
Q. This has been bothering me for quite some time and I need some help with what to do. Back at the end of July I found out my boyfriend was talking to his ex over his cell phone, and basically hiding this from me. He ended talking to her on his own ...
A. 2 December 2007: Well since he sort of took advantage of your trust not once, but TWICE then of course you are going to be a little insecure about trusting him. This man loves you and trusts you by giving you his cell phone info. to prove to you he has nothing to ... (read in full...)
Should I continue talking and getting closer?
Q. I've started becoming friends with my sister's friends, and one of her best friends and I have been hanging out a lot recently without her. Recently, we got drunk and we made out and he told me that he liked me and has been eyeing me for a while. ...
A. 2 December 2007: This is a matter you should discuss with your sister to see her point of view and maybe even express how you feel about her friend as well. Once you've settled this with your sister, then maybe you should take the next step and discuss things with ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if an ex still likes you...?
Q. If you haven't seen your ex in a while (due to his moving, which prompted the split) and he comes back for Christmas to see his family and old friends... 1) How can you tell if he still likes you, and 2) How would you try and win him back? xx...
A. 2 December 2007: IF he still has feelings for you he will try to look for you and keep in contact. All you have to do is talk to him. Catch up from where you both left off. Im sure there is still chemistry due to the fact that the only reason this break-up occured ... (read in full...)
I NEED to know...
Q. My ex-boyfriend moved away to university recently and since he's been there he's met this girl who's seemingly very keen on him - but he's always vague as to what he thinks about her, and "doesn't know what he wants." Last night they both got ve...
A. 2 December 2007: Its normal for you to feel jealous about this new girl that has came into his life because obviously you stil love him and you are trying to hide that fact. Im pretty sure he already knows you still love him so if you want to know then you should be ... (read in full...)
My husband drinks, then becomes very aggresive and offensive. I don't earn enough money to support me and the property in his name!
Q. Advice! Husband drinks then gets loud, aggressive, spits at me, calls me scum and tells me he has had better than me. Have endured two yrs of verbal abuse from his ex who has his kids! He done nothing about it. I now refuse to visit his family as ...
A. 2 December 2007: Look with what his verbal abuse has caused you. He has caused you to blame yourself for his cruel and selfish actions. You are not the blame for his actions at all. Yes he has money but that is no excuse and it does not justify that he can treat you ... (read in full...)
I am being harressed and bullied at school...what should I do??
Q. I think I might be harassed and bullied at school. There is a group of people that laugh at me, and I don't know why. Its starting to make me wonder. I think its because of the way I look. I can't help myself of the way I look. There is another ...
A. 2 December 2007: Well you have to be strong about this. Noone can handle this issue but yourself. Give yourself some confidence and try not to let all the negative comments bring you down. Talk to a close friend. If theres noone that if present, then talk to your ... (read in full...)
Do emotionally abusive people change that much in two months??
Q. I broke up with my fiance 2 months ago. We hadn't talked for about 3 weeks and he texted me saying he wishes me well, saying I didn't have to respond. I texted back the same. Well yesterday he called me from an unknown number and I answered...
A. 2 December 2007: I believe anyone can change if they truly wish to. This is something you have to open your eyes to see. Do you honestly believe he changed? Has he really proved to you that he has? I believe a person cannot change who they are so quickly. They can ... (read in full...)
I'm scared but I know I'm ready.
Q. I'm 17 years old and so is my boyfriend. I'm ready to have sex with him, i'm just nervous because i'm a virgin and he isn't. What if i'm bad and don't know what to do and what if it hurts? I'm scared i suppose but i know i'm ready....
A. 2 December 2007: Well we always get the first time jitters. I know i did when i lost it for the first time. Ask yourself, are you sure you are ready or do you feel that you sort of have to have sex? Think about it seriously. Your virginity is something you never get ... (read in full...)
Do you ever forget your first love??
Q. Hi, i want to ask everyone who has been in love two questions: Do you ever forget your first love? Would you get back with them if you had the chance?...
