What signs should I look for that would tell me I'm pregnant?
Q. ok im 15 and i had un protectedsex about 4 times and i dont know if im pregant i wanna know how do u know if ur pregant when u have sex like every day what sign should i look for right now im so stupid i just need help and with my mom moving out of ...
A. 9 August 2008: You know what.? You would never really know without a pregnancy test. That is because most of the sex After effects feel like pregnancy. Like, breast gets sour in pregnancy but it might also be a reason of rough sex. You will feel a lot of fatigue ... (read in full...)
What can I do to please my BF also during my period? We're getting bored of foreplay.
Q. basically, ive been on my period for 2 (nearly 3) months and i've not been able to please my partner the way id like to. we're getting bored of foreplay and the doctor said he cant do anything about it....anyone got any advice? [Moderator's note...
A. 7 August 2008: A PERIOD THAT LONG? Well, in any case sex in periods can be a discomfort. Especially the bad odour and strains the girl has to go through. You can try switching places of sex from bedroom to bathroom or study room. Other than that, there ain't much ... (read in full...)
Will masturbating stunt my growth?
Q. Hi i am 13 and i am starting to hit puberty and i always find my self getting really horny and it turns to a result of masturbating. after masturbating for quite a while i now have veins i can see really clear in my penis that i didnt see before, ...
A. 6 August 2008: Naah... It's very Normal my friend.. Actually Masturbating does more Good than Harm.. Masturbating can relieve you at times and give you relaxation...
As far as the veins are concerned, masturbate or don't masturbate, they Would grow at this age.... (read in full...)
He wants to know my fantasies... but they are SO dirty, I don't think he could handle it.
Q. My boyfriend wants me to tell him my fantasies, but I'm so nervous. Some of them are really DIRTY. For example, I have rape fantasies, one of the most common I know, but kind of hard to explain. Especially since I want it rough. Not just him taking ...
A. 6 August 2008: Our fantasies are our Very Personal desires. I don't think you need to share them. Just a tip, if you ever tell him, CHOOSE YOUR WORDS PROPERLY. Don't say 'RAPE FANTASY' rather say 'FORCED SEX FANTASY' ... You understand.?
Basically you just wan... (read in full...)
I'm engaged but I find one of my male friends very sexy, Is this okay?
Q. I'm 19 and I am in a very loving relationship that has lasted about 4 years almost, I'm engaged and very much in love with my fiancee. The problem is I find one of my male friends very attractive, and I dont know if is normal to find anyone else but ...
A. 6 August 2008: Yes honey. You WILL find guys around you sexy and hot. That's because you're really Normal. Not finding them sexy would be actually abnormal.
To put it simply, you will find guys around you sexy and hot, more so at this age.. What matters is your... (read in full...)
We've been married for 18 months and she's still a virgin! What can I do?
Q. Hi, I have been married since March '07 (nearly 18 months ago), I love my wife to pieces but am extremely stuck on this. She was a virgin when we started going out, but the problem is she is still a virgin now. We've been together since '03, and...
A. 6 August 2008: Look buddy.... That's NOT NORMAL... I am sorry to say but it seems as if she has a disorder. Or, she might just be a homosexual. It's actually quite weird that you're married her for so long and not had sex. That's next to impossible actually...
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This guy is pressuring me to take my clothes off....what do I do??
Q. Ive been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks now and he keeps trying to pressure me into taking my clothes off. I keep saying no because Im not comfortable with that yet as its too soon. But I do like him. Anyway, today he said something to me ...
A. 3 August 2008: A REAL MAN would never force sex or any such activity. No guy with a good MOral character would ask you to take your clothes off in the first place. And definitely not if you've refused once. DUMP HIM... There are guys who want girlfriends.. An... (read in full...)
Men, how exactly are masturbation and 'the real thing' different?
Q. Just wondering how different does masturbating feel comparing to real sex for men. I am not talking about the emotional but strictly the physical aspect of it. Such as the difference in sensation between using a hand and thrusting in a vagina and if ...
A. 3 August 2008: Masturbation is actually 'nothing' in comparison to the REAL THING. The warmth and wetness inside the vagina cannot be matched by anything. Even i blow job does'nt rank near the intercourse. The feeling of entering inside a woman's vagina cannot b... (read in full...)
