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Too painful to lose my virginity! Is his penis too big?

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Question - (10 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2010)
A female Australia age 30-35, *tchew writes:

My bf having a very thick and large penis (about 8.5"), when we try to have sex last night, it felt like I am never try to do leg split before and somebody force you to split and then some skin torn away. I scream in pain but his penis head still not enter me fully yet. Is the pain come from my hymen or from the vagina wall stretching?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2010):

your hymen may have ruptured and still not fully opened. As such you will have to give another try and with care gapping helps

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A female reader, Auntie E United States +, writes (10 April 2010):

Auntie E agony auntMake an appointment with a gynecologist to see about this problem. You may have vaginisms. A doctor can help you with this. You should also be on birth control if you are going to have sex.

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A male reader, pipsta Australia +, writes (10 April 2010):

Hi there,

It does sound like he might be quite large to lose your virginity to, but there are ways of making it easier on yourself.

Have you been sing lubricant? this could help.

If this still hurts, then try masturbating prior to sex, inserting fingers or a vibrator to help loosen your vagina.

Jus make sure you ue lubricant, otherwise it will definately hurt.

Good luck!

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