Living with and loving my cousin but now he likes someone else!
Q. >ok,so, i have a problem,I'm in love with my cousin,i live in the same house as he does his 18 and I'm 24 yrs old, i live with my 2 aunts, and the thing is that i don't look 24 i look like I'm 17 or 18, OK it all started one day wen we decided ...
A. 20 May 2010: Ok - so I see you are back for the third time. I told you this would go down hill. Your cousin does not LOVE YOU. You keep attacking him (you call it playing and wresting) he gets aroused because he's a kid/guy (BTW-I know that you know this) and ... (read in full...)
I confessed I had sent fake pics to my online boyfriend, ..now he wants to see the real me but I am scared he wont like what he see's.
Q. I've been in a long distance relationship for 9 months. We're recently broken up, and I showed my boyfriend fake pictures, and only JUST showed him my actual self a few days ago. I was terrified to tell him, but he actually took it MUCH better than ...
A. 14 April 2010: Chances are he feels the same way about himself (self conscious) that you do. If you have been talking for 9 months I should think that he is in love with you (the person) not your body or physical appearance. The fact that he "forgave" you for ... (read in full...)
Can't quite orgasm ...
Q. When my husband and i have sex I can't orgasm. I get really close it keeps building and building to the point of pain and then I completely panic and make him stop touching me. We stimulate the clit and he's inside me that's what gets me there but ...
A. 10 April 2010: Try to relax...I know easy for me to say. Sometimes if you are "trying" too hard it just won't happen. Also for women there has to be a certain amount of tension and a certain amount of relaxation - I know sounds like oil and water - but if you ... (read in full...)
Too painful to lose my virginity! Is his penis too big?
Q. My bf having a very thick and large penis (about 8.5"), when we try to have sex last night, it felt like I am never try to do leg split before and somebody force you to split and then some skin torn away. I scream in pain but his penis head still ...
A. 10 April 2010: Make an appointment with a gynecologist to see about this problem. You may have vaginisms. A doctor can help you with this. You should also be on birth control if you are going to have sex. ... (read in full...)
Is he into me? Or is he just using me?
Q. hello im gracie and my first time writing on hear so hope im doing this right:) I dont really no whats going on with me at the moment, i meet this guy get on well, and have slept with him twice, but i still dont really no where i stand, He was ...
A. 10 April 2010: No sweetheart - he does not like you - he just wants to get in your pants and most despicable of all he is asking you for a picture of you masturbating!? Why are you not appalled by this behavior and request? Listen to Caring Guy. He's right. ... (read in full...)
Former booty call..still have feelings for me?
Q. Does he have feelings for me? I had a booty call a few years ago but we both ended up dating other people and having kids by them. In January of this year we hooked up again and as of today niether of us are with the other parent of our children. We ...
A. 10 April 2010: What is it that he did that made you furious?
Is this when you had the text message fight?
How many kids do you have?
Where is/are the father(s) of the kid(s)?
If you don't want to answer here you can private post me in my mailbox on thi... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for wanting more commitment from him?
Q. The man i've been with for three years keeps telling me he,ll marry me and he,s even gotten me a ring but wont make any plans,just excuses like when your son gets out of jail so he can be there,and when you stop saying your leaving,what he dont ...
A. 10 April 2010: To answer your question - NO! You have every right to feel the way you do. Here's the problem - when some (not all) people live together like you two are doing - he's not motivated to take the next step. Why should he? He's got things just the ... (read in full...)
How do I persuade my mum to let me go on holiday with my boyfriend?
Q. Hi. I'm seventeen and my boyfriend has asked me to go away with him for a few days in the summer. We wouldn't be going far, just to the coast about 2 hours drive away, and only for a few days - a week maximum - and by then I'd be nearly 18. I ...
A. 10 April 2010: Hi honey - what reason is your mum giving for not wanting you to go on the trip?... (read in full...)
Is it just my hormones, or is he being unreasonable?
Q. i have just turnt 18, my boyfriend is 25. i have recently found out i am pregnant...at the time i was shocked but ok about it. my boyfriend said he aint going to touch drink while im pregnant, but there he is already going round his mates for a ...
A. 10 April 2010: Well dear since you didn't use birth control (or didn't use it properly) and are now pregnant you are essentially "stuck" with this guy for at least the next 18 years (unless you don't have child support laws like we do here in the US). That being ... (read in full...)