A. 2 December 2007: Whoa! Everyone in their life experiences first love. If its your first true love then i dont think you ever forget about them because love is a feeling that will stick with us til the end. Although you may never see this person again and you have a ... (read in full...)
I felt like time was passing me by...until now, my friend wants to be intimate but I don't know what to do.
Q. I had never been in a relationship till now when i felt that time is passing me by. A dear friend of mine who is three years younger than me because he knows me very well suggested we became intimate. I really do not know anything about love and...
A. 2 December 2007: Go with what you gut tells you to do. You said your uncomfortable and your bothered with his age. Do not force yourself into trying to feel something for a person that you cant feel anything for. Let him know how you feel. Tell him you see him as a ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out even though I am very complicated??
Q. Hi aunts, like everybody else on this site i need help, this is a situation ive never experienced before and ill do my best to explain. Im 24 years old and a lesbian. I work as a personal trainer/gymnastics instructor i also dance in a club,if ...
A. 2 December 2007: You should give her a chance even though you may think your complicated because there is always one person out there who could understand us more than we could ourselves. Have faith in this and give the poor girl a chance. If she is interested in ... (read in full...)
I am really worried about my bf seeing me naked. Should I diet??
Q. Hi everyone, I'm a 16-year-old girl and I'm having some issues. I have a lovely boyfriend, who is 6ft2 and absolutely gorgeous with an amazing body. Now I'm only 5ft2 and kinda chubby, which makes me feel really awful cause he's very concious about ...
A. 2 December 2007: I have been in this situation before and i was very nervous showing my boyfriend my body due to the fact i was very insecure about how i looked. Obviously he is with you because he has feelings for you and he saw past the way yoou look. Obviously he ... (read in full...)
I am sick of being second best...what should I do??
Q. I have been going it with a man 10 years my senior (I am early 30's) He has terrible money problems that he refuses to address. He has moved away to get the great job he wanted but still makes no attempt to repay his debt. When he comes to visit...
A. 2 December 2007: YEs he has accepted the fact that he was being selfish but is he really making an effort to try and change that? This is something you must see for yourself. Maybe he just needs some help. Dont give up on him. Sometimes a person can be weak and they ... (read in full...)
How do I recover from my heartbreak and show him I don't need him??
Q. Oh somebody please help.. About a month ago i broke up with my boyfriend of a year...(we dated for 2 years before that and broke up for a year before we dated again up until recently) He was my bestfriend, my everything. I told talked to him abou...
A. 2 December 2007: This must be a very tough situation you are going through. HE has made you feel so hurt by picking up another girl to cover his true feelings. He is with her to get over you easier and quicker. Im not going to sit here and lie to you saying that its ... (read in full...)
I told her how I feel.....and she hasn't answered me...what do I do??
Q. I finally told her how I felt... I sat her down and told her that our friendship meant so much to me, and that I would never do anything that I knew would hurt it. I told her that I know she has a boyfriend and I respect him and their relation...
A. 2 December 2007: Well its sort of a shocking news that slaps us right in the face when we find out our closest friends have deep feelings for us.Put yourself in her position and try to understand her. This is a major shock for her so dont rush her into giving you ... (read in full...)
Is there a chance this could lead somewhere after a bad start??
Q. A month ago I had a date with a guy I fancied, but he didn't really know me at all. It didn't go brilliantly, and he never called me, but we e.mailed a couple of times after that. Last week we bumped into each other and had a long chat, and it f...
A. 2 December 2007: There is chance it could lead to another date. Who knows, maybe even something further. At the time though, it may not be such a good idea to rush things due to the fact that you are both going through a divorce but this will sort of be an advantage ... (read in full...)
Do you divorce someone you 'will always love'?
Q. I'm a 28 year old single guy, who has been seeing a married woman for the better part of a year. She first admitted having a romantic interest in me, and made it clear at that time, that her marriage had failed, and was on the way out the door. ...
A. 2 December 2007: Being IN LOVE and LOVING someone are two different emotions. Sometimes people get divorced because they are not as IN LOVE as they use to be even though they may still care about that person. Dont push her into doing something she doesnt want to ... (read in full...)
