We broke up because of the distance and now she has a new boyfriend, I'm worried she will fall for him and I will lose her for good!
Q. Need some help regarding long distance romance I had LDR with girl overseas - we were away from each other for 8 months and some personal issues/work came up and i coldnt return home and i told her that i could not see her, i have to stay in this ...
A. 10 May 2011: Oh dear. I had an LDR like this. We had no timeframe as to when we would finally be together. He told me he couldn't wait forever as well, and he moved to a new city and found a new girlfriend. I was heart broken. But I realised that it wo... (read in full...)
Is he trying to get revenge after I had sex with someone else? Or does he just not care about me?
Q. I've had a relationship with a guy for about a year and a half now, we have never actually called each other " boyfriend, girlfriend" but when him and I are on good terms, he doesn't mess with other girls and I don't mess with other guys. We have ...
A. 10 May 2011: You seem to have put up with his bullshit for a while. If I were you I would have left long ago. You deserve to be treated better than that. When you're in a relationship, you're committed to that person because you love and care for them. You don't ... (read in full...)
How can I please my BF more in the bedroom?
Q. Well this question is a little different to what i'd usually seek help for...so bare with me as im a little nervous haha. My sex life is that of a healthy and enjoyable one. But with one flaw. Me. I SUCK in the bedroom! My boyfriend tells me that im ...
A. 10 May 2011: Try grinding your hips back and forth if you're on top, rather than just moving your body up and down. Cowgirl should be a position where you can control the depth, and usually it shouldn't be too hard to go deep. Your clitoris should also get some ... (read in full...)
Why don't I feel anything when I have sex?
Q. i've had sex like 5-6 times and i dont feel anything. is there something wrong? i've read online where people say to try masturbating and i've done that but it's mostly clitoris stimulation, nothing vaginal so do you think i'm just to use to ...
A. 10 May 2011: It can be odd at first having something enter your vagina when you've been so used to clitorial stimulation. Over time you'll learn to feel different parts of your vagina and you can learn to focus on them. Maybe get your partner to try a position ... (read in full...)
How do get my BF to keep a condom on during sex?
Q. when my boyfriend and i have sex we alwasy start with out a condom then later put one on but then he'll take it off for me to give him head or something then keep having sex or just finish with out it. i HATE them mess, besides the fact it makes me ...
A. 10 May 2011: Well you do have sex with him, so you should be comfortable to talk to him about this. It's your body and you do have a say in what goes down, so ask him nicely where he'd like to finish, or maybe give head with the condom on? With sex comes a bit ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my boyfriend about this?
Q. My boyfriend and I are long distance. Recently a friend of mine asked me out, and I told him no, I was dating someone. I'd guessed he liked me but I hadnt been fully sure. My question is, do I tell my boyfriend about this? It seems like an odd...
A. 10 May 2011: It's up to you.
I am in an LDR also, and I do tell my partner when something like this happens.My mother is trying to marry me off to someone else who I have never met before, saying it's better as he lives within the vicinity (of course I'm not ... (read in full...)
He wants me to look like my bestfriend?
Q. My boyfriend loves me and I know he thinks I'm beautiful, he tells me every day, but he always makes comments about how he thinks my bestfriend is hot. she is absolutely gorgeous in every possible way..he drops hints that I need to be skinny like ...
A. 10 May 2011: Ugh. If he really loves you, he'll accept you the way you are. Tell this to him, and then if he continues to bring it up, dump him. Then he can finally get with your best friend.... (read in full...)
How can I speed things up and make my period start?
Q. I am 13 years old and I have all the signs for my period but i havent gotten it yet and i want it to come faster... Is there any way that I could speed it up just that little bit without pain or pills? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!...
A. 9 May 2011: No, there is no way. And why would you want to? Periods are an inconvenience. Enjoy it while it lasts!... (read in full...)
I promised to stay with husband through thick and thin but I can't take his drinking anymore!
Q. My husband and I have been married for almost two years now. At the beginning of our marriage he was drunk all the time and very abusive, both physical and verbal. I promised to stand by his side through thick and thin, but lately I just feel like I ...
A. 9 May 2011: You could try for counseling, either for himself of for both of you as a couple. There's got to be a reason as to why he's drinking, something that he's not telling you. If he flat out refuses, then you'll know that he doesn't care for you or ... (read in full...)
Tips on phone sex?
Q. Where do i start.... I want to have phone sex with my bf but i an completely clueless on where to even start. i can talk the simple things but as for the down an dirty stuff i can seem to get it out. not even in a text....
A. 9 May 2011: I guess just start talking about things that turn you on. Maybe ask him something along the lines of "if you were here with me right now, what would you do?". Or maybe tell him what you want to do to him. It can be daunting at first but you'll... (read in full...)
The fact that my GF was not a virgin when she met me, is breaking me down.I cant handle this relationship anymore...
