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Guys: do you find it gross to finger a girl while she's on her period?

Q.   This question is for the guys. Buuut, ladies, if you have any helpful answers, you're welcome to reply, too...lol. My boyfriend has been wanting to finger me, and I've been wanting him to, also. He asked me if he could do it when we meet up tomor...

A.   14 December 2008: Hey MutantKitten, What about the Odour..? ... (read in full...)

Guys: do you find it gross to finger a girl while she's on her period?

Q.   This question is for the guys. Buuut, ladies, if you have any helpful answers, you're welcome to reply, too...lol. My boyfriend has been wanting to finger me, and I've been wanting him to, also. He asked me if he could do it when we meet up tomor...

A.   14 December 2008: A BIG TURN OFF.. Please tell him that you could meet some other time.. Nobody actually enjoys fingering when a girl is on her periods.. The odour etc is just too .......... Please don't start off in your periods..... (read in full...)

My BF is ashamed of my past and I'm scared we'll bump into my ex's!

Q.   I'm in a long term relationship and very happy. The only problem is my past. I've been with a lot of guys, I used to have very low self-esteem and was constantly going from guy to guy trying to be happy. Unfortunately a lot of these guys are at the ...

A.   13 December 2008: You don't need to go crazy.. !! We live in present, don't we..? A guy who is So concerned about your Past has no right to be a part of your Present.. !! If i were to be ur BF, I would accept your Past and ask everybody else to Shut Up and see who ... (read in full...)

Is there anything wrong with being gay

Q.   am im gay for being attracted to a girl who is every thing i wish i was. she has somthing special bout her smile and personality help and is there any thing wrong with being gay ...

A.   13 December 2008: Why are you calling yourself Gay...? You'll be gay if there is desire to have sex with the same sex.. !! I know i would recieve a pounding for what i am gonna say but I am really against the whole Gay thing.. !! I think it is Not Normal to be ga... (read in full...)

Had sex with big guy for 1st time and now skin is stretched

Q.   I had sex for the first time last week, and lets just say that the guy I did it with was, um, very well equipped. Afterwards, I felt a little sore for the first couple days, not inside of my vagina, but outside from him kind of pounding on me as he ...

A.   13 December 2008: That'll be normal within a few days.. Vagina never gets streached or loose by having sex.. Only after child birth can the vagina get a little loose.. What you're having are the after effects of sex and they will go away soon.. Don't worry to... (read in full...)

The FWB relationship has caused us to have feelings for each other

Q.   Hey you all i was in FWB relation with my married friend. But now we both have developed feelings for each other.I asked him to stop , but he is getting depressed. He is feeling sick after i asked him to stop. He wants me to continue this relation, ...

A.   13 December 2008: It's nice to know that people who get into such cheap relations also have emotions.. Girl, he wants sex.. Ask him to break his marriage and marry you.. Lol.. You'll see how he runs away.. My advice.? Find yourself a boyfriend.. What... (read in full...)

How do I persuade my g/f to have a threesome

Q.   I really want my girl to have a threesome with me and another guy. im straight but i think it would be hot to watch her enjoying 2 men. how do i persuade her?...

A.   13 December 2008: Do you love her.? If you do then please don't have her do all this stuff.. It'll break your relation.. And if you don't love her, i won't wanna answer this question.. It's gross..... (read in full...)

Torn between 2 guys!

Q.   hi everybody... im 13 years old and in need of advice. okay, so i went out with this guy for 2 1/2 months. yesterday i broke up with him for 2 reasons: 1. i decided i didnt like him anymore and 2. theres this other guy that i started to like....

A.   13 December 2008: Torn between two guys at the age of 13 ..? What's wrong with this generation.? It's your age to play and study.. Put then both behind you and built up a moral character.. I am hysterical..... (read in full...)

He has commitment issues! Is it hopeless?

Q.   What should you do if you think the guy you are dating has commitment issues? Is it something that could be resolved on its own? Is therapy needed or is the guy just plain hopeless? Thanks for the replies!!...

