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writes:hi well to start with one of my male friends his housemate (mr x) and he invited me out on a night out, the next night, so we went out and had fun and next thing you know were back at my house having sex for the full night and day and this happens again on 3 other occasions and then we had sex sober.since were both at uni we both went home but he asked me to be faithful to him which i was but he came back with bite marks all over his neck and back but he swears he never had sex which i believe him.i really like this guy but i hate that he can control me by using my emotions as he knows that i like him, so what confuses me the most is are we just gonna be friends or lovers or much more?any advice is welcome thank you in advance Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2007): Maybe he has realized the wrongness he was committing. He probably felt guilty for what he is doing because maybe now he is starting to have feelings for you. That can be a sign of respect but you may never know. Talk to him about it and ask him why did he do that. Try and be open and honest with each other.
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reader, lawgal +, writes (12 December 2007):
lawgal is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsince were both at university we both have had a lot of work on as where coming up to christmas and he has been helping me out a lot as i have with him, but we both went out to our minds off all of our work and and relax and we talked alot and i left down my defences and told him that i liked him and he said he like me to but later on in to the night, i admit we had both too much to drink and i did try it on with him to which he responed back and he took the lead and then he stopped when we were on the verge of having sex and then he said he was sorry and left what i dont understand is if he likes me then why did he do that?
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reader, Sandman  +, writes (3 December 2007):
 bqagirl2692 is right, be careful with this guy. He's probably using you for his sexual flings. Oh, and men don't just have bite marks on necks and backs just because. It's not like acne or something - like it just appears. Those marks are "marks of passion" left there by another woman. You can continue to see him if you want to and continue to be sexual with him if that's what you want. But don't believe him that he isn't screwing around on you. Ask him where the bite marks came from.
Hope this helps.
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (3 December 2007):
 He is playing with your emotions to control you. You dont deserve that and you have to show him that your stronger than that. Just because you may care for him does not mean your going to be treated like his little toy. I see this as more of a physical thing than becoming a real relationship. You cant commit to someone who wont do the same back. Be careful about this guy. Dont show him too much of your emotions, Otherwise, he'll just take advantage.
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