I can't orgasm!
Q. Hello All, I am in a new relationship and when my boyfriend and I are together we have sex on average of 3-4 times a day. I am really turned on by him even when he does something as small as rub my back and sex feels really amazing BUT, I c...
A. 15 March 2010: The female orgasm has a lot to do with state of mind. Don't focus solely on coming, just enjoy the feeling and your partner and it will happen.
Have you ever given yourself an orgasm? If you don't know how to get yourself off, you won't be able ... (read in full...)
Just friends with benifits.
Q. i am in a physical relationship with a boy who has recently come out of a 3 year relationship. We see each other and are intimate but he claims we are just friends however aspects of our relationship are those that couples have it has been 2 months ...
A. 15 March 2010: Well this is the thing with FWB relationships. Feelings often become entangled in this web and its hard to escape. You need to clarify exactly what you want to him, and ask him the same.
To me it seems like he is not looking for a relation... (read in full...)
I don't know if I can wait 3 years...
Q. I'm 17 years old and live in the UK. I met a friend online a year ago, he lives in saudi arabia and is the same age as me. we have been in a relationship for just under a year. i love him a lot and the feelings the same, but we are not going to meet ...
A. 10 March 2010: Oh dear.. I find myself in the same predicament as you. My boyfriend lives in another country and I feel as if I put my life on hold for him as well. Three years is a long time to go without meeting someone. I plan to meet my man this year, however. ... (read in full...)
He invites his ex round to OUR house to visit and I don't know how to handle it any more...
Q. I have met a wonderful man online in a chat room in October of 2009. We met face to face and hit it of so well we have moved in together and not been apart since. Sounds like a happily ever after story well not quite. His ex girlfriend left him...
A. 9 March 2010: Leave. The only way he is going to stop loving her is cutting contact, and its apparent that he does not want to do that.... (read in full...)
Love among the ruins
Q. I hope it's all right if I write. I'm not your traditional client. I'm 62, and I recently bumped (quite accidentally) into my very first real love, a girl for whom I gladly would have died, in 1966. The Vietnam war separated us. She then married ...
A. 7 March 2010: This brought tears to my eyes.. please go for it. Please. You may be a source of hope and inspiration in years to come.... (read in full...)
Should I still get to know a guy who was totally not what I expected from our online interactions? Or is it a waste of time?
Q. I recently met a guy online on a social networking site who was a friend of a friend. I saw him posting on her profile and instantly I thought "wow, this guy is really bright, witty, funny..etc." Imagine my surprise when he added me with an ...
A. 3 March 2010: If he genuinely intrigues you, continue to talk to him. Sexual tension need not always be there first. It can develop.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of what the reprocussions of losing my virginity!
Q. Please help! I am a 20 year old virgin and not sure about losing my virginity yet. My problem arises when I'm around my boyfriend-whenever I'm around him, I get massive sexual urges. I mean REALLY strong urges. I just want to touch him all over and ...
A. 1 March 2010: I'm sorry to chime in like this, but Puzzlesolver, you are clearly misinformed. Any kind of penetration of the vagina by the penis will break the hymen if there is one still intact. It doesn't matter how deep the penis goes. AND, oral sex IS ... (read in full...)
How do I achieve big but sexy eyes with eye make up?
Q. How do I achieve big but sexy eyes with eye make up? ...
A. 25 February 2010: Try some fake eyelashes.. they really help in opening up the eye, and they're not hard to put on :)
Also lining the outer 2/3 of the top eyelid, and winging it up can help give a cat eye effect.
Light shimmers on the inner corner open up t... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is insecure. How do I reassure her?
Q. I'm in a cool thing with a girl, but she's so insecure about what I'm doing when I'm not around her. She's always asking did I sleep with her friend, or what I was doing at such and such a time. Or those little word traps they do, like, "do you ...
A. 19 February 2010: Cool thing?
If she's not your girlfriend then of course she would suspect you. There is no commitment and it seems that she wants there to be some in this "thing".... (read in full...)
My roomie brings home random men, has loud unprotected sex with them, what should I do here?!
Q. hi. this is long but i really need some advice... i was wondering if anybody had any ideas what else i can do to help my friend. she is 22 and we share a flat together at uni where we are studying to be nurses. she is really beautiful and a ...
A. 19 February 2010: What she is doing really is not healthy, but it may be just a phase she is going through and feels the need to get it out of her system.
Tell her that you're only looking out for her best needs and you would hate to see her be hurt. Also remind h... (read in full...)
After what my boyfriend did to me, should I still love him?
Q. heyaa im 14 and i went out with this guy who was 16 and he sed he liked me and loved me but then whenevr he asked 4 sex i sed no and then the next day he dumped me but thing is i still love him after wot he did to me and i keep thinkin did he only ...
A. 19 February 2010: Honey, don't listen to a young man when he says he loves you. It is apparent that he only wanted sex. I'm glad you said no. Try and hold off from boys if you can, most of them in their teens will only use you once you put out and drop you when they ... (read in full...)
Do I have an STD from giving head?
Q. i gave head on monday the 15th of february 2010 and yesterday the 17th of feb 2010 i got a coldsore thing on the side of my lip,..is that anything to do with me giving head? i heard you can get an std by oral, im scareedddddd...