A.   13 December 2008: The guy is hopeless if there are no reasons what so ever.. If it is because he has some family problem, a bad past etc. Then things would be different.. Please throw light on what exactly are his issues.?... (read in full...)

My nipples have bumps when I get cold is it normal?

Q.   Is it normal that when I get cold my nipples start like "popping" these little bumps that I've never seen on any of my friends before....

A.   13 December 2008: Wow.. You'll soon discover that men love it.. Lol.. It's normal.. Chill..... (read in full...)

Do others find oral sex gross?

Q.   I find oral sex totally disgusting! Yes, call me weird. My Bf tries to make me give him a blow job, but i refuse. Am i alone on this? Am i like the only girl who thinks that's totaly gross? I just dont like the fact that stuff gets into my mouth, ...

A.   13 December 2008: You're normal.. Many girls don't like giving a blow job.. It's actually understandable.. It depends a lot on our personal choice and the extent to which we are sexually stimulated.. Most women don't like it.. So chill.. You either LOVE it o... (read in full...)

I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?

Q.   I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?...

A.   13 December 2008: To Serenity1, Buddy.. !! Neither are we Deaf, nor are we Blind.. !! Why waste yur effort..? And why are you Pasting your opinion on us..? Did we ask her to believe what we said..? She'll choose the right option herself.. !! Thanx for car... (read in full...)

I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?

Q.   I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?...

A.   12 December 2008: What's that stuff Plexi...? Are you increasing your post counts or what..? That was a rude reply.. Plz don't spoil the image of the other agonu aunts by such irresponsible posts.. To the topic Poster : I don't really know about the Rules in you... (read in full...)

Should I stop giving advice?

Q.   Hi! I will except advice from anyone. Ok... I 28% of my ratings went to poor. I thought I was doing well, but a big percentage doesn't seem to think so. Should I call it quits, and stop giving advice because that was very discouraging to see. ...

A.   12 December 2008: Come on girl.. My ratings are 5.. That's as poor as it gets but my inbox is full with messages of Thanks.. There are people who cannot stand honesty.. I give an honest view without thinking about my ratings.. People tend to like the ones who are... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is acting weird am I misunderstanding?

Q.   okay i need help with my 8 months relationship...AGAIN haha. so sorry it's long, id appreciate it if you read - - - - - - I called my bf and asked if i can see him yesterday and he told me to come over at his home on my way from w...

A.   11 December 2008: Your mistake honey.. You ignored him all the way.. The First time you went to check in was 30 minutes after he had arrived.. Then instead of understand his anger, you go and play pool.. You should have understood that he wants you to be in his room, ... (read in full...)

Parents don't approve of my guy! Should I cheat?

Q.   hi, i have a boyfrnd that I have been dating 4 close to 4 yrs and the only problem is a muslim and am a christian and my parent dislike muslims,thou they have never met him cause am scared of introducing him.i like him so much but he hurt me in ...

A.   11 December 2008: If your parents disapprove and RELIGION is the only reason.. I would suggest you to not go with your parents.. Choose the guy.. BUT.. I read that he cheated you.. That raises an eyebrow.. What if you go against your parents and then he ditches you ... (read in full...)

Will having sex with him affect my future

Q.   Hi Fiends. As there are many elder, mature and wiser people here.Please help me in deciding what will be good for my future.As right now i can just see my present happiness. I love my boy friend very....... much. He also have the same feelings...

A.   11 December 2008: Woah Blossom.. Most people don't lose their virginity to their life partners is okay.. But having sex with someone even after knowing that you won't be together is rather gross.. I mean.. I see no point in it.. What's the point having sex when ... (read in full...)

Should I give my virginty to him in one sided love?

Q.   I love my boyfriend. But he does not loves me. He says he just likes me as a good friend. He wants to have sex with me. Should I give my virginty to him in one sided love?...

A.   11 December 2008: NO.. Give your body to someone who loves your heart.. You don't wanna ruin your life.. Do you.? I would request you to end your relationship with this guy immediately as he isn't good enough for you.. Actually you're also the one at fault.. ... (read in full...)