Why do I always get paranoid and think I will be ditched for someone else??
Q. Hi all, I am 33 and am currently dating a man of 38. We have only had 5 dates so far. Last night I took him to a dinner party with 7 other friends. There was a single girl there of a similar age to me who I thought was quite attractive. I notice...
A. 2 December 2007: Dont get too over your head. Obviously he was with you because he is interested in you. Its normal for people to be a little concerned that our partner would leave us for someone else. I dont think he would be that stupid to let go of something ... (read in full...)
This guy is lieing to me and my bf and it is tearing us apart.
Q. Ok, there is this guy who is a lil obbsessed with me but i have a boyfriend who i love verry much. This guy will do anything to break us up like lieing to me; saying he smokes and cheats on me and he says the same to my boyfriend but i really n...
A. 2 December 2007: Confront your bf about this matter. The both of you should talk and discuss how he is really making you both feel. Then confront the guy before he gets too over is head and can do something even worse. HE is trying to tear you both apart and he wont ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so old??
Q. I am 14 and i feel really old. I don't know why but i just do. I am the youngest in my house as well. Why do i feel old, i havent even finished school yet?...
A. 2 December 2007: You are confusing maturity with thinking that you are too old. Its normal sweetie. Your growing up and as you grow, you begin to think differently and look into different habits and hobbies. Your not old. Maybe your just beginning to be really ... (read in full...)
I love her but I am getting tierd of waiting for her to leave her bf...should I wait for as long as it takes or move on??
Q. Ok, so i really need some advice on what to do. I've been friends with this girl for a little over a year know and we became the best of friends ever, but when i met her she just got a boyfriend and they have been goin out for just about as long ...
A. 2 December 2007: I know exactly what you mean.It doesnt feel good knowing that a person who holds a special place in your heart is breaking it little by little. For your own sake, move on. She isnt worth the time and suffering for. Yes you may love her dearly but ... (read in full...)
My mum is dying but my aunt is acting like she is already dead.
Q. My mum was diagnosed with a terminal brain cancer in March and she is now getting worst. It has been a very tough time for the family since the diagnosis and it has not helped the way her sister (my aunt) has been acting since then. The doctors sa...
A. 2 December 2007: Seems to me your aunt must have some sort of grudge against your mother because all she is worried about is money and not even thinking about that in a matter of time, she'll have no sister by her side. You should tell your aunt that her presence is ... (read in full...)
My parents keep putting me down and saying I am insane...what should I do??
Q. My parents keep telling me i am insane, i have problems, keep putting me down, i am scared because i know if they keep saying it then it will drive me to insanity... What shall i do? thanks chris...
A. 2 December 2007: This is a problem where you must seek help for and very fast before matters get worse. Your parents arent giving you the respect that you deserve and noone deserves to be treated like that. Talk to your school counselor about this issue. Thats is ... (read in full...)
We broke up, now he's dissing me, but I still love him, should I just give up or can we be friends?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. There was no betrayal involved and it was mutual, but he has been nothing but rude to me ever since. He says he wants me to be happy, but he makes fun of me with his friends and gives me mean and ...
A. 2 December 2007: Seems to me this guy is a waste of your time and isnt worth the suffering. To me he is just acting tough in front of his friends and you shouldnt waste your time on a coward..on a little boy who is afraid to express his true feelings. He cant man up ... (read in full...)
I just want to be able to stop being so jealous and be able to trust.
Q. Hi I have a problem with trust and i don't know why. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for around 17 to 18 months now and I still don't trust him or any other bloke. I honestly don't beleive he has been unfaithful and I have never be...
A. 2 December 2007: Jealousy is word the represents your own insecurities. It happens to the most of us. When we love and cherish something, we tend to protect it the most we can. Its normal for you to feel this way. Just try to control yourself on how you handle ... (read in full...)
Am I being played here?
Q. wot am i doing... I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months now. It's been a roller coaster. I found out a month into that he was secretly getting back with his ex whilst seeing me.(I forgave him) then a month after that he ended everything...
