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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:About 2 months ago I got out of a long relationship. Based on all the various issues I've had in my relationships I'm certain that being single for a while is the best thing for me. There's this girl I've been seeing casually who is really great. I've told her I don't want a relationship and she seems completely fine with it.The thing that's puzzling me is that I haven't been able to get really physically comfortable with her. We've been seeing each other for a few weeks and while I am more comfortable now than I was when things first started it's moving at a snail's pace.I'm not completely sure what's causing this and I'm wondering if there was something I could do to help myself become more comfortable with her. Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (6 April 2010):
 Relax! You just got out of a long term relationship. You know there are too many people that are jumping into bed without even getting to know the other's last name. Relax - if you are comfortable with yourself you will be comfortable with her. She seems like a nice girl. Take it easy.
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