Will having sex with him affect my future

Q.   Hi Fiends. As there are many elder, mature and wiser people here.Please help me in deciding what will be good for my future.As right now i can just see my present happiness. I love my boy friend very....... much. He also have the same feelings...

A.   11 December 2008: IT WILL HURT YOUR FUTURE.. Would you be able to have sex with your husband.? Won't the feeling of having sex with someone you knew won't be yours hurt you all your life.? We normally have sex with the person we think will be our partner for life... (read in full...)

I'm freaking out-what should I do? HELP ASAP!

Q.   I've been talking to this guy for about a month, and I really like him. He has said he likes me too. But on Thanksgiving, he got back together with his ex to see if he was the reason for the problem in the relationship. This really crushed me. He ...

A.   11 December 2008: WHAT AN INSULT.. I would never have a girl friend who says i am first on her 'LIST' .. ... (read in full...)

He wants to have sex with me!

Q.   Okay, there's a guy I really like. He's 17 and I've known him for a while. We're really good friends, but he wants to have sex with me. Should I agree to it? I'm kind of nervous, but how can I reject him? I don't want him to hate me as a ...

A.   11 December 2008: WHAT.? Come on sweety.. He's not even your boy friend.. FRIENDS DON'T HAVE SEX.. Instead of him, you should be the one to put an END to your friendship.. Don't spoil the name of friendship please..... (read in full...)

Please Help, I am so embarassed over this!

Q.   Hi, I was just wondering if anyone could help me... Ive been having this problem for about 6 months now and its really getting me down. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and i love having sex with him, but about 6 months ago i started gett...

A.   10 December 2008: I would say that it is normal and a part of your growth.. Vaginal discharge tends to vary as your hormones change.. You didn't mention if it smells bad.. If it does, then it might be a yeast infection.. But if it doesn't smell bad then accept i... (read in full...)

The boyfriend or my first love?

Q.   hey, i have a boyfriend and we have been together for a month and a weekish. hes smitten with me, and ever since my first love that left my life is coming back gradually and im feeling for my first love because you do really feelings that never ...

A.   10 December 2008: To put it Simple.. First love is NOT as complicated as people tend to make it.. It's because we hear stories that FIRST LOVE cannot be forgotten and stuff.. This is complete untrue.. Nobody remembers that first love/crush once you are with a partner ... (read in full...)

Why do men cheat? I am so disgusted with my boyfriend!

Q.   why do men cheat? my boyfriend of 5 years has cheated on me... I have tried to forgive him and move forward but its hard... instead of talking about my feelings to him I just bottle them up... it is so difficult... I kiss him and I think of her ...

A.   16 November 2008: I would like to answer your question.. ' WHY DO MEN CHEAT ' and the answer is 'BECAUSE WOMEN DO THE SAME' Did you like what i said.? Obviously not.. So, never generalize..... (read in full...)

How can I get my boyfriend to let go of my sexual past?

Q.   Hey all! Right im 16 and ive been with my boyfriend for around 8 months, ive nown him since i was around 7. When i was 15 years old i did some bad things, i went on holiday and got in with the wrong crowd, it was 4 weeks of alcohol and boys,...

A.   25 August 2008: It's NORMAL and let me tell you, He LOVES YOU... !! It hurts a Guy's EGO when he imagines someone touching his girl sexually.. Hez actually thinking too much into it and probably thinking that you did much more... Then he feels that someone has... (read in full...)

If you have sex once, and your hymen is not completely torn, will it heal with time?

Q.   Hi, I was wondering if it's possible for like, if you have sex once, and maybe don't tear the hymen completely...after time and time goes by, can the hymen heal??...

A.   25 August 2008: It Hurt....? Did it bleed....? HURT hasn't got much to do with your hymen.. The questions you need to ask yourself are, Were you ready for sex..? Were you completely wet...? As far as the Hymen goes, that is not an issue, coz a torn hymen cannot ... (read in full...)

If you have sex once, and your hymen is not completely torn, will it heal with time?

