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My friend saw me kissing my boyfriend at the bus stop last night ... but I was at my sister's house all night. Could he be cheating?

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Question - (24 August 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 24 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey

Well..!! basicly! im mega mega pissed off with my so called boyfriend and really dont know what to do! right so last night i was stayin at my sisters and my boyfriend phoned me askin if i wanted to go n meet him so i said i couldnt cos i was spendin time wi ma sister! n then this mornin i woke up and we just had a lazy mornin in our pj's playin cards and listenin to music and my friend ***** phoned me, see how i was and what i was up to, we were on phone for like half an hour! he told me he saw me last night, soo i was like oo did ya where? he said at the bus stop, eatin ***** (my bf)s face so i wa like eh i didnt see my boyfriend last night i was with my sister! i told him to tell the same to my bf on msn that he saw us last night! so he told ym bf on msn what he told me. and he said he was with me last night at the bus stop kissing me! BUT HE WASNT WITH ME LAST NIGHT!! hes told my friend that he was with me last night! when he wasnt. so this obviously means he was with anothe girl kissing her at the bus stop! i told my sister and she was going crazy, ready to kill him! ive only been with him for three week, not long i know! but why would he do this? do you think hes cheatin?

?x

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (24 August 2008):

aphexinfinite agony auntgood for you so glad things have worked out for the best maybe not the way we plan but atleast you can walk away with your head high.. good luck aphexy xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008):

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thank you for the advice! its apprieciated, i think ive worked out who hes with, im not friends with her but i kind of know her through friends. and i bumped into her at the shop this mornin and we got chattin. apparently shes goin out with a guy with exactly the same name as my bf, (forename and surname) soo i worked it out, yeah i might of put 2 and 2 together and got 5 but i dont think so! hes OUT, ive told him! i dont wanna be with a cheater. i have more respect for my self for a start! hes a loser, soo thanks again! ohh by the way there is NO CHANCE AT ALL that my friend has any sort of crush on me, because im not his type lol hes actually my best friend and hes gay =) thanks again!!!x

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A male reader, a_decent_1 India +, writes (24 August 2008):

a_decent_1 agony auntWEll, Id beg to differ...

I'd first like to know if you have DIRECTLY asked your BF.. Maybe ur friend has a crush on you and wants to create differences between you and your BF... ;)

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (24 August 2008):

TasteofIndia agony aunthe cheated on you. He admitted that it was him at the bus stop, sucking face. He admits that he was making out at that very bus stop. He claims it was you - you weren't there.

Yep, he's cheating on you. He may not think that you're quite at the "exclusive" stage yet, but I wouldn't put up with it. Get a fella who is all about you and not being sketchy at bus stops! This guy is a liar and a cheater...

xx India

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (24 August 2008):

aphexinfinite agony auntwell he admitted it was him and said it was you but obviously you know it wasnt so their for he must be cheating before he is kissing someone that is not you..you have a few choices be with him although he is a cheater work on the issues or what alot of people do is kick his ass to the curb and find someone worth while and not a piece of crap..but if you want comfront your bf about this but its obvious their is no escape route for what has been seen or said.. good luck hun hugs aphex xx

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A female reader, chloe71z United States +, writes (24 August 2008):

chloe71z agony auntIt sounds as if you need to tell this guy to getnd dont bother with finding his way back Cause you wont be there.

Girl I can tell you one thing if this has happened at all in a relationship then find another boyfriend who will be faithfull. I know I would.

Good Luck in the years to come and all the guys of your future. Hope this helps.

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A female reader, JoBrosRockMySox United States +, writes (24 August 2008):

JoBrosRockMySox agony auntI defenatly think he is cheated on you because if you were nowhere out last night then obviously he was issing a nother girl that happened to look like you a little and people mistook her for you!!!

I dont want you to be sad or anything but maybe you should look on the brighter side of things! he may not be the one for you and if hes going to cheat on you then you can obviously do better!

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