My problem is my husband's family!
Q. My problem is my husband's family! We unfortunately moved on to property 10 years ago that his dad gave HIM and we placed our home there. The remaining acerage is to go to HIM when his dad dies. The one acre our home is on is ours together due to ...
A. 9 April 2010: Tisha-1 is hilarious however I don't think you are up to topless yoga. Look Honey - you married a weak momma's boy with a nasty-ass family. They've already got your number and know it - why do you think they do what they do? Yeah that's right - ... (read in full...)
Should I ask out this girl on my route?
Q. There is this girl on my delivery route I want to ask out. Here is the deal. I only see her if I am there at certain times of the day, so not everyday. When we do see each other she is always makeing extended eye contact and smileing etc. We s...
A. 9 April 2010: If she is smiling and making extended eye contact - ask her out! You seem like such a nice guy I am sure there will be no problem. It is so gentlemanly of you to actually ask her out on a date. I was beginning to think that art (asking for a ... (read in full...)
My problem is my husband's family!
Q. My problem is my husband's family! We unfortunately moved on to property 10 years ago that his dad gave HIM and we placed our home there. The remaining acerage is to go to HIM when his dad dies. The one acre our home is on is ours together due to ...
A. 8 April 2010: One more thing - your problem is not you're husband's family - IT'S HIM!... (read in full...)
My problem is my husband's family!
Q. My problem is my husband's family! We unfortunately moved on to property 10 years ago that his dad gave HIM and we placed our home there. The remaining acerage is to go to HIM when his dad dies. The one acre our home is on is ours together due to ...
A. 8 April 2010: here is your question: Is there any chance that my husband will ever see what I am talking about???? THE ANSWER IS NO - HE WILL NOT. I have some questions for you:
How old are you?
He is 36 - right?
Do you have any kids? (IMPORTANT) ... (read in full...)
Why did my ex register me with dating sites?
Q. Please can anyone out there tell me why my ex would constantly accuse me of going to dating sites whilst we were together,which i did not unless it was to remove my details when we got back together.i recently discovered that my name,age and ...
A. 7 April 2010: This guy is a complete asshole. Don't waste any more of your energy on trying to figure out why he did such a stupid and despicable act. It's easy to see that he is psycho! Don't waste another minute on this jerk and avoid this type in the ... (read in full...)
Love among the ruins
Q. I hope it's all right if I write. I'm not your traditional client. I'm 62, and I recently bumped (quite accidentally) into my very first real love, a girl for whom I gladly would have died, in 1966. The Vietnam war separated us. She then married ...
A. 7 April 2010: I love it Old Moss! Go for it. She's yours! Keep us posted. @boo22 - perfect answer! ... (read in full...)
How do I get really physically comfortable with her?
Q. About 2 months ago I got out of a long relationship. Based on all the various issues I've had in my relationships I'm certain that being single for a while is the best thing for me. There's this girl I've been seeing casually who is really great. ...
A. 6 April 2010: Relax! You just got out of a long term relationship. You know there are too many people that are jumping into bed without even getting to know the other's last name. Relax - if you are comfortable with yourself you will be comfortable with her. ... (read in full...)
Sister staying in bad marriage for the kids--should she do this?
Q. It pains me to no end that my sister married a pathological liar. He lied about everything before they got married. He lied about his childhood, he lied about being in the army, he lied about what his family's line of work, he lied about being an ...
A. 6 April 2010: Sweetie - don't say you're never getting married! Trust me your sister had signs but I think she chose to ignore them. This is very common. It's just unfortunate that she had a child with this asshole.
... (read in full...)
We've been talking on the internet for 2 years, should I meet him?
Q. Should I meet up with a guy I met on the internet when I travel to his country later this year? I met this guy on a facebook application about 2 years ago and we've chatted very regulary on msn ever since. We have lots of common interests and I ...
A. 6 April 2010: Oh Sweetie in that case good luck! Let us know what happens! Love the follow up stories
1... (read in full...)
Living with and loving my cousin but now he likes someone else!
Q. >ok,so, i have a problem,I'm in love with my cousin,i live in the same house as he does his 18 and I'm 24 yrs old, i live with my 2 aunts, and the thing is that i don't look 24 i look like I'm 17 or 18, OK it all started one day wen we decided ...
