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writes:I posted this earlier but forgot to include an important part in it.I've started becoming friends with my sister's friends, and one of her best friends and I have been hanging out a lot recently without her. Recently, we got drunk and we made out and he told me that he liked me and has been eyeing me for a while. A few days later when we were sober we talked on the phone and he suggested that we spend time together. When we finally got together, he said he wasn't ready for a relationship/he was bisexual and had a history with my sister.I know that he likes me and is attracted to me, which makes it so hard for me because I really like him. I want to be able to feel comfortable around him but I feel like there's a lot of things I have to ask him like why we can't go out, etc. I'm afraid that talking to him will make him feel uncomfortable though... what should I do?The hard part is I can't talk to anybody about this since he hasn't come out yet, and everybody I feel comfortable with knows who he is. I would like to talk to my sister, but even she doesn't know so I don't know what to do. Should I wait a few months until he comes out to her and then talk to her first? It will be very hard to hold it in that long.
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (3 December 2007):
 Well as you said in the other post, you were confused if you should talk to him about this or not. Well since you cant talk to anyone else about this then your left with no choice but to discuss things with him. It doesnt hurt to talk to someone and let them know how you feel. Simply tell him like it is, and accept whatever he has to say about it. Good luck!
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