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Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?

Q.   Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...

A.   2 January 2009: You know what gives rise to God and Religion..? Questions like - What's the energy that makes our Body, Brain and Heart work..? Why does a man die..? He has the same blood, breat, heart etc. Then why does he turn old and die..? What i... (read in full...)

My friend tells me that guys can tell if you're a virgin, is this true?

Q.   On Saturday I lost my virginity to a guy who is very sexually experienced. I'd heard that going on top was best if it was your first time, so thats what I thought I'd do. Anyway, it kinda really went wrong (an embarassing moment, he musta thought...

A.   2 January 2009: Did he figure it out honey.?... (read in full...)

Do guys like girls with small boobs that go braless?

Q.   Do guys like girls with small boobs and going braless ? Also is it trashy to do so ? I'm asking this question because i started dating a new guy and he is great but he always wants me to go braless and likes to see my hard nipples through ...

A.   2 January 2009: 36 B are "Small Boobs" ...? You sure ma'am...? Second, Nobody likes a girl without Bra.. !! They look Out of shape to say the least.. !! You BF is an exception and I don't think you need to do anything you feel uncomfortable with.. !! It's qu... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and want to have sex with my 14 year old cousin

Q.   Hi i am 15, and I have these really deep feelings for my 14 year cousin who i badly wanna have sex with, i did it with her once when i went to her place out of town for a week, and it was great, and it brought us closer, she didn't resist, but we ...

A.   1 January 2009: If i were your cousin, I would have reported you and put you behind the bars.. !! you better Thank God i ain't ... !! Look at your Age and then talk, Kid.. !! Grow up.. !! G'day... (read in full...)

Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?

Q.   Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...

A.   1 January 2009: Science cannot define an Emotion buddy.. !! Why do we cry..? Why do we laugh..? Science says we laugh because we are Happy.. But what makes us laugh..? Explain Laugh as an emotion.. !! Not what happens when we laugh, but why do we laugh... Get... (read in full...)

My friend tells me that guys can tell if you're a virgin, is this true?

Q.   On Saturday I lost my virginity to a guy who is very sexually experienced. I'd heard that going on top was best if it was your first time, so thats what I thought I'd do. Anyway, it kinda really went wrong (an embarassing moment, he musta thought...

A.   1 January 2009: YES, Guys can tell you're a virgin or not.. But only after you've told them that before.. THERE IS NO WAY ON EARTH that anyone can tell if a girl is virgin or not.. !! Only your doctor can tell you're a Virgin by looking at your hymen. But then... (read in full...)

I like having my butt rubbed..weird?

Q.   i really enjoy it when my wife rubs my butt hole through my undies, and only through undies...is this normal 4 a 22 y.o male??? ...

A.   1 January 2009: Not a problm.. !! Everyone has differnt ways of pleasuring themslves.. !! There is nothing wrong if you like it.. !! G'day... (read in full...)

I can't figure out what women want!

Q.   ok so I am a 19 year old guy who is very frustrated. I am pretty good looking with my life in order. I have been through 6 relationships in my life. And this is basically how they have all gone: the girl and I fall in love, we love each other very ...

A.   1 January 2009: 19 years and you wanna Understand women...? Wait for another 20 years guy..!! We turn Bald and Old by the time we understand what a women wants.. !! Really. G'day... (read in full...)

In love with a friend but she's with someone else

Q.   I know a girl from the last 3 years. We have been very close friends. I like her a lot. Sometime back she also had told me that she wanted to be my girl friend but at that I just wanted to think about the same. She was really close to me, when I say ...

A.   1 January 2009: Indian Girls are a Closed book.. !! There is just so much hidden into them.. !! She'll discuss everything with you and pour her heart out in front of you because she is your "Best Friend". Girls need a "Best Friend". She'll fall in love with any... (read in full...)

My wife will not forgive and forget an event from 22 years ago!

Q.   I have been married for 20 years and have two kids 11+14. We have been faithful to each other throughout and have worked hard at the ups and downs of marriage. I want more physical stuff My wife wants more emotional stuff We both find ...

