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writes: Hey,I have a problem and I really need to get it off my chest. So here goes, I met this guy about a few months ago, but he lives quite far away so I've only seen him once, for the first three weeks or so after that we were talking and texting all night every night and stuff was really going somewhere!Then it just kind of fizzled off, so I left it, but the problem is I can't stop thinking about him, I went clubbing with my mates the other night and there were so many hot guys chatting to me, but I found myself not even slightly attracted to any of them!I just couldn't stop thinking about this guy.We haven't properly spoken in a few weeks, but I was on msn the other night at about 2 in the morning because I couldn't sleep and he was on there and we were talking for ages, and I really fancy him quite alot!And I don't know what to do about it because we sometimes dont speak at all, and he's a tattooist and we were talking about me coming up sometime to get tattooed, but its all properly vague.Do I just forget about him, as It seems to be a hopeless fantasy of us being together?Argh please help, it's driving me mad, as i assumed i would just forget about him, but he seems to be everything i look for in a guy and more.I dont want to be all clingy, so i dont constantly text him or talk to him on msn, but when we do ocassionaly talk, we have really good conversations and he gives me butterflys.Any help would be greatly appreciated.Thanks x x x
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (3 December 2007):
Let time decide for you.Don't be clingy,right but don't think too much aboout him.Easier said than done,i know.If you really are so into him,why don't you tell him how you feel.Tell him you would like to meet him personally and see him more but don't be too expectant as things may turn out different when you meet.All the best.
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reader, sarcy24  +, writes (3 December 2007):
 Honey,I also agree if he is the one for you don't let it pass you by. The only thing I would say from experience is do not be desperate or needy in any way as that is a real turn off to men. Be calm and polite and above all interested in what he has to say. make no demands on his time and when the conversation is finished just let him go. Do not say when can we meet etc etc. He will be back for more! Good luck
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (3 December 2007):
 Since i am such a lover type of person, i believe that you shouldnt let feelings like this past you by. If he is all that you are looking fo,r then honey dont let it go because you maybe he's the one for you. Keep in contact with him despite of the distance between you both. Maybe there could be just a lot more coming your way with this guy. If you put your heart and mind into something, anything is possible.
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