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Is he into me? Or is he just using me?

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Question - (10 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hello im gracie and my first time writing on hear so hope im doing this right:)

I dont really no whats going on with me at the moment, i meet this guy get on well, and have slept with him twice, but i still dont really no where i stand,

He was the one yesterday to start kissing me and stuff,

But i dont no if he really likes me

Ive always said to myself if a guy comes on to you, that they kinda like you, but he hasnt said anything like this to me,

And ok i havent said anything to him about me liking him,

Im going to give some signs that may help you ssay if he likes me

X he kept grapping my boobs

X he asked me to send pictures of me playing withmyself( which i havent sent him)

X we talk mostly every day

X he puts kissis at the end of everything and a wink smiliy face

dies he like me or just playing me

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010):

nope, he's just into sex with you but doesn't like you for much more. If a guy comes onto you it just means he wants sex and he doesn't have to like you to want that.

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A female reader, Auntie E United States +, writes (10 April 2010):

Auntie E agony auntNo sweetheart - he does not like you - he just wants to get in your pants and most despicable of all he is asking you for a picture of you masturbating!? Why are you not appalled by this behavior and request? Listen to Caring Guy. He's right. Don't ever have sex with a guy that quickly. The "signs" that you gave as examples that he may like you are deplorable! Grabbing your breasts is NEVER ok. That just rude and disrespectful to you. He asked you to pose for a pornographic picture! This is criminal!Don't ever do that either (do you really think a guy like this would keep that picture to himself?) The fact that you talk "mostly every day" and he "puts kisses at the end of everything and a wink smiley face" does not negate his terrible behavior. You should never allow a man to treat you this way! EVER! To answer your question: Yes he is playing you because he knows you are an easy lay - so far you have been.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2010):

The problem is that you had sex too quickly without really getting to know what he wanted. You need to know where you stand before you do all this. Because now, it really does appear as if he's just using you. All those things that you listed are just an indication that he likes you sexually, but nothing else.

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