I'm not having sex, but I've missed a period and have cramping pains and white gunk. What should I do?
Q. i am 14 and i first had my period in Feb. this year. This last month in May i missed my peroid. I have been having this white gunk coming out i have also been having pains that feel like cramps but their not. I have never had sex. my mom is very ...
A. 27 May 2008: What you are going through is juat a "Part of Life" ... !! Every girl goes through the same Period once in her life.. !! You are Changing, your body is changing and it would take it's toll on you.. !!
Skipping a period in the first few Months i... (read in full...)
Am I bipolar? I've been saying mean and hurtful things to my boyfriend.
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I am truely in love with him. I have recently for the past 3 months been really mean to him. I will say mean and hurtful things like call him fat and ugly. I tell him that I don't want to be with ...
A. 27 May 2008: We "speak" what we "think" .. !!
Control your thoughts.. !! Are you worried about your BF being Ugly or Fat...? Did someone call him that and you felt bad..? Does your Best Friend have a much handsome Guy...? There can be numorous reasons.... (read in full...)
Is it so bad to cheat on my boyfriend with my ex? My bf has not been able to satisfy me sexually...
Q. i cheated on my boyfriend.. w my ex................. i dnt want to be back with him but i have been dating my current bf for 5 months. He was a vifgin and has not been able to satisfy me sexually. He tries and has gotten somewhat better ... he cant ...
A. 27 May 2008: Hey,
SEX is just a Part of life.. !! You must take it as it comes.. !! "Cheating" for any reason is "Not allowed" .. I wouldn't be too Harsh with you but at this age you must know what you are doing.. !!
Come on, I can very well understand ... (read in full...)
3 days after losing my virginity I am sore, is this normal?
Q. i lost my virginity the other day, the guy i did it with didn't use a condom. now 3 days after sex my vagina has an odour and is sore. i also bled straighy after sex. is this normal? ...
A. 27 May 2008: It is normal to Bleed and be Sore for a Few days.. !! The oduor may be of the Sprem your guy left inside... Or it can even be a Sexually Transmitted Infection.. !! If the smell lasts for over a week, you would need to see your doctor.. !!
Next,... (read in full...)
Please help! Could I be pregnant??
Q. right im 15 years old and female, and last night i lost my virginity. stupidly i was drunk and he didnt use a condom, but before he was about to cum he took his penis out. i am not on the pill, nor did i take the morning after pill. i am scared that ...
A. 27 May 2008: The pill taken within 12 hours gives 98% Successful result.. !! 12-24 gives 75% , 24-48 gives 60% and 48-72 hrs is 52% successful.. !! The pill is available for Rs.75 in India.. Which is approx close to US $2 ..
Plz take a pregnancy test if you g... (read in full...)
Please help! Could I be pregnant??
Q. right im 15 years old and female, and last night i lost my virginity. stupidly i was drunk and he didnt use a condom, but before he was about to cum he took his penis out. i am not on the pill, nor did i take the morning after pill. i am scared that ...
A. 26 May 2008: You can STILL take the morning Pill... Take it within 72 hrz after having sex.. !!
Coming to the Point of getting Pregnant.. !! Yes, you can get pregnent..!! This is the MOST UNSAFE TIME of having sex.. 14 days from your period you are meant to... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend reject my suggestions on where and when to go out and how can we resolve this issue?
Q. My boyfriend rejects my suggestions on where/when to go out. We’re in a long distance relationship which I feel insecure about as I’m unsure when I’m going to see him again. At first, my boyfriend was an attentive, loving and caring man (I think ...
A. 25 May 2008: Lack of interest.. !! Lack of Fear to lose.. !! Dear, What happens is that We guys start a relation with so much Passion that therez almost nothing left after a few months.. !! When we are insecure about our girl, we'll meet her whenever we get... (read in full...)
Just wanted a third party's opinion to see if I was overreacting or not. Thanks!
Q. Ok, my boyfriend of 9 months is friends with his ex girlfriends, mostly from another state, but I'm insecure about that and he knows this. I've been trying to be more understanding, but I'm beginning to think that my jealousy isn't that strange. One ...