A.   31 December 2008: I can understand what you're saying mate.. The lack of forgiveness has sunken deep in your wife.. You should tell her that if she wasn't happy wearing the ring, she could have decided not to come back.. It wasn't as if you sent an army at her hous... (read in full...)

Love my boyfriend but texting other guy! Should I tell my b/f?

Q.   I need help. yu all probably seen my last post about havinqg sex with my boyfriend ( and I decided to wait by the way) but now I have a different problem. I love my boyfriend so much and we've been together for three months. yesterday while ...

A.   31 December 2008: You don't need to tell your boyfriend anything right now honey.. But please don't text that guy ever again.. I'd consider that Cheating.. If you ever text that guy in your life, then you must tell your boyfriend.. But you're not required to tell... (read in full...)

Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?

Q.   Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...

A.   31 December 2008: To lilly.. Hey buddy.. You said you don't believe in God because if there is God then why do we have Rapes, murders, terrorism etc. Right.? But my friend if a person believes in God, he believes in Devil as well.. I've read that today's wor... (read in full...)

Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?

Q.   Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...

A.   31 December 2008: To Metalman. Please don't get offended but please never say that you don't believe in GOD because you believe in science.. What is science.? Science cannot even define an emotion.. Can science define the human mind.? Can science define what's b... (read in full...)

WHAT am I?

Q.   I think I'm sick. I like guys, as in I will check out cute, good looking guys and think of how is it like if I have a boyfriend but I get aroused when I see nude girls, or girls making out. Even when I touch my self. And in the past when a guy ...

A.   31 December 2008: Look girl.. You're just young.. You didn't mention if you like having sex or have sexual desire for men.. Any girl would get excited to see a nude girl.. Nothing wrong with that.. You need to figure out who would you wanna have sex with.? A handso... (read in full...)

Any way to prevent discharge during sex?

Q.   My question is a bit of an embarassing one but its something I don't really have the guts to discuss with anyone I know! lol Well..I dont really get much vaginal discharge in day-to-day life but when it comes to having sex, my boyfriends dick ...

A.   31 December 2008: Well.. All of my knowledge, it's quite natural to have this discharge. It's different to your natural lubricant though.. If it smells like cheese then you need a check up.. Sometimes it can be an infection in the vagina. It does not leak out norm... (read in full...)

Any way to prevent discharge during sex?

Q.   My question is a bit of an embarassing one but its something I don't really have the guts to discuss with anyone I know! lol Well..I dont really get much vaginal discharge in day-to-day life but when it comes to having sex, my boyfriends dick ...

A.   31 December 2008: Hey uncle phil.. I think she is talking about the white thick discharge that often turns into small particles when rubbed.. Please throw light..... (read in full...)

We had sex - did the sperm stay in there?

Q.   After me and my girlfrfind had sex we ate dinner we laughed we pretended like nothing had happened because my mom was there. She told me she felt something squirting out of her vegina...so is it possible that the sperm that was in her might of came ...

A.   31 December 2008: Gosh.. I did not see you were just 13 - 15 years old.. Why do you guys have sex when you just don't know what all can go wrong.. WAIT FOR 3 MORE YEARS.. She might just get pregnant and you would end up in a jail. G'day... (read in full...)

Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?

Q.   Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...

A.   31 December 2008: Well, I am a believer that "God helps those, who help themselves" and "Ask God's blessings for your work, but dont expect him to do it" .. !!! I believe in an Almighty Power that created us all.. !! I'll open a secret here.. I did not ... (read in full...)

We had sex - did the sperm stay in there?

Q.   After me and my girlfrfind had sex we ate dinner we laughed we pretended like nothing had happened because my mom was there. She told me she felt something squirting out of her vegina...so is it possible that the sperm that was in her might of came ...

A.   31 December 2008: Yes.. !! If you came inside her and you did not wash after having sex, it could well be sperm.. !! It can be other things as well.. It might be her Orgasm, it might be blood.. !! G'day... (read in full...)