A. 6 April 2010: I'll repeat myself! Grow up and act your age. You are a 24 year old woman. He is 18 and ruled by his hormones. He's not even old enough to go in a bar! This can't go anywhere but down hill and very fast at that! He's got a girlfriend. Get a guy ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with someone else
Q. Hi, im in a relation ship with an incredibly gorgeous girl, the only thing is, im in love with someone else. The girl i love doesn't know about this yet, and neither does my girlfriend, also, my girlfriend lives like two/three bus rides away, whic...
A. 3 April 2010: Dear Kieran: Listen to CaringGuy. He's right. Go after what you want - where your heart leads you as long as you are not doing it because it's convnient (10 min away). Know what I'm saying?... (read in full...)
I moved on quickly and I still feel guilty towards my ex... why?
Q. Hi all, just a quick question... well, quick by my standards anyway During the summer, I dated a girl for a couple of months. We had a nice time together, we really developed feelings for eachother in the short time period. When the end of the s...
A. 3 April 2010: Did you promise your ex anything at all, a LDR maybe? If not you were not wrong. She is the one who should feel bad. What a bitch - to take pot shots at your masculinity on FB? That's just nasty! NO! You should not care unless you promised her ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend blows me off and gets nasty and I am not sure what I should do
Q. So my boyfriend of a year has gotten very controlling and jealous. I had to delete my facebook and every guy in my phone because of him. He blows me off every weekend for friends and barley talks to me on weekdays. Then when I go hang out with...
A. 3 April 2010: THIS IS YOU: I ask him to hang every weekend but he always blows me off. Why do you want to be with a guy like this? Does this sound like he cares about you?
THIS IS YOU: so when I go do something with friends I always end up in tears cause ... (read in full...)
Can anyone explain why I feel guilty?
Q. Right i wrote here before regarding my alcoholic ex boyfriend who smashed my windows and how he was awful to me. well idiot me got back with him and he got worse and worse he has smashed every window in my house cut the sky cable and just been ...
A. 3 April 2010: It is my sincere wish that you have learned from this and will be able to move forward in your life.
Never take this sort of guy on again. It will always end up the same. You deserve a man who treats you with dignity and respect. ... (read in full...)
Am I overreacting? Or is my boyfriend a liar?
Q. I need an unbiased opinion on if I am over reacting or if my boyfriend is a liar. We have been together almost 2 years, he treats me very well, he is 37 and I live with him, he's had many girlfriends but never been married and never lived with ...
A. 3 April 2010: Stop now! You are going to nag and whine your way right out of this relationship. Relax!... (read in full...)
Should I let him go out with his single male friends?
Q. I am happily married. I'm 17 years old and my husband is 20. We're very in love and supported by both of our families. Things have been great. I love it. We do everything together including cooking meals, and just sitting back watching TV. The ...
A. 3 April 2010: Of couse he wants to go out! He's 20! Him being faithful to you has nothing to do with his friends but this is a slippery slope for him to be on. He is way to young to be married anyway. ... (read in full...)
I'm developing feelings for my "friend" and would like it to be more...
Q. Ok so I had this girl that liked me, messed up, enough said... Now we talk and she seems to want to open up again, says she misses me, lost her virginity to his other guy she hates and says it was horrible... She talks about sex to me and she is ...
A. 3 April 2010: What do you do? Call her and ask her out. Plan the date. Take her somewhere for something to eat and maybe a movie. It seems like she wants to get back with you. Take it easy and be the nice guy you are. Things will fall into place. ... (read in full...)
How can we be friends when he doesn't treat me like one?
Q. I told my best friend who I like a lot today that I'm done. I'm sick of him not talking to me or caring about me. Me and Bob are close we have known each other for 2 years now. He smiles at me and I gave him a hug. If I smile at him he laughs and ...
A. 2 April 2010: You can't. If he is not treating you like a friend then he is not your friend. It's as simple as that! You've got the hots for this guy and he knows it and he's playing you like a fiddle and most likely reporting your behavior to others making ... (read in full...)
A rough diamond? Compliment? or Insult?
Q. what If your boyfriend says (your' a rough diomand )rough aound the edges.is that insult .or cheeky towards me.?...
A. 2 April 2010: Some one who is a "diamond in the rough" is a person who has a lot of redeeming qualities but is just a little rough around the edges, manners, ladylikeness, that sort of thing. ... (read in full...)