A. 24 May 2008: I can understaind your Reaction... !!
(1) You are not into talking too much to anyone other than him
(2) He talks to his Ex.
It always bothers us more when our partner does something that we won't do. You just need to tell him that you're ... (read in full...)
Can a gynacologist tell if you are a virgin?
Q. Hi, I was wondering if a GYN could guess whether or not you are a virgin by looking at your hymen ? I'm 22 and a virgin BTW....
A. 24 May 2008: NO .. Only you can tell... !! We need to understand one thing here.. "virginty has noithing to do with hymen" ... A person loses virginity after having sex.. !! Would you consider a Girl whose hymen broke through exercise a non-virgin..? ... (read in full...)
More than half a year and she won't tell me how she feeels. Should I wait?
Q. I am in need of desperate help, I've been with my girlfriend for more than half a year and she has yet to tell me how she feels, she keeps telling me she'll tell me soon and needs more time to think. She doesn't seem to talk much to me and isn't ...
A. 24 May 2008: Hey Mate..
Look, You can't wait for her to "develop" feeling for you.. !! She either has feelings for you or Not... !! As simple as that.. !!
You know what, sometimes these girlz like to keep the guy hanging, That is to increase their V... (read in full...)
There was no cheating in our relationship. We had problems just like any other couple has. I was with him for a year. Why is he so afraid of me?
Q. Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. When I see him, he act like he's holding something back that he trully wants to say to me. When I say him again, I approached him and we had a good conversation. I told him that I still had feelings for him, he ...
A. 24 May 2008: Sometimes we forget that if "Both" the partners take one step each towards each other, the distance between them reduces much faster...
Do you have reasons to WAIT and not take a Step further...? The guy did, he kept staring at you and gave you... (read in full...)
I still have semen leakage even 10 minutes after I have mastrubated
Q. Ok I have an issue. Around 5-10 minutes after I cum, more cum keepes dripping out of my dick. It's really annoying because I could have my pants back on and then cum just starts leaking all over in my pants. I don't know why this is happening. I ...
A. 24 May 2008: First you need to tell us if you have a Foreskin or not...? I don't think that much of a problem, everyone faces it.. !! Do you face it everytime or just another day..? Actually with the guys with foresskin it is not possible to squeeze out all ... (read in full...)
Why does he hurt me and still keep me around?
Q. The reason I left him was he was a liar and a cheater. The 1st time he did it I was calm about it and forgave him... The 2nd time was enough and with multiple girls. I left him and he agreed but said he still loved me. He is now with another cick ...
A. 24 May 2008: The answer is in your own question... !!
Hez having sex with Multiple partners and trust me tells everyone the same story as he does to you.. !! Some of us are Very Intellegent and we know that it's hard to get SEX without letting the girl kno... (read in full...)
Is it normal being turned on by incest?
Q. i am easily turned on by incest!! watching it, not doing it!! is normal or weird?...
A. 24 May 2008: YOu're Welcome anytime... !!
I'd be pleased if you decide not to Surf Incest on the Internet.. It ruins your whole life and can be very Hard to handle..
G'day Diva.. :-)... (read in full...)
Has he really got issues, or am I just trying to believe he has?
Q. My ex broke up with me a week ago. During the relationship he was controlling, extremely jealous and insecure... but I still don't know if he's normally like that or if it's actually because I made him that way. He's a bit mean with his family wheh ...
A. 23 May 2008: I am NOT Justifying his Abusive behaviour.. !! But i am letting her know that the Guy is NOT the only one to be blamed... !! I agree noone is allowed to be abusive at any cost, but the Guy here isn't all Freak... He has had a reason to Freak out.. ... (read in full...)
Has he really got issues, or am I just trying to believe he has?
Q. My ex broke up with me a week ago. During the relationship he was controlling, extremely jealous and insecure... but I still don't know if he's normally like that or if it's actually because I made him that way. He's a bit mean with his family wheh ...
A. 23 May 2008: I am completely against "Emilysanswers" here.. !!
I think it is to a BIG EXTENT "your fault" .. !! Each and Every guy on this planet has ISSUES if his Girlfriend has a Past.. More the EGO, bigger the problem.. !!