I'm being forced into marriage in India. Please help!!

Q.   My parents have arranged a marriage with someone I really do not want to be with. He is 17yrs older than me, short, balding, overweight, unattractive and the few times I have been forced to sit with him I found him to have bad hygiene! I know people ...

A.   31 December 2008: Hey Girl.. !! I understand what you're saying.. !! But i gotta admit that India is a Vast country.. !! Nothing of that sort happens at my place. The girls move out and live their own life and nobody can force them into doing things.. !! Please l... (read in full...)

Bent penis is it a problem?

Q.   hi my penis leans a little to my left when it gets hard and im not circumcised and my skin is not at the centre of my head i have a lil trouble peeing when in hot bt its nt dat bad, so what u all tink...

A.   31 December 2008: Oh DiovanLestat , You didn't have to tell him that buddy. .!! It's NOT a Peyronie's disease. It's absolutely NORMAL to have a bend on either side. What Diovanlestat said is Not incorrect but in Peyronie's disease you penis Bends quite a lot ... (read in full...)

After our breakup, I want to return a gift he gave me a year ago - should I?

Q.   Well, my ex broke up with me a second time. He broke up with me because I guess he lost that feeling to care about me anymore. Don't get me wrong but, I gave him everything and gave him space. I treated him like a kind and I was very kind to him. He ...

A.   31 December 2008: It's actually CHEAP to give Gifts back like that.. !! If he asks you to return them, so be it. But, not just because you broke up.. Gifts are our Possesion.. !! If Commerce, the "Possesion" is transferred when a GIFT is given from one person t... (read in full...)

How old should I be before I have sex?

Q.   how old do yall think i should be before sex?...

A.   31 December 2008: 22 to 25 ...? You sure buddy..? Anyways, After 18 years of age it is on YOU to decide when you want to have sex.. !! It's when you are READY.. !! You might not be ready until you fall in love with someone. And thats normal.. !!! G'day... (read in full...)

Trapped in my marriage and tempted to cheat again....

Q.   I am currently seperated from my husband. We met when I was 17 years old, I got married to him at the age of twenty. I thought that I was mature enough to handle something like marriage. However three years later I am realizing that we are ...

A.   31 December 2008: Once a Cheat, Always a Cheat.. !! Prove me WRONG honey.. ;-) G'day... (read in full...)

Found explicit pictures while snooping on his computer!

Q.   My fiance moved in a few months ago. I was snooping around on his computer and found several explicit pictures of him with other women.I am ticked off! I really didn't need to see any of that! They were is a hidden file created a few days after ...

A.   31 December 2008: You have "no right" to snoop like that, even if the person is your "soon to be" Husband.. Some things are PERSONAL.. He just might be waiting to tell you..!! We all have affairs.. Don't we..? And Did he tell you he was a Virgin..? If yes, then you... (read in full...)

My boyfriend calls me derogatory names during sex. What does this mean?

Q.   I am dating a wonderful, sweet, caring, thoughtful man and we are planning a future together. We have only been together for a few months. He absolutely adores me and I do him as well. We have an incredible sex life but one thing confuses me... ...

A.   31 December 2008: Some people call names while having sex, Some don't..!! He might not be in control of his emotions when he says those words, which commonly are Bitch, Slut etc etc. It is for you to decide and let him know that you don't like being called that.. !... (read in full...)

Two 14 year olds + one ripped condom = one possible pregnancy?

Q.   I am only 14yrs old me and my girlfriend had sex she is also 14 the condom ripped. So far she hasnt experienced any signs of pregnancy. my question is how long does it take her to start those signs if in fact she is pregnant? can anyone help me ...

A.   31 December 2008: The Signs start for Day 1 in some women and in the others they never Show.. !! There is no definite way of knowing.. !! Yeah, If your girlfriend has a Full Period on time this month then it would mean that she is NOT Pregnant.. !! AGE MATTERS... (read in full...)

3X a week handjob ok?