He's my fiance and the father of my kids - Am I losing him? Please help
Q. Well I've been with my Fiance for about 18 months now. Things got serious very quickly, partly because I already had a 4 month old baby when we met. He bonded with my son brilliantly and now sees him as his son. He's a brilliant dad, and a month ago ...
A. 2 April 2010: How old are you?
How old is he?
You've got a 22 month old and a new born. Is that right?
Does he work full time supporting you and the kids?
Do you stay at home with the kids?
Get back to me as I need more information to give an informed ans... (read in full...)
Living with and loving my cousin but now he likes someone else!
Q. >ok,so, i have a problem,I'm in love with my cousin,i live in the same house as he does his 18 and I'm 24 yrs old, i live with my 2 aunts, and the thing is that i don't look 24 i look like I'm 17 or 18, OK it all started one day wen we decided ...
A. 2 April 2010: What you doing here? You are six years old than him! I don't care if you look like you're 12! Doesn't matter. You have no business messing around with him like this! Lay off. Get a guy your own age and leave this kid alone. Shame on you!... (read in full...)
I'm in love with someone but I'm in a relationship! What should I do?
Q. Ok well i'm in love with another guy. but i'm in a relationship. my now boyfriend is an alcoholic and tends to treat me lik crap when he's buzz. but the sex is great. the other guy is romantic and sweet don't drink an very very sexy. what should i ...
A. 2 April 2010: I think you already know the answer. The current BF's drinking is only going to get worse and he crappy to you on top of that! Why are you even asking if you should dump him for a decent guy. This is a now brainer! Go for the good guy. Never let ... (read in full...)
Separated pregnant and not thrilled about it!
Q. I started dating this new guy and im recently separated and pregnant. The baby is certainly the new guys. I cant stand pregnancy because I get so fat. plus its summer too. The guy that father my child has four other children and four different ...
A. 2 April 2010: ummmm....let's see by your admission you can't stand being pregnant - has it ever occurred to use birth control while engaging is sex. Use of effective contraception usually results in NO UNWANTED PREGNANCY. That being said. I would seek an ... (read in full...)
His love for me seems to be fading. Is there anything I can do?
Q. basically my relationship is slowly falling apart, and i feel like there is nothing i can do to stop this. its been a few months since i knew the love is fading, its not that my love for him is fading, its the other way round, i feel his love for...
A. 2 April 2010: Go to Planned Parenthood at once! See why your period is late and do something about it. Having a baby with this uncaring cad will only bring you a lifetime of heartache.
Why do you even care about this guy? By your own admission, he prefers ... (read in full...)
We've been talking on the internet for 2 years, should I meet him?
Q. Should I meet up with a guy I met on the internet when I travel to his country later this year? I met this guy on a facebook application about 2 years ago and we've chatted very regulary on msn ever since. We have lots of common interests and I ...
A. 2 April 2010: How about if he comes to you? Is that possible?... (read in full...)
Is it right for an 18 year old to date their teacher?
Q. I've got a little problem and i need help urgently. . I just agreed to date my teacher and i don't know if i did the right thing. .pls advise me on it....
A. 2 April 2010: This is not the right thing to do if he is still your teacher and being in his position he if fully aware of this. Don't do it. You will end up getting used. If he is NOT your current teacher and you have graduated that's different. ... (read in full...)
How can I track down a police officer I fancy with only his first name?
Q. I am very interested in a neighborhood police officer. He is also interested but is always on duty when we see each other and can't ask me out. I would like to get in touch with him but only have his first name. When we introduced ourselves we ...
A. 2 April 2010: If he patrols in your neighborhood find out what precinct he's in. Call the precinct - hopefully he won't have a common name like John. See if you can leave a message for him. How many times have you met or spoken? If you are able to give him ... (read in full...)
Opinions on this please. Does this girl like me?
Q. Does the girl like me? I am a mute (verbally impaired). I say this, because it will come up. I can't figure out if this girl likes me and I really don't want to ask. Every time I see her she smiles at me and stares (kinda.. Hard to explain. I'm ...
A. 2 April 2010: Oh Honey! If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck - it's a duck! Yes she likes you! Keep your verbal impairment out the equation. She knows this about you. By all indications she like you. OK?... (read in full...)
I want my wife to have the tatoo of her ex removed!
