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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I need an unbiased opinion on if I am over reacting or if my boyfriend is a liar. We have been together almost 2 years, he treats me very well, he is 37 and I live with him, he's had many girlfriends but never been married and never lived with someone before. I also have to say I probably have some trust issues, my first bf cheated on me multiple times so i probably have some trust issues from that. I also know my bf had cheated on some of his ex girlfriends so that makes it even harder to trust him. He says we are more serious than any of his previous gfs tho, and he is pretty open with me, says I'm always invited to go with anywhere he goes, always answers his phone etc.But in the course of the past year I have become more suspicious. Here is what I've found:He recently told my friends boyfriend he was verrrry good with this girl I don't like. with an emphasis on the *verrrry*. He thought it was a strange comment so he told me. My boyfriends answer is that he was being sarcastic, they're barely friends and he was just being sarcastic. He IS friends with her however, even though we dislike each other bc she slept w/my friends bf! Topless photo of a girl we know on his phone. He says it was taken by a friend who sent it to me and they laughed over it.A girl told her friends my bf tried to kiss her! My boyfriend says she was making this up out of anger. She applied to his job, he's in charge of the hiring and he hired a guy she used to date for the job instead of her, of course she's pissed he got it instead of her and this girl is kinda crazyI saw a picture of him and aNother girl I don't like at a basketball game together. He says they just ran into each other there. Plenty of people go to games!He is very flirtatious, I've always known this, he is very friendly to girls even in front of me and I just don't know what to believe.
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reader, rambini  +, writes (12 April 2010):
 where you seek you will always find, basically you are looking for reasons not to trust him and reasons to get mad at him, that must feel awful to him as he must sense that you dont fully trust him and a relationship is weak without trust. i think you should relax and enjoy your relationship. best of luck x
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reader, Auntie E  +, writes (3 April 2010):
 Stop now! You are going to nag and whine your way right out of this relationship. Relax!
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