Q.   I am 20 years old guy i doing handjob three times in a week its good for health not ? ...

A.   30 December 2008: Just 3 times a week..? Do it more often buddy.. Lol.. Just kidding.. Any amount of masturbation is GOOD.. Just make sure it does not affect your work and normal life.. Masturbation is a Normal way of satisfying oneself sexually and is nothing b... (read in full...)

My husband is having an affair with MY MOTHER!!!

Q.   I found out earlier this week off a good friend (female) of mine that my husband was having an affair with my mother. She said that she'd seen my husband passionately kissing my mother outside a well-known pub and whispering into her ear how sexy ...

A.   30 December 2008: You said it.. !! If you ask ME, I'd say there is Just One solution to this.. "DIVORCE" You Husband and Mom are nothing more than "ridiculous" (plz pardon my language) . You should tell your dad everything and Kick your Husband out of your lif... (read in full...)

Should we give it another go? We were almost caught!

Q.   Im 15 and me and my girlfriend had been together for four months and we had foreplayed with each other many times, not long ago we were in her front room with the front window open, we got down to skins and i got on top however i couldn't do it, we ...

A.   30 December 2008: Something that would interest you - Next time if you get caught, you would find yourself in a jail behind the bars.. Choose for yourself. G'day... (read in full...)

Keeping it in the family!

Q.   Hey Cupids... Basically i'm with a my new boyfriend about 5 months or so. It's lovely. Initially it was a light hearted sort of affair, but now we're very into each other and it's great and as each day goes by i love him a little bit more, and i ...

A.   30 December 2008: TELL HIM NOW.. You'll have to tell him someday honey.. We can't hide anything from the people we love.. You'll eventually tell him Someday.. So WHY NOT TODAY.? He'll understand. You just have to tell him that you were dating is brother and have... (read in full...)

I was just wondering how reliable the withdrawal method is?

Q.   My fiance and I have been together for 3 years and are getting married in March. We recently switched to the withdrawal method of birth control (before that I was on the depo shot). I was just wondering how reliable the withdrawal method is? Has ...

A.   30 December 2008: Well, I understood your question and that is why i am saying that you can use this method to lower the risk of pregnancy.. Withdrawal method if used nicely can guard you most times than not.. G'day... (read in full...)

My question is what can I do to GET OVER HIM!

Q.   Ok, so I'm sitting here trying to figure out how to get over this crush with a guy I barely know. I mean, I know him because we attended grammar school together but that was so long ago! We came across each other online recently but it hasn't gone ...

A.   29 December 2008: Getting over a crush is actually VERY SIMPLE.. Actually the world around us is too romantic and keeps on telling us how difficult it is to get over a crush.. It is quite easy Infact. All you need to do is Put YOURSELF above this guy.. Just be ... (read in full...)

I was just wondering how reliable the withdrawal method is?

Q.   My fiance and I have been together for 3 years and are getting married in March. We recently switched to the withdrawal method of birth control (before that I was on the depo shot). I was just wondering how reliable the withdrawal method is? Has ...

A.   29 December 2008: There are on stats but the withdrawal method is VERY UNRELIABLE.. When the penis enters a vagina a small amount of lubricant know as 'pre cum' comes out of it.. Nobody would know when it comes out, not even your partner.. This pre cum is VERY CAP... (read in full...)

What's my sexual orientation? Am I gay?

Q.   ok, so since last year i met this chick who is like around her 20s and we 've been talking on msn ever since. but a few months when i first met her, i noticed tat i wait for her to come online and when she does, sometimes she doesnt talk to me so i ...

A.   29 December 2008: By what you've mentioned in your post, there is NOTHING to suggest that you're gay.. You'll be gay, or rather a lesbian if you are Sexually interested in that Girl.. By what i see here, i think you like that girl.. But then, you like your parents ... (read in full...)

How do I talk to him about the empty pack of condoms and Viagra I found in his drawer?