Q. Ive being going out with my girlfriend for nearly two years now and early on in the relationship i found she wasnt a virgin. This was painful for me to hear for two reasons: 1-I belive that you should lose your virginity to someone you love and want...
A. 2 May 2011: I just have a quick question.. if she had been raped, would you still have the same attitude? as it would have been something out of her control, something she did not want and something she would feel terrible about? I just say this because most ... (read in full...)
I saved up all year to see my LDR girlfriend and now she wants to come here!
Q. i have a massive dilemma. so im in a ldr relationship with my gf. and weve been talking about me going to see her in the summer for about 5 months. she lives in america i live in england. im on a gap year. so it comes to 3 weeks before the trip and ...
A. 30 April 2011: Nothing you can do about it now if you have already bought the ticket.
If you're having LDR issues, I suggest checking out the website lovingfromadistance.com. It's a large community of people who are in LDR's, who may be able to offer some fri... (read in full...)
I'm worried our relationship is purely based on sex!
Q. My boyfriend of 3 and a half years are always having sex. Our sex drive is ridiculous and we always want eachother. Our relationship has been good so far but I am worried that its based on sex. Im taking him very seriously now so I dont want this to ...
A. 7 April 2011: Well if it has been good so far, then why stop? Maybe take a few days out of the week and spend time together without having sex, and see how you go if you're really that worried.... (read in full...)
Wife doesn't let me cum on her face. Isn't that something almost all girls do?
Q. My wife won't let me cum on her face, ever! As far as I know, almost all girls let their guys cum on their faces, and enjoy it too! but not mine. This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it?...
A. 7 April 2011: Almost all girls? Have you came on almost every girls face? No. Lay off the porn, buddy.... (read in full...)
He's bored with me when we are not doing anything, like having sex.
Q. My boyfriend and I are in our 20s and have dating for about 18months…. I sometimes feel as though my boyfriend doesn’t take me seriously. He is a very smart, fun, well-rounded, down to earth person who has a lot of friends. I love him a lot. ...
A. 3 April 2011: I agree with SweetSmoochy. A relationship is about compromise and meeting the other person on a level ground where you both feel comfortable. It's about being each other's equals. It's about putting the other persons needs before yours. It's about ... (read in full...)
Hey, did I have an orgasm?
Q. Ok, I've been really horny for the past couple of days and I've ignored it but this morning I decided to sit legs spread in front of a mirror and experiment because I've never really had an orgasm or a really intense orgasm by myself, just ...
A. 17 March 2011: If you have to question it.. then probably not.
You'll know when you have one. Tingly feeling isn't enough... its usually a build up of pressure and the release consists of contractions of the vagina, thus resulting in orgasm.... (read in full...)
My bf says I'm the "one" but acts uninterested in me. What do I do?
Q. Hello, I've been with my boyfriend now for 4 months and I love him more then ever but I'm confused. He tells me that I am the "one" always and that I'm different from all his ex's because there something special about me. Both his parents also tell ...
A. 3 March 2011: I agree with sexlessintheuk. I always observe peoples actions after they give me some mouth diarrhea about how much they care/love you etc. He can promise you the world, but actually DOING it.. that's another story.... (read in full...)
After my girlfriend told me about her sexual past, I am disgusted! Should I have sex with her and leave her, or lose my virginity to another?
Q. Hi, I have been dating this girl that is crazy in love with me. However, she started talking about her past. She told me that she didn't want anything between us and that she needed to tell me everything, because she trusts me and so on and so forth...
A. 2 March 2011: That's terrible, honestly. What kind of man thinks its right to "give her a taste of her own medicine"? That is not up to you to decide. She has opened up her heart, and she obviously feels bad about it, and here you go acting like you're the ... (read in full...)
My best friend is pregnant. My fiance is the father. Should we continue with planning our wedding as he wants to?
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for five years and we are getting married in six months so technically he is my fiance. Everything was going so well for me i felt like i was living in a fairytale. My best friend since second grade was help...
A. 27 February 2011: Leave him now, before it gets worse.
Honestly, neither your best friend or your "fiance" deserve you. If both of them can go behind your back and do such a thing, and KEEP the baby, how do you expect to make things work? ... (read in full...)
I am so beautiful. Are my friends all just jealous of me?
Q. I am so beautiful. I have a really nice body and i have double D's. Flirting comes naturally to me. I can honestly say that a lot of people like me and just want to be me. I'm really popular and i have a lot of experience. All my close friends are ...
A. 27 February 2011: Beauty isn't everything. If you go around thinking everyone is jealous of you, its going to make you look conceited (if you aren't, already). Maybe they're jealous of your physical beauty, but I don't think they're jealous of who you are as a per... (read in full...)
Bra size.... how do I measure myself for correct sizing??