It's always BEST to let him ... (read in full...)
How do I get my lost love back?
Q. i am a 16 year old girl ...i don't wanna lose my love...it seems like I'm losing everything... I have a very touching love story so anyone please help me... I'll be broken without him...from 2 years i loved this guy...he had someone before but that ...
A. 23 May 2008: A girl from India... !! I'd understand you as well as anyone.. !!
I know how people talk about Girlz going around with guys and thn Breaking up...!! I know there would be a LOT OF TALK if he does go back to his EX..
Look, I think what bothe... (read in full...)
Is it normal being turned on by incest?
Q. i am easily turned on by incest!! watching it, not doing it!! is normal or weird?...
A. 23 May 2008: To everyone :- I think shez watching it on the internet, not in her Personal life... !! Plz throw light.. !!... (read in full...)
Is my mind set affecting my probabilities of getting a gf?
Q. im 17 yet i cannot get a girlfriend even though i dont really understand why. i used to be really shy but in the past few months i've started to become less heldback but i dont interest girls which is why i've given up and plan to go through life ...
A. 23 May 2008: Mate.. Please follow what I say and you'll be through this phase.. !! Trust me on this, I've helped more than 50 of my SHY FRIENDS who could not talk to Girlz.. !! My idea is WEIRED, but it works... !!
All you need to do is Find yourself a Girl, ... (read in full...)
I think I'm being used.. how do I handle this?
Q. I'm so confused. I have a friend that I was once intimately involved with, however that aspect of our realtionship ended months ago and we still continue to be online friends. We see each other on Messenger everyday but he rarely speaks to me. He ...
A. 23 May 2008: Move Ahead... !!
There are 4 Billion Guys on planet Earth... Why do we keep running behind people who dont care...? With me and my EGO, i won't look at someone who does not respond to my Hello... ;)... (read in full...)
First love feelings came back with his email... is this normal?
Q. Well i have a little problem. You know that first love you have when your younger and never forget well mine was when i was 15-16 we finished because he moved somewhere else with his parents and decided it wouldnt work... after we split...
A. 23 May 2008: "Fall Back" ... It's just because you are going through a Bad Phase in your life and see a NEW LIGHT..
(1) FIRST LOVE and FIRST CRUSH are different.
(2) High School love stories are High School dramas when we all are in an age of falling f... (read in full...)
Is it normal being turned on by incest?
Q. i am easily turned on by incest!! watching it, not doing it!! is normal or weird?...
A. 23 May 2008: Incest is NOT what anyone would ever appreciate.. !!
If you were to take my advice, stop searching for it on the Internet or reading incest stories... At your age, you might be tempted to try it.. Trust me, it won't be as good as it seems right no... (read in full...)
I am secretly in love with my cousin.
Q. PLEASE DO NOT answer the following question with morals and personal opinions of how it is wrong or disgusting (insert hurtful comment here). ALSO no other arguments against my preference whether that be Science, Law or experience. I have a cousi...
A. 23 May 2008: Your first few lines asking us NOT to go into Morals and stuff tells me that you know what you're doing is wrong... lol ...
My Dear Friend.. If you like her, Make her your REAL SISTER.. !! Or, should i make it simple and say You wanna have SEX... (read in full...)
In love with another woman but terribly affraid of divorce and everything that comes with it!
Q. I am 35 years old and have been married for 8 1/2 years. I have a 3 year old son and 9 month old daughter. I've been having an affair for a year and a half now. I am madly in love with her and want to be with her all of the time. I have no desi...
A. 23 May 2008: Sometimes it not what YOU WANT... It's what YOUR FAMILY Demands... !! I can't imagine how irresponsible a MAN could be to leave his family with 2 children, one just 9 months old, for a Woman... Sometimes its what Your Wife wants.. How much she lov... (read in full...)
I can't stop crying my heart out. All I hear are my own words, my own visions of hell. Please help.
Q. Dear ones, I can't take it anymore, this situation, I can't stop crying my heart out. I know everyone have problems I agree, and most of them maybe are most difficult than mine, but I truly can't take it anymore. I have boyfriend 3 years I lov...