Q.   Hi, I was wondering if it's possible for like, if you have sex once, and maybe don't tear the hymen completely...after time and time goes by, can the hymen heal??...

A.   24 August 2008: No, and that won't make a difference... If you're concerned about Bleeding, then you'll bleed again and nobody would know if your heymen is completely torn or partially...... (read in full...)

My friend saw me kissing my boyfriend at the bus stop last night ... but I was at my sister's house all night. Could he be cheating?

Q.   Hey Well..!! basicly! im mega mega pissed off with my so called boyfriend and really dont know what to do! right so last night i was stayin at my sisters and my boyfriend phoned me askin if i wanted to go n meet him so i said i couldnt cos i wa...

A.   24 August 2008: WEll, Id beg to differ... I'd first like to know if you have DIRECTLY asked your BF.. Maybe ur friend has a crush on you and wants to create differences between you and your BF... ;)... (read in full...)

I just got my period, and for three nights prior to that, I had intense sexual dreams, I get turned on during the day by anything, is this a part of PMS, and will this continue, it is embarrassing?

Q.   Okay kind of an embarrassing question but... I just got my first-ever period yesterday and for three nights beforehand, I was having intense sex dreams and I'd get turned on during the day by just about anything. Lol is that like part of PMS? Is ...

A.   24 August 2008: That's Okay honey... Thats bcoz of you harmones, you'll be at your sexual peak for quite a period.. Just accept it but be careful. You don't wanna commit any mistake... Don't go for sex or any such activity before you're 18.. ;) G'day... (read in full...)

Now he wants to take photos of us during sex. I think it will be fun and sexy. How can we do this?

Q.   My boyfriend and I find each other attractive. He has taken photos of me in the nude and I have taken photos of him naked as well. Now he wants to take photos of us during sex. I think it will be fun and sexy. How can we do this? What advic...

A.   24 August 2008: My Advice...? Don't go for it.. You don't want your photos and videos on the internet.. Do you..? But, if you decide to do it, Buy yourself a Video cam and just shoot through your entire play... As simple as that... But, I would guide you to... (read in full...)

How can I tell when a woman is sexually aroused?

Q.   I have a question about arousal. How can I tell when a woman is sexually aroused? Is this something that you can tell when a woman is fully clothed or is this only noted when she is in the nude? At this point is she ready for intercourse or i...

A.   24 August 2008: Well, I did not actually understand your question... You wanna know if the girl is ready for Intercouse or just sexually aroused... I'll explain both While having sex, if the girl is Dripping wet from her vagina, shez ready for intercouse. ... (read in full...)

I'm scared I'm pregnant and don't know anyone old enough to buy the morning after pill.

Q.   I'm Stephanie, I'm 13 and I've had sex about 2 days ago and that was my first time ever. I'm afraid I might be pregnant and I don't know anyone legal age besides family to buy me the morning after pill!!!! help please!...

A.   15 August 2008: There nothing as AGE to buy the morning pill.. So, don't worry.. Just go and buy it before it is too late.. You have to take one within 72 hours.. The sooner, the better.. A pill taken before 24 hours gives 98% results.. From 24 to 48 hours gi... (read in full...)

I'm a 12 year old girl and I'm obsessed with boobs and sex and having sex, what should I do?

Q.   im a 12 year old girl and im obsessed with boobs and sex and having sex, what should i do?...

A.   15 August 2008: Don't indulge in sex for the next 6 years is what i would advice you.. DON'T WATCH PORN, it will ruin your life.. At your age, it is pretty normal to feel that way.. So don't be upset.. You just need to keep calm and keep yourself busy in other... (read in full...)

If a guy had cum on his fingers and he fingers a girl, could she become pregnant?

Q.   hi i just wondernding if you could help me when a boy fingeres a girl and he had cum on his fingers would the girl feel this? im so worried im pregnant even tho i aint due till next week please help x...

A.   15 August 2008: YES.. There are as many chances to get pregnant as in a normal intercourse.. Sperm entered in your vagina in any manner could lead to pregnancy.. I would request you to Please not indulge in any sexual activity at such a tender age without ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to bleed the first couple of times you have sex?

