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reader, dr.2.be  +, writes (3 July 2009):
 Hey girl, I know how that feels, I went through the same thing when I was 13.
My mom didn't want me to get a second hole in my ear either and she thought cartilage piercings were whack. She was really old fashioned and wouldn't even let me wear baggy jeans to school or too much black. It was like that until I turned 18. Then it didn't matter to her anymore. I ended up getting 9 piercings.
Cuffs will be a good idea, and they do look like the real thing. Just make sure you take them off at night so you don't lose circulation in your ear as some can be rather tight. When you turn 18 or become a legal adult, your mom may ease up a bit on the rules. Thats when you can get it done for good. A tip for the future though if you do decide to get the real deal, go to a tattoo/body piercing studio for cartilage. They use a needle instead of a gun. Guns will damage your cartilage and you will get hard bumps. Plus it heals up much faster too. I can go into more detail if you wanna know. So just feel free to message me!
Good Luck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI forgive you but you shouldn't let ur kids do whatev they want cause that's not good parenting they will get spoiled and hurt. It's obvious that when you do hav kids if u decide to you will change ur mind once you c them cause you want to protect them and keep them safe letting them do things that they want to do isn't always best and sometimes to keep them safe you have to be mean
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2009): ok so maybe im an idiot in some aspects i put my hands up and retire. eyes and satin do have a point iam a complete maroon its just im the kind of person who if i had a child would let them do what makes them happy thats all. but i admitted you all have a point considering she lives under her mothers roof. i beg forgiveness for being a nut
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks satindesire! and it's true eyeswideopen!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (2 July 2009):
 FYI my remark was to xxpassionxx.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (2 July 2009):
Right so following your logic let's ask a one year old if he needs a diaper change. There's a damn good reason parents were invented.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell excuse you my mom has everyright, am i 18 NO am i living under her roof YES so i like the decission NO but she is allowd to tell me so I would seriously apreciate it if you stopped leaving comments like that satindesire was 120% right, unlike u
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): 13 or not satindesire the fact of the matter is however old you are you and only you should have the choice to do what you want to your body. and at 13 i certainly would not let my mum or anyone make decisions etc on what i can or cant do with my body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank-you satindesire I wasn't going to say anything to them but you did! Thanks, but my mom isn't old fashioned she just thinks it isn't nice and that I'm to young. you have been extrodinarly helpful. Thank-you satindesire
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone you have all been very helpful!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): they are your ears not hers.she cannot tell you what to do with your body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks I will consider getting a fake one but where could I get it?
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reader, "I hAvE mY oN pRoMbLe" +, writes (1 July 2009):
Don't go behind your mom's back because that will make her not trust you. I know, when I was 13 I was in middle school and these other girls were talking about piercing their ear not let someone do it but they wanted to do their own. Being the dumb person I am I went home with my ear pierced, yeah I did it!I tried to not let my mum see it but she did and she was very upset with me, very very upset and no, my ear didn't fall off, it is in good condition but I was afraid it was going to fall off. The moral of my story is to do what your mom asks you because your days will be shortened and what goes around will come around, believe me.
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reader, betty_black  +, writes (1 July 2009):
 Well i came home at 13 years old with a lip piercing, then another, and another and another.... Til my face was like a sieve!! Its not cool... But its only an ear piercing, as long as your not stretching them id have no problem letting you get them pierced! But if you've talked it out with her and she really doesnt like the idea then get fake ones.
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