Q.   Please help, i found an empty box of ribbed condoms and some viagra on my bf's drawer while i was looking for a dvd he said he has put there. The thing is we don't/NEVER use ribbed condoms and we didn't use them so i don't understand why the box is ...

A.   29 December 2008: Send him the following message - This is my LAST MESSAGE. Talk to me or it's over.. Then call him. If he picks up, clear it out and ask him why they were there.. If he does not reply. Text him and let him know that he's a Jerk to use Viagra at... (read in full...)

Difficult family situation

Q.   I hate my relationship with my daddy. he isn't the way he used to be. and he won't ever be the was he was again. about 8 yrs ago he hurt his back. he used to surf and play tennis and swim with my brother and I all the time. now he can barely make it ...

A.   29 December 2008: He has a lot of problems Buddy... !! You guys should understand that and HELP HIM stay calm.. !! You dont have to respond to everything he says..!! When a person is Sick for a LONG time, he tends to behave this way. The only Cure to this is LOVE ... (read in full...)

Am I overreacting!! Help please!!

Q.   I just dont know where to start!! I am going insane lately and dont know if its me or what? I dont even know why I am doing this but I need some views!! I met this guy last year over the net was a tad dubious at the start as there is a 22 year age...

A.   29 December 2008: Are You Gay....? Are you a Male for sure..? Second, He lied.. Most of us do.. It's not such a big thing here..!! He confessed that he liked Porn..!! It has got NOTHING to do with you..!! We might have the BEST LOOKING GIRL FRIEND buy we mi... (read in full...)

Is masturbation bad for your health?

Q.   What is the average amount of ejaculation.. Is it bad for my health if I do this a lot?...

A.   29 December 2008: Masturbation is NEVER bad.. It is the Natural way of satisfying yourself sexually.. !! You can masturbate any number of times you want.. The sperm keeps on regenerating in the testicles and nothing is too much... !! The only bad effects of M... (read in full...)

First timer... Does it really hurt?

Q.   So I'm meeting this guy next week and planning to have sex.. It's my first time but I think I'm ready.. I'm turning 18 so there's no problem.. The question is does it really hurt on first time?...

A.   29 December 2008: NOT Everytime... !! If you are uncut then it might just hurt much more than otherwise.. Rest it depends upon how tight the Girl is.. !! But if she is well lubricated then there must be no pain.. !! Just make sure there is a lot of foreplay.. !!... (read in full...)

How do I talk to him about the empty pack of condoms and Viagra I found in his drawer?

Q.   Please help, i found an empty box of ribbed condoms and some viagra on my bf's drawer while i was looking for a dvd he said he has put there. The thing is we don't/NEVER use ribbed condoms and we didn't use them so i don't understand why the box is ...

A.   29 December 2008: What i wanted to tell you in my first post was that if you would have asked him in a Light mood, he might have just told you why they were there.. !! The way you've texted him, he'll have an excuse for not talking to you.. !! Second, it is ... (read in full...)

How do I talk to him about the empty pack of condoms and Viagra I found in his drawer?

Q.   Please help, i found an empty box of ribbed condoms and some viagra on my bf's drawer while i was looking for a dvd he said he has put there. The thing is we don't/NEVER use ribbed condoms and we didn't use them so i don't understand why the box is ...

A.   29 December 2008: Girly69 you are too worried about my post.. You should instead be worried about the topic poster.. !! Insted of telling her I have no clue, you can give her a better advice.. !! What I am doing is "not" covering up buddy.. I am giving her ad... (read in full...)

How do I talk to him about the empty pack of condoms and Viagra I found in his drawer?

Q.   Please help, i found an empty box of ribbed condoms and some viagra on my bf's drawer while i was looking for a dvd he said he has put there. The thing is we don't/NEVER use ribbed condoms and we didn't use them so i don't understand why the box is ...

A.   29 December 2008: You reacted in a wrong way.. You should have asked him 'what this honey' in a light mood right when you saw those things and see what he said.. Now, don't spoil the scene by acting too concerned.. Just let him know in a smooth manner that you saw ... (read in full...)

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