Q.   Ive had sex with my boyfriend twice.I've bled here and there both times and my vagina seems to be really tight.We both decided to lose our virginity to each other and we trust one another. What should I do about my vagina being so tight and is ...

A.   15 August 2008: I agree.. Your tightness is something that he would probably LOVE.. We guys are Suckers for tight vaginas .. So just take it off your mind and lubricate it properly.. Good luck. ... (read in full...)

My period is a week late and now I can't get the feeling out of my mind that I'm pregnant. HELP!

Q.   i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a few weeks ago and i was due for my period a week ago btu havn't yet came on,, i can be irregular but what should i do?,, we did use protection but i can't get the feeling out of my head that i could ...

A.   15 August 2008: Calm down girl.. A late period does not surely mean a pregnancy.. It could be late just because you were under stress.. Look for the other signs like breast soreness, urge to pee whole day.. Feeling of vomit, frequent headaches, gain of weight, ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to bleed the first couple of times you have sex?

Q.   Ive had sex with my boyfriend twice.I've bled here and there both times and my vagina seems to be really tight.We both decided to lose our virginity to each other and we trust one another. What should I do about my vagina being so tight and is ...

A.   13 August 2008: Try the KY jelly.. It's a good lubricant.. But i sincerely don't fancy using lubricants.. Just have a lot of foreplay and get yourself very wet.. That's the BEST lubricant.. As far as bleeding.. It's normal for virgins, so don't worry.. But it s... (read in full...)

I think I'm pregnant but I'm not sure I need advice??

Q.   I have a problem. Recently I had sex with my lover and we were stupid enough not to use a condom but he managed to ejaculate away from me and not inside my vagina. Now ive missed my period and im showing some early signs of pregnancy. Im worried and ...

A.   13 August 2008: Well, don't worry about the signs.. Whenever you FEAR getting pregnant, all these signs would appear out of nowhere.. They are actually the sign of STRESS.. First calm down and as we keep no repeating, THE ONLY WAY TO FIND OUT YOU'RE PREGNANT... (read in full...)

Is this normal for a man to be so strict with his girl sometimes but so loving and caring other times?

Q.   My boyfriend tends to be kinda strict in our relarionship. If I do something immature or say something that is immature and dont act my age which is 21 he kinda gets upset with me and asks me why I said that or why I did that. The thing is he is 21 ...

A.   11 August 2008: I would keep that short.. YES ... Trust me it's very normal... At this age Guys more often then not are like that.. He would one day ask you Not to go out with friends, the other day he would ask you to go out and freshn us.. That's how w... (read in full...)

I am very curious, not my problem, but, does the size of ones' penis matter?

Q.   this aint something from me personally but its something im curious about because all men worry about it and its something everyones spoken about but i want your opinion so can you please let me know does penis size matter? ...

A.   11 August 2008: Well 'yes' and 'no' ... Actually it's Not the size of the Penis, it's what you do with it. A woman's vagina is sensitive only upto 2 inches deep. So, practically she does not feel anything beyond it.. But, sometimes the FEELING of having a big pe... (read in full...)

Is it possible to get pregnant, after having sex on the first day of my period?

Q.   can i become pregnant after havin sex on the first day of my period,...

A.   11 August 2008: Well, There are less than 1 percent chances of you getting pregnant.. The only way you can get pregnant is if the sperm keeps hiding somewhere in your vagina and fertilizes you later.. It it VERY UNLIKLY.. ... (read in full...)

What signs should I look for that would tell me I'm pregnant?

Q.   ok im 15 and i had un protectedsex about 4 times and i dont know if im pregant i wanna know how do u know if ur pregant when u have sex like every day what sign should i look for right now im so stupid i just need help and with my mom moving out of ...

A.   9 August 2008: You know what.? You would never really know without a pregnancy test. That is because most of the sex After effects feel like pregnancy. Like, breast gets sour in pregnancy but it might also be a reason of rough sex. You will feel a lot of fatigue ... (read in full...)

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