A. 23 May 2008: The Problem here is that you don't really know what Love is.... !!! At your age LOVE is an entirely different term than what it would be when you're 20.
Coming to your point, read my words when i say "YOU CANNOT LOVE TWO PEOPLE AT ONE TIME" ..... (read in full...)
How do I make my boobs bigger, and will that attract a boyfriend?
Q. I have tiny boobs and i have no boyfriend, how do i make my boobs bigger, and will that attract a boyfriend?...
A. 23 May 2008: You want Big Boobs at 12...?
Where are these youngsters going...? Ma'am, if u'll have BIG BOOBS at this age then you'd certainly have Watermellons when you reach 20..
You will grow with age... Just like your BF would be just 4 inches right now... (read in full...)
Are women not attracted to shorter men?
Q. i have heard a lot of times that women naturally are not attracted to shorter men than them or they tend to look down on them maybe with disrespect. how true is this, ladies?...
A. 23 May 2008: I would like to mould ur statement...
"Girls do not like Guys who are Shorter than THEM" ...
Girlz find Short men Handsome as any other tall guy... They'd date you if you're Tall enough to beat them.. ... (read in full...)
Do men prefer bigger breasts?
Q. ok, silly question but do guys prefair big boobs?! my bf is happy with mine but i just wana know what the general outlook on boobs are?...
A. 22 May 2008: Not Really... !!
Men don't like water-mellons, nor do they like grapes.. !! Men prefer Apples... Just the Right size to fit in their hands and mouth... !!... (read in full...)
How can I give him the touching green light?
Q. I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 17 and has quite the sexual history, as in he's fingered 2 other girlfriends before. We've been dating for awhile and he just l o v e s feeling up my boobs. I don't have a problem with it, in fact I love it. Last time he ...
A. 22 May 2008: Talk to Him... !! Sometime the Easiest way is ti TALK... !!
You need to let him know that you don't feel comfortable doing STUFF in public places.. Tell him It's Obvious that you love him kissing and fondling with your breasts, but, in Private.... (read in full...)
What happens to your vagina if you don't have sex for years. Does it tighten back up??
Q. I need to know what happens to your vagina if you dont have sex for years. Does it tighten back up?? Does it hurt when you finally do do it again?...
A. 22 May 2008: Vagina never gets Loose or tight UNLESS you've given birth to a baby... !! It's always the same size and No Exercise can tighten it up or make it loose... !!
The Vaginal hole opens up a little after having sexual intercouse and remains like tha... (read in full...)
I just want things to be good between us! I broke her trust, she was kissed by another guy...I'm heartbroken!
Q. My girlfriend and I have recently had problems. She doesn't know for sure if she is in love with me. And I broke her trust on something, and so she is mad at me. But we are trying to sort things out. She has a crush on some guy. That's fine, I m...
A. 21 May 2008: Look my friend, if you take MY ADVICE, I won't have a Girlfriend who kisses guys when in a Committed relationship with me... !!
If she does, She definitely be guilty and never talk to that guy again... !! But, in ur case your GF is just trying t... (read in full...)
I've been with my bf for 3 years, then HE shows up again! I don't know a way out of this!
Q. I don't know what to do anymore with my life. I have a boyfriend we're 3 years together, I love him I swear is true but in my life show up the other one...He is so cold, without emocions but I fell in love with him. And i betrayed my boyfrien...
A. 21 May 2008: You're not NEAR in love with this OTHER GUY.. !!
You don't Love cheats... Love Ends when someone cheats you, all after that is a Compromise.. Many won't agree with my statement but it's true... !!
You need to understand that All you are doin... (read in full...)
Will he ever come back? If he does can I forgive him?
Q. im nearly 20 as is my now ex boyfriend of 2 years. as far as i was aware we were very happy together, i loved him so much and he was everything to me, and i thought he felt the same. he was still saying he loved me and everything else when he broke ...
A. 21 May 2008: My Dear Friend,
First of all, you need to understand that "You are Good" and "He is Not" ..
Look, I know you love him a lot and there are only 10% chances that you take my Advice, but, I would SERIOUSLY RECCOMEND that you do...
You should ... (read in full...)
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