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anonymous
writes:Ive had sex with my boyfriend twice.I've bled here and there both times and my vagina seems to be really tight.We both decided to lose our virginity to each other and we trust one another. What should I do about my vagina being so tight and is bleeding normal the first two times? Im really worried because I want to make it pleasurable for him. Thanks
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (15 August 2008):
 I agree.. Your tightness is something that he would probably LOVE.. We guys are Suckers for tight vaginas .. So just take it off your mind and lubricate it properly.. Good luck.
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reader, Mzbabybat +, writes (14 August 2008):
 hun, one thing, your tightness he probly LOVES. two the bleeding, its perfectly normal, and ky gelly works great, but if you are sinsitive skin johnsons and johnsons lotion is the best route for yall.
and the secound thing. are you relaxed or always tense and unsure of yourself. if you are unsure. do some "playtime" before and relax your self. explore his body, get into the experience learn how his body reacts when you do this or that. make it fun, and things will go a little bit easer for you.
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reader, a_decent_1 +, writes (13 August 2008):
Try the KY jelly.. It's a good lubricant.. But i sincerely don't fancy using lubricants.. Just have a lot of foreplay and get yourself very wet.. That's the BEST lubricant..
As far as bleeding.. It's normal for virgins, so don't worry.. But it should not pain you for long.. If it does, then there might be a problem..
Take care..
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): I also want to ask Do reccomend any type of lubricant? If so what kind?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (13 August 2008):
 Yes, a small to moderate amount of bleeding is perfectly normal when and after first sexual intercourse. Did you not learn this in school or elsewhere?
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reader, Dreamie Tofu +, writes (13 August 2008):
It is Normal for a virgin to be tight. Because you have never had anything inserted in there so its suppose to be tight. For the blood it might be because you have broken your hymen but it is also perfectly normal or maybe you were too tense when you had sex relax and enjoy because being to tense can also cause your vagina to tense up and he can hurt your vagina causing it to bleed. If your worried about the blood you should go see a doctor but it was the same for me my first time. =]
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