A. 2 December 2007: Well ive seen this situation before. To me it is just an excuse. He seems confused about this whole thing but he needs to be a man and figure out what he needs to do and fast. Think about this though. How can you guarantee that he wont do the same ... (read in full...)
Traditional parents, not-so-traditional daughter
Q. My parents have long been telling me not to date. 1) boys get in the way of studies, 2) boys can go too far. I met this guy, we've dating for a long time.. and yes, I know this doesn't sound real, but to me.. it's the real thing. I'm 16 years old, ...
A. 2 December 2007: Well lying to them wasnt the way to go and that was a mistake but you should tell her your parents how you feel about the situation and let them know that you are getting older and you are starting to make your own decisions. Dont keep things from ... (read in full...)
Am I or aren't I???
Q. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend twice in one day. Both times he ejaculated in me. I started spotting 3 days later, which I'm due to start my period. Is there a good chance that I am pregnant? It's too soon to take a test.......
A. 2 December 2007: Well theres no doubt about the fact that you can be pregnant just as much as you arent. There are pregnancy tests that you can take at an early stage like this. Take a few of them as well as a doctors test to find out for sure. If your not, ... (read in full...)
My mother is too overprotective with me... Help!!!
Q. Help me, my mother is too over protective, I am worried as I am now 16 and live on an island and would like to move away after I finish school when I'm 18 but my mother won't let me. I am scared of her and she smacks me yeah but I cower in fear ...
A. 2 December 2007: A mother is a mother and its a mothers job to try and protect their children. She isnt doing anything wrong there. Yes you do need your own space as you are getting older but this is a situation you should discuss with your mother. Dont be bashful ... (read in full...)
Am I too old for him?
Q. hi all I met this guy about 4 weeks ago and everything is good between us we get on and have the same interest in music and films. I'm just worried as I'm 26 and he's 22. Do you think I should end it with him although we get on well, I'm just w...
A. 2 December 2007: There isnt much of an age difference in this case so theres nothing to worry about there. Dont worry about what people have to say. You both are interested in eachother and thats all that seems to matter. There will always be people in our lives ... (read in full...)
We've been going together 5 months and he hasn't tried to kiss me yet!
Q. I have a boyfriend in 8th garde and I am in 7th grade. We really like each other and we have been going out for 5 months, but we have not kissed. WE were watching tv and when he had to leave I asked him to stay for 2 mintues. I just don't know if I ...
A. 2 December 2007: Well it seems to me maybe he doesnt want to rush things either or maybe he is kind of shy. Maybe you should take the lead on this. Approach him. Dont give him those rush kisses because you never know what he may be thinking. You should slowly go for ... (read in full...)
The Wedding Night...
Q. I am an indian girl. My family is talking about getting me married, but I am worried. I haven't really talked to anybody, but I wanted to know something. On the first night after the wedding takes place do we you know ... have sex? I mean I know we ...
A. 2 December 2007: Well this is something you must discuss with your partner. He is the man you are going to spend the rest of your life with so you both need to build up your communicating skills. Dont feel shy about asking him these kind of things because you have ... (read in full...)
I feel like this is a line and means nothing. What do you think?
Q. I dated a man for 10 months, and though we never sat down and had a conversation agreeing to be exclusive, he told me that he was not seeing anyone else four months. Six weeks ago, I told him I didn't want to see anyone else either and he seemed ...
A. 2 December 2007: Actions speak louder than words and this is something he has to prove to you. To me that is a line that is very common in this kind of situation. He lied to you and you deserve better. I think you made the right choice about giving yourself a break. ... (read in full...)
Do I have a right to be concerned here?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. He's bisexual and I have never had a problem with it. He's never cheated on me with a guy, although in the past he cheated on me twice with the same girl. Anyways, the other night while we were ...
A. 2 December 2007: Well it does seem to be a little suspicious to me. He gave you a reason to be cocerned and to have lost trust in him. You are aware of his sexual status and to me he disrespected you when he was discussing to other men who are also bi or gay about ... (read in full...)
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