A. 19 February 2010: If you have never had a coldsore before and you did not use a condom while giving oral, then yes, it is highly possible that the person you gave oral to may have passed herpes on to you.... (read in full...)
I wish she could show me how much she loves me.
Q. My fiance told me she doesn't want to be friends with me...if she wanted me as a friend then she wouldn't be with me. I can understand that to a point, but she treats and talks to her friends with more humanity then she gives to me. I know sh...
A. 18 February 2010: Well.. if you're going to marry someone, they should be your best friend. You're going to be, or I'm assuming you want to spend the rest of your life with her. How is a house going to withstand the elements if there is no foundation (friendship) ... (read in full...)
Where does the loyalty lie?
Q. my friend was not loyal to me i cheated on my girlfriend and he chose to be with her by confessing to her....who is right here..........
A. 16 February 2010: I am inclined to rage, seeing as this is your 3rd post on the same topic, but I won't.
Sir, you are not the one in the right. That is all.... (read in full...)
I've been feeling really insecure about her past lately.....
Q. I'm 20 years old and got dumped right before this past xmas. I was with her for like 19 months and it was hard at first but I've moved on and am happy without her. I got into a relationship around new years and things became “serious” only a...
A. 16 February 2010: If you are "serious" about this girl, you'll build a foundation of friendship with her first, and develop that emotional connection. Get to know her (not her sexual past), treat her well.
Too many people jump head first into sex with people t... (read in full...)
How can I deal with my problems? Her past haunts me and makes me so jealous!
Q. I have been talking to a girl online for the past 8 months. We have had video, voice chats, phone chat, text chat. I first met her on a friendship site. We started talking on a messenger and soon we became close friends. And slowly the friendship ...
A. 16 February 2010: If you really do love her, you will do your best to overcome this. It's her past, not yours. You shouldn't get jealous over something that happened before you came along. The good thing is that she told you. I'm sure she felt pressured and I commend ... (read in full...)
What sort of weight do guys like for a girl?
Q. Okay, i just want to know what weight guys like. im 5'2 and around 109lb.. is that fat to you guys? i mean i have curves and crap and i feel fat around my friends cause the havnt hit puberty yet and their like 75-95lb.. does it make me fat? i mean i ...
A. 16 February 2010: No, you are not fat.... (read in full...)
I tried so hard but I could not ejaculate whilst having sex, what is wrong with me?
Q. i am in love with my girlfriend for 3yrs now...we both live in different places.... whenever we meet we used to have kind of sex.. which is not purely sex...she has a problem in loosing her virginity....in one of her birthdays i forced her to have ...
A. 15 February 2010: The problem here is that you forced your girlfriend to have sex with you.... (read in full...)
Will sleeping with him make things better between us?
Q. I started talking to my sister's boyfriend's best mate which ive only just started talking to, and he said he liked me and i liked him. i went over his place and and we hung out for about 4 or 5 days and then he was saying he was bored. and i was ...
A. 14 February 2010: Please talk to him.
I know you would like to believe sleeping with him will make things better, but he may see you as easy if you do, and may use you. By posting this question here, you have already assured your doubts. Don't do it.
Best of... (read in full...)
Help!! How can I find out more about his past sex life without sounding paranoid???
Q. I am in love with my boyfriend. The only thing that bothers me is the fact that he is far more sexually experienced than me. We have been sexually active for months now with each other and he claims that our sex is the best he's ever had. But ...
A. 14 February 2010: Yeah, don't go there. Me and my boyfriend are at complete opposite ends of the spectrum and when we were just friends, he told me about his sexual past and it took soo long to get over it. It made me so sad to think about, I couldn't even look at ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend cheating? if so, how do I get her to admit it? Then what?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for over 4 years and recently I've become very suspisious that something is going on behind my back. I have come home from two trips out of state to find her not wearing her necklace I gave her that she swor...
A. 14 February 2010: Honestly, you need to go with your gut feeling on this. Ask her about it and if you can tell she's lying, question her. Maybe seek couples counselling. Ask your gf what she wants.. it may be that her emotional needs are lacking. I'm sorry this had ... (read in full...)
How can I work out our relationship around his pot smoking?
Q. For starters, my boyfriend smokes weed and I don't. He's 22, lives with his best friend of 10 years and I'm his first girlfriend. I'm 19, live with my mom, and he is my first serious relationship. He only smokes with his best friend, which is every ...
A. 13 February 2010: I'm kind of in the same situation. My boyfriend smokes weed daily and has for about 5 years (before I came along). I have noticed that weed messes with short-term memory, which can be a problem. Its up to him, but honestly, he'll stop when he wants ... (read in full...)
My best friend is getting married to my ex-girlfriend! How do I get over this?
Q. My best friend and girlfriend left me? I cheated on her several times. And thought she would never find out but after a while my bf and her started talking and they got very close he realized what a asshole I have been to her he fell in love wit...
A. 12 February 2010: You need to get over this.
Your friend has done nothing to you. The only thing he has done was be truthful about YOUR OWN lies for the betterment of your ex-girlfriend. He obviously cares much more about her than you ever did. They must be happy... (read in full...)
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