Q. Tattoo must go. That's my issue with my wife. My wife never dated much and was a virgin until she met this guy, and even then was while they were dating, however, her parents were a nightmare and she ended up leaving home and moving in with B...
A. 2 April 2010: EbonyBlossom is right on all issues. She needs to get that thing covered up! ... (read in full...)
My highschool sweetheart has had feelings for me since 1974!
Q. Back when I was in high school, I dated this guy. He planned on marrying me after we graduated. I never knew this until now. We haven't seen one another from '74 until now. But he has been looking for me. His feelings are the same as back then. Th...
A. 2 April 2010: Do not see this guy until he leaves his wife - or you are in for serious trouble. Look his kids are adults now. They'll get over it. If he really wants to be with you he'll do the right thing. In the meantime don't be so accommodating to a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend found out all my secrets and I feel lik I cant talk to him
Q. My boyfriend told me that he read my diary and he told me what page it was and it amberrasted me totally! I dont een know if i can talk to him but i should be able to speak to him because he is my boyfriend. I need some edvice please respond to ...
A. 2 April 2010: CaringGuy is again spot on. Listen to him sweetie. This guy is not a nice guy. ... (read in full...)
Sister staying in bad marriage for the kids--should she do this?
Q. It pains me to no end that my sister married a pathological liar. He lied about everything before they got married. He lied about his childhood, he lied about being in the army, he lied about what his family's line of work, he lied about being an ...
A. 2 April 2010: To answer your question NO! She needs to get this man out of her life now! How unfortunate that she had a child with him but she and the baby are better off without this guy. Listen to CaringGuy! He is spot on about this. I also think that your ... (read in full...)
I feel my fiance should pull his weight financially
Q. My finance has been living with me and my 2 children for about a year and a half. We make the same amount of money but he only pays for food. He says he won't help with the house payment and utilities because I would be paying for them if he wasn't ...
A. 2 April 2010: Listen to the writers above. They are all spot on.
What he doesn't use the utilities or anything? This guy is a freeloader and that won't change. And maybe this is just me but I also don't think it's a good idea to move a man into your hous... (read in full...)
Can anyone explain why I feel guilty?
Q. Right i wrote here before regarding my alcoholic ex boyfriend who smashed my windows and how he was awful to me. well idiot me got back with him and he got worse and worse he has smashed every window in my house cut the sky cable and just been ...
A. 1 April 2010: Please re-read what I told you the first time! Your family has every right to be upset with you! Look at what you've done! You took that drunk back again and look what he did to your mum's house!!! To answer your question specifically, no you are ... (read in full...)
Love among the ruins
Q. I hope it's all right if I write. I'm not your traditional client. I'm 62, and I recently bumped (quite accidentally) into my very first real love, a girl for whom I gladly would have died, in 1966. The Vietnam war separated us. She then married ...
A. 30 March 2010: Dear Old Moss: What a great story! Best wishes both to you and Debbie. We are all so glad you took our advice and took a chance with your long lost love. May you lives the rest of your life happy. ... (read in full...)
Can anyone explain why I feel guilty?
Q. Right i wrote here before regarding my alcoholic ex boyfriend who smashed my windows and how he was awful to me. well idiot me got back with him and he got worse and worse he has smashed every window in my house cut the sky cable and just been ...
A. 29 March 2010: Make an appointment with a therapist. You have extreme low self esteem which is why you got back with awful BF in the first place. Try finding out what your deal is otherwise you will keep picking the same sort. Understand?... (read in full...)
Love among the ruins
Q. I hope it's all right if I write. I'm not your traditional client. I'm 62, and I recently bumped (quite accidentally) into my very first real love, a girl for whom I gladly would have died, in 1966. The Vietnam war separated us. She then married ...
A. 19 March 2010: Have a great summer! I think you will find love with Debbie and will finally be happy. Keep us posted. This is such a good story. ... (read in full...)
Love among the ruins
Q. I hope it's all right if I write. I'm not your traditional client. I'm 62, and I recently bumped (quite accidentally) into my very first real love, a girl for whom I gladly would have died, in 1966. The Vietnam war separated us. She then married ...
A. 7 March 2010: Oh Old Moss you sound like such a wonderful guy. What a precious man you are! I believe that fate has reunited you. Go to her! Take it slow....keep us posted! Who doesn't love a good love story?... (read in full...)
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