Q. how can i measure myself to make sure i am wearing the crrect bra size?...
A. 27 February 2011: The best way is to get fitted at a store :) The perfect bra size usually means that the back doesn't ride up, straps don't dig into your shoulders and your boobs aren't spilling out of the cups.... (read in full...)
I'm in a long-distance relationship, but I have a crush on a good friend of mine. What should I do?
Q. Hello everyone, I am in a long distance relationship with a guy (J) I met online. We have been dating for a year and a half and I have known him for around 3+ years. We have made plans to meet early next year and we are both very busy working tow...
A. 27 February 2011: I think all your concerns are valid.
I reckon if you really believe that your relationship with J is worth it, and its what you truly want, to ultimately meet him and be together, you won't reciprocate K's advances.
It is understandable t... (read in full...)
My online friend told me he's not ready to meet me. That's fine, but why is he ignoring my messages and phone calls now?
Q. I've known a guy now for many years over the internet, constantly talking and everything. We arranged to meet, but he pulled out at the last miniute, as he said, "he can't do this; he's not ready." In return, I sent numerous messages telling him not ...
A. 25 February 2011: I had an online friend like that.. we had plans to meet, I was going to visit him, and then he told me not to come when I was finalising everything.
Seems like this guy isn't worth it, if he wanted to, he would visit you :) (at least that's w... (read in full...)
Smoking, drinking, sex, parties, the wrong crowd, failing in my class ...My life is a nightmare. HELP!!
Q. My Life is on the border of disaster.! I'm a 15yr old sophomore and i need serious help. since my mom had her 2nd child, I've been getting away with a lot of stuff lately, sneaking out to go have sex, drinking at parties and smoking with guy...
A. 25 February 2011: Hey there.. you need to relax and think for a second. Think about your future and how this will affect you. You're only 15. You have a lot to look forward to in your life.
Of course this type of lifestyle is thrilling and you're in it for the ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my parents that I kissed a girl?
Q. My friend and I kissed, we're both girls. I'm kind of confused about my sexuality. I mean, I like guys I know that but is it possible I like girls too? And should I tell my parents? The only problem is I dont want to complicate things when I'm so ...
A. 25 February 2011: Theres no need to tell your parents. If you are unsure about your sexuality, give it time until you understand your feelings. It is common at your age to experiment.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his best friend (a girl) have a ritual where they spend Sunday night together and drink past midnight!!
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 15months. His best friend is a woman he's known for 15. When they met, she was a lesbian in a long term relationship. They spent their Sunday nights together and started a ritual of making...
A. 25 February 2011: Oh wow thats a tough one. There are some boundaries that should be set if you're in a relationship and have friends of the opposite sex. That means no "drunken movie nights" with just the two of them alone. Have you been able to speak to her ... (read in full...)
I dated a heartbreaker and now he wants nothing to do with me!
Q. I just recently became involved with a guy and I thought I really liked him. He was known as a player but always told me I was different. Three weeks into our "thing" we had a date alone at his place. We did all sorts of stuff but when I said I'd ...
A. 25 February 2011: The only way to get over it is time. They say it takes half the amount of time to get over them to the amount of time you were with them. So 3 weeks = 1.5 weeks and you should feel a bit better. Just be glad you didn't do much else with him.... (read in full...)
I have body issues and am afraid I won't be able to please my bf.
Q. Hi, well I'll make this short and simple. I truly love my boyfriend and I want to show him that. But I'm really self conscious about my body. I'm afraid he wont like my body, or that I won't be able to pleasure him. Please help, and thank you!...
A. 20 February 2011: It's okay.. many people feel the same way that you do. I know I am one of them. I'm sure each of us has something we don't like about ourself and are conscious of it. Its just that the person who really loves you probably doesn't even realise. You ... (read in full...)
Ladies, honestly, would you rather have a virgin man or an experienced man to love?
Q. I just want some honest opinions from women on this issue. If experience, how much is preferred and if virginity, how much of a gift is that to her? Is taking your partner's virginity as pleasurable for a women as it is for a man? ...
A. 20 February 2011: I am a virgin myself, and to be honest, I don't really care. As long as he is loving, caring and respectful, that's all that really matters to me.... (read in full...)
She's not a virgin but doesn't want to have sex with me!
Q. Hello everyone, thanks for taking the time to read my question. Anyhow so I currently have a girlfriend. She is not a virgin; I am. We have been dating for 8 months now and I want to have sex but she keeps telling me she wants to wait until ...
A. 20 February 2011: Well obviously you don't care about her, so why don't you just dump her? If you did care, you would not think of her as just an object for sex. She may have had sex in the past, but did you ever think that maybe she had regrets? Maybe she wants to ... (read in full...)
Is it bad my new husband and I have so much sex?
Q. Hi, I am married for 6 months now. But me and my husband are having sex all the time. We don't talk to each other too much when we are alone. Is it bad to have lots of sex? We have sex at least 3 times per day. I have also found out that my husba...
A. 20 February 2011: I don't know if I would say BDSM is natural, as a lot of people would NOT want to participate in that. But there are some people who do like the idea of being tied up/tying someone up and taking control. I don't think its abnormal for a new married ... (read in full...)
How does a lover determine the loving is very successfully satisfying a woman?
Q. hello everyone. my question is mainly for females but its okay to have different point of views, i just want to know how can a lover really make sure that the girl is enjoying sex with the lover ?! how does a man determine or know that she really l...
A. 20 February 2011: I think you'll know if she's breathing heavy, or breathing in short, raspy breaths. Being wet is a good sign, and making sounds. Just try to read her body language. Her eyes and facial expressions can give it away too.
Its not a good sign if ... (read in full...)
How can I convince my bf to go further sexually with me?
Q. Well, basically me and my boyfriend love each other. We want to get more passionate and we want to take our relationship to the next level. I already gave him bj's and we want to go further. I am sure this is what I want, but I'm just not convinced ...
A. 20 February 2011: You shouldn't have to try and change his mind, there should be a mutual feeling between you. Also, if you're only 13-15, its most likely illegal in your country to have sex. Please keep this in mind. If he is a few years older, he could go to jail ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps flirting with my close friends right in front of me!
Q. My boyfriend keeps flirting with all of my close friends right in front of me and one of them, who is in a relationship with my boyfriend's best friend, goes along with it. Then, he acts totally different when i'm not around. I don't want to brea...
A. 20 February 2011: Talk to your boyfriend about it. The only way things will get better is if you communicate with each other. Tell him how it makes you feel. If he shows that he doesn't care.. I would probably break up with him. He should be more considerate.... (read in full...)
How can I ask out a guy who already has a gf?
Q. I really like this guy, but he has a girlfriend. And he doesn't even know that I feel this way about him. I want to ask him out but I'm terrified to do it because I don't want it to be awkward if he turns me down. Also, I don't want him to be ...
A. 20 February 2011: I agree with Blod. Don't ask him out if he's dating someone. Would you really want to share?... (read in full...)
What do guys think about virgins?
Q. I'm turning 18 and finishing up my senior year of high school. I am a virgin and do not want to have sex until I am sure I'm with the right person. My mother had sex at 14, needed an abortion and lived a pretty messed up life for a while after that. ...
A. 19 February 2011: From a girls point of view, being someone who is 19 and has only ever kissed, I find that men respect me more. And I mean men, not boys. :)... (read in full...)
I have to choose between my parents and my online boyfriend!
Q. Dear Cupid, Well, the situation is really complicated. I met this guy online 7 months ago and we started talking. He was a nice guy and we fell for each other and start a relationship. He lives a world apart, but we keep in touch by phone calls a...
A. 29 August 2010: Hi there! I was once in a similar situation to you. I met this guy online.. he was great. We spoke on the phone, but never webcammed because his webcam "didn't work". He provided me with pictures, who turned out to be someone else.
The first ti... (read in full...)
Should I start to wear make-up or do I just forget about it?
Q. Not sure how to word this question...basically I'm 16 and I've never worn make-up. Does that mean it's too late to start? I have no knowledge of how to apply make-up the right way. I know that if I one day decide to suddenly start wearing it, people ...
A. 23 August 2010: I started wearing makeup at about the same age. I'm 19 now, and a make-up artist.
If you want to learn, there are many youtube gurus who have created a wide array of make-up tutorial videos for you to view. That's how I started :)... (read in full...)
Guys, if you tell your friends a girl is gorgeous (even though she is heavier), does it mean you like her?
Q. there is this one guy, and i've been into him since i moved into town 4 months ago... but he's stereotypically good looking (athletic, blonde hair, blue eyes,...) and i'm generally not the type guys like that go for (pretty but not exactly a size 2...
A. 15 July 2010: He's into you. And don't worry about you being heavier, it sounds like he doesn't care :)... (read in full...)
Why was my orgasm during sex the same as when I masturbate?
Q. I was having sex with my boyfriend and I was on top and I got an orgasm, but it felt like the same orgasm I have when I rub myself, it wasn't that intense, lasted about 20 seconds and I was done. I was wondering if this because of my clit maybe ...
A. 12 July 2010: You say you can never reach your peak, but you said you've had an orgasm.
Maybe convey to him that you want him to help you achieve that mind-blowing orgasm you talk about.. it could be an adventure for both of you :)... (read in full...)
Where does sexual desire come from?
Q. I am wondering about low libido! Some people say that the desire can be somewhat controlled in the brain. What do you think??? Where does that lust come from? ...
A. 12 July 2010: I think its called.. hormones